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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by zakkxx: 9:28pm On Feb 06 |
Avoid slay Queens and go for chinekes babs. Some ashawo done turn to fake Chinekes girls. Any woman that wear wig , Mary Kay etc na fake chinekes girls. Any church they allow women to dress any how the pastor or assistant pastor is sleeping with most of them. Go to a church they preach righteousness and holiness na their u go see correct wife. And make sure you repent and live a holy life. If not God will not give his innocent daughter to a crook. Be wise 5 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Eunoiaa(f): 9:28pm On Feb 06 |
talk2hb1: Ok. |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Kaybeth(f): 9:28pm On Feb 06 |
Do they really think? They just go on and marry whoever is smart enough to deceive them and then end up pestering a single. Mtchew 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by madridguy(m): 9:28pm On Feb 06 |
Nairaland is your best hunting field. |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by rayopt(m): 9:29pm On Feb 06 |
It is not hard to know men wey just hammer money. Thats when they suddenly start feeling lonely. Bro, take care of yourself. Read books. Improve. Pray. Enjoy your singleness while you still have it. Limit your expectations of women that come your way. Take one go house, marry am. Born pikin. Do DNA. If she cheats or no give you peace of mind, divorce. Go back to your single life. Focus on your kid. Nothing dey that marriage wey u dey find ooo. It's all drama and insha Allah. Nothing dey. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Lanre1st(m): 9:30pm On Feb 06 |
Auxtan: What do like most? Where do you like to associate with and share your ideas or listen their thoughts. Common interest |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Adekunlethreads(m): 9:31pm On Feb 06 |
Auxtan:U are right, it’s not an easy task |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by incogni2o: 9:32pm On Feb 06 |
Auxtan: You make me remember my uncle. few years after I got to lagos and he saw I've settled a bit - lived on my own. He said. "Get married, all women are the same". I took that mentality to getting married and its helped me to not expect a perfect partner. in.my opinion, only a handful of marraiges get it right from Day 1. It a journey of figuring out how to help each other live with yourselves. And to me, it makes sense. Perfect sense. I think God made it that way for us to see what it actually takes to love someone. Don't brood over it, you may not find "Mrs Right", I'll advice, rather find someone to LOVE. finding isn't hard. Loving is. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Goodlady(f): 9:33pm On Feb 06 |
Auxtan:You v just started. As many girls that are available you can't find your own among? What's your criteria, statistics, yardstick or what exactly are you looking for that's too hard to find? Most guys in your category are samplers who are used to sampling and they dumped many wife materials. Come, let me pray for you if you ll find wife! 2 Likes
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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Legendguy(m): 9:33pm On Feb 06 |
EreluRoz:You well so? Christ embassy ke? Olosho wey that church Church wey no see sin as anything, they can have sex and even get pregnant without even feeling bad or remorse Christ have died for their past sin, current sin and the wan they will commit in the future cos grace of God is like water that they can use to bath like babies. Why not recommend MFM, deeper life or chosen to him that practice moral living, you now recommend Christ embassy that practice immoral lifestyle. Your counseling is dangerous 5 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by MrBroke(m): 9:34pm On Feb 06 |
Better wife dem plenty but dem no be virgin o. Cause some youngings say na only virgin dem go marry way later another man fit still shook put |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by mcdokwe(m): 9:34pm On Feb 06 |
Not at all! You will think it is just about having females around you. But when it get to the real business, you will realize that nasty behaviour you are sure you don't want to be dealing with for the rest of your life, you think about how her beauty or body couldn't keep you happy outside sex, a damn whole lot. Thank God I have passed that stage. God's grace to all who are still searching. 4 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Mcslize: 9:36pm On Feb 06 |
Auxtan: It doesn't work like that. If you don't believe the power of prayers, it will be very hard for you. If you think you can choose a life partner by your own human discretion, it will be very hard for you. You will meet the right one not when you want it but when you less expected it. That is if only you can genuinely pray about it. God will make both of your paths to cross each other in an unexpected way that you don't even expect. That's how it works. It will happen when you less expect it. Go and watch how Moses Bliss met his correct partner. He didn't plan for it. But he might have been praying about it. The lady was the one that even tagged him when she made a video dancing to one of his musics, and she tagged him to the video. That's how they met. So, if you are the type that don't believe in the power of prayers or don't believe there is someone called God that exist up there, and you rely on your own understanding to selecting a life partner, it will be difficult for you to actually select the right one or come across the right one. So, it's up to you whether to put it in prayers or doubt the power of God like others do. The ball is in your court. 6 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Sirseedorf(m): 9:36pm On Feb 06 |
I'm having same problem as Op, in fact am really tired now, their are many ladies out there but few are marriageable. |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by rolams(m): 9:36pm On Feb 06 |
Jeon: This is not the right response to what OP is requesting. If he feels the opposite gender is not needed in his life why would he make this post? Pls, let's learn to help those who are in need and not to use other people's mindset to judge those who are facing challenges. 2 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Abrahamweb(m): 9:37pm On Feb 06 |
EreluRoz:Where is the right place please? |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Legendguy(m): 9:38pm On Feb 06 |
bigpriik: Pls how can I set trap for them, can you drop your email so you can educate me? |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by LOVEGINO(m): 9:39pm On Feb 06 |
Aaaaarghmed:happy wkend in advance to u ![]() |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Fearurcreeator: 9:40pm On Feb 06 |
EreluRoz:Lolzzzz.... |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by TheWinterBird(f): 9:40pm On Feb 06 |
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Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by franchasofficia: 9:41pm On Feb 06 |
Auxtan:Check through the girls you know, dated and had encounter with and pick the one that have the below qualities: 1.) Kindness 2.) Human conscience 3.) Empathy (she feels the pain of others and consider people before she take action or decision in whatever she does 4.) Respectful After the above 4 paramount qualities, you can then check the one that met your personal criteria as man which include: 5.) Physical attraction (if u like big breast go for it, if you like big ass consider it, if u like flat ass with hot legs consider it), and does she make you want to enter the oza room, this is important if not wahala ti de 6.) If u are not financially buoyant and well balanced, pls consider her family's financial background but if u are financially stable u can ignore it Every other quality na jara, all women seem to be the same after marriage, what makes some different from others which make them good women are the qualities I listed from 1 to 4. Your wife is among your past and present girlfriends, fvckmates and dates, go back and study that list ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by ufotty2001: 9:41pm On Feb 06 |
Very difficult.. I wish I knew earlier..am I among those that use to say make money first before marriage. Now am close to 38yrs no wife.. money don come now but to see wife dey hard me 6 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by simultaneousboi(m): 9:42pm On Feb 06 |
Quality20:I am from the East but I seriously need Adamawa girl/lady to marry. I have dated two before and I enjoyed the relationship to the fullest but we couldn't end up together because of genotype incompatibility issue cos I'm AS, while the other is a Muslim and her parents want me to convert. But sincerely speaking, they were all amazing. I have been close to many Adamawa ladies, both married and singles and I confirm that 75% to 80% of them are really wife material. 2 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by yesloaded: 9:45pm On Feb 06 |
EreluRoz:Dey play 😂 |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by SonofGod231: 9:46pm On Feb 06 |
EreluRoz:They're right. We don't need relationship advice or coaching from people whose own track record does not speak of expertise in maintaining an enduring domestic harmony.But from the millions of quietly contented grandmas and grandpas who have been happily married for decades. There's no mystery about what they've been able to achieve. |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Auxtan(m): 9:46pm On Feb 06 |
Michaelspresh:Is that you on dp? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Jman06(m): 9:48pm On Feb 06 |
Rokiat:Nonsense! Just mention one thing men benefit from marriage! Men that would work his butt off trying to bring in money for the family, and after training the children in school he'll die without enjoying anything from those kids. The wife would be the one enjoying all the attention and care from the children. The children would love their mom more than their dad! The man is only deceived to believe that the children are his while in reality, the wife owns the children. See, if not because of societal and family pressure, many men wouldn't marry! I know the kind of pressure I'm facing right now from my family and my peers because I'm not yet married. Some will accuse you of being gay or impotent all in a bid to cajole you into marriage! 4 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Skii(m): 9:48pm On Feb 06 |
Mcslize: I was considering to respond or not..but thanks..you have spared me the composition of a response. If only the OP will read your opinion. What I will just add to this is that the cattle on a thousand hills are His. Just ask God sincerely, that out of the multitude of women out there, He should send you your own wife...and that when she comes by, you would recognise her. God brought Eve before Adam and he recognized her as his wife. Follow the other God orchestrated examples in the Bible. Isaac, Rebecca...Ruth and Boaz. All the ones that chose wives by/for themselves also leave an example...Samson and Delilah...David who coveted Bathsheba (don't go for a lady who is already involved with someone else). Look for maturity and show some vulnerability. See how she handles it. Also, watch out if she shows some too. Have the wisdom to handle her imperfections knowing fully well that you are equally as imperfect. Afterall, the man and woman were naked and felt no shame. Finally, when you see her and your time truly comes (and if you have genuinely and consistently prayed)...you will just know....nobody will tell you but yourself 2 Likes |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Rinoxy: 9:49pm On Feb 06 |
Hmmm, those in wanna get out, and those out wanna get in. 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Hanndye: 9:50pm On Feb 06 |
Long story short: what do you have to offer. It's all a matter of standard after all said and done. So naturally, how you dey now or later naim matter. 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Legendguy(m): 9:50pm On Feb 06 |
Rokiat: Dey play my fans You go see provider value indeed |
Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by Divinerace(m): 9:50pm On Feb 06 |
pansophist:Na hu be dis ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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