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What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(m): 10:09am On Mar 30 |
Women/ladies are so complex, unpredictable and un-pleasable 😜 that I think they should be studied as a course in our tertiary institutions. You go out of your way to please them. Trying to please a lady is a waste of time. At the end they still go for the highest bidder. What do women/ladies really want? |
Re: What Do Women really want? by stanvesco(m): 10:10am On Mar 30 |
Chenzee: 1. Allow the woman to choose you always! The rest is easy! 13 Likes |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(m): 10:14am On Mar 30 |
stanvesco: Hmmm! Word. 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Natbrowny: 10:16am On Mar 30 |
stanvesco: I like that u start with Number 1 and it ends there. Odogwu.. 👍 For those who really understands that post sha. Some will twist it and wont understand. 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women really want? by iamtardey: 10:16am On Mar 30 |
stanvesco:Choosed to be used..?? ![]() I know what I want. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by STEWpid(f): 10:19am On Mar 30 |
What I want is for relationship intruders to be beaten blue-black. ...and for them to be in a very Chai.. situation like the ones below; Chai..
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Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(m): 10:20am On Mar 30 |
iamtardey: Yea. Sometimes even if they choose you, they still have a way of using or manipulating u oo. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by iamtardey: 10:22am On Mar 30 |
Chenzee:Manipulating is dia game… Don’t even drag with them, they can get it if they want to. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(m): 10:25am On Mar 30 |
STEWpid: Heheheheee! Hanty STEW. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Chrisrare: 10:33am On Mar 30 |
Why do you care what women want, don't you have a life of your own? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Women really want? by maestro299: 10:39am On Mar 30 |
You are viewing the mindset of the generality of women from a man's lens. That's your mistake. Men are typically logic-based in their thinking and decision-making. For example, look at the question you asked. They are "What...?", "Why...?" questions. As men, we try to 'make sense' of a situation most times. Women on the other hand, don't think that way. They will most times, follow her feelings on an issue. "How did that make me feel?" As feelings are easily mercurial, it makes it seem like women don't know what they want at a point in time, which isn't strictly so. She might have agreed with you to do something yesterday only to change her mind the next day because she's not 'feeling right'. This is why many of them fall prey to men who are skilled in emotional manipulation. 12 Likes |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(m): 10:41am On Mar 30 |
Chrisrare: Understanding your spouse is one of the greatest secret to a successful relationship or marriage; except if you don't have one and don't intend to have one. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Chrisrare: 11:17am On Mar 30 |
Chenzee:And after knowing what women want what will you do, spend the rest of your life giving them what they want to get their approval? If you want to understand your spouse, sit with her and discuss with her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:55am On Mar 30 |
Stop taking women serious.na there una for dey miss the update |
Re: What Do Women really want? by JessicaRabbit(f): 12:21pm On Mar 30 |
Chenzee: Respect, a personal connection with their partner, and someone who doesn't just see them as a sex object or a puzzle to solve. It's not rocket science really. You don't need spreadsheets or a stock market ticker. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by JessicaRabbit(f): 12:28pm On Mar 30 |
maestro299: This argument would have been valid if it weren't predicated on the false premise that logic and emotion are mutually exclusive. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Sirhush(m): 12:41pm On Mar 30 |
One thing you should know is you can't please a woman. If you like give her Money, I mean more money or buy house for her in heaven if she no won stay one place she no go stay. No dey put woman mater for head instead think on how you can make more money 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women really want? by maestro299: 1:37pm On Mar 30 |
JessicaRabbit: I didn't imply that at all so I fail to see how you inferred that from my comment. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do Women really want? by JessicaRabbit(f): 1:44pm On Mar 30 |
maestro299: The entirety of your first post here could be summed up as "men, logic; women, feelings", which reads to me like a sly nod to gender stereotypes. Also notice the first sentence in that post you made: "You are viewing the mindset of the generality of women from a man's lens." |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Tallesty1(m): 1:45pm On Mar 30 |
Nah you ask what women want, na you still say that that they go for the highest bidder. That one never answer your question? Up your bid and stop disturbing us 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do Women really want? by maestro299: 1:49pm On Mar 30 |
JessicaRabbit: I can see why you'd say that. There's always at least a whimper of truth to many stereotypes though. I also used words like 'generality', 'most'. There are always exceptions and nothing is really absolute, especially in a subject as complex as human nature. Maybe you killed Roger Rabbit with too much skepticism ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Nonexisting1: 4:03pm On Mar 30 |
Limit your relationship and activities with vaginarians to sex only and you will live long. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What Do Women really want? by pansophist(m): 4:06pm On Mar 30 |
Na you go dey pursue woman wey no send you. If she likes you, she will be easy and uncomplicated. 6 Likes |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Savedday2: 4:35pm On Mar 30 |
The day you try to please woman, that day you start messing up yourself by yourself, because, women doesn't even know what dey want. The best way to handle women is to do what you want. If she doesn't like it, let her fuckoff and always ensure to scatter their kpekus for ground like grandmama dirty wrapper. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Elzazzi: 5:51pm On Mar 30 |
iamtardey: I know a woman manipulative tactics. Except I choose to play dumb and watch her continue fooling herself |
Re: What Do Women really want? by labake1(f): 6:02pm On Mar 30 |
Upcoming redpiller, leave that group now |
Re: What Do Women really want? by talk2hb1(m): 8:00pm On Mar 30 |
Chenzee:Never take them too serious, let them do the relationship. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(m): 8:03pm On Mar 30 |
talk2hb1: Abi. But you have to be serious when it comes to settling down though |
Re: What Do Women really want? by talk2hb1(m): 8:40pm On Mar 30 |
Chenzee:Level of that seriousness will be different |
Re: What Do Women really want? by JessicaRabbit(f): 11:14pm On Mar 30 |
maestro299: I think you're backpedaling here. Recall that you rebutted my post by saying you weren't implying that logic and emotion are mutually exclusive, but take another glance at your first comment in this thread and see the words you used. You spoke of "men" and "women", not "some men/women". And I think it's amusing how you are using the term "generality" as a safety net while you tiptoe along the precipice of overgeneralization. As for your parting shot that "nothing is really absolute", that's more or less the typical philosopher's parachute. You've leaped from the plane of certainty, free falling into the abyss of relativism. But here's something you should probably consider: Certainty is pretty much overrated. It's the spice of doubt that flavors our existence. |
Re: What Do Women really want? by maestro299: 11:29pm On Mar 30 |
JessicaRabbit: Thanks. 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Women really want? by AcadaWriter: 4:13am On Mar 31 |
Upcoming redpiller, leave that group now |
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