EreluRoz:
Don't insult him please, he's a very good man. Just not someone I can date. What do I do kos the guilt I feel is making me so uncomfortable

Ask your bank to help you block him from sending you money. U no like person u still dey collect his money. Na fain ignorance and be pretending. Awoof wey no get bone dey choke sometimes.

EreluRoz:
Don't insult him please, he's a very good man. Just not someone I can date. What do I do kos the guilt I feel is making me so uncomfortable

You are having this guilt conscience/ uncomfortable because you are not being sincere to your self.

You agreed that he is a good man but you can't date. You can't date him but you are already getting attach to him, he has become a part of you.

How ?

As long as you accept his cash and gifts, you have already accepted a part of him, he is Already unconsciously your date.

These things are deep. The ACT of giving and acceptance have some spiritual connotations.

Dont you know that "Date" or "Dating" starts with attention ? Abi you think it's when the both of you starts hugging and kissing?

He is either your God ordained husband or your destiny helper. Go on a fast and ask God which one.

SmartMen:
Throw away emotions and look at things logically. Attraction is very important in a relationship. Can you date or marry someone that looks like a monkey? be sincere and answer that question.

IF your answer is NO, it is not because you hate the person it is just that you don't find them attractive.

Also, attraction is relative and it can be that the man here does not have a good fashion sense which makes him look unattractive to women. I used to be in this category, not that I am ugly or have unattractive features, I had those features (height, broad shoulders, nice hairline, well-shaped red lips, but I didn't give it much attention.

I paid dearly for that error for years. It was rejection upon rejection to the point that I thought less of myself when it came to women because it affected my self-esteem.

I was more interested in making money so much that I didn't give much thought to how I presented myself to the opposite gender. And like this OP here, I would give money to girls that I am trying to woo... BROTHER, IT NEVER WORKED and you can see the OP is already saying that despite the man giving her money, she didn't find him attractive. MONEY CAN NOT BUY A WOMAN.

Though, I wasn't giving money cos I wanted to use it to buy love (though the ladies back then thought I was doing it cos I wanted to buy them). It is just who I am cos I love to give. I had to stop doing it (giving money) to ladies I am interested in when I sensed how they perceived the gesture.

I will tell you what worked for me as you read along.

If you are struggling with ladies or constantly being rejected, you should read this to the end.

Then my cousin came from Benin and stayed with me for one year. He gave me a complete 360 orientation that changed EVERYTHING.

Before he came, I used to expend so much energy trying to win a lady, I talked too much, explained too much, and professed emotions that were counterproductive.

There was even a Nairaland lady too that I tried to woo then but it didn't pan out well, na fight end the matter sha. I am just stating this so that you know it is not some made-up shit.

Whenever I talk about my experience with Nigerian ladies, you will hardly hear anything good. It was that bad. lol.

Now, to change this, most of what people share here is secondary... First, get your attraction game UP and the rest will come.

Anyway, my cousin didn't share any of those red pills stuff. He just told me to upgrade my physical look and watch. His method was more effective than anything I have ever read and he also demonstrated it for me to see.

I rarely went out and he forced me to change that...Not going out more often is why I even used to focus on just one lady for months while repeatedly getting rejected like a plague. .

When my cousin forced me to go out more, he forced me to go to church more (Lukily, we have the biggest church in my local government close to my house), and one thing that did to me was seeing that there are unlimited supply of pretty ladies, more gorgeous than what you could be chasing previously.

If you find yourself spending months on one lady, or a year trying to win and still get rejected, my brother, it is because you narrowed your vision. Change that and attend any big church or even be at a busy place like Shoprite mall, events, weddings. I give you just 5 minutes and the number of pretty women you will see or meet will rewire your brain so much that you will curse yourself for spending unproductive time on just one when there is an unlimited supply of prettier ladies out there.

The only downside is that if you don't have discipline and control, it could destroy you by making you sleep with numerous women. This is the major reason some men sleep with many women out there. It is like stumbling on so much money and then losing control by spending it recklessly.

To tell you how potent attraction is, by the time my cousin had helped me rebrand and I started uploading my pictures on WhatsApp status,(previously I didn't), one lady who had never seen me more upload my picture more than 4 times in 5 years confessed... she said and I quite "Smartmen, is this you? Is this really you?"

Another lady whom I met on Twitter but that one also reacted to my picture for the FIRST time in about 3 years we have known... and she has been doing that since then till now, even on Sunday here, she reacted to the one I posted.

People tell you that women are moved by what they hear... That is false. WOMEN ARE MOVED BY WHAT THEY SEE. If they don't see it, they don't move.

Now, I have had to start rejecting them back as they lurk around me. Na me dey reject them now... I know one who rarely checked my status previously but now does so everyday, commenting on everything I post.

If you are getting rejected by women or struggling, just UPGRADE: Spend that money on new clothes, buy iPhone and hold... tusssh up your apartment, get a good barber for a nice haircut, take nice pictures, and upload... ATTRACT, don't chase. na you go tire.

You only speak too much English and long paragraphs when you don't know how to attract. I used to write long epistles to some of these girls like one expired substandard Wole Soyinka as if I am writing a novel... They will even subtly tell me I talk too much by saying "wow you can write o" and I will be smiling and raising shoulder like I have made it in life, not knowing I was fooling myself.

Now, I don't even know the last time I wrote a long epistle... even when my current babe did something silly, I fixed her up immediately WITHOUT SAYING A SINGLE word. Unlike before when I would be writing long letter like apostle paul to the church in Damascus.... foolish me.

You must have seen Shege


Anyway i like how you remodelled yourself


Money plays a major role in men's life. Look attractive, don't talk too much..all those ones that were doing you shege will bounce back. But the only disadvantage you will have is * Lovehatred* I mean you won't love again. Any lady that comes with love will just be repulsing you

TimFisher2:


You must have seen Shege

Anyway i like how you remodelled yourself


Money plays a major role in men's life. Look attractive, don't talk too much..all those ones that were doing you shege will bounce back. But the only disadvantage you will have is * Lovehatred* I mean you won't love again. Any lady that comes with love will just be repulsing you

My brother,

I saw Shege Banza and Shege Pro Max.

It was so bad that it affected my selfesteem. May God bless one of my friends who stood and tele-guiding me all through it all until my cousin came to fix it properly. The irony is that this friend of mine would give me counsel, I would listen and discard it after but only to come back to him with my broken heart lol. Why? I didn't realize how dangerous it was to assume that women are harmless creatures and I was constantly letting my guards down.

Because I was more about chasing money, I learned everything I could about business and making money and had zero for learning how to handle women.

I paid DEARLY for that error. It is good to make money but at the same time, learn how to handle girls and ladies.

Some years back, one of those girls told me something profound. She said: "you don't understand women and if you don't learn you will continue to have problems with ladies."

I actually brushed those words aside and thought that she was talking nonsense. I thought that just being a nice guy was enough. I thought being a good guy was enough, I thought that being the romantic dude was enough and boy, I was wrong.

Don't get me wrong, I am an upright, focus and responsible dude, the kind that would make an awesome husband to my wife and great dad to my kids but to succeed relationship with women, you need to be much more than that.

The mystery about women is that they expect you to be a man, not a boy but they never accept that responsibility as theirs to teach how to be a man, hence when you act like a crybaby, a sissy, a boy instead of being a man, nature designed women to break hearts of such men until they grow into being a man. When you begin to act like a man around women, your heartbreaks are reduced drastically.

There may be a few heartbreaks here and there, but it would be nowhere near or compared to guys that behave like a boy or sissy. This is where the acclaimed "Bad Boys" or "Alpha Male" takes the lead and one common denominator about them is that they are less emotional about women and when you are less emotional, you have TOTAL control over your relationship with any woman.

When you are less emotional, you can see a guy banging your baby right in your presence. You will feel hurt about it but you will move on without a word and women fear you when you are in control of your emotions. They respect you more that way.

One of the things that ruined me and my chances back then was that I had emotions spilled all over the ground for these women to walk on.

You said something about not loving... Well, I still love but not the way I did in the past. It is possible to love a woman and not have your emotions spilled all over the place. Currently, I don't care if a woman loves me or not. I have a babe now and we are moving towards tying the knot but guess what? I don't care if she loves me or not. I don't worry my head with that anymore. It makes the job easy and I can move on if she messes up.

Do I care about her? I do

Do I want the best for her? I do

Do I value her? I do.

But in all of these, if she messes up right now, I will walk away without looking back. This is why I said in the post you quoted that I fixed her up without saying a word when she did something silly and she has never repeated it till today but if it was my older self, I would be writing epistle, calling, and all that nonsense.

That is the power of not being emotional about women. My babe is a tough person to deal with and I know that the older version of me couldn't or wouldn't be able to handle someone like her. You need to be at a higher level to deal with someone like that.

Since I found myself, I have walked out of 5 or more ladies. Unlike before when I would be "trying to make it work, begging, sending long messages, calling and talking for hours and days". Now if you mess up, I will just observe for a while and walk away without saying anything to you.

SmartMen:




My brother,

I saw Shege Banza and Shege Pro Max.

It was so bad that it affected my selfesteem. May God bless one of my friends who stood and tele-guiding me all through it all until my cousin came to fix it properly. The irony is that this friend of mine would give me counsel, I would listen and discard it after but only to come back to him with my broken heart lol. Why? I didn't realize how dangerous it was to assume that women are harmless creatures and I was constantly letting my guards down.

Because I was more about chasing money, I learned everything I could about business and making money and had zero for learning how to handle women.

I paid DEARLY for that error. It is good to make money but at the same time, learn how to handle girls and ladies.

Some years back, one of those girls told me something profound. She said: "you don't understand women and if you don't learn you will continue to have problems with ladies."

I actually brushed those words aside and thought that she was talking nonsense. I thought that just being a nice guy was enough. I thought being a good guy was enough, I thought that being the romantic dude was enough and boy, I was wrong.

Don't get me wrong, I am an upright, focus and responsible dude, the kind that would make an awesome husband to my wife and great dad to my kids but to succeed relationship with women, you need to be much more than that.

The mystery about women is that they expect you to be a man, not a boy but they never accept that responsibility as theirs to teach how to be a man, hence when you act like a crybaby, a sissy, a boy instead of being a man, nature designed women to break hearts of such men until they grow into being a man. When you begin to act like a man around women, your heartbreaks are reduced drastically.

There may be a few heartbreaks here and there, but it would be nowhere near or compared to guys that behave like a boy or sissy. This is where the acclaimed "Bad Boys" or "Alpha Male" takes the lead and one common denominator about them is that they are less emotional about women and when you are less emotional, you have TOTAL control over your relationship with any woman.

When you are less emotional, you can see a guy banging your baby right in your presence. You will feel hurt about it but you will move on without a word and women fear you when you are in control of your emotions. They respect you more that way.

One of the things that ruined me and my chances back then was that I had emotions spilled all over the ground for these women to walk on.

You said something about not loving... Well, I still love but not the way I did in the past. It is possible to love a woman and not have your emotions spilled all over the place. Currently, I don't care if a woman loves me or not. I have a babe now and we are moving towards tying the knot but guess what? I don't care if she loves me or not. I don't worry my head with that anymore. It makes the job easy and I can move on if she messes up.

Do I care about her? I do

Do I want the best for her? I do

Do I value her? I do.

But in all of these, if she messes up right now, I will walk away without looking back. This is why I said in the post you quoted that I fixed her up without saying a word when she did something silly and she has never repeated it till today but if it was my older self, I would be writing epistle, calling, and all that nonsense.

That is the power of not being emotional about women. My babe is a tough person to deal with and I know that the older version of me couldn't or wouldn't be able to handle someone like her. You need to be at a higher level to deal with someone like that.

Since I found myself, I have walked out of 5 or more ladies. Unlike before when I would be "trying to make it work, begging, sending long messages, calling and talking for hours and days". Now if you mess up, I will just observe for a while and walk away without saying anything to you.

We have same similarities


Everything you mention was just me, but they only thing I didn't share with you was been a sisi. I learnt on time not lower my self on women maybe because of the area I was brought up. I learnt the art of O.T when I was young, not until I entered school, I said No. That child of man has a lot of love. I started looking out for love.i was very sincere and open. It cost me a lot. I couldn't even get one. Before I now realise myself and changed tactics . No be today our girls learnt that there is nothing like love.


Guys should not be deceive by the rubbish love movies they watch,nothing come out, they are just passing away their time and trying to confuse the gullible ones that their love. No woman on earth believe in love,except your pocket is preaching love.

But I am in a serious dilemma because it has hardened and toughened my heart, I see women on a different perspective other than the beautiful lovely souls I thought they were.

TimFisher2:


We have same similarities

Everything you mention was just me, but they only thing I didn't share with you was been a sisi. I learnt on time not lower my self on women maybe because of the area I was brought up. I learnt the art of O.T when I was young

Lol... Man, if I told you I came from a family of chronic womanizers, you wouldn't believe it. I mean I saw my uncles changing women like clothes.

My immediate elder brother and his friends once caused a serious fight with some guys in our street years back in Benin. The reason? They had almost successfully furrrked all the pretty girls in our street and these girls who had brothers became angry. In fact my brother's friend banged the sister of one of those guys.

Despite seeing all these, I would tell myself that that is rubbish way of life and not a good way to live life with women.... I always wanted to do things the right way and i was a bookworm too, who stumbled on some kind of books that deceived me lol...

, not until I entered school, I said No. That child of man has a lot of love. I started looking out for love.i was very sincere and open. It cost me a lot. I couldn't even get one. Before I now realise myself and changed tactics . No be today our girls learnt that there is nothing like love.

It never works... I don't know which person it has ever worked for lol.

Guys should not be deceive by the rubbish love movies they watch,nothing come out, they are just passing away their time and trying to confuse the gullible ones that their love. No woman on earth believe in love,except your pocket is preaching love.

Gbam... You see the love movies along with some books? They contributed to my mumuni years... LMAO.

But I am in a serious dilemma because it has hardened and toughened my heart, I see women on a different perspective other than the beautiful lovely souls I thought they were.

Yes, it is normal to feel that way. I once hated women for 3 years plus because of what one did to me more than 8 years ago... funnily enough, the same girl came back trying to minder her way back into my life. I just told her to FURCK OFF and buried whatever past image of me she has because that person no longer exists. He is dead and buried. She has been trying to get back to me for more than 8 years now but me no want her at all...

You don't need to hate or dislike them. You just have to learn how to discipline them like a stern father would. You deal with them with love but with some level of strictness as well. You can actually deeply love a woman like you used to and at the same time not have your emotions spilled all over the place. It is possible.

Some people can love you, like really, but hardly show it to you. The only way you will know that they love you is through their actions. If you are waiting for words of affirmation, it may never come. You can be like that. It is possible.

Previously I used to talk too much like I said but now, I express it all by actions. That is how I deal with my current babe. I don't say it but I act it.

Like the silly things she did twice, I never had a word of confrontation with her. The second one sef, she was seriously worried. I just dealt with it with no words from me to her but my actions. She has never repeated it till today.

Remember I said my babe is a tough person. She belongs to the category of women who act like men. For me to do something that shook her twice means I am operating at a higher level and at that level, you are a no-bullshit man.

In one of those cases, I made her see that I would do what a man should, I would say and act like a responsible man should and I don't care whether 100 guys are tickling her fancy. If she blows things up, it's all on her, which means I would walk away if it comes to that. And women fear you when they know you can easily replace them if they mess up.

I recently showed her a message from the lady I talked about above who is trying to get back to me. I did it intentionally. Just know how to deal with them and you will be at peace.

EreluRoz:
Few years back this man tried to make advances at me but was not bold enough to do so but he kept gifting me different things and crediting my account of which I never asked for. He was familiarizing with people around me and comes to our house to greet my mom because he lives nearby, will call me to greet me before going and all those unnecessary famzing. But he never had that boldness to ask me out.

On my part I never demanded anything from him and whenever I want to reject his gifts and cash I couldn't because it always comes at the right time. I can't count the number of times I have sworn never to accept his gifts and cash but never for once did I keep to my words because he's gifted in sending cash and gifts at the perfect time.

This man is very unattractive to me, like that man you'll not even want anybody to see you standing with , so it has never even crossed my mind to have anything with him. So I summoned courage one day and text him to stop all those univited visits and stop wasting his time because I can never date someone like him(I was young and said some nasty things I regretted later) and unfortunately his cousins saw my nasty message to him, told others and they all wear this scornful looks whenever they see me as I later learnt my message caused problems in their house. Well, he stopped coming to our house, he relocated to a new place as I learnt he got a job that took him away from our location.

I never felt remorseful about all I did to him till recently as I'm now older and wiser. So, I was somewhere doing something and he also came there and saw me first, I was expecting a very cold reaction from him but he immediately came over and was very happy to see me, started gisting and all that, I gave him attention just to make up for my earlier bad attitude, I apologized over how I treated him and he said it's nothing that he's not holding anything against me as I was very young then. Before I say jerk he went to his car and gave me some bundles of cash, requested for my account number and he won't even accept my refusal to give him. So that's how this man resumed sending me money again, infact he's obviously now richer because if I mentioned the alert I always receive from this man nobody will believe me here. I narrated everything to my brother because he knew all I did to him back then, my brother started calling him fool which I felt bad and cautioned him to stop.

Now this man has not made any advances or wooed me but he's already acting more than a partner, infact I feel so guilty each time I see his alerts and calls. God knows I can never date him but I'm beginning to be so uncomfortable with all these. Let me not lie, it's so hard to reject his money as it usually comes at the right time.

Let me also add that he later got married but his wife left him few years into their marriage.

Honestly I'm tired and want to be free from all these.

Please am I at fault here? Or is he God sent to ease me at my times of need? Why am I feeling so guilty even though I have never requested anything from him?
Am I in trouble and what will be the end result of all these?

why not make a move and marry to guy,he will obviously take care of you,you are getting older and it will not be a bad idea

okoroemeka:
why not make a move and marry to guy,he will obviously take care of you,you are getting older and it will not be a bad idea

She has no feeling for him boss. Let her go for who she wants...

SmartMen:


Lol... Man, if I told you I came from a family of chronic womanizers, you wouldn't believe it. I mean I saw my uncles changing women like clothes.

My immediate elder brother and his friends once caused a serious fight with some guys in our street years back in Benin. The reason? They had almost successfully furrrked all the pretty girls in our street and these girls who had brothers became angry. In fact my brother's friend banged the sister of one of those guys.

Despite seeing all these, I would tell myself that that is rubbish way of life and not a good way to live life with women.... I always wanted to do things the right way and i was a bookworm too, who stumbled on some kind of books that deceived me lol...

It never works... I don't know which person it has ever worked for lol.


Gbam... You see the love movies along with some books? They contributed to my mumuni years... LMAO.

Yes, it is normal to feel that way. I once hated women for 3 years plus because of what one did to me more than 8 years ago... funnily enough, the same girl came back trying to minder her way back into my life. I just told her to FURCK OFF and buried whatever past image of me she has because that person no longer exists. He is dead and buried. She has been trying to get back to me for more than 8 years now but me no want her at all...

You don't need to hate or dislike them. You just have to learn how to discipline them like a stern father would. You deal with them with love but with some level of strictness as well. You can actually deeply love a woman like you used to and at the same time not have your emotions spilled all over the place. It is possible.

Some people can love you, like really, but hardly show it to you. The only way you will know that they love you is through their actions. If you are waiting for words of affirmation, it may never come. You can be like that. It is possible.

Previously I used to talk too much like I said but now, I express it all by actions. That is how I deal with my current babe. I don't say it but I act it.

Like the silly things she did twice, I never had a word of confrontation with her. The second one sef, she was seriously worried. I just dealt with it with no words from me to her but my actions. She has never repeated it till today.

Remember I said my babe is a tough person. She belongs to the category of women who act like men. For me to do something that shook her twice means I am operating at a higher level and at that level, you are a no-bullshit man.

In one of those cases, I made her see that I would do what a man should, I would say and act like a responsible man should and I don't care whether 100 guys are tickling her fancy. If she blows things up, it's all on her, which means I would walk away if it comes to that. And women fear you when they know you can easily replace them if they mess up.

I recently showed her a message from the lady I talked about above who is trying to get back to me. I did it intentionally. Just know how to deal with them and you will be at peace.

Bro, don't think you are more tougher than her


Do you know why she always codedly obey your instructions even though it is always hard and painful for her to endure?


It is because of the dough, and you are calling the shot.


Imagine if you don't have backup, she would have reduce and fling you out to where you belong(not us) but them


Well, in everything, Dough is a prerequisite for every man. It get why.


But it very hurtful that those who don't have will not experience true love, that's the situation we found ourselves.

TimFisher2:




Bro, don't think you are more tougher than her


Do you know why she always codedly obey your instructions even though it is always hard and painful for her to endure?


It is because of the dough, and you are calling the shot.


Imagine if you don't have backup, she would have reduce and fling you out to where you belong(not us) but them


Well, in everything, Dough is a prerequisite for every man. It get why.


But it is very hurtful that those who don't have will not experience true love, that's the situation we found ourselves.

I am aware of this... and it is not further from the truth. But here is another thing, even if I spend millions on her, I have the mind to walk away IF shit happens, sometimes she wakes up to alert (I do that intentionally) but I am not attached to anything I do for her...

. Though I know her to be a dedicated and focused hard-working person who is career driven too. But with women, anything can happen. Always expect that. It is also why I have made up my mind that I don't care if a woman loves me or not.

Conventionally, women don't love a man without conditions which is a summation of what you said here.

One woman on my contact, a married woman actually, said "Women don't love, they submit. It is men that love" Think about that for a minute and never forget it.

Only your mother or siblings can love you unconditionally, not your girlfriend or wife.

TimFisher2:

But it very hurtful that those who don't have will not experience true love, that's the situation we found ourselves.

I would disagree with you here. It depends on how you go about it and the kind of girl. While I was going through the roller coaster with those girls and experiencing heartbreaks, I know a guy who dated his babe.

In all their dating years, I can tell you the babe didn't get up to 100k in total from him, while me on the other hand was losing money (not a lot of money though) to all the girls making a fool of me lol. He wasn't financially buoyant like that either. And this his babe is pretty o, so much that a guy with car can easily snatch her from the dude. But despite the guy not having much, they stayed together and they are married now.

It depends on how you handle the girls too. This very guy does not call the babe often, he does not pet her, they could go weeks without seeing each other, despite living in the same LGA.

He is someone close to me and so I know.

SmartMen:


I would disagree with you here. It depends on how you go about it and the kind of girl. While I was going through the roller coaster with those girls and experiencing heartbreaks, I know a guy who dated his babe.

In all their dating years, I can tell you the babe didn't get up to 100k in total from him, while me on the other hand was losing money (not a lot of money though) to all the girls making a fool of me lol. He wasn't financially buoyant like that either. And this his babe is pretty o, so much that a guy with car can easily snatch her from the dude. But despite the guy not having much, they stayed together and they are married now.

It depends on how you handle the girls too. This very guy does not call the babe often, he does not pet her, they could go weeks without seeing each other, despite living in the same LGA.

He is someone close to me and so I know.

I totally agree with you. We still have good girls that still love a man who has nothing. But the percentage is very minimal.


And which you know if we are taking statistics, they won't be considered, because their number can not influence the truth on what women are truly.


Well, I am happy that you got who you understand and you are happy too.

What you passed through all these years would have made you a monster, but you did not.


I wish you a blissful union all together.

TimFisher2:


I totally agree with you. We still have good girls that still love a man who has nothing. But the percentage is very minimal.


And which you know if we are taking statistics, they won't be considered, because their number can not influence the truth on what women are truly.


Well, I am happy that you got who you understand and you are happy too.

What you passed through all these years would have made you a monster, but you did not.


I wish you a blissful union all together.

Thanks, man. It was nice having this chat with you as well. I enjoyed it.

SmartMen:
Thanks, man. It was nice having this chat with you as well. I enjoyed it.

Welcome man!


I recommend you start writing articles.


I like your long epistle, I thought I do write long epistle, but I have seen someone better than me.

TimFisher2:



Welcome man!


I recommend you start writing articles.


I like your long epistle, I thought I do write long epistle, but I have seen someone better than me.

HAHAHA... Na so those babe wey show me shege promax dey whyne me that that say I sabi write o.. lmaoo.

Well, I write when I feel the energy to do that.

SmartMen:


HAHAHA... Na so those babe wey show me shege promax dey whyne me that that say I sabi write o.. lmaoo.

Well, I write when I feel the energy to do that.

I am not a lady, I can't imagine the stress the women will be passing through. If they see your message, they will just sigh and say this one Don carry assignment textbook come.


It is very unfortunate that our present generation don't care about beautiful wordings. Instead of writing epistle from your heart, just send mulla from your pocket.


It is well bro.


I thank God you have learned.

TimFisher2:



I am not a lady, I can't imagine the stress the women will be passing through. If they see your message, they will just sigh and say this one Don carry assignment textbook come.


It is very unfortunate that our present generation don't care about beautiful wordings. Instead of writing epistle from your heart, just send mulla from your pocket.


It is well bro.


I thank God you have learned.

I swear. I would write from the heart and them go Dey use me do ye ye.

When I rebrand , all of them begin use style find me but I have moved on, not considering any of them at all.

Man, I suffered chai! But we thank God for everything.

SmartMen:


I swear. I would write from the heart and them go Dey use me do ye ye.

When I rebrand , all of them begin use style find me but I have moved on, not considering any of them at all.

Man, I suffered chai! But we thank God for everything.

Now you have the money and the swag


Why aren't you paying back?

TimFisher2:


Now you have the money and the swag

Why aren't you paying back?

lol, my brother, I don't have the energy, time, or money to waste on such people. At best, na furrk we go furrkkk and move on but ABSOLUTELY nothing to gain from it all.

And sex is not something I rate that much, and neither do I get attached to it.

I am a focused dude, I have always been serious about my life. When I calculate the time, money, and energy that could go into such an escapade, dude, I would rather give that money, especially, to people around me. I have never regretted doing that since I chose that path.

What I mean is that in the past, if you read the first post, you will see where I said I used to gift them but stopped after seeing how they perceived it. I wasn't doing it because I wanted to win them over. It is just who I am. So I started using my money wisely on myself and also helping the few around me.

In all of these, I learned that with women, less means more. You gain better results by spending your money on yourself than giving them.

Again less means more. Let me explain:

You will gain more respect in their eyes when you chat and do less, especially when they have chosen to be unreasonable. For instance, there is one I met in 2022 in my area and made move to date her, everything was going well until I wanted to kiss her.

I don't know when that turned into a crime, my brother. She started being unreasonable, disrespectful, and downright condescending. I didn't bulge. I kept doing things I should. She complained about her power bank, I took a mental note and bought a new one, on valentines day, I got her two solid female bags, on her birthday last year, when she wasn't around, I celebrated with her and got a cake delivered to her at her sister's place along with drinks...

The package got to her before 10am... by 5pm she never messaged me to even acknowledge it or anything until I reached out to her sister and asked if they hadn't received it and the elder sister confirmed that they had received it. I told the elder sister that the birthday babe didn't even reach out to acknowledge it. She promised that she would speak to her.

The birthday babe message me later but if you understand human psychology, you know a forced message when you see one.

Anyway, I knew it will be the last she would get from me after that day. I already earmarked that day as the last day because that is just how I operate. So after that day, I stopped everything, no more messages, no more calls. I just switched off

It is 2024 and her birthday happened a week ago. I saw it through her sister's whatsapp status and so I sent her a whatsapp message like this: "Happy Birthday". She responded with: "Thank you". I read it and didn't engage her further. No gift, no energy and no chat from me.

It is Sunday morning on 24/3/2024 and guess who just message me, trying to be all friendly and chatty? SAME GIRL.

Earlier this year, she messaged me to seek business information I shared with her in 2023. She said she lost it. I said okay, grabbed my phone and sent her Voice note to explain everything. She then said, can I ask something? I said go ahead. She said if I need some assistance on this (the information I gave her), can I reach out to you anytime? In my mind, I laughed and replied "sure"

I asked her how are her parents, and she said they were fine and added "I am around" cos she wanted me she was in our area cos she is doing her NYSC. In my mind, I laughed and said see this one. I didn't ask if you were around, I only asked about your parents. Sure, she had hoped I would say ah, let's meet and hang out but I just read her message and never replied that.

There was a time I asked her why did she block me on whatsapp, she explained that she didn't block me on whatsapp but unsaved my number blaha blah... I asked again why did you block me on tiktok and she said she does not know but just felt like.

Do you know what I what I replied after she said the above? JUST "OK"

Upon seeing my response, she proceeded to give a lengthy explanation for doing that. (I hope you understand what happened there as you read this line lol I can't explain it but it is just psychology at play).

She was expecting me to dwell on that, I just switched and changed the topic to "How are your parents" and that was when she said they were fine and mentioned that she was around but I didn't bother to engage her further bro...

LESS IS MORE!

Why am I not playing them back? As I explained above, it is not worth it and I have had fun shutting the door on them... I love it that way.

LESS IS MORE!

Happy Sunday bro.

SmartMen:


lol, my brother, I don't have the energy, time, or money to waste on such people. At best, na furrk we go furrkkk and move on but ABSOLUTELY nothing to gain from it all.

And sex is not something I rate that much, and neither do I get attached to it.

I am a focused dude, I have always been serious about my life. When I calculate the time, money, and energy that could go into such an escapade, dude, I would rather give that money, especially, to people around me. I have never regretted doing that since I chose that path.

What I mean is that in the past, if you read the first post, you will see where I said I used to gift them but stopped after seeing how they perceived it. I wasn't doing it because I wanted to win them over. It is just who I am. So I started using my money wisely on myself and also helping the few around me.

In all of these, I learned that with women, less means more. You gain better results by spending your money on yourself than giving them.

Again less means more. Let me explain:

You will gain more respect in their eyes when you chat and do less, especially when they have chosen to be unreasonable. For instance, there is one I met in 2022 in my area and made move to date her, everything was going well until I wanted to kiss her.

I don't know when that turned into a crime, my brother. She started being unreasonable, disrespectful, and downright condescending. I didn't bulge. I kept doing things I should. She complained about her power bank, I took a mental note and bought a new one, on valentines day, I got her two solid female bags, on her birthday last year, when she wasn't around, I celebrated with her and got a cake delivered to her at her sister's place along with drinks...

The package got to her before 10am... by 5pm she never messaged me to even acknowledge it or anything until I reached out to her sister and asked if they hadn't received it and the elder sister confirmed that they had received it. I told the elder sister that the birthday babe didn't even reach out to acknowledge it. She promised that she would speak to her.

The birthday babe message me later but if you understand human psychology, you know a forced message when you see one.

Anyway, I knew it will be the last she would get from me after that day. I already earmarked that day as the last day because that is just how I operate. So after that day, I stopped everything, no more messages, no more calls. I just switched off

It is 2024 and her birthday happened a week ago. I saw it through her sister's whatsapp status and so I sent her a whatsapp message like this: "Happy Birthday". She responded with: "Thank you". I read it and didn't engage her further. No gift, no energy and no chat from me.

It is Sunday morning on 24/3/2024 and guess who just message me, trying to be all friendly and chatty? SAME GIRL.

Earlier this year, she messaged me to seek business information I shared with her in 2023. She said she lost it. I said okay, grabbed my phone and sent her Voice note to explain everything. She then said, can I ask something? I said go ahead. She said if I need some assistance on this (the information I gave her), can I reach out to you anytime? In my mind, I laughed and replied "sure"

I asked her how are her parents, and she said they were fine and added "I am around" cos she wanted me she was in our area cos she is doing her NYSC. In my mind, I laughed and said see this one. I didn't ask if you were around, I only asked about your parents. Sure, she had hoped I would say ah, let's meet and hang out but I just read her message and never replied that.

There was a time I asked her why did she block me on whatsapp, she explained that she didn't block me on whatsapp but unsaved my number blaha blah... I asked again why did you block me on tiktok and she said she does not know but just felt like.

Do you know what I what I replied after she said the above? JUST "OK"

Upon seeing my response, she proceeded to give a lengthy explanation for doing that. (I hope you understand what happened there as you read this line lol I can't explain it but it is just psychology at play).

She was expecting me to dwell on that, I just switched and changed the topic to "How are your parents" and that was when she said they were fine and mentioned that she was around but I didn't bother to engage her further bro...

LESS IS MORE!

Why am I not playing them back? As I explained above, it is not worth it and I have had fun shutting the door on them... it that way.

LESS IS MORE!

Happy Sunday bro.

Hmm. I don't know why all these charlatans don't know what they have. You even have the courage to spend all these.


Someone like me, I will smell your hypocrisy within one or two days. I will just place you where you belong, because definitely i kjow you will come back. That's when I will do the finally placing


What I hate in life is those that are not appreciative, for her mind she is just an angel, you will keep worshiping all the time.


I keep telling guys, don't force yourself on any girl that doesn't rate you. Don't think you will win over her. That's pure lie, but even if you do that because of your money power, maybe you did what no guy has even done. Mark me, you won't enjoy that union. At any giving time you will just be collecting insult here and there, because one thing was lacking. ..which was love. She was never in love with you.


So why will I spend my hard earned money on Idiots! God forbid I should do that. I might decide to tempt you in one or two sittings, let me know the kind of person you are.


It won't pass two testing, your entitlement spirit will just pop out. I will now do you the final placing.

Next time, stop spending like this. You are the one giving them this maximum leverage to ride over you.


Imagine the boldness to write to me to ask for business plan, I will just read and not respond. Well she has been looking for means to connect back that to you. That business plan was just a hoax. Person wey no dey serious with her life dey look for what is not there


Na now she wake up to do business.


All these werey girls sef

Tif

TimFisher2:




Hmm. I don't know why all these charlatans don't know what they have. You even have the courage to spend all these.


Someone like me, I will smell your hypocrisy within one or two days. I will just place you where you belong, because definitely i kjow you will come back. That's when I will do the finally placing


What I hate in life is those that are not appreciative, for her mind she is just an angel, you will keep worshiping all the time.


I keep telling guys, don't force yourself on any girl that doesn't rate you. Don't think you will win over her. That's pure lie, but even if you do that because of your money power, maybe you did what no guy has even done. Mark me, you won't enjoy that union. At any giving time you will just be collecting insult here and there, because one thing was lacking. ..which was love. She was never in love with you.


So why will I spend my hard earned money on Idiots! God forbid I should do that. I might decide to tempt you in one or two sittings, let me know the kind of person you are.


It won't pass two testing, your entitlement spirit will just pop out. I will now do you the final placing.

Next time, stop spending like this. You are the one giving them this maximum leverage to ride over you.


Imagine the boldness to write to me to ask for business plan, I will just read and not respond. Well she has been looking for means to connect back that to you. That business plan was just a hoax. Person wey no dey serious with her life dey look for what is not there


Na now she wake up to do business.


All these werey girls sef

Like you said in the emboldened: "Well she has been looking for means to connect back that to you. That business plan was just a hoax."

I am glad you saw this and also mentioned it. I didn't want to explicitly say it. It means you can read between the lines.

Let me tell you why she hasn't come out fully like the other ones. She is the youngest among them and she feels because she is still young, she can always get guys, she still has time. That seems to be where her pride is hindering her from doing it like others.

They employ different kinds of tactics when they want to reconnect back to you... like DIFFERENT KINDS. I can smell it from afar, even the most subtle one. I have seen that movie and moves too many times not to be able to smell it.

Why do they always try to come back to me?

The reason is all those times they were rubbishing me, THEY KNEW I WAS A GREAT DUDE. They always knew.

So if you are a nice guy and being reasonable while they are being unreasonable... DO NOT EXPEND more energy trying to make them change. They will never change and it will get worse. In all that madness of disrespect that they are displaying to you, THEY KNOW YOU ARE A GREAT GUY. And that means, they are very much aware of what they are doing. It is all intentional. The best thing to do is PULL OUT of it all.

I always set a limit for every one of them. Once they exhaust it, I am out and never looking back.

Why do they choose to behave that way, even with all your effort of trying to iron out things for peace to reign (I did this with the business proposal babe), it is because they feel that acting that way and you trying to appease them means they are high babe, even when they are nothing. It is like cocaine that makes them high.

So she thought I would continue to feed her that "highness" and it came as a shock that I switched off without a word.

SmartMen:



Like you said in the emboldened: "Well she has been looking for means to connect back that to you. That business plan was just a hoax."

I am glad you saw this and also mentioned it. I didn't want to explicitly say it. It means you can read between the lines.

Let me tell you why she hasn't come out fully like the other ones. She is the youngest among them and she feels because she is still young, she can always get guys, she still has time. That seems to be where her pride is hindering her from doing it like others.

They employ different kinds of tactics when they want to reconnect back to you... like DIFFERENT KINDS. I can smell it from afar, even the most subtle one. I have seen that movie and moves too many times not to be able to smell it.

Why do they always try to come back to me?

The reason is all those times they were rubbishing me, THEY KNEW I WAS A GREAT DUDE. They always knew.

So if you are a nice guy and being reasonable while they are being unreasonable... DO NOT EXPEND more energy trying to make them change. They will never change and it will get worse. In all that madness of disrespect that they are displaying to you, THEY KNOW YOU ARE A GREAT GUY. And that means, they are very much aware of what they are doing. It is all intentional. The best thing to do is PULL OUT of it all.

I always set a limit for every one of them. Once they exhaust it, I am out and never looking back.

Why do they choose to behave that way, even with all your effort of trying to iron out things for peace to reign (I did this with the business proposal babe), it is because they feel that acting that way and you trying to appease them means they are high babe, even when they are nothing. It is like cocaine that makes them high.

So she thought I would continue to feed her that "highness" and it came as a shock that I switched off without a word.

Let me tell you why she hasn't come out fully like the other ones. She is the youngest among them and she feels because she is still young, she can always get guys, she still has time. That seems to be where her pride is hindering her from doing it like others.


Wow you must have read a lot of book or must have had a hard teaching pill from women


You seem to know more about them as they thought they knew themselves.

I like the bolded words of yours.

You also see this one too...is really killing them . it is because they feel that acting that way and you trying to appease them means they are high babe, even when they are nothing. It is like cocaine that makes them high.


Thanks bro. You have done a lot. I wish alot of guys will learn from your indepth analysis and perfect their game and restore the confidence of their manliness rather than sucking around like a sheep.

TimFisher2:


Let me tell you why she hasn't come out fully like the other ones. She is the youngest among them and she feels because she is still young, she can always get guys, she still has time. That seems to be where her pride is hindering her from doing it like others.


Wow you must have read a lot of book or must have had a hard teaching pill from women


You seem to know more about them as they thought they knew themselves.

I like the bolded words of yours.

You also see this one too...is really killing them . it is because they feel that acting that way and you trying to appease them means they are high babe, even when they are nothing. It is like cocaine that makes them high.


Thanks bro. You have done a lot. I wish alot of guys will learn from your indepth analysis and perfect their game and restore the confidence of their manliness rather than sucking around like a sheep.

All guys just need to do to pull themselves out of it is:

1. Have an abundant mindset: You should accept the fact that there are thousands of women who can replace one. Do not allow any lady to disrespect you for too long without replacing her.

It is a scarcity mindset that makes many men (myself included) tolerate badly behaved ladies for too long.

How did I cure mine? How did I overcome the scarcity mindset? My cousin, as I said before, helped me cure it by forcing me to go out more, something I rarely did previously.

We as humans are made to be SEEN. You must not deny yourself that purpose. BE SEEN and let the world around you see your light shine so brightly.

You know, as I said previously, I grew up in a family of men (Benin Men) who womanize very well. Benin boys are badass when it comes to this... But my Anambra blood had a strong influence on me. Igbo men just love to spoil women. It is an open secret that if an Igbo man likes a woman, he is hardly stingy. And this is why they call us simp

Anyway, my Benin cousin came and pushed me. He is in Canada now though. And because my uncles used to change women anyhow, IF YOU hear where they are discussing women back then, your jaws will drop.

However, even though I didn't pick the womanizing characteristics from them, I picked one valuable skill and that skill is the ability to spot a gorgeous lady in a split second. I kid you not. I could do this with 1-3 seconds while in a crowd. I learned this even before I was 12 just by listening to conversations of adults. Be careful what you say in front of kids

So whenever I was out, in a crowded environment (something I wasn't doing before) and started seeing at least 1-3 different really pretty ladies in every 10 that past 3-5 minutes, it dawned on me how much disservice I had done to myself. That was the turning point that helped me break off the scarcity mindset.

By then I had rebranded and when I strike up conversations with ladies, the kind of response I got showed I had something women wanted... That was it.

Now, some guys may be shy and find it hard to strike up conversations with women. See, women love to be approached. They expect it, they desire it, they want it and they are often excited when you walk up to them. When you approach them, it makes them feel desired and social currency wealthy.


If your head goes blank when you want to approach a girl, don't overthink it. Find anything around her to start the conversation. It could be her sunshade, it could be her hair, it could be her clothes, her shoes, her nail, or anything at all around her.

I was at a mall last week to get some stuff, on my out I saw 3 pretty but young girls and one of them had a baked cake, supposedly for a birthday. I and my guy had passed when I turned and said "Am I invited?" One of them turned and smiled at me. As simple as that, I could have proceeded to ask for the venue and when it is the occasion happening and then asked for her name and phone number but she is a teenager from my observation and there was no point. I just waved and walked away.

Also use this YouTube channel to help if you are having challenges approaching women or strangers: https://www.youtube.com/@socialanimal

2. I didn't read a lot of books on women. The shege I had received from the school of hard knocks was enough for me. My problem was that I wasn't really paying attention despite receiving so much free lecture from my close friend. Every time he advises, I act like I have heard and discard it when I am with the ladies.

And the reason I did that was that was because I had one fundamental assumption, a fatal one: I had erroneously ASSUMED that women are harmless creatures and this caused me to always let down my guard every time without defense but now.

It was an experience with one Akwa Ibom babe that was the last straw. It was the encounter with her, after revealing what happened to my friend, that I found out there is something called "love bomb" or "love bombing" Damn... Google "Love bombing"

I turned YouTube channels upside down for 3-4 months, I was there. After that, I rebranded and changed everything about me...same Akwa Ibom babe started coming to look for me after seeing new pictures of me from different places, including seeing me with other girls lol.

She eventually begged sha but like all others, I don't forgive them, i DON'T take them back, I don't do second chance.

SmartMen:


All guys just need to do to pull themselves out of it is:

1. Have an abundant mindset: You should accept the fact that there are thousands of women who can replace one. Do not allow any lady to disrespect you for too long without replacing her.

It is a scarcity mindset that makes many men (myself included) tolerate badly behaved ladies for too long.

How did I cure mine? How did I overcome the scarcity mindset? My cousin, as I said before, helped me cure it by forcing me to go out more, something I rarely did previously.

We as humans are made to be SEEN. You must not deny yourself that purpose. BE SEEN and let the world around you see your light shine so brightly.

You know, as I said previously, I grew up in a family of men (Benin Men) who womanize very well. Benin boys are badass when it comes to this... But my Anambra blood had a strong influence on me. Igbo men just love to spoil women. It is an open secret that if an Igbo man likes a woman, he is hardly stingy. And this is why they call us simp

Anyway, my Benin cousin came and pushed me. He is in Canada now though. And because my uncles used to change women anyhow, IF YOU hear where they are discussing women back then, your jaws will drop.

However, even though I didn't pick the womanizing characteristics from them, I picked one valuable skill and that skill is the ability to spot a gorgeous lady in a split second. I kid you not. I could do this with 1-3 seconds while in a crowd. I learned this even before I was 12 just by listening to conversations of adults. Be careful what you say in front of kids

So whenever I was out, in a crowded environment (something I wasn't doing before) and started seeing at least 1-3 different really pretty ladies in every 10 that past 3-5 minutes, it dawned on me how much disservice I had done to myself. That was the turning point that helped me break off the scarcity mindset.

By then I had rebranded and when I strike up conversations with ladies, the kind of response I got showed I had something women wanted... That was it.

Now, some guys may be shy and find it hard to strike up conversations with women. See, women love to be approached. They expect it, they desire it, they want it and they are often excited when you walk up to them. When you approach them, it makes them feel desired and social currency wealthy.


If your head goes blank when you want to approach a girl, don't overthink it. Find anything around her to start the conversation. It could be her sunshade, it could be her hair, it could be her clothes, her shoes, her nail, or anything at all around her.

I was at a mall last week to get some stuff, on my out I saw 3 pretty but young girls and one of them had a baked cake, supposedly for a birthday. I and my guy had passed when I turned and said "Am I invited?" One of them turned and smiled at me. As simple as that, I could have proceeded to ask for the venue and when it is the occasion happening and then asked for her name and phone number but she is a teenager from my observation and there was no point. I just waved and walked away.

Also use this YouTube channel to help if you are having challenges approaching women or strangers: https://www.youtube.com/@socialanimal

2. I didn't read a lot of books on women. The shege I had received from the school of hard knocks was enough for me. My problem was that I wasn't really paying attention despite receiving so much free lecture from my close friend. Every time he advises, I act like I have heard and discard it when I am with the ladies.

And the reason I did that was that was because I had one fundamental assumption, a fatal one: I had erroneously ASSUMED that women are harmless creatures and this caused me to always let down my guard every time without defense but now.

It was an experience with one Akwa Ibom babe that was the last straw. It was the encounter with her, after revealing what happened to my friend, that I found out there is something called "love bomb" or "love bombing" Damn... Google "Love bombing"

I turned YouTube channels upside down for 3-4 months, I was there. After that, I rebranded and changed everything about me...same Akwa Ibom babe started coming to look for me after seeing new pictures of me from different places, including seeing me with other girls lol.

She eventually begged sha but like all others, I don't forgive them, i DON'T take them back, I don't do second chance.

We need to hold a seminar


Our guys needs to be liberated.

TimFisher2:






We need to hold a seminar


Our guys needs to be liberated.

I agree man. I really agree 😂

SmartMen:


I agree man. I really agree 😂

But how do you write all these lengthy post without getting tired

EreluRoz:
Few years back this man tried to make advances at me but was not bold enough to do so but he kept gifting me different things and crediting my account of which I never asked for. He was familiarizing with people around me and comes to our house to greet my mom because he lives nearby, will call me to greet me before going and all those unnecessary famzing. But he never had that boldness to ask me out.

On my part I never demanded anything from him and whenever I want to reject his gifts and cash I couldn't because it always comes at the right time. I can't count the number of times I have sworn never to accept his gifts and cash but never for once did I keep to my words because he's gifted in sending cash and gifts at the perfect time.

This man is very unattractive to me, like that man you'll not even want anybody to see you standing with , so it has never even crossed my mind to have anything with him. So I summoned courage one day and text him to stop all those univited visits and stop wasting his time because I can never date someone like him(I was young and said some nasty things I regretted later) and unfortunately his cousins saw my nasty message to him, told others and they all wear this scornful looks whenever they see me as I later learnt my message caused problems in their house. Well, he stopped coming to our house, he relocated to a new place as I learnt he got a job that took him away from our location.

I never felt remorseful about all I did to him till recently as I'm now older and wiser. So, I was somewhere doing something and he also came there and saw me first, I was expecting a very cold reaction from him but he immediately came over and was very happy to see me, started gisting and all that, I gave him attention just to make up for my earlier bad attitude, I apologized over how I treated him and he said it's nothing that he's not holding anything against me as I was very young then. Before I say jerk he went to his car and gave me some bundles of cash, requested for my account number and he won't even accept my refusal to give him. So that's how this man resumed sending me money again, infact he's obviously now richer because if I mentioned the alert I always receive from this man nobody will believe me here. I narrated everything to my brother because he knew all I did to him back then, my brother started calling him fool which I felt bad and cautioned him to stop.

Now this man has not made any advances or wooed me but he's already acting more than a partner, infact I feel so guilty each time I see his alerts and calls. God knows I can never date him but I'm beginning to be so uncomfortable with all these. Let me not lie, it's so hard to reject his money as it usually comes at the right time.

Let me also add that he later got married but his wife left him few years into their marriage.

Honestly I'm tired and want to be free from all these.

Please am I at fault here? Or is he God sent to ease me at my times of need? Why am I feeling so guilty even though I have never requested anything from him?
Am I in trouble and what will be the end result of all these?

Scam

EreluRoz:
I feel if I should start saying what does he want or so, it'll now give him that boldness to start wooing which will annoy the hell out of me, so I planned telling my mom the huge amount of money he sent to me and my mom will now use that opportunity to set everything straight, but I hope it won't bruise his ego.
I know I'll miss his money and gifts but I'll have to close eyes and end it so I can be free from any form of guilt

he gives you money and you gladly accept them ... You think he needs boldness to woo you ..

.. dey play...

Mom007:
He is either your God ordained husband or your destiny helper. Go on a fast and ask God which one.

i think the 1st one covers for the two ..

SmartMen:


I would disagree with you here. It depends on how you go about it and the kind of girl. While I was going through the roller coaster with those girls and experiencing heartbreaks, I know a guy who dated his babe.

In all their dating years, I can tell you the babe didn't get up to 100k in total from him, while me on the other hand was losing money (not a lot of money though) to all the girls making a fool of me lol. He wasn't financially buoyant like that either. And this his babe is pretty o, so much that a guy with car can easily snatch her from the dude. But despite the guy not having much, they stayed together and they are married now.

It depends on how you handle the girls too. This very guy does not call the babe often, he does not pet her, they could go weeks without seeing each other, despite living in the same LGA.

He is someone close to me and so I know.

hahaha .. just the same kind of situationship I'm finding myself in ... She does most of the calling. She has been visiting every weekend without me squeezing tfare in her palms and I don't even know the streets of where she lives ... Inshort she's the one practically pushing for something to happen while I don't really give a shiit ... I wouldn't say I don't like her but I'm not exactly attracted to her .. She knows this and she's still coming on to me with full force ...


The only part I've been helping her on cause I don't want to hurt her is me shagging the living daylight out of her ... That, I've holding back on cause she seems like a good girl..

We could end up being an item though .. I hope we do for the sake of her...