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Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by bluefilm: 8:00am On Mar 25 |
Oh no! Not This idiot poster again! 1 Like |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Worksunlimited: 8:14am On Mar 25 |
blackpanthar:[/b] [b][b][/b] U were doing well, till you got to this part and then you skewed sharply.. U dey talk like say u don sabe life but u see u still have much to learn about it. 1 Like |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Barbiturate(m): 8:29am On Mar 25 |
blackpanthar: I am not lazy, I just don't have a mentor. Can you be my mentor pls? |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Calitoscassius(m): 8:44am On Mar 25 |
Very ugilee creatures, they all deserve themselves. |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by LucemFerre: 9:35am On Mar 25 |
blackpanthar: See this fortunate idiot wey think say him don understand life. Just the way every famous person think say dem be motivational speakers by default. My guy rest you no know sh!t. Just live and let live |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by AfahaAbia(m): 9:36am On Mar 25 |
Boldideas: Exactly. Alot of men sacrifice so much yet at the end they end up dead or with a challenging health problem. Myself and my two kids comes first!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by LucemFerre: 9:40am On Mar 25 |
Worksunlimited: You dey mind am |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by AfahaAbia(m): 9:48am On Mar 25 |
Kloenboi: By focusing on my career and giving my kids(14 & 11) the best! 1 Like |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by AfahaAbia(m): 9:49am On Mar 25 |
Kenmatt: Nah!! By focusing on my career and giving my kids(14 & 11) the best gives me more peace of mind. |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by AfahaAbia(m): 9:50am On Mar 25 |
Chingyyy878: Lol very far from it. By focusing on my career and giving my kids(14 & 11) the best! |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by AfahaAbia(m): 9:51am On Mar 25 |
Notfogotten: Lol you're very funny. By focusing on my career and giving my kids(14 & 11) the best is all I have ever wanted in life |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Onyi90(m): 10:16am On Mar 25 |
Chingyyy878: Who marries late by Choice? |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by blackpanthar: 11:00am On Mar 25 |
Worksunlimited: You will mature when you understand ALL LIFE IS NOT THE SAME. I understand my patterns and path. God keeps me jealously and I don't make costly mistakes like thinking I know it all. BUT the little I have tested for over a decade, that works and is working till now. Is what I shared, it may not be your own life BUT IT IS MY TRUTH |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Okoroawusa: 11:07am On Mar 25 |
The beauty of a prick is in the hands of the holder |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Edenogie: 11:34am On Mar 25 |
AfahaAbia:Thanks👍👍 |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Cloudflare: 11:58am On Mar 25 |
Chingyyy878: This kind of advice has sent so many men to their early graves. While some are frustrated after getting married early. Which weed you smoke? No go make money stay there and be talking about marrying early with broke Bank account |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Mcslize: 2:09pm On Mar 25 |
Mandate1: No be lie. Life is quite unfair for men. That's why selflessness is one of my criteria I will use to choose the lady I will call the mother of my unborn kids. A selfish woman is an eye sore to a man's peace of mind. A woman that cannot use her own money to assist running a home with a man, even though they are now referred to as one, is the fastest route for any man to die. It's very important you ask any lady about their financial views in the family. Like what you did. If you are in love with a girl and later discover that she is very selfish with her money and can't in any way even assist you with her own money when little things comes up, just know you are dealing with a chronic selfish woman. Erase her from your list of women you want to consider as wives materials. A selfless woman is a blessing to a man. When you are in a relationship with a lady who is selfless and have some levels of empathy as a woman, you will so much enjoy that relationship, because both of you will join hands together to assist each other. Who said a woman shouldn't assist a man? That's how you know the selfish ones. This is one of the criteria I will never overlook for a potential partner. That's why it's always good to ask them questions to know their views about these things, so we know who we are dealing with and won't waste our times thinking we are dating a good woman. You save yourself your time. Ladies like that are kept as flings not for serious relationship. Till you meet the one whose views align with yours, only then you can give in your all, cuz she will always be there to assist if the need comes once a while. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by millstone(m): 3:11pm On Mar 25 |
Mcslize:Na your quote make sense pass. while there are situations of men marrying dead broke at least have something that is bringing something monthly no matter how small. I am in my early thirties and about getting married, I work a job that pays over 100k and truth is if not my woman is not the current bitter feminist right now I for dey my lane o. I have worked in the bank and several jobs before but never considered marriage because I wanted to be agba baller first before getting married o but I checked some of my friends that are over fourty and not married and realized one thing. They all were waiting for the money to come. Thing is if your woman is supportive and she works (emphasis on her working o) you good and you can grow. That's why I look at guys who don't have a stable job but getting married or that babe marrying a yahoo boy that just hit money and rush marry. My dear una go see pass wetin Samson and Delilah see |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Ogaonos: 3:19pm On Mar 25 |
blackpanthar:pple who comes from middle class family or had papa or mama asistance in their hustle or grace of God thru their mama intercede for them. They say shit like this PPLE WHO COMES FROM A POOR HOME. OR PAPA DON DIE, MAMA DEY DO PETTY TRADE. DNT SAY SHIT LIKE THIS because THEY GO THRU ALOT. MOST TIMES NT APPLICABLE WITH SOME EXTENDED FAMILIES. RELATIONS WILL ABANDON U AFTER PAPA OR MAMA DON DIE ESP PAPA OR MONEY NO DEY NUCLEAR FAMILY MY ADVISE TO THOSE IN SUCH SITUATION (PAPA DON DIE) BE STRONG FOR UR MAMA SHE NEEDS IT HUSTLING NEEDS MORE THAN ONE HEAD. TRY TO WRK TOGETHER AS A NUCLEAR FAMILY(YOU ND SIBLING) BE PRAYERFUL U NEED GOD GRACE THAT ATTRACT A HELPER, SOME TIMES MENTORS WILL ONLY ADVICE YOU. BUT NT NT LIFT U UP TO UR GREATNESS ONLY HELPER DT WILL TAKE EM TIME TO LIFT U UP. ND NA GOD DEY DO AM FINALLY HUMAN RELATIONS THAT PASTOR SEILMAN PREACH ABOUT VERY VITAL IN HUSTLING PERSON WHERE SABI BUILD RELATNSHIP WITH PPLE IN HIS/HER AREA (NEIGHBOURHOOD)ND OUTSIDE WISELY HUSTLING FIT NO TOO HARD FOR SUCH PERSON EXAMPLE FOR UR AREA U DEY HALA THOSE GATEBOYS IF U GET SOME CHANGE FOR POCKET U DEY WET GROUND FOR THEM. IF U SABI FOOTBALL ESP ENGLISH PREMIER LEAGUE .DEY GIST FOOTBALL WITH THEM, FOR BARBLING SALON FOR AREA WHERE U CUT UR HAIR, AKARA WOMAN U SOCIALIZE DEY JOVIAL WITH AM ND SOME WHERE THEY GET PROVISION .BUT THEY NO DEY COME INSIDE UR HOUSE NA OUTSIDE THE SOCIALIZING DEY END AND U DEY DO AM WISELY WETIN BE THE ADVANTAGE WHEN SOME KIND CHALLENGES HIT YOU(LIKE NO LIGHT TO IRON CLOTH FOR INTERVIEW, NO WATER TO BATH ,COOK OR NO LIGHT TO CHARGE PHONE) THERE BE SOMEONE TO RENDER HELP TO YOU T |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by extremelygolden: 4:19pm On Mar 25 |
blackpanthar: Black Panther please bend ( you too tall abeg), let me give you a peck on the chin. You over-made sense with your post! When you reason well, you speak well. |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by DonroxyII: 5:56pm On Mar 25 |
Mandate1:You are also a Parasite Trying to Leech... You ain't a Husband Material With Your Entitlement Mentality! Imagine Whining Over Another Person Monies ... Your Job is to take care of Your Family While The Job Of Your Wife is to Support You ..... You could have Opined to Leverage On Her 200k to Learn Skills or Businesses That Would Turn Your 100k Into N1,000,000.00 But Nope, You are Trying to Make her Coughed Her Monies to Lead Your Home While You Keep Drinking Brukutu & KainKain Up & Down ... Irresponsible Men are Easily to Decipher .... You Should be Avoided by Sane Ladies |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by Mandate1: 7:20pm On Mar 25 |
DonroxyII:hahahaha. You funny walai. It's fine though. No man wants to marry a woman who will feed him. The prayer of every man is to be financially buoyant to take care of his home. But in a situation he's unable to do so based on challenges beyond his control from the example posited above, it's rational for the woman to support her husband just so the family will weather the storm. All I expected of her is to say, while my husband contributes all his income to the family wellbeing, I will support his effort with a percentage of my earnings. Be it 20, 30 or what have you. It only becomes unfair when she says my money is my money, his money is what we will survive on. That's not showing empathy and support. Anyways, just do what makes you and keeps your home affloat. Regards. 1 Like |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by ogbe88(m): 7:57pm On Mar 25 |
bitingcool:U will know he is a kid. |
Re: Men Don’t Marry Late !! by bisqit: 8:16pm On Mar 25 |
DonroxyII:you are an idiot. The young man raised a valid point and all you could do is call him leech. Foolish man, Its people like you that encourage this bitches in their mindless behaviors. When the bible says women are helpmeets, men are sole providers. Mandate1 ride on, nothing do you |
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