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How Do You Guys Do This by Anobella: 11:56pm On Mar 26
I HAVE HEARD SO MANY STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO WERE ABLE TO DEFEAT MASTURBATION . I AM A CHRONIC ADDICT AND IT SADENS ME WHENEVER I REMBER THAT I CANT GO A WEEK WITHOUT IT. THE PROBLEM NOW IS I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR LONG 10YRS NOW THAT I HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVEN AFTER D DO I STILL FIND A WAY TO PLEASE MYSELF BY MYSELF . I THINK I NEED A THERAPIST GUYS HOW DO YOU GUYS GO ABOUT IT. I AM NOT AN IDLE PERSON I AM ALWAYS BUSY BUT I STILL FIND MYSELF CREATING TIME FOR D DO. I FEEL PAINS AROUND MY BODY SOMETIMES AFTER THIS ACT BUT I STILL DO IT. I AM EVEN SCARED I MIGHT DIE SOON . I THINK I NED A THERAPIST OR SOMETHING . HOW DO YOU GUYS STOP THIS BAD ACT PLS I NEED ADVICE.
I DONT CONSUME PORN ANYMORE BUT IT LEAVES RENT FREE IN MY HEAD

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by MaziObinnaokija: 12:01am On Mar 27
Masturbation will stop the day u tell urself enuf Is enuf.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Dimaya: 12:02am On Mar 27
Hmmn
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Anobella: 12:08am On Mar 27
MaziObinnaokija:
Masturbation will stop the day u tell urself enuf I'd enuf.

I try to but I feel like it's a spirit inside of me pushing me to do it.. I was even thinking of going to church for deliverance

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by MaziObinnaokija: 1:02am On Mar 27
U sad yeah! It is the Spirit.But the day u make a vow to STOP,U'll be free.
Anobella:


I try to but I feel like it's a spirit inside of me pushing me to do it.. I was even thinking of going to church for deliverance

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by everythingtall3: 1:29am On Mar 27
just be productive with your life , find a way to be productive outside your private home... masturbate when ever you feel sexual urge and there's no woman around. A man produces millions of sperm per minute, its not meant to be kept in your body. If we weren't leaving in the artificial age, you would have 5 wives by now taking care of your sexual need.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Starboytwo(m): 1:50am On Mar 27
Baba carry ON. Nothing do you.

Satisfy yourself by yourself.

Country hard.

Dollar high

Food cost.

Abeg. Fap Fap fap

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Xenry: 3:00am On Mar 27
You need to develop a tough mindset.
Make up your mind and act on it.
The only thing you can truly control is your mind, so why do you allow it to be controlled by your feelings?
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Caleb15(m): 10:02am On Mar 27
Do you use vaseline or groundnut oil?
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Dundalk(m): 10:08am On Mar 27
everythingtall3:
just be productive with your life , find a way to be productive outside your private home... masturbate when ever you feel sexual urge and there's no woman around. A man produces millions of sperm per minute, its not meant to be kept in your body. If we weren't leaving in the artificial age, you would have 5 wives by now taking care of your sexual need.
don't fuel someone's addiction, masturbation is evil thing, it ruined..

That thing is silent killer, destiny killer again..

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Natbrowny: 10:12am On Mar 27
Nothing special in stopping. No blueprint whatsoever.

Its all about you vs you.

When u wanna stop. Its all YOU.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by everythingtall3: 10:16am On Mar 27
it is Nigerian economy that kills not masturbation. I know many people outside Nigeria who are chronic masturb.... and they are doing well in life. I masturbate too and you don't want to know things i've achieved in this life.

If you have a good system , good library to read or do your computer works in public without thinking of xvideo at home. You will do exceedingly well in life.

Our level of telesterion is different, I wonder which jail I would be today if not for masturbation. I'm not addicted to it in any way , but I do it and i'm not shy about it.

Dundalk:
don't fuel someone's addiction, masturbation is evil thing, it ruined..

That thing is silent killer, destiny killer again..

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Dundalk(m): 10:20am On Mar 27
everythingtall3:
it is Nigerian economy that kills not masturbation. I know many people outside Nigeria who are chronic masturb.... and they are doing well in life. I masturbate too and you don't want to know things i've achieved in this life.

If you have a good system , good library to read or do your computer works in public without thinking of xvideo at home. You will do exceedingly well in life.

Our level of telesterion is different, I wonder which jail I would be today if not for masturbation. I'm not addicted to it in any way , but I do it and i'm not shy about it.

I knew.. Including me I don't know where I would be if not masturbation, [b]but if someone intended to leave don't discouraged him, or tell him negative taught.. [/b]Pls don't be offended I got your point..
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by everythingtall3: 10:28am On Mar 27
Not offended ... cheers
Dundalk:
I knew.. Including me I don't know where I would be if not masturbation, [b]but if someone intended to leave don't discouraged him, or tell him negative taught.. [/b]Pls don't be offended I got your point..
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by chatinent: 10:48am On Mar 27
Do it like eight times a day. Your mind go dey
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by terrezo2002(m): 11:52am On Mar 27
Anobella:
I HAVE HEARD SO MANY STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO WERE ABLE TO DEFEAT MASTURBATION . I AM A CHRONIC ADDICT AND IT SADENS ME WHENEVER I REMBER THAT I CANT GO A WEEK WITHOUT IT. THE PROBLEM NOW IS I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR LONG 10YRS NOW THAT I HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVEN AFTER D DO I STILL FIND A WAY TO PLEASE MYSELF BY MYSELF . I THINK I NEED A THERAPIST GUYS HOW DO YOU GUYS GO ABOUT IT. I AM NOT AN IDLE PERSON I AM ALWAYS BUSY BUT I STILL FIND MYSELF CREATING TIME FOR D DO. I FEEL PAINS AROUND MY BODY SOMETIMES AFTER THIS ACT BUT I STILL DO IT. I AM EVEN SCARED I MIGHT DIE SOON . I THINK I NED A THERAPIST OR SOMETHING . HOW DO YOU GUYS STOP THIS BAD ACT PLS I NEED ADVICE.
I DONT CONSUME PORN ANYMORE BUT IT LEAVES RENT FREE IN MY HEAD
If I tell you that you are being controlled by a demon, you will say these religious people have come again.
Let me wait for you to figure it out yourself.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by okoroemeka(m): 12:02pm On Mar 27
Anobella:
I HAVE HEARD SO MANY STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO WERE ABLE TO DEFEAT MASTURBATION . I AM A CHRONIC ADDICT AND IT SADENS ME WHENEVER I REMBER THAT I CANT GO A WEEK WITHOUT IT. THE PROBLEM NOW IS I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR LONG 10YRS NOW THAT I HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVEN AFTER D DO I STILL FIND A WAY TO PLEASE MYSELF BY MYSELF . I THINK I NEED A THERAPIST GUYS HOW DO YOU GUYS GO ABOUT IT. I AM NOT AN IDLE PERSON I AM ALWAYS BUSY BUT I STILL FIND MYSELF CREATING TIME FOR D DO. I FEEL PAINS AROUND MY BODY SOMETIMES AFTER THIS ACT BUT I STILL DO IT. I AM EVEN SCARED I MIGHT DIE SOON . I THINK I NED A THERAPIST OR SOMETHING . HOW DO YOU GUYS STOP THIS BAD ACT PLS I NEED ADVICE.
I DONT CONSUME PORN ANYMORE BUT IT LEAVES RENT FREE IN MY HEAD
first you must realize that masturbation is killing i your sexual drive,a stage will reach were you will UnCloth a girl and your dick will refuse to work,infact it will not work again with women or less you masturbate,so have that in mind.
Secondly you must get a girlfriend that is sexy and can easily match your libido,masturbation does not give that satisfaction or drains the body physically and mentally than real sex,hot sex with a Hot girl will leave you drained for some days but I know people that masturbate 3 times daily but try to knack a woman 3 times daily for one week and you will know how far,just get a hot gir or hot girlsl and you will forget about masturbation

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by capnies: 6:16pm On Mar 27
TURN TO GOD; THE ONLY AND SURE WAY TO BE FREE OF ANY ADDICTION.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by 190: 6:19pm On Mar 27
Try watch sasha london or lacey london tonight grin
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by MyExpression(m): 6:51pm On Mar 27
everythingtall3:
it is Nigerian economy that kills not masturbation. I know many people outside Nigeria who are chronic masturb.... and they are doing well in life. I masturbate too and you don't want to know things i've achieved in this life.

If you have a good system , good library to read or do your computer works in public without thinking of xvideo at home. You will do exceedingly well in life.

Our level of telesterion is different, I wonder which jail I would be today if not for masturbation. I'm not addicted to it in any way , but I do it and i'm not shy about it.


Do you indulge in sex EVERYTIME you have the urge and can afford to?
No, you sometimes restrain yourself.

And you can go for a whole year restraining yourself.

I'll believe your claim of not being addicted, if you do go a full month or years without it.

Just like occasional drinkers of alcohol...we drink alcohol, but we can go a whole year without drinking.
Can you do the same for your masturbatikn urge?

If no, then Masturbation is controlling you.

As is his case, it is controlling him in an unhealthy way.
If you cannot mean No, when you say No, then you need help.

Whichever way, the mind controls your outlook on life.
Change your mind, change your life...the routine of vices will stop if you're strong enough to starve it.
When you say No, you have a 3-seconds window to consider it again or discard it.
Fight it in your head...say No, and move away instantly to another activity that will take your mind off of it.

The first No might need a Strong WHY.
...but you'll keep saying No for the next 1year straight...and saying No becomes easy.
Trust me, after 1year, you will feel so free like you were never a victim.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Tombrown3(m): 7:40pm On Mar 27
Anobella:
I HAVE HEARD SO MANY STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO WERE ABLE TO DEFEAT MASTURBATION . I AM A CHRONIC ADDICT AND IT SADENS ME WHENEVER I REMBER THAT I CANT GO A WEEK WITHOUT IT. THE PROBLEM NOW IS I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR LONG 10YRS NOW THAT I HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVEN AFTER D DO I STILL FIND A WAY TO PLEASE MYSELF BY MYSELF . I THINK I NEED A THERAPIST GUYS HOW DO YOU GUYS GO ABOUT IT. I AM NOT AN IDLE PERSON I AM ALWAYS BUSY BUT I STILL FIND MYSELF CREATING TIME FOR D DO. I FEEL PAINS AROUND MY BODY SOMETIMES AFTER THIS ACT BUT I STILL DO IT. I AM EVEN SCARED I MIGHT DIE SOON . I THINK I NED A THERAPIST OR SOMETHING . HOW DO YOU GUYS STOP THIS BAD ACT PLS I NEED ADVICE.
I DONT CONSUME PORN ANYMORE BUT IT LEAVES RENT FREE IN MY HEAD

The problem here is not masturbation but rather your mindset.

An average male produces over 1500 sperm cells each second. (Imagine that for a minute)

Your biological need as a male will always kick in, you can't shy away from it. You are demonizing it and, it's like someone who's addicted to sleeping alot. Do you know how hard you'll try to avoid sleeping for 48 hours?

Like I said, you mindset is the problem.

The first way to stop any addiction is to ask yourself, or come to self realization to know the effect of the addiction in YOU.

The only effect I know is TEMPORAL erectile dysfunction, but this can be cured by just avoiding ejaculation for 1/2 weeks.
Let me just give you a tip on how to manage it.

Masturbate twice a week, and mean just twice.
Do it on Wednesday, hold yourself till maybe Sunday. Just make sure you have 2 to 3 days gap.

During this days you want to masturbate, always enjoy it, feel as if you are rewarding yourself for the days you abstained from it. During that last hours of your "Do" day, make sure you empty all your balls.

Wake up the next morning, go do your regular activities knowing you have till another 2 or 3 days to have that enjoyment again. STOP DEMONIZING IT!!!

The first week might be rough and hard, but you will get there gradually. Avoid pornography during your "NO" day to avoid stimulation of any kind. You can always go back to stuff that sexually stimulated you during your "Do" day and self-service off!!! 😎

I don't want to bore you more with writeups, send me a mail let me help you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Anobella: 9:03pm On Mar 27
terrezo2002:

If I tell you that you are being controlled by a demon, you will say these religious people have come again.
Let me wait for you to figure it out yourself.

I believe this I made my research and I think it's called incubus and succubus
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Adewale1603(m): 9:27pm On Mar 27
Anobella:
I HAVE HEARD SO MANY STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO WERE ABLE TO DEFEAT MASTURBATION . I AM A CHRONIC ADDICT AND IT SADENS ME WHENEVER I REMBER THAT I CANT GO A WEEK WITHOUT IT. THE PROBLEM NOW IS I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR LONG 10YRS NOW THAT I HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVEN AFTER D DO I STILL FIND A WAY TO PLEASE MYSELF BY MYSELF . I THINK I NEED A THERAPIST GUYS HOW DO YOU GUYS GO ABOUT IT. I AM NOT AN IDLE PERSON I AM ALWAYS BUSY BUT I STILL FIND MYSELF CREATING TIME FOR D DO. I FEEL PAINS AROUND MY BODY SOMETIMES AFTER THIS ACT BUT I STILL DO IT. I AM EVEN SCARED I MIGHT DIE SOON . I THINK I NED A THERAPIST OR SOMETHING . HOW DO YOU GUYS STOP THIS BAD ACT PLS I NEED ADVICE.
I DONT CONSUME PORN ANYMORE BUT IT LEAVES RENT FREE IN MY HEAD
stories of people saying that they defeat masturbation is not true and I don't even believe it, the only way you can defeat masturbation is to be an enuch, be permanently castrated, or cut your dicks off. Cos as a man, that have a perfect functioning testosterone hormones, the hormones are in your body system and will always give you the urges to have sex or masturbates and control you, nothing you can do about it. Those people claiming that they defeated masturbation are initially a chronic addicts before, and it's the level of addiction that they defeated not masturbation entirely, being a chronic addicts to something is different entirely.
Masturbation is perfectly normal, heathy and okay, being addicted to it is what is not normal. So you need to work on your addictions.
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by durasome(m): 9:35pm On Mar 27
terrezo2002:

If I tell you that you are being controlled by a demon, you will say these religious people have come again.
Let me wait for you to figure it out yourself.
. every bad thing you do in your life has a demon pushing you to it, so it's not only masturbation habit

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by everythingtall3: 2:16am On Mar 28

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_VMGnylUdRU


Anobella:
I HAVE HEARD SO MANY STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO WERE ABLE TO DEFEAT MASTURBATION . I AM A CHRONIC ADDICT AND IT SADENS ME WHENEVER I REMBER THAT I CANT GO A WEEK WITHOUT IT. THE PROBLEM NOW IS I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR LONG 10YRS NOW THAT I HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVEN AFTER D DO I STILL FIND A WAY TO PLEASE MYSELF BY MYSELF . I THINK I NEED A THERAPIST GUYS HOW DO YOU GUYS GO ABOUT IT. I AM NOT AN IDLE PERSON I AM ALWAYS BUSY BUT I STILL FIND MYSELF CREATING TIME FOR D DO. I FEEL PAINS AROUND MY BODY SOMETIMES AFTER THIS ACT BUT I STILL DO IT. I AM EVEN SCARED I MIGHT DIE SOON . I THINK I NED A THERAPIST OR SOMETHING . HOW DO YOU GUYS STOP THIS BAD ACT PLS I NEED ADVICE.
I DONT CONSUME PORN ANYMORE BUT IT LEAVES RENT FREE IN MY HEAD
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by Trevor125: 7:28am On Mar 28
Fappin is very common among us..so fap in peace brotherly..
Don't be worried!🤝

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by terrezo2002(m): 7:37am On Mar 28
Anobella:


I believe this I made my research and I think it's called incubus and succubus
Okay. Now you know. Get delivered and the masturbation will stop.
These type of demons enter into one's life during childhood when being exposed to sexual activities and pornography.
Try to remember how it entered your life. Begin to renounce, cancel, bind and rebuke these demons from there. But first, you have to submit and give your life to Jesus Christ.
Re: How Do You Guys Do This by tochez24(m): 7:54am On Mar 28
durasome:
. every bad thing you do in your life has a demon pushing you to it, so it's not only masturbation habit

... And every good things you do are always pushed by a demon too, right?

Most of you people's problem is lack of exposure and poverty 💯

You will experience a new life and idealogy the very moment you step out of Nigeria, but before then keep fooling yourselves!!!!

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by durasome(m): 8:17am On Mar 28
tochez24:


... And every good things you do are always pushed by a demon too, right?

Most of you people's problem is lack of exposure and poverty 💯

You will experience a new life and idealogy the very moment you step out of Nigeria, but before then keep fooling yourselves!!!!
be calming down small,but know that residential inside you are two supper beings opposed to each other, know this today and know this today and know peace.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by MasterJayJay: 8:42am On Mar 28
Adewale1603:
stories of people saying that they defeat masturbation is not true and I don't even believe it, the only way you can defeat masturbation is to be an enuch, be permanently castrated, or cut your dicks off. Cos as a man, that have a perfect functioning testosterone hormones, the hormones are in your body system and will always give you the urges to have sex or masturbates and control you, nothing you can do about it. Those people claiming that they defeated masturbation are initially a chronic addicts before, and it's the level of addiction that they defeated not masturbation entirely, being a chronic addicts to something is different entirely.
Masturbation is perfectly normal, heathy and okay, being addicted to it is what is not normal. So you need to work on your addictions.
A chronic liar trying to make all men to be like him.

Speak for yourself. You don't live with everyone.

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Re: How Do You Guys Do This by pansophist(m): 10:08am On Mar 28
Masturbation can be cured with its true replacement, which is sex with a woman that actually loves and desire you, just as you desire her. Any other method is just coping mechanism.

So not just empty sex from a fork mate, but organic sex that involves exclusivity, trust, vulnerability, passion, and respect.

You're humans, your body need sex. It's left for you to strategize ways on how to secure it, and making yourself desirable to a potential partner is the surest way.

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