Bulldozer90:
some things are beyond the courts. The court can punish him for not taking care of his children but that in itself will neither change the life of the children nor help the marriage. Even the punishment itself is legally weak in basis. Family is the most delicate institution and must be handled a such.

Jokerman:


I respect women a lot... With what I have seen ehn?? Imagine some women be feeding family on meagre teaching salaries, and their husband will be at home doing nothing with 3/4 children...

I can't begin to say.

When a man is going is duty, the woman will sing his praises, and will even offer to assist at home

yeslollipop:


Nigerian women are one of the most hardworking women on earth, stop with the huge lies.
They are one of the few who have been able to juggle work and childcare, with no stress.

Men pay child support abroad to their "oyinbo wife". Stop with the hate against your own. No young and beautiful Oyinbo woman would look at your face twice, much less have your child unless you are a pro basketballer, well known actor, wealthy businessman or she needs to fulfill her fantasy of the infamous big black kock.

The best oyinbo YOU can probably get is the one who has been ran through by several white and black kocks, has been divorced at least twice and is old and looks like a whale. 🐋 The rejected ones

Go to foreign forums and see how they are looked down upon, for letting themselves lay down with a black man and becoming a baby mama to a black man.
The only incentive is if the black man comes with some big fame and mullah. Otherwise, the stigma remains forever. To the average oyinbo, you are a walking pernis. That is, you are only good for a shag.

Hardly do I know a family man who provides 100% for his family in Nigeria. When you are not Dangote or Otedola. Taaaah!!! How much is your yeye salary?
Abi is it not the same Nigerian men complaining of no jobs and N50K, N70K salary?

"Nigerian women are generally lazy" You think when you date an oyinbo, when you both come back from work after a stressful day... she will enter kitchen and start cooking while you lie down in the room watching Manchester vs Chelsea Match. Ndi ara! You go enter kitchen dey cut tomatoes and carrot 🥕.

I'm sorry to say, but you are a moomoo man.

waveman2:

One spotted.Lol

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Will you stop that please.

#RespectWomen.
#Be a Gentleman.

sammiewrite:
The West template that absorbs women of all responsibilities, that has repeatedly failed us, is what we still continue to use. Rather than hold the woman just as responsible as the irresponsible man she opened her legs for, not once, not twice; rather than hold the woman just as responsible for why she failed to use any of the available birth control methods. The system will instead scapegoat the man in a country that has zero social welfare. It is the kids I worry for because their situation was already bad. It is only about to get worse.

manmade:
I don't understand something clearly, is there any written law in Nigeria that made it mandatory for a man to be the sole provider for his children upkeep? What happened to the baby mama getting something to do so as to pick part of the bills? , Sending this man to prison will even make the matter worse as he may loose his job or the valuable business time if he is a business man. .

salbis:
The court has done well. Why bring children to this wicked world and refuse to cater for their needs?

yeslollipop:


We do not make use of the "West template that absorbs women of all responsibilities."
Seriously, did you not choke on this lie while typing it?

How many men have been arrested because of failure to take responsibility for their offspring?
The most options available to the Nigerian woman especially when they are no longer in a relationship/married is to phone and beg the man for support, phone his friends and family to beg him for support, go on a prayer and fasting for him to have a change of heart or singlehandedly raise the child.

Nigerian women have for several years, bore the brunt of their children's welfare. From pregnancy to birth and to nurturing and even providing, they have continued to play a demanding and sacrificial role.

It is on this Nairaland that men run and abandon their wives after giving birth in hospitals.
As for single mums and dads, a Nigerian man is more liable to abandon his child than a Nigerian woman.

Sometimes you men should tell yourselves the truth. You will not die.

sammiewrite:
I'm not going to type a lot because typically, it is always emotions over logic. While I'm trying to make you see why women who bears the consequences of deadbeat fathers the most, should be more circumspect in their choice of sex partners/be more responsible sexually, to you it is all about siding with your gender, heaping all the blame on the men, and accusing anyone with a different opinion of bias against women. No wahala. Women should continue to open legs to any idiot that come their way. They should continue to have unprotected sex and make as many babies as possible. Highest their absentee husband will get jail terms. However, this won't improve the situation of the women in this situation or their kids.

Bulldozer90:
Nothing will come out of it. Family issues are best handled traditionally and not in court.

BlissGod:
Continue yapping nonsense at your age until you land yourself in jail or lose total custody of your kids, then your eyes go clear.

Jokerman:
They are much in Lagos.

You'd see their wives struggling and struggling to make ends meet...

Yet these same men will be chasing other women around with their 1 kobo..

It's a sad situation

Princedapace:


Which kind country be this? So, women cant take care of them selves?

yeslollipop:


At least try to sound sensible, frustrated Nigerian man.
Is your wife lazzzzzyyyyy? Do you give your wife all she needs with your N50k salary?

Are you a useless baby daddy? Or your baby mama druggeddd and r@ped you and forced your preeek inside her so she can trap you with a child?

Or oyinbo women are dieing for your preeeeek? Which of these problems do have? Ndi ara

After a woman manages to trap you with pregnancy, you will be unable to run from your responsibilities for years and come back to shout "I want my child!"

Rather you will spend time in prison with your fellow criminals and be forced to meditate daily on why you had enough spèrrm to release inside her, but not enough finance to cater for the child

Hopefully when you are out, you may become unemployable in the workforce... all becauseof one mistake. You couldn't control your preeeeekkk
She will suffer alone as usual, but your life may be COMPLETELY FINISHED

waveman2:
I never knew I was talking to a fucking bisexual.God forbid you are a curse.

psucc:
I see comments almost all taking the man to the cleaners. But nobody cares to ask the man for his own version of the story only to base our judgement on the verdict of the Judge who was not there when it all happens but also based his decision on what he is told probably by the best "liar" , sorry lawyer.

Now, what if the children in questions are not birth by the man, seeing the level of promiscuity by our ladies (due apologies to the faithful ones)? The Judge should have first ordered for DNA test to ascertain the true ownership of those Children.

2. With the level of hardship these days, a bag of rice alone may be out of the reach of the man.

3. The poor man should gladly serve his one month term for disobeying a "lawful" court order.