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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Paramount01(m): 5:03pm On Mar 06 |
We4all: Is not the amount is the process, do it on yourself if you can do it 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Fiscus105(m): 5:03pm On Mar 06 |
RevenuesBoost: Your advice is for few who have moral upbringing and in which they too, allowed the morality that parents wanted to impact be impacted in them, for others which constitute 90% of the society, ................they had damaged beyond repair. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by na2016: 5:07pm On Mar 06 |
blackpanthar: Any other answer apart from this, are thr@sh! |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by brightovio007(m): 5:08pm On Mar 06 |
oz4real83:Gbam, I respect your articulated opinion on this matter, 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by SpaceAngel: 5:09pm On Mar 06 |
If she doesn't listen to her husband and goes on the with visit, anything she sees when she comes back will be her own cup of tea. That's when all those that advised her would remind her that she's an adult and should be responsible for her actions. No need involving all these for such simple matter. She should also know that it's not all the people who gives her advice like her marriage, many would like her to be divorced and laugh at her in the end. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by netmillionaires(m): 5:11pm On Mar 06 |
She should obey her husband but the husband must give good reasons why he says no. If his intention is to separate her from her family and he refuses to change after some years, she should divorce him. The husband simply does not love her. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by emapeteum(m): 5:12pm On Mar 06 |
Submission and who to listen to all depends on the person in question.you can't take advice from a foolish and an unreasonable husband.People talk about bride price:is the woman a possession or an article of trade. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Bruno3000(m): 5:12pm On Mar 06 |
omoredia:What if the husband has no sense? 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Honestey: 5:14pm On Mar 06 |
If I'm the husband you either listen to me for your own sake or listen to the pastor who is ready to be your new man or to your parents who are ready to welcome you back to the family or your sibling who is ready to welcome you to his/her matrimonial home. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Elohorp(f): 5:17pm On Mar 06 |
SIXFEETUNDER: Not everyone what's a wife that like that,alot of men now want independent strong wives not that picture you are drawing up |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Paramount01(m): 5:18pm On Mar 06 |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Elohorp(f): 5:19pm On Mar 06 |
Frigga13: You lack manner of approach |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by GenderMix: 5:19pm On Mar 06 |
We need to understand that in marriage, the husband is responsible for the safety and security of all family members including the wife. So his decision is very important especially in this instance of travelling far. Although we don't know the circumstances surrounding him saying NO. However, some travels are not really expedient especially in this case where we have video calls. If the movement is of no economic value then the wife should apply common sense and obey the husband. Ultimately, if the wife is wise, she should obey the husband and look for other approaches to convince the man on a later date if it's important to her. Any reasonable husband knows that it's good for himself and wife to visit his wife's people once in a while especially the parents. It's just normal |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Elohorp(f): 5:20pm On Mar 06 |
paba:Can a head survive without a body? 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by zrocky: 5:22pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler:her husband. Sometimes it might not be the perfect time to travel especially if they got kids. It's also important for married couples to communicate to each other before taking any decisions 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Elohorp(f): 5:23pm On Mar 06 |
MichaelSokoto: Yes thank you I've noticed that's it's only this type of topics that lead to enough exchange of curses and insults that usually tread on naira land no actual productive things trend her,only stupid matters concerning other people marriage,fake relationship stories,sex,only man and woman matter the know here 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Monaboo(m): 5:31pm On Mar 06 |
Paramount01: She should listen to THE ONE who gives the "reverence". Not the "reverencee"... 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by BluelightHotel: 5:32pm On Mar 06 |
The truth is that many women today don’t know how to be a wife tbh. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Greenfusion: 5:33pm On Mar 06 |
Monaboo:My best answer.... 2 Likes |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Greenfusion: 5:35pm On Mar 06 |
MVLOX:So if the ship is leading to destruction should the woman stick to the ship? |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by naija4life247: 5:37pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler: Parents and Husband, if not, Ogun go kee her Mama 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:37pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler: FIXED this woman should sit down and decide whose opinion is more important in her life at that moment, whether her pastor, her sibling, her parents, her best friend or her husband.... but should also be very careful as the wrong decision could destroy her future FOR EVER. if i am your husband and am giving you a valid reason why not to go and you are going regardless (because you listened to the opinion of the above irrelevant people(, then you best start a new family with them as ours will be over). Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Greenfusion: 5:38pm On Mar 06 |
MVLOX:Why would you deny your wife to see her family, justify and Educate us please |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Nauttyprof(m): 5:41pm On Mar 06 |
Some parents are the reason new marriages don't last. They want to control the new marriage as if the daughter was still under their control. They call shots as if their daughter is still under their roof and the man who is the husband is but a figure head. No respect for the man and the man on the other hand, sees what they are trying to do with his marriage and as such go against them too. Sometimes, the wife also make it obvious too as if the family of the wife controls the affairs in the new marriage and this becomes a big problem in the marriage. If you ask the husband, he will definitely give his reason why he didn't allow his wife to go. Parents must realise that new marriages must be allowed to breath and then, let the wife be submissive to her husband. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by folake4u(f): 5:42pm On Mar 06 |
Aren't y'all tired of these useless questions? ![]() |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by SweetDipBenny(m): 5:46pm On Mar 06 |
Her neighbour ![]() |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Maxtipulation(m): 5:46pm On Mar 06 |
If she's married she should listen to her husband only the rest are inconsequential |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Morbeta11(m): 5:46pm On Mar 06 |
Jeon: When they collect millions in bride price and materials nko...they outrightly sold the woman. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Maxtipulation(m): 5:46pm On Mar 06 |
folake4u: Who will you listen to? |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by emonis88: 6:00pm On Mar 06 |
As d husband, she can choose to go, but she, should remain there ,cus she doesn't have a husband anymore. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by AfonjaConehead: 6:07pm On Mar 06 |
No real man will deny his woman that....for what reason nah 1 Like |
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