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My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by Opanka44(m): 6:24pm On Mar 27 |
I'm tired of been in silence. I am on the brink of losing it. I don't intend questioning God almighty, but I'm now compelled to ask some fundamental questions. Why Did God create us without our conscents, brings us here and see us suffer all forms of hardships and pains as if we chose all that? I lost my dad when I was 9 years old. Myself & four siblings were shared out to our uncles and aunts after his burial. We stayed and helped out as housemaids in their respective houses. My own experience was extremely tough as I vowed that I will never in this life give my child to another person to help take care when I get married. People can be so cruel. Immediately I got into my Anty's house, I become a houseboy. I would mop, wash the plates, go to the market, fetch water from far-away deep wells, wash pit toilets and go to sch every morning without food to eat. I was still being constantly insulted by my aunt and her children. I wouldn't be allowed to sit or go near where my aunt and her children were sitted. This woman never paid my fee for once, but I was doing all these for her. My mum would cry anytime she heard all the treatment meted out to me as she couldn't save the situation at that time. She even asked me to return to the village and be schooling, but I objected since there were no good schools in the village. I decided to suffer and get the education I wanted. My fee was just #500 at the time, so every holiday, I would go to wood deport and trash wood dust with a wheel barrow and get paid. I would save in a mini Saving box until I get my complete fee. Some times, my aunt would ask me to lend her money and I dare not say No. Psychologically, I got really affected. I felt hated by the world. I questioned God, but no answers came. My confidence in sch was lacking as I couldn't talk in class or relate freely with my peers. I was so shy and had inferiority complex. But I was brilliant. After my WAEC, I already had ulcer. I vowed never to school further again cos I had no helper. I had great waec result and was moved to go further when I saw my mates gaining admissions into higher institutions of learning. I left my aunt's house and traveled to Kano to go Hussle. I hussled for five years and saved then wrote jamb, got admission and went to sch. Today I am a graduate by God's grace. After all these travails, I thought God would bless me for my perseverance at least, but why am I still struggling this badly? Struggling so terribly. I can't feed, no good job except teaching in a private sch and been paid 30k here in Abuja. From this 30k, I pay rent, help my siblings and Mum. How can I survive? Where is God? The debts on my head is too much, I have faced lots of financial embarrassements due to debts. Sometime ago, loan sharks embarrassed me online. Now, people I owe foodstuffs money are coming for my head. The embarrassment is unbearable. I brought this here because I can no longer stomach it. I am tired. |
Re: My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by Zwooks: 6:26pm On Mar 27 |
Your age? I have been seeing your notes for some time. Take it easy. Night time will end. Post me your bank account 1 Like |
Re: My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by Opanka44(m): 6:28pm On Mar 27 |
Zwooks: 32 sir |
Re: My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by Opanka44(m): 6:37pm On Mar 27 |
Zwooks:I'm 32 Sir Thank u Sir. God bless. 14 87 50 63 79 John Lanen Access Bank |
Re: My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by Dubetex96(m): 7:13pm On Mar 27 |
Very sad indeed brother but what can i say? Sometimes we found ourselves in an unpleasant situation that will made us to question our existence here on earth. 1 Like |
Re: My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by Opanka44(m): 7:18pm On Mar 27 |
Dubetex96: At times, I feel God is partial and selective in his choice of individuals becoming successful in Life. I'm even scared to traveling to live in people's houses for a week cos I feel I will be maltreated |
Re: My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by capnies: 8:27pm On Mar 27 |
LEARN A TRADE, THATS THE SOLUTION, ANY MONEY GIVEN TO YOU WILL FINISH YOU CAN BE TEACHING IN THAT SCHOOL AND STILL LEARN THE TRADE. Visit the owner of the trade you like, tell him you want to learn but you don't have money, many will want to help, some are even looking for boys, because this days our youths fine it difficult learning a trade. TRY IT AN GOD WILL HELP YOUR EFFORT WITH SUCCESS DON'T FORGET TO ASK GOD FOR DIRECTION BEFORE YOU MOVE. GOD EXIST BUT WE MISS IT WHEN WE THINK THAT RICHES IS WHAT HE WANTS TO GIVE US. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and good life will come to you.. |
Re: My Plights, My Predicaments And Travails by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:50pm On Mar 27 |
Opanka44: ALL THESE ONLINE SCAMMERS WITH THEIR YEYE FAKE SOB STORIES BEGGING FOR HANDOUTS TO THEREAFTER USE THE FUNDS FOR BETTING!!!! the above scammer is john aondofa LANEN and you can easily see all his previous profiles with various yeye begging stories below (with same account number in red bold): Ismael97: MisterBanny: Flick490: Flick490: here below is also the OP posting another yeye begging story with a different account # Opanka44: same account used by the below other profiles with yeye fake begging stories: MisterBanny: Mitchy49: Flapp478: Nicholaspepe: ...and if still in doubt, here is the OP posting yeye fake sob stories back in 2022 (with another account # but same name as above): Nicholaspepe: 2 Likes |
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