Jeon:
She won't throw you like a thrash, if you treated your wife good right from the beginning of your marriage.

stop talking nonsense

DevilsEqual:
The kinda news i like to see

U think your wife is different? Okay continue

If only guys know the kinda evil women are capable of

What some of these women do is very bad. They are not wise at all. They don't know broken homes do affect children. Imagine children growing up without their father living with them all because of the selfishness of some women.

This is one of the reasons while ogbonti refused to get married till date due to fear of a woman taking over the little money he has saved.

This is the situation so many men are in as we speak.

NeckingNgulping:
Every now and then, i see news of women throwing their men out in the UK. This begs for a few questions..

Don't the men have the wherewithal to get a house for themselves that they chose to live with a woman i believe takes care of the rent?

Do they not notice when the problem is looming, so they can vacate on their own without being thrown out?

You paid 24k pound for her school fees and you didn't plan to get an apartment for yourself knowing how women in UK are always prone to throwing their men out.

No one goes into marriage with an exit plan

CandidAdmin:


True
But not always true

You're replying someone known for justifying every single woman's actions. That character you quoted will find a way to exonerate a woman that just shot her husband dead.

PastorOlokonla:
What has he done!

If you kick me out of the house, you won't see me again in this life. I will simply move on without complaining or looking back and leave everything for you.

I will only give you one chance to fck up with me and you will never have a second chance.

I simply don't forgive and I will still be smiling with you.
He get men wey women fit try that with.

I also will not wicked or treat my wife bad.

What about the children

dkidd:
Another one bites the dust. U guys will keep learning the hard way lol. For me to help any Nigerian woman apart from my mom and sisters and my daughter I rather help goat go UK or any other country. U dey carry witch go where them dey give them wings to fly. Nigerian women are heartless than the white women who are the original owners of the land they're squatting in. Especially that UK. The ones born there are even okay but u see these local witches when come get opportunity enter there. Baba if u try am u go see weeen... That man just learned a big lesson. Once e better for Nigerian woman even down in Naija sef she go let u know say u no reach her again. Then u come go mistake carry her enter jand lol u go know say devil na very kind and sweet entity

Funny guy.

Naija women are just Naija men in women form.

Hustlers everyone.

Scripted.

Its just a skit

Tranquility2345:


Of course it is staged. The man be like comedian. Even sounds like one. And then he looked at the camera and said ‘my brothers see wetin men dey face’. Which brothers? No be him wife suppose to dey record? Yamayama fall on that him bald head for making me waste my time to watch that rubbish

RaptorX:
What about the children

What about the children?

They will live with their mom or come with me. I will always send money to provide for them.

Remember, I did not start this and was "hypocritically" thrown out of the house.

NeckingNgulping:
Every now and then, i see news of women throwing their men out in the UK. This begs for a few questions..

Don't the men have the wherewithal to get a house for themselves that they chose to live with a woman i believe takes care of the rent?

Do they not notice when the problem is looming, so they can vacate on their own without being thrown out?

You paid 24k pound for her school fees and you didn't plan to get an apartment for yourself knowing how women in UK are always prone to throwing their men out.

Did you watch the video at all? He pays for the house. In all these Western countries women are usually favoured far above the men. That is why many Nigerians usually resort to killing their wives over there
I have seen the story of a man who spent years struggling and when he wanted to marry he came down here and picked a wife. He trained her as a nurse over there and when she started making money all hell was let loose and the man was thrown out of the house he suffered to own and all he laboured for including his kids. He just went and acquired a gun and blasted her to hell where he feels she belongs and called the cops to report himself.
Did you not see what happened to Emmanuel Ebue formally of Arsenal FC. He lost all he labored for to his white wife.
Women have control over the men over there and can ruin a man who is not careful. See the case of Mason Greenwood of Man utd and Benjamin Mendy of man city. They were ruined by women.

PastorOlokonla:


I already had a laser vesactomy.

Having more kids now is like repeating classes I already passed.
Why the hell would I want to do that to myself. Time to enjoy myself.

What then is the importance of having children ?

Jeon:
She won't throw you like a thrash, if you treated your wife good right from the beginning of your marriage.

Story!!!

If you like kill yourself for a woman, the story is hardly far from being different.

Their kind of wickedness is still unknown to humanity.

CandidAdmin:


True
But not always true

Always never true.

This one is even lucky he has papers.

If you know how many Nigerian men have had arguments with their Naija wives/girlfriends etc in the UK and gotten deported after the women called immigration on them, you'll be amazed.

What are you saying...you get sense at all?

NeckingNgulping:
Every now and then, i see news of women throwing their men out in the UK. This begs for a few questions..

Don't the men have the wherewithal to get a house for themselves that they chose to live with a woman i believe takes care of the rent?

Do they not notice when the problem is looming, so they can vacate on their own without being thrown out?

You paid 24k pound for her school fees and you didn't plan to get an apartment for yourself knowing how women in UK are always prone to throwing their men out.

damola1:



What then is the importance of having children ?

You have asked a philosophical question my friend and I will take a deep breath, lean back on my couch and ruminate over your question.

"What then is the importance of having children"

At the beginning of marriage, I believe we had kids due to family and societal expectations. After marriage, it is expected by parents and society for the wife to get pregnant and my parent want a grandchild. I, being in my 20's was relatively experienced and very naive, so I obliged.

Over the years, I have traveled and observed other society and gained incremental wisdom.

Also, most of us as Africans wanted someone to bear our names after we are dead hence the need for children.

I don't really need much from them and thiking about it now, you wouldn't even care about your children once you are dead so the best is to be at peace with yourself and enjoy your life.

Digital Nigeria Women, very funny.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0s5tLot4BZY

PastorOlokonla:


You have asked a philosophical question my friend and I will take a deep breath, lean back on my couch and ruminate over your question.

"What then is the importance of having children"

At the beginning of marriage, I believe we had kids due to family and societal expectations. After marriage, it is expected by parents and society for the wife to get pregnant and my parent want a grandchild. I, being in my 20's was relatively experienced and very naive, so I obliged.

Over the years, I have traveled and observed other society and gained incremental wisdom.

Also, most of us as Africans wanted someone to bear our names after we are dead hence the need for children.

I don't really need much from them and thiking about it now, you wouldn't even care about your children once you are dead so the best is to be at peace with yourself and enjoy your life.

20s is the wrongest time for any man to marry in my limited opinion. But it’s hard to escape.

I think a little of this. A little of that makes life interesting. Life in itself is empty. I think also man as one major purpose to pass knowledge and see it materialize. I think this for myself

So I think. When a man is matured. A few women. Children from multiple women. And children in different season. Yet more of life. Here and there. Travel like you did. Explore. But have a bit of this and that people to share with could make life with it

Where it gets hard. Really hard. Is having kids too early. A life for a life: they consume your entire existence.

I still don’t see a reason why men shouldn’t have kids in their 60s with new mates.

What do you think ?

Kelklein:
go and check, she is a nurse.. once they get that Nursing degree in the UK, they turn to something else.. same degree the husband paid for in getting. Very common with African women in the UK.

This same scenario has cursed so many homícide and súicide in the UK. African women need to take it easy tho.

How are you sure she's a nurse? Do you know how many Nigeria Nurses that have migrated out of Nigeria with their spouses, and with no issues.

Starboytwo:
I can only say hmmmm

But where is the love

I mean the initial love wey bring them together??

Fear woman everyday immediately you wake up.

There was no love in the first place.
That gender looks for the advantage they can benefit from you from day 1.
Fear that gender. Their loyalty and "love" ends when the advantage they benefit from you is exhausted or when they find a better alternative. A woman's love is always subjective, don't trust it.

damola1:



20s is the wrongest time for any man to marry in my limited opinion. But it’s hard to escape.

I think a little of this. A little of that makes life interesting. Life in itself is empty. I think also man as one major purpose to pass knowledge and see it materialize. I think this for myself

So I think. When a man is matured. A few women. Children from multiple women. And children in different season. Yet more of life. Here and there. Travel like you did. Explore. But have a bit of this and that people to share with could make life with it

Where it gets hard. Really hard. Is having kids too early. A life for a life: they consume your entire existence.

I still don’t see a reason why men shouldn’t have kids in their 60s with new mates.

What do you think ?

You are full of wisdom my friend. I grew up in a strictly religious home where it was a taboo to date and have sex before marriage.

As a young guy, I was already working and the hormone was strong so I decided I was getting married, my biggest motive was sex at the time.

My children are taller than I am now and I can still pass for 30 and in good shape. If I have a do-over, I will have several relationships without marriage or kids, travel, build assets and marry after 40. I will then aim for just one child and enjoy my life.

PastorOlokonla:


You are full of wisdom my friend. I grew up in a strictly religious home where it was a taboo to date and have sex before marriage.

As a young guy, I was already working and the hormone was strong so I decided I was getting married, my biggest motive was sex at the time.

My children are taller than I am now and I can still pass for 30 and in good shape. If I have a do-over, I will have several relationships without marriage or kids, travel, build assets and marry after 40. I will then aim for just one child and enjoy my life.

Are you in lagos? Can I host you at my office or home ?

damola1:



Are you in lagos? Can I host you at my office or home ?

Maybe when in Lagos. 19hours flight from Nigeria

dkidd:
Another one bites the dust. U guys will keep learning the hard way lol. For me to help any Nigerian woman apart from my mom and sisters and my daughter I rather help goat go UK or any other country. U dey carry witch go where them dey give them wings to fly. Nigerian women are heartless than the white women who are the original owners of the land they're squatting in. Especially that UK. The ones born there are even okay but u see these local witches when come get opportunity enter there. Baba if u try am u go see weeen... That man just learned a big lesson. Once e better for Nigerian woman even down in Naija sef she go let u know say u no reach her again. Then u come go mistake carry her enter jand lol u go know say devil na very kind and sweet entity

From ur write up, it's seems all women are witches. .

They behave as such thou. .

barrysome001:

There was no love in the first place.
That gender looks for the advantage they can benefit from you from day 1.
Fear that gender. Their loyalty and "love" ends when the advantage they benefit from you is exhausted or when they find a better alternative. A woman's love is always subjective, don't trust it.

Absolutely. Quite sadly.

PastorOlokonla:


Maybe when in Lagos. 19hours flight from Nigeria

It’s important to leverage learning curve

thesicilian:

When you get married you'll know the truth. But by then it may be too late

First, go to my profile, thats me and daughter at the grocery shop getting some groceries after my day's hectic work.

Working so hard and making sacrifices as a dad to provide for the family is not alien to us in the US. In fact it is much harder here, just that you see the reward of your hard work.
No matter how hard you work, it doesn't stop you from creating quality time for your kids emotionally, and physically too as a dad, and bonding with them.
That's why I said, most Nigerian men are idiots when it comes to being a better dad and husbands.
I work 10 hours job 5 days a week and the 2 days that I am off, I watch my daughter. Yet every day I come back, I must spend quality time with her no matter how tired I am.
And make out time for vacations with your family, take your kids to the park and games, take a walk with them some evenings.
Tell them you love them always and don't forget to kiss them.
Treat both your wives and kids same way and see how they will be against you for the rest of your life.

efe21:

Obviously you don't know the meaning of being a dad or having a father in your life.... It's not easy being a man because all the pressure is on you. You are almost 100% responsible for the expenses and financial stability of the home. Kids go to quality and expensive schools to receive quality education because of their dad who is always working hard and sacrificing everything even slaving himself just to ensure a bright future for the kids. And after all of these sacrifices by their father to make them who they are in their adult lives... Most of these ungrateful kids still ignore their fathers in his old age, and choose their mothers who mostly is an emotional support to them kids over their hardworking fathers that literally gave their lives for the kids.

See my dear friend, if you still have a father in your life, please take good care of him and celebrate him because he gave everything just so that you and your siblings including your mum can survive and thrive. Cheers 🍷 to all hardworking fathers out there sweating everyday for the survival of the family.... You are the true MVPs.... Cheers 🍷.

First, go to my profile, thats me and daughter at the grocery shop getting some groceries after my day's hectic work.

Working so hard and making sacrifices as a dad to provide for the family is not alien to us in the US. In fact it is much harder here, just that you see the reward of your hard work.
No matter how hard you work, it doesn't stop you from creating quality time for your kids emotionally, and physically too as a dad, and bonding with them.
That's why I said, most Nigerian men are idiots when it comes to being a better dad and husbands.
I work 10 hours job 5 days a week and the 2 days that I am off, I watch my daughter. Yet every day I come back, I must spend quality time with her no matter how tired I am.
And make out time for vacations with your family, take your kids to the park and games, take a walk with them some evenings.
Tell them you love them always and don't forget to kiss them.
Treat both your wives and kids same way and see how they will be against you for the rest of your life
My dad was the same and I loved him like mad until he passed.

I hope they have settled it.

PastorOlokonla:


You are full of wisdom my friend. I grew up in a strictly religious home where it was a taboo to date and have sex before marriage.

As a young guy, I was already working and the hormone was strong so I decided I was getting married, my biggest motive was sex at the time.

My children are taller than I am now and I can still pass for 30 and in good shape. If I have a do-over, I will have several relationships without marriage or kids, travel, build assets and marry after 40. I will then aim for just one child and enjoy my life.

What i think you still not understanding is: a balance.

The selling point of a man is a community. Find a man who is a part and even builds is own community and balance of individual identity. And you find the richest man.

1 kid … nahhh… 4,5,6—-12 kids.. yipee.. why? Because 1 will want to have you all the time.. but more will have themselves. Balance..and have in seasons. Create assets and live within means to allow expenses be far far away from income. You can be in village . City. Don’t matter. Same rules apply

Same with women. More is better… invest very well..: and enjoy company here and there as we age….enjoy isolation too cos it’s now a balance

This kind nonsense should stop, if this man get skoi skoi for head . He would have killed both himself and the wife , at the end children becomes orphan. Because a woman wants to show power and authority,she doesn't have.let her enjoy the limited fame. All man go enter ground

VeryWickedMan:
Mumu
Only a simp gets married

I will say this a billion times cuz it's true

You may be right but then, I just saw one son of a simp and I asked myself, can a sheep begat a Lion? That is "imposicant"