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Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 8:12am On Feb 20 |
Xosh:it is ? That’s good 😄 |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Ishilove: 11:59am On Feb 20 |
sukkot:Don't call a woman's normal cycle an 'aberration'. It is quite demeaning |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 12:02pm On Feb 20 |
Ishilove:not the cycle itself. The cycle is perfectly normal |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 7:32pm On Feb 20 |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 7:33pm On Feb 20 |
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Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 7:39pm On Feb 20 |
Klass99:😄absolutely has nothing to do with intelligence. The name just sounds masculine. Like feminine names like Pocahontas mariahangel klass99 ishilove etc etc. those sound feminine right ? Mindlog sounds like something a guy would come up with 1 Like |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 7:47pm On Feb 20 |
Klass99:oh ok lol it’s good practice especially if you think your views compromise what your perception of what you want people to have of you. I am thinking about deleting the portion where I was talking about big dicks only because I don’t want people to think I am some weird pervert. But in reality that conversation is inspired by an astrological body currently in the zodiac house of Pisces called PRIAPUS. It is depicted as a man with a huge erect phallus. It’s a Greek god. Not sure why it’s present in the zodiac but there you have it. Someone had talked with me earlier about it 1 Like |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 8:13pm On Feb 20 |
crackhaus: Crackhaus this is 2024 abeg rest from this your pretentious, sanctimonious, bullshit and be real. I vividly recall that you engaged me in the past about this issue of not wanting kids and being childfree, with one of your alternate monikers which I can't accurately remember, but Uyai publicly pointed out that you were the owner of that moniker and you didn't deny it. You asked questions and even insinuated some kind of childhood trauma or medical disability on my part which led to such a life choice. All of which I answered no to, maintaining that a lack of desire and zero interest in being a mother/parent, were my motivating factors. You conceded at some point and said you couldn't understand it. Whether you recall that conversation or not, I do, as if it was yesterday. Yet, here you are again casting aspersions on folks like me who don't want children. Insinuating again that it may be some sort of medical or health challenge, or in your words, you automatically assume something is wrong with such people. Why is it so hard for folks like you to accept that people are wired differently and we all want different things in this life? There are essentially three purposes of marriage; 1. Companionship 2. Sex and then..... 3. Procreation/children. A person can want marriage for three of those reasons above, just two or only one of them. You asked, why marry at all if you don't want children? I want marriage for the sex and companionship only, sex and companionship on a platform heaven will approve of and I won't be fornicating or sinning. The live-in lovers lifestyle you suggested is not the better option or the way everyone wants to roll, for the sake of companionship. You are a believer, aren't you? I expect you to know better. Additionally.......marriage and children are life choices, not mandatory goals or achievements we all have to meet, in order to unlock happiness or the adult phase of our lives. There is no rule or law that says you must marry for children! I know married couples who are childfree as a matter of choice, there is nothing medically or spiritually wrong with them. Abeg rest! What was the point of engaging and drilling me with questions back then, only to return now, with the same assumptions and insinuations as before? You don't need to understand "childfree by choice" folks, but respect that as humans we have free will and the power of choice given to us by the creator himself. And some of us are exercising both free will and power choice, by intentionally and deliberately, choosing to not have children. Our choice does not harm or affect others. We must not want the same things you do. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by tosinhtml: 8:35pm On Feb 20 |
sukkot: Cool, I totally get you & I will not say you're wrong at all. But personally, all of this in my experience have proven to be inconsequential whether that union will work or not. What has worked so far are two people who respect each other, are willing to improve and apologise for wrong doings and Fvcking settle. |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 8:41pm On Feb 20 |
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Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 8:52pm On Feb 20 |
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Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 9:06pm On Feb 20 |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 9:30pm On Feb 20 |
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Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by kkins25(m): 3:04am On Feb 21 |
Klass99: Even though some bits of trail have been left behind, It's difficult to draw a verdict on kobo's gender. They do a good job of masking that. However, some topics stir them up more than others. That makes me believe they lean more towards the Venus side than towards Mars or the Sun. And, yep..your boy is a chronic pervert... but in a good way. 1 Like |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 3:25am On Feb 21 |
Klass99:🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 phewwwwww you going in Klass 👀 2 Likes |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 3:29am On Feb 21 |
Klass99:kobojunkie sounds like the name of a hermaphrodite 😆 2 Likes |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 3:36am On Feb 21 |
Klass99:hehe aitttttt I would live it alone and astrology is not Mumbo jumbo cuz even you admitted I was spot on in decoding you but yeah I do agree we need these open and healthy conversations as opposed to dancing around them and operating on guess work. Like what do women really want ? What turns them on ? Carnally speaking of course, would it not be perfect to have 10 men and 10 women get naked and then they say ok go and choose what you like . This way you are getting what you like upfront . Would that not be ideal ? Carnally speaking of course. No element of surprise 2 Likes |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 3:48am On Feb 21 |
tosinhtml:I totally agree, be ductile and malleable, check your ego at the door and respect yourself and your partner. That’s the perfect solution . You can only get so far with love and attraction. |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 3:56am On Feb 21 |
Klass99:hmm these streets be mean as hell lol. Lots of weirdos and angry people but it is what it is. It’s a virtual world we all exist in now . This is the playground. The new playground. You see everybody walking around in three dimensional life all glued to some screen . It’s the new world. Take the good with the bad and ignore if you have to. Yeah truthfully you have to be extremely brave to be birthing a child today especially in Nigeria. World is too toxic and brutal 2 Likes |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 3:58am On Feb 21 |
kkins25:lmaooo bro |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 12:21pm On Feb 21 |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 1:22pm On Feb 21 |
Klass99:ok it's good to know she is a woman. I need to be more gentle with her. I though it was some crazy dude living in Chicago lmaooooo 2 Likes |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 3:31pm On Feb 21 |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by sukkot: 3:38pm On Feb 21 |
Klass99:lol lots of repetitive questions 1 Like |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by kkins25(m): 3:43pm On Feb 21 |
Klass99: interesting. |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by crackhaus: 11:10pm On Feb 21 |
Klass99:Klass Klass Klass... It was quite unnecessary having to go on and explain this much to someone you think is being pretentious and sanctimonious, don't you think? 1 Like |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Konquest: 12:19pm On Mar 23 |
Klass99:Klass99, I originally saw and read this thread post weeks back and wanted to say here that... "I NOW have a better understanding of your reasons for deleting." I originally suspected you were under some kind of spell as a result of being hexed, or a prophetess induced you to do these deletings. I just couldn't wrap my head around why you would write with deep insights here on NL and then BOOM... delete. It just didn't make sense to me. I mentioned you on the 'Sade Ladipo thread on the front page today 'cos I remembered reading this post of yours here weeks back. My quick takes on this issue of a woman not wanting to have a biological child is that a woman perfectly has a right of choice to not want one. Let me add more meat to this: YOU see, most men are wired to want to have a child from a woman they love as it triggers a stronger bonding. Even if a man is in his 50s, 60s, or early 70s... (at least most men), he would still want to at least a child or two from his spouse if she's still within the child bearing age. =>https://www.businessinsider.com/celebrities-dads-first-time-over-age-50 So, that's something you or any other woman has to factor into consideration when intending to get married. I understand that we live in a CONFLICTING world and some folks don't want any additional stress levels, but then that is the way the planet has been configured for thousands of years of human existence. So, we have to deal with the challenges and issues as they evolve 'cos they actually lead to personal growth. If you and I were to get married to each other for instance, I would want to have children (with any woman of childbearing age in her early 40s) while still in my 50s right up to my early 60s though. Money and emotional intelligence will NOT be a problem with regards to taking care of them till early adulthood. =>https://www.parents.com/parenting/celebrity-parents/celebrity-dads-who-had-children-after-50/ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Klass99(f): 12:35pm On Mar 23 |
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Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by Konquest: 12:51pm On Mar 23 |
Klass99:How's it going Klass99? You're back online... I didn't realize you would be back so soon. Yeah! Simplicity is key... Less is more through the decluttering of all aspects of one's life... especially the bedroom. Read my first post of today to you on this thread. I actually re-edited it before seeing your reply to me and mentioned you on the Sade Ladipo interview with Freeze on the NL frontpage. I gave some of my personal opinion about a woman's choice of NOT wanting to have kids in the re-edited post on this thread. Some of the responses on that frontpage thread of today were on the level of insanity and came from the uninitiated who haven't learned to respect other people's perspectives. There are women who truly just don't want pain on the subconscious level OR they didn't bond well with their parents while growing up, so, they too just don't wanna have biological children and it's not that they don't love kids. It's just a matter of priority. |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by akeeng: 11:59pm On Mar 23 |
You talk too much. That’s why you always cleaning up. Keep it short and simple Klass99: 1 Like |
Re: If A Woman Has All She Desires In A Union Can She Remain Happy Forever by crackhaus: 10:08am On Mar 25 |
I'm just crying... 😂😂😂 |
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