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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by dobnina(f): 5:13am On Mar 15 |
pansophist:I have never regretted following you. You are so full of wisdom. I wish i could tap using a straw. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by NoSmoking: 5:50am On Mar 15 |
AMI3: I have seen some that got poorer It depends on what u see |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by yommen: 6:37am On Mar 15 |
Ance4Liverpool: This room is not even for a poor man. He will scale up when the time comes. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by dangoteinlaw: 7:11am On Mar 15 |
BigYash:donβt believe that liar lol. I will not mention the man's moniker on Nairaland, but he is a flagrant liar. To hear an indigenous person from Lagos who attended Lagos State University and inherited a business say he came from humble beginnings would be like Dangote telling you he only had one shoe. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by sidonlook: 7:14am On Mar 15 |
Why not. Don't people living in one room apartment get married ? A person living in this apartment can get married.. Now choose : Married and live in duplex and have unhappy marriage. Or married and happily live in this one room with love. Which would you choose ? |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Banhammy717: 7:22am On Mar 15 |
Yeah. He should get married |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Rejoice28(f): 7:37am On Mar 15 |
Friends Jesus Christ loves y'all and he want you to accept him as your personal lord and saviour by giving your life to Christ, believing in him and repenting of your sins.remember tomorrow might be too late. Shalom 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Incrediblekutty(m): 8:38am On Mar 15 |
Room wey never contain one person finish?? |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by lordnkem000(m): 11:17am On Mar 15 |
Jewessgratitud3:Lately you have been talking too much here, seems you are related to ilamina. Because you both have it in common. Talking and posting baseless topics. Though I feel na boredom or joblessness dey worry you. Even me sef with my job, I feel jobless in this times and tinubulation |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Jewessgratitud3: 11:32am On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000: Please please please.. just because you live in one room apartment doesn't mean everyone must like it. Ok? I can not marry man that lives in a one room apartment and that's final! You can't force to accept your choice. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Lovit(m): 12:25pm On Mar 15 |
Once space for nacking dey, it is good to go They will plan from there. some japa people abroad, room wey dem and their family dey manage no pass this one |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by lordnkem000(m): 2:37pm On Mar 15 |
Jewessgratitud3:How do you know I live in one room apartment? Stop being dumb abeg. Besides, people who live in such apartments re nice and great people too and deserve respect and peace. No one is forcing you to like it or not. Just stop being this judgy and shit okay. You can still be wealthy and be empathetic to people, still be okay and be a destiny helper to people. That's my two cents as your friend |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Jewessgratitud3: 3:12pm On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000: If you feel I'm talking too much these days and it's affecting your sanity, simply avoid my posts or stop visiting this site altogether because you have no right whatsoever to tell me how often to post or talk around here. I don't know you from Adam and I never mention you whenever I make my post so it shouldn't affect you. If you're looking for who to hate on, go pick on someone your own size. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by jamesversion: 6:31pm On Mar 15 |
descarado: Oga, you see for this world, winch dey follow some people. If you like believe me or not. Some people are chained to badluck. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by pansophist(m): 8:19pm On Mar 15 |
dobnina: The result of reading very old books and knowing how to think 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by lordnkem000(m): 8:48pm On Mar 15 |
Jewessgratitud3:Stop vexing naa, I don't hate you. We all dey catch cruise abeg |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by GodisFirst: 5:08am On Mar 16 |
This is very okay for a start until economy improves. What matters is understanding. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Adv14(m): 12:09pm On Mar 16 |
pansophist: Hmmm I dey feel u always I no just talk ni, suggest few of these books |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by pansophist(m): 11:06pm On Mar 16 |
Adv14: Try search my previous comments. I always write it. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by optm(m): 5:30am On Mar 17 |
Marry someone that's ready to build with you and not one that sees you as a ticket to enjoy the good life they are not ready to work out in achieving with you. Those saying they cannot marry someone in that accommodation may not be able to even afford one of such for themselves. Some women would make you see reasons why getting a bigger accommodation would be better and would join you in seeking ways to get a bigger one but you see those that would tell you, they cannot live with you there and are not suggesting ways to get a bigger space, you had better left them alone . Those type are not ready to do life with you , they are only after doing life through you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by trollx: 5:06pm On Mar 17 |
Jewessgratitud3:Madam calm down and stop being sassy. You've been talking too much and out of place in here. I blame those bantering words with a teenage girl like you who's yet to see life. Focus on your monthly allowance from your parents and come in here to read and learn when elders post. You don't have to contribute with your dense and retard reasoning. Thank you! No shades! No offense!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by IbeOkehie: 6:37pm On Mar 17 |
NoSmoking: When I returned back from my disastrous move to Nigeria in 2013, I restarted my life in a studio like this in a fairly bad Hamilton neighborhood in Baltimore City. Most of my friends and co-workers...especially the Nigerians...refused to visit me there LOL. Oh and by the way, the owner of the building is a Nigerian woman. My own was slightly bigger, with a small bathroom/toilet. The kitchen was part of the room too...I should say the stove and fridge were in the room. My wife moved into that studio with me when she came to the USA and we got married. So on my own experience, the answer is YES. Good Luck to Nigerians. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by mariahAngel(f): 7:26pm On Mar 17 |
IbeOkehie: So, what are we saying, what are you saying? I mean, you had your own space to yourself. Do we need to remind you that in Nigeria, with a room like that, you're most likely to share the toilet, bathroom and kitchen with your neighbours? Do we? |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by IbeOkehie: 7:32pm On Mar 17 |
mariahAngel: I had that in the back of my mind. That's why I tried to describe. No, mine wasn't a public house or face-me-I-face-you. But in the USA it is certainly a very low level living space. Yes, a man and woman can get married and live in the accommodation pictured by the OP, with public shared toilet & kitchen. Every couple starts somewhere. Thanks. Good Luck to Nigerians. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by mariahAngel(f): 7:36pm On Mar 17 |
IbeOkehie: As long as you had your own space. You're welcome. All the very best to you. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by IbeOkehie: 7:44pm On Mar 17 |
mariahAngel: A man and woman can get married and live in the accommodation pictured by the OP, with public shared toilet & kitchen. Every couple starts somewhere. I have a few friends or acquaintances who started their lives in worse circumstances. And they're all doing well today π In fact one oil & gas engineer who earns $1K per day in Nigeria right now lived in such a place with his wife in Nigeria, in PH to be precise. He and his wife have remained married for over 30 years. To each their own. Good Luck to Nigerians. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by mariahAngel(f): 7:51pm On Mar 17 |
IbeOkehie: The stories always have happy endings, but yeah, to each their own. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by IbeOkehie: 8:02pm On Mar 17 |
This is a very good thread. There's all kinds of lessons to be had. Good Luck to Nigerians. |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Elohorp(f): 12:46pm On Mar 19 |
SSpeter: I don't live in Nigeria,and yet we don't live in such a room Do you think people living in such room are getting married and having kids aboard,the government will take your kids from you and give them to other people that can care for them Even your landlord will evict you because their is a limit to how many people live in a particular space,that's the law Just imagine someone that doesn't e en know about us law just by your comment telling me that na naija dey worry me,I laugh π |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Elohorp(f): 12:50pm On Mar 19 |
MrBrownJay1: Pregnant is a game it can come even when on active protection,so why gamble I believe if a man gets married too early,when his not yet stable it prevents him from actually ever getting his footing in life |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by CockPit(m): 7:59pm On Mar 19 |
Elohorp: 100% in agreement with you. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by CockPit(m): 8:01pm On Mar 19 |
mariahAngel: I actually grew up in two rooms like that, 2 parents and 7 kids? Its not desirable and not a good experience I would recommend for anyone. 1 Like |
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