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Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by stevestifler(m): 4:16pm On Mar 04
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by blackpanthar: 4:20pm On Mar 04
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.


EVERYONE ON THAT LIST HANDED HER OVER TO THE HUSBAND ON THE WEDDING DAY.......... so it is over. Her choices should be based on HERSELF and HER HUSBAND. Simple.

Visions can always be cancelled.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Jeon(f): 4:32pm On Mar 04
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Kobojunkie: 4:34pm On Mar 04
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.
As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?
1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood
Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders
.
She is thinking she needs to take permission from any of these people because? undecided

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by oz4real83(m): 4:41pm On Mar 04
Questions like this came up immediately the world became a crazy place shocked. The answer to this question was very obvious when the world was still a normal place, it was visible to the blind and audible to the deaf shocked. A "wife" should obey the person that "paid her bride price" , if the pastor paid it, then she can obey her pastor undecided, that is why women should always be careful whom they get married to, if you marry nonsense, you must be willing to obey nonsense instructions shocked

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Frigga13: 6:07pm On Mar 04
Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

Be like you Dey snore for speeding Honda bike .. of course you’re not married

Make your husband .. even if the useless simpnask you not to go and you .. based on today marriage you leave go..

Na when you go understand that simp .. Na man with prick..

Una go just come online they render una fellow females useless and unmarried with stupid statements ..

You obviously see why you’re single with teenage brain

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by stevestifler(m): 1:56pm On Mar 06
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Frigga13:


Be like you Dey snore for speeding Honda bike .. of course you’re not married

Make your husband .. even if the useless simpnask you not to go and you .. based on today marriage you leave go..

Na when you go understand that simp .. Na man with prick..

Una go just come online they render una fellow females useless and unmarried with stupid statements ..

You obviously see why you’re single with teenage brain

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Acidosis(m): 3:18pm On Mar 06
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by AntiChristian: 4:21pm On Mar 06
Before marriage, your father (then mother) comes first!

After marriage your husband come's first then your father (then mother)!

But all in all, it depends!

All those sibs n besties are low on the list!

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by slaawomirr: 4:22pm On Mar 06
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Just remove that pastors that sees blah blah shit

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by pocohantas(f): 4:22pm On Mar 06
Acidosis:
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

Many are not sensible. I know a man that banned his wife from visiting her family home because he had issue with her brother.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by olaiya2007(m): 4:22pm On Mar 06
Who else if not her husband

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Stevenbright(m): 4:22pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Herself and then her husband.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by FFIA: 4:23pm On Mar 06
grin
They should please listen to Jennyclay, Siofra and Goodlady

for more candid advice they can use Candidlady grin

Pocohantas and Ereluroz for veteran home advice.

I have said it all. cool

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by joachimnkenchor(m): 4:23pm On Mar 06
Me

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by omoredia: 4:23pm On Mar 06
Her husband if she has any sense in the head

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Hndrrxxx(m): 4:23pm On Mar 06
Cc

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by We4all: 4:23pm On Mar 06
Parents. Her husband and pastor are not her blood.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by casualobserver: 4:23pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.
4, 2, 1,5, 3



4. husband...what God has joined together.... if you married a bad husband that's your fault, for making poor choices, otherwise no one can want the best for you aside of your parents. the reason husband supersedes parents is only because you are on a journey together, you have left your parents and are now joined with your husband as one.
parents,
2. no one can love you like you parents but you have left you parents
1, siblings. nothing like family but not sometimes there is sibling rivalry
5, friends they know you best but sometimes they dont tell you the truth.
3. vision seeing pastors...mostly fraudsters! be very wary of pastors. You can read the Bible yourself.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by omoadeleye(m): 4:23pm On Mar 06
She should listen to the owner of the house she is living in

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Artscollection: 4:24pm On Mar 06
Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

Chai madam, read biko!! I hope you no follow put this country for this reverse drive.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Zyxsc: 4:24pm On Mar 06
We don't even have enough information to dish out an advice. We don't know the reason her husband ask her not to go

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by oglalasioux(m): 4:24pm On Mar 06
Please remove number 3. Those scammers don't have any say in this matter. Meanwhile, an over insecure husband is a problem. Men should learn to have a free mind.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by GboyegaD(m): 4:24pm On Mar 06
Her husband.
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by OMEGA009(m): 4:24pm On Mar 06
Leave and Cleave.

Know this and know peace

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by alpharoyalty: 4:24pm On Mar 06
My ex still takes advice from me 😁

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by AntiChristian: 4:25pm On Mar 06
pocohantas:


Many are not sensible. I know a man that banned his wife from visiting her family home because he had issue with her brother.

Make the lady pack her load and go anywhere she wants baa?
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by wiloy2k8(m): 4:25pm On Mar 06
If you have not seen your family for over 1 year , ininvite them to come see you .

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by We4all: 4:26pm On Mar 06
Acidosis:
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

Because of how much bride price?

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:26pm On Mar 06
After God, it's your husband, remember your pastor is not on the list
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by finallybusy: 4:26pm On Mar 06
None of the above.

She should ask the gateman or driver. If those aren’t available, she should ask the customer service agent of her preferred mobile network.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Amumaigwe: 4:28pm On Mar 06
Kobojunkie:
She is thinking she needs to take permission from any of these people because? undecided

Because she is a woman. She is meant to submit to authorities over her, especially her husband. Any more question?

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