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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Emman08: 6:07pm On Mar 06 |
She doesn't have her own brain to think for herself? |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Slurity(m): 6:08pm On Mar 06 |
HER HUSBAND. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by 10thTenthMan: 6:11pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler: Her Husband. This isn’t difficult na. There is nothing to think or argue much about. He (THE HUSBAND) is the one to Protect Her and the Kids; Provide for her; Lead the family unit; Set perfect examples for the kids; Expand the family’s power and influence; and expand the family’s wealth. If a man is NOT useful to you considering the above, especially if the man is not taking concrete steps to protect you in his little way, then you didn’t marry a man. It is why you MUST CHOOSE WISELY and ensure you choose A MAN THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO READILY FOLLOW! A Man that can brain storm with you, lead you, support you and stand firm by/before/behind you and stimulate you to be your BEST SELF. This has nothing to do with whether you earn more than him or not or who earns the highest pay. The question is can you trust and follow this man’s leadership on critical decisions of your life. Is he a man that has your best interest and is eager to see you succeed ? Consider these before being pressured into marrying any fool with a Pe. NIS. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:15pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler:Every family should settle their wahalla |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by abimbola74(m): 6:41pm On Mar 06 |
We4all:Why not marry yourself mtchwewww..God even said it that if you go out without your husband’s permission, angles will curse every step you take . Una no Dey understand Wetin una Dey practice |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by lilyheaven: 6:45pm On Mar 06 |
🤣🤣 oz4real83: |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Omotonsho(m): 6:45pm On Mar 06 |
pocohantas:u dey your house dey know watin dey happend for another man house.... Amebo... when you marry, you will understand. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by We4all: 6:49pm On Mar 06 |
abimbola74: God also said that married people should not commit adultery but 99.9% of married men do. The faithful ones are the broke ones. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Femmyfamous4u(m): 6:50pm On Mar 06 |
spencekat: Some pastors have spiritual insights to see a direction. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Emeka71(m): 7:04pm On Mar 06 |
blackpanthar:Any of the above. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by ogify1(m): 7:06pm On Mar 06 |
I don’t know what 1,3 and 5 is doing on the list 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by pek(m): 7:14pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler:Any woman who doesn't talk to and listen to her husband in the above scenario doesn't have any business staying married! 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by pek(m): 7:15pm On Mar 06 |
Femmyfamous4u:So if her husband tells her not to go but her pastor says go, she will go? |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by okoroemeka(m): 7:21pm On Mar 06 |
Jeon:you are seeing the issue from a shallow and naive perspective,that the man refused such visit means there is an underlying factor behind it,a normal man in a happy home cannot refuse such visit if asked respectfully but a distressed man in a toxic and combative marriage will refuse such visit to maintain his honor and dignity as the head of the house,that the woman called all those people to intervene shows the type of woman she is a normal woman will back down and switch on feminine mode and the consent to travel will be given in a week,as a wife never challenge the authority of your husband,before heaven and man he is ordained by God to be the head of the family |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by wany(f): 7:23pm On Mar 06 |
Fryx:When you say pack your load and go , hope you don't think she will become homeless, a lot of babes have good cash breathing in their accounts before marriage,they can get any apartment they want so rewind your brain . ![]() |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by wany(f): 7:24pm On Mar 06 |
okoroemeka:Two adults in a union right ![]() |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Trimjos: 7:26pm On Mar 06 |
We4all: If your father and brothers engage in adultery, not Everyman out there is like your father and brothers. So ur 99.9% shit is invalid |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Fryx: 7:29pm On Mar 06 |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by MVLOX(m): 7:29pm On Mar 06 |
Greenfusion: For a woman to be a “glory” to her husband requires her to show proper regard for his headship. Even when her husband is not a faithful worshiper of God, she should remain submissive and support his decisions as the head of the house. She ought to maintain praiseworthy conduct and prove herself to be a real credit to her husband. This is in harmony with the counsel given by the apostle Peter: “You wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, in order that, if any are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect. . . . [Let your adornment] be the secret person of the heart in the incorruptible apparel of the quiet and mild spirit, which is of great value in the eyes of God.”—1 Pet. 3:1-4. In her submission, the Christian woman should display a “quiet and mild spirit.” This means that, regardless of the circumstances, her dominant feeling should be one of calmness and an even temper, not aggressive. Her heart should move her to manifest proper subjection to her husbandly head. This was the case with Abraham’s wife Sarah. As Peter noted: “So, too, formerly the holy women who were hoping in God used to adorn themselves, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, as Sarah used to obey Abraham, calling him ‘lord.”’ (1 Pet. 3:5, 6) Sarah referred to her husband as “lord” not merely audibly for others to hear, but even “inside herself.”—Gen. 18:12. For a Christian woman to be like Sarah would, of course, mean never doing anything contrary to God’s will. This is because she is bound by the superior law of God and of Christ. Hence when her husband’s “law” interferes with true worship, she, like the apostles in the first century C.E., would ‘obey God as ruler rather than a man.’ (Acts 5:29) In all other areas, however, her submission to her husband should be exemplary. I hope you get the point which is so long whatever the husband directs in not against God's own standards and laws the woman must be submissive and obey it |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Femmyfamous4u(m): 7:29pm On Mar 06 |
pek: Can you see the order I listed? Go and check it. Husband and parents come first. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by MVLOX(m): 7:30pm On Mar 06 |
Greenfusion: For a woman to be a “glory” to her husband requires her to show proper regard for his headship. Even when her husband is not a faithful worshiper of Jehovah, she should remain submissive and support his decisions as the head of the house. She ought to maintain praiseworthy conduct and prove herself to be a real credit to her husband. This is in harmony with the counsel given by the apostle Peter: “You wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, in order that, if any are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect. . . . [Let your adornment] be the secret person of the heart in the incorruptible apparel of the quiet and mild spirit, which is of great value in the eyes of God.”—1 Pet. 3:1-4. In her submission, the Christian woman should display a “quiet and mild spirit.” This means that, regardless of the circumstances, her dominant feeling should be one of calmness and an even temper, not aggressive. Her heart should move her to manifest proper subjection to her husbandly head. This was the case with Abraham’s wife Sarah. As Peter noted: “So, too, formerly the holy women who were hoping in God used to adorn themselves, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, as Sarah used to obey Abraham, calling him ‘lord.”’ (1 Pet. 3:5, 6) Sarah referred to her husband as “lord” not merely audibly for others to hear, but even “inside herself.”—Gen. 18:12. For a Christian woman to be like Sarah would, of course, mean never doing anything contrary to God’s will. This is because she is bound by the superior law of God and of Christ. Hence when her husband’s “law” interferes with true worship, she, like the apostles in the first century C.E., would ‘obey God as ruler rather than a man.’ (Acts 5:29) In all other areas, however, her submission to her husband should be exemplary. I hope you get the point which is so long whatever the husband directs in not against God's own standards and laws the woman must be submissive and obey it |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by MVLOX(m): 7:30pm On Mar 06 |
Monaboo: For a woman to be a “glory” to her husband requires her to show proper regard for his headship. Even when her husband is not a faithful worshiper of Jehovah, she should remain submissive and support his decisions as the head of the house. She ought to maintain praiseworthy conduct and prove herself to be a real credit to her husband. This is in harmony with the counsel given by the apostle Peter: “You wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, in order that, if any are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect. . . . [Let your adornment] be the secret person of the heart in the incorruptible apparel of the quiet and mild spirit, which is of great value in the eyes of God.”—1 Pet. 3:1-4. In her submission, the Christian woman should display a “quiet and mild spirit.” This means that, regardless of the circumstances, her dominant feeling should be one of calmness and an even temper, not aggressive. Her heart should move her to manifest proper subjection to her husbandly head. This was the case with Abraham’s wife Sarah. As Peter noted: “So, too, formerly the holy women who were hoping in God used to adorn themselves, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, as Sarah used to obey Abraham, calling him ‘lord.”’ (1 Pet. 3:5, 6) Sarah referred to her husband as “lord” not merely audibly for others to hear, but even “inside herself.”—Gen. 18:12. For a Christian woman to be like Sarah would, of course, mean never doing anything contrary to God’s will. This is because she is bound by the superior law of God and of Christ. Hence when her husband’s “law” interferes with true worship, she, like the apostles in the first century C.E., would ‘obey God as ruler rather than a man.’ (Acts 5:29) In all other areas, however, her submission to her husband should be exemplary. I hope you get the point which is so long whatever the husband directs in not against God's own standards and laws the woman must be submissive and obey it 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by kevwemike: 7:31pm On Mar 06 |
Jeon:madam learn to listen to your husband. After God Ur husband is next not Ur family, listen to Ur husband. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by JobZoneNews(m): 7:32pm On Mar 06 |
It's a covenant thing. It's about the covenant that's bigger between this woman and those other people. You should know that the covenant between the woman and her husband is greater than that of anyone. So she should obey her husband. This is what most siblings don't understand. The covenant between husband and wife is greater than the one between them and their siblings The ones that come close are that of : The parents A God assigned pastor over them. You should see how a husband handled such covenant in the movie, The Prostitute. See my bio for the link.. or see it below https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4zAEvN2VnI?si=LD3mqR5ttUmqq7-t |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by pek(m): 7:33pm On Mar 06 |
Femmyfamous4u:I replied you. But you failed to answer me |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by TheDemola: 7:35pm On Mar 06 |
Jeon: Feminist, well done |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by We4all: 7:35pm On Mar 06 |
Trimjos: Of course my father and brothers commit adultery because they have the money and swag to deceive people like your mom and sisters. I repeat, any Nigerian man that is faithful is because he is broke. |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:37pm On Mar 06 |
They handed her over to the husband as a wife, not a slave. He has no right to frustrate her and stop her from visiting her people. blackpanthar: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by babajero(m): 7:37pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler:She should listen to all of them and use her God given wisdom to choose what to apply. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Trimjos: 7:38pm On Mar 06 |
We4all: Your mother sells her body to the highest bidder, reason ur father impregnated her to give birth to you and ur brothers. Unfortunately for the society, ur father and mother's blood runs in u and ur bothers veins. Keep wishing that your father is rich. Wishful thinking |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Anashe: 7:38pm On Mar 06 |
stevestifler: Apparently, in 2024, only a woman/married woman needs to listen to anyone. This rubbish needs to stop. 1 Like |
Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Anashe: 7:40pm On Mar 06 |
LilMissFavvy: Don't mind them. Nonsense. It's only in Nigeria that being a wife translates to being a slave. The husband himself is alpha and omega, so he doesn't need to listen to anyone. 2 Likes |
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