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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by paba(m): 4:28pm On Mar 06
The man is the HEAD OF THE FAMILY & the WOMAN can be ANYTHING from the COLLAR DOWNWARDS ...

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Mindlog: 4:28pm On Mar 06
What is his reason for saying NO?
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Prechgold1180(m): 4:31pm On Mar 06
Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

E nur Dey get when ur comment dey ever make sense


U this girl take ur time

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Acidosis(m): 4:32pm On Mar 06
pocohantas:


Many are not sensible. I know a man that banned his wife from visiting her family home because he had issue with her brother.

cheesy cheesy Clearly not a sensible one.
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by ejimatic: 4:32pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.
. By the time a woman marries ,she is under the authority of her husband. Her husband is the first in her life. I will advise she should talk to her husband with humility he will allow her

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by GreenCovering: 4:32pm On Mar 06
Alhamulillah for Islam, it is a rule:
Husband.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Acidosis(m): 4:32pm On Mar 06
We4all:


Because of how much bride price?

If bride price is why you're angry, replace bride price with "marry."
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Judd007: 4:33pm On Mar 06
Her husband, if you listen to another person, just stay with the person..
I come in peace.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by MichaelSokoto(m): 4:33pm On Mar 06
warris all dis bs pls?

Cup of garri is above #200 & una dey push irrelevancies enter fp?

excuse mi!

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by obaidan: 4:34pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.
Her husband
if her husband no get sense, then her parents

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by enemyofprogress: 4:34pm On Mar 06
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Monaboo(m): 4:34pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.


None.

She should listen to GOD.

He speaks.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by MVLOX(m): 4:35pm On Mar 06
Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

You are obviously a gen z baddie as such you know nothing about marriage neither are you ready to get married

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by lextube: 4:35pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.


Most women nowadays won't listen to their husbands because they consider themselves equal to their husbands. Some women think they're even better than their husbands in everything especially when they're the breadwinners in there family, so why should they listen to them? These types of women don't mind listening to their Pastors than their husbands, because according to them their Pastor is their spiritual father, he's more gifted and wiser than their husbands.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by paltielx: 4:36pm On Mar 06
Her husband is the answer
The Bible reveals that a man (husband) is the head of a woman

A God minister that says things without following Bible standard is not a good minister of God, he speaks of his own initiative
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by MVLOX(m): 4:36pm On Mar 06
Monaboo:



None.

She should listen to GOD.

The same God who calls her the husband her head or the same God who asked her to respect and follow the head ship of the husband?
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by abobote: 4:36pm On Mar 06
Her husband
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Zooposki(f): 4:37pm On Mar 06
Amumaigwe:


Because she is a woman. She is meant to submit to authorities over her, especially her husband. Any more question?

The Misogynistic Book. No wonder marriages don't work and don't last cos everything is upside down.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by alizma: 4:38pm On Mar 06
blackpanthar:



EVERYONE ON THAT LIST HANDED HER OVER TO THE HUSBAND ON THE WEDDING DAY.......... so it is over. Her choices should be based on HERSELF and HER HUSBAND. Simple.

Visions can always be cancelled.
Lol you just rendered every other person's on the list handicap.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Fryx: 4:39pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Just prepare to marry whoever you listen to aside me, your husband. No one will tell you to pack your load and go.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Zooposki(f): 4:39pm On Mar 06
Tajbol4splend:
After God, it's your husband, remember your pastor is not on the list

Limit it to christians. Atheist/Agnostic marriages last the longest and are the most fulfilling while Christians marriages last the least and are the most unfulfilling.
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by maasoap(m): 4:39pm On Mar 06
Acidosis:
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

Are you married? If yes, I have nothing to add. If no, I will say you should come back when you are married
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by flore1823: 4:40pm On Mar 06
Just like yesterday nah this issues ended my friend marriage both parents were now enemy taking side.
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by SaLongs1(m): 4:40pm On Mar 06
FFIA:
grin
They should please listen to Jennyclay and Siofra and Goodlady

for more candid advice they can use Candidlady grin

Pocohantas and Ereluroz for veteran home advice.

I have said it all. cool
Will you win the Nobel Price for Peace by listening to advice from Osama bin Laden, Al Bagdadi, Abubakar Shekau, Al Barnawi and co. ?
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Nahunger(m): 4:41pm On Mar 06
Frigga13:


Be like you Dey snore for speeding Honda bike .. of course you’re not married

Make your husband .. even if the useless simpnask you not to go and you .. based on today marriage you leave go..

Na when you go understand that simp .. Na man with prick..

Una go just come online they render una fellow females useless and unmarried with stupid statements ..

You obviously see why you’re single with teenage brain

For the first time I feel pity for the thing called jennyclay 😥😥😥
This your punch line ehn you really give her over dose.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Honestfrend: 4:41pm On Mar 06
We4all:


Because of how much bride price?

As small as it is no man don pay for ur head.. Shior!!!
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by emkz: 4:41pm On Mar 06
If every other person on that list is sensible, they'd ask her to talk to her husband.

If as a woman or a man other people's opinions matter more to you than your spouse, you have no business being married.
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Femmyfamous4u(m): 4:43pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

In this order:
Her husband
Her parents
Her pastor
Her best friend
Her siblings

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by OKORONKWOBRIGHT(m): 4:43pm On Mar 06
Who sent you
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by sportskid(m): 4:44pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Her Husband Period. That's the only person a married woman is obligated to submit to by tradition and Scripture

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by LaRosa01: 4:44pm On Mar 06
if na me as you go no return.i no they waste my money for independent woman
Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by khattab02: 4:44pm On Mar 06
stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.
Husband naaa!!!

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