Tonytonex:
nothing, absolutely nothing. I have three friends 2 females and a male that japaed. And I used to spend for the ladies before that. After the japaed, none of the ladies are in touch or did anything. Only the guy that in touch with me and do send me money.

maureensylvia:
Are we that cheap?

SMH no pressure to my gender ❌

CarlosTheJackal:
Asikwam why Jewessgratitude2 has been posting her pictures here every Eke and Afor market days

jeromestarks:
Once you see a single lady above 25, you have seen a frustrated individual. A woman single at 30 is a psychiatric patient.
A woman single at 35 is a dead man walking.
A woman single at 40 is a detriment to the society. She has the tendency to kill, kidnap, rape, steal, assassinate, gamble, swindle etc. Avoid such women at all cost. In fact, avoid any single lady above 30.


If you a peaceful lasting happy home that you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman of 18/23 and marry.
Avoid my advice and regret the way many married men are currently regretting their marriage.

jetson06:
Women over 35 don't need to marry. Marriage should not been seen as avenue for one to seek relevance in this life. Oprah Winfrey is over 70 years of age and yet more relevant than most women that are married in their 20s. Bleep all these African societal norms. It is nothing but pure fuckery and bullshit.

Austus2011:
There is nothing wrong with it though.. but men will abuse it and take the said woman for granted

Thislifee:
Same here, I have most female friends outside but they don't even send money at all. One of them on my birthday asked for my account number and guess what? She used her Nigeria bank account to send me #5000. I was mad and I asked for her account to send her back the rubbish money, she didn't wanted to give me then I sent the money to mother through a friend saying it was from her through me. I hate rubbish!

Cmanforall:


It depends

What do you mean by 'worth' here?

A woman's worth is not linked to having a 'husband'


Do you know how much Linda Ikeji is worth? Just an example

Women can increase their worth in different ways

killsmith:

You have a point. Before you get to the issue of brideprice, you have to deal with the arrogance, ruthlessness and heartlessness of the igbo woman.
But this is also caused by our culture of worshipping women. My service year at onitsha opened my eyes. I saw onitsha business men spoiling little 18 year old girls with millions of naira. And they grow to become arrogant.

Igbo men compete too much for women and this has spoilt our women.

Jokerman:
Better to be called "old cargo", rather than being single till death

alizma:

And you consider this your advise better than being called a desperate person?

9japride:
[/color]Life is not that difficult. A wise lady will propose to the guy that is chasing feelings for her but too shy to approach her.

MisterBanny:
Why would she let go? Nawao to some of una oo. Who told u she can't get married at age 36 and even beyond?

hopexter:
There’s nothing wrong in giving the advice a try, after all men have been subjected to different names calling but that didn’t kill us.

Truthshotcrazy:
[color=#990000] Paris Hilton got married at 40. Even some women who marry early at 25 before 40 are divorced and in the single and ready to mingle market again.
Won't be surprised if 43 years old Kim Kardashian remarries again.

bigman001:
Bro you are not in any position to talk for the ladies, because you have gbola and you can browse any network if you so wish, so you can never understand what it means not to be married at such age, or not even having a suitor. Let the ladies speak since they understand what it feels like to be lonely or not been married while growing old.

jeromestarks:
Once you see a single lady above 25, you have seen a frustrated individual. A woman single at 30 is a psychiatric patient.
A woman single at 35 is a dead man walking.
A woman single at 40 is a detriment to the society. She has the tendency to kill, kidnap, rape, steal, assassinate, gamble, swindle etc. Avoid such women at all cost. In fact, avoid any single lady above 30.


If you a peaceful lasting happy home that you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman of 18/23 and marry.
Avoid my advice and regret the way many married men are currently regretting their marriage.

Tonytonex:
having them as friends is futile. Totally waste of time.

Thislifee:
exactly. If not for sex or marriage, don't keep any female in your life. Even females themselves avoids female friends.

EEIA:

Pocohantas, Ereluroz


The clergy has said it all.

MrBrownJay1:

A) if a woman reaches 35 and no men has ever tried to marry her, then you have to look within yourself to see whats wrong WITH YOU! if you are beautiful, smart with the right character (and didnt focus on oloshoism during all your youthful years), then some men would have proposed to you by then. there is something seriously wrong with a woman that no man wanna approach for marriage.
B) why would a sane man (aged up to 40yr old) settle for a desperate 35yr old (almost into menopause) woman when he can easily settle for a 18-25yr old fresh woman? in Nigeria a 35 yr old is considered old cargo, in the west, 40yr old are old cargos...lets be real abeg!
C) only men well into their 70s would consider a 35yr old, because we all age differently. women have a sell by date while we men dont.
D) unless you have something valid to bring to the table (aka hard cash or a very successful career), majority of men would overlook such desperate 35yr old 9ja woman as a future wife. why should they even take such gamble?

ABEG dont shoot the messenger!

Thislifee:
exactly. If not for sex or marriage, don't keep any female in your life. Even females themselves avoids female friends.

Tonytonex:
honestly. You just said my mind.

jetson06:
Women over 35 don't need to marry. Marriage should not been seen as avenue for one to seek relevance in this life. Oprah Winfrey is over 70 years of age and yet more relevant than most women that are married in their 20s. Bleep all these African societal norms. It is nothing but pure fuckery and bullshit.

Faposky95:
Because you no be woman ehhhnnn...?!
Let ladies drop the high horse shitz and locate a friend..... something may happen......
Time dey go

jeromestarks:
Once you see a single lady above 25, you have seen a frustrated individual. A woman single at 30 is a psychiatric patient.
A woman single at 35 is a dead man walking.
A woman single at 40 is a detriment to the society. She has the tendency to kill, kidnap, rape, steal, assassinate, gamble, swindle etc. Avoid such women at all cost. In fact, avoid any single lady above 30.


If you a peaceful lasting happy home that you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman of 18/23 and marry.
Avoid my advice and regret the way many married men are currently regretting their marriage.

MrCover:
What Do you really think about FADA OLUOMA

jeromestarks:
Once you see a single lady above 25, you have seen a frustrated individual. A woman single at 30 is a psychiatric patient.
A woman single at 35 is a dead man walking.
A woman single at 40 is a detriment to the society. She has the tendency to kill, kidnap, rape, steal, assassinate, gamble, swindle etc. Avoid such women at all cost. In fact, avoid any single lady above 30.


If you a peaceful lasting happy home that you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman of 18/23 and marry.
Avoid my advice and regret the way many married men are currently regretting their marriage.

Thislifee:
exactly. If not for sex or marriage, don't keep any female in your life. Even females themselves avoids female friends.

cococandy:
You still live in this mental lala land that most of you have convinced yourselves is true.
I hate to break it to you. No 18-25 year old is checking for a forty year old man unless he’s very wealthy. And unless you’d rather deal in online nonsense than facts, many of you are far from wealthy. So the number of 40 year old men who will get that teenage (insert face of disgust) girl they want for marriage is only going to be limited.

The rest of you will have to choose from women with 10 years or less of your age gap.

For context I turned 34 last month and most of my high school/university classmates are only just getting married. Some within the last couple of years. Some with invites for dates in the coming months and into next year. And their husbands are within the same age bracket as them

And I don’t what you guys tell these hideous lies for. So that young girls can think they have no value outside of marriage or that if they don’t say yes to the first few dvumfcks that come their way then they are screwed for life.
With the same mouth if they make a mistake y’all will be the first to say they should have chosen better.

It’s cruelty at best. And something worse if we want to be for real

MrBrownJay1:


again, i dont make the rules, i just follow them. a 40yr old dont have to be rich in Nigeria to get a 18-25yr old. you have a good car, you can get that 18-25yr old; you have a good job and your own apt, you can get that 18-25yr old; you wash dishes abroad but just got back to Nigeria with small small dollars to splash on these younger women, you can get that 18-25yr old; you are a married Nigerian that earns 200k monthly with a steady job and a good house, you can get that 18-25yr old to marry as a 2nd/3rd wife.

yes, 18-25yr old dont seek for 40yr olds, but when such men come their ways and bring a mature lifestyle (aka his own house, car, a good job etc), these women value them over the broke 22yr old who only can bring good anaconda to the table.



sadly, majority of men dont think like you women do. we have a set standard of what a "great woman to marry" is. that standard never change throughout our life, whether we are 22, 42 or 62.



remember, i am not saying that a 35yr old is a bad woman, many women get married at 35... i am just saying AGAIN that" if no men ever considered you nor looked at you as a possible mate all through these yrs, by the time you get to 35yrs old then its too late to now believe that you will enter market and people will rush for your goods" simply because men who didnt consider her as marriage potential at 28, will not suddenly rush for her at 35.



i dont make the rules, i just follow them... this is what PARENTS tell their children in Nigeria; this is what PASTORS tell their sheep in Nigeria; this is what Nigerian SOCIETY/CULTURE tells Nigerians... marriage is a big deal in Nigeria, whether we like it or not. why do you think that Nigerians look down on rich and famous Nigerian women who aint married? why do you think that people still insult the Linda Ikejis and the Genevieves to go and get married (even with all their wealth)?! the value of a woman in Nigeria/Africa is solely based on if/when she gets married and has a family.



life in Nigeria/Africa has never been easy for men or women, let us not try (today) to make it look otherwise... the difference is that a man can easily get married after 40yrs old while the same couldnt be said for women...simply because the value of a man really "starts" from 30 and never stops while the value of women starts at 18 but "stops" at 35.

again, dont shoot the messenger.

cococandy:
You’re perpetuating and propagating a message you claim not to be the author of. You don’t make rules but you’re enforcing it. So there’s no difference.

jeromestarks:
Once you see a single lady above 25, you have seen a frustrated individual. A woman single at 30 is a psychiatric patient.
A woman single at 35 is a dead man walking.
A woman single at 40 is a detriment to the society. She has the tendency to kill, kidnap, rape, steal, assassinate, gamble, swindle etc. Avoid such women at all cost. In fact, avoid any single lady above 30.


If you a peaceful lasting happy home that you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman of 18/23 and marry.
Avoid my advice and regret the way many married men are currently regretting their marriage.

Emmanuel30a2:
Yes, somebody should propose💍 to me; I would not oppose ⚔️🥊or you would be unoppose... We would just pose for glucose dose and overdose. .. Then I would writes u a prose and calls u my rose 🌹🌹🌹💐,as long as you don't makes me arouse...and as long as you rose 🎯♟️when I arose...

Canadian loud overdose you mean

Truthshotcrazy:

Canadian loud overdose you mean