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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 9:46pm On Apr 04
UjuJoan2:


If you think because he preaches against pre-marital sex, he doesn’t engage in it, you have a huge shock coming your way.

Shoot your shot, but tread with caution!

Nah.. I don't think his particular man engages in things like that. All the same il be careful.

Thanks
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 10:00pm On Apr 04
fyzaila:
Please my sis go ahead, que sera sera, whatever will be will be. My own is, don't be to pushy or act desperate. Go to his page and like all his videos and make sure you have one or two of your pics on your dp and page. Because he might not take you serious by sending him a dm anonymously requesting for a friendship. Do you know how many ladies send him same dm? So he need to see you and be attracted as well.



All the best dear👍, i like how you keep us entertained here. It shows you have no problem and free spirited. And also how you pay no attention to haters shuuuing you up. They have no joy and don't want joy for others.


grin grin.. I'm motivated by this. I've already started liking his videos and no I'm not going to be too pushy trust now. And Ill never dm him cos I don't want see finish.


Thank you dear. If it's God's will, well... If not, hmmm.. life goes on. Just that to see that kind man hard.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Usmanovic95(m): 10:47pm On Apr 04
Its better to try and fail than live with the regret of not trying.Hopefully you'll shoot on target this time.Best of luck.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Kelklein(m): 11:20pm On Apr 04
Sapasenator:


There you go off again!

Honestly, a visit will definitely be in your best interest.

I may be able to help, is there an history of mental illness, say, in your family?

I am just concerned about you!
😂😂😂😂

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by TheWinterBird: 11:41pm On Apr 04
You've already tried to talk to him twice and have indirectly shooted your shot when you asked him if he's married. If he wanted to communicate with you further then, he would have. If you try talking to him again, you'll be giving desperation vibes. Men are supposed to do the chasing and a man who likes you will do just that; you ain't gotta do his work for him.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by MOG6670(m): 11:51pm On Apr 04
I hate to be a bearer of bad news. But it will surely end in premium tears if you ask him out, because hundreds of women are all over all these celebrites/influencial people, so it's common. My advice is that, go gradually, try had and earn his antention and then give him enough and enough greenlight. Then get a seat and wacht how it'll turn out

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by illicit(m): 12:01am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


**For where I keep that my 6 by 6 somebody wan chop pako this night** grin

Why don't I deserve him? I've kept myself pure for so long and I'm wiser and better in handling relationship matters by the grace of God. So? Only a blind man will throw away golden opportunity like me.

Okay now

Don't mess this up

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Emmanuel30a2: 5:51am On Apr 05
Sapasenator:


There you go off again!

Honestly, a visit will definitely be in your best interest.

I may be able to help, is there an history of mental illness, say, in your family?

I am just concerned about you!
You are suffering from stroke and you probably have amnesia, that you can't take to asia... Even anastasia in asia and malaysia are having amnesia... I don't know what to do with your amnesia... I am not prince or queen of persia... You can take your amnesia to asia or malaysia... By the way, you may wants to give me some of money as gift... Give me a monetary gift...

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Emmanuel30a2: 5:54am On Apr 05
TheWinterBird:
You've already tried to talk to him twice and have indirectly shooted your shot when you asked him if he's married. If he wanted to communicate with you further then, he would have. If you try talking to him again, you'll be giving desperation vibes. Men are supposed to do the chasing and a man who likes you will do just that; you ain't gotta do his work for him.

So, you don't wants to chase me...? I would erazes&razes you, if you don't wants to chase me...or chase after me... It won't amazes me...
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Booksy(m): 6:54am On Apr 05
Go ahead babe and do what is right for you but know that I admire you too and I am here for you too....

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by CanineOfJackal: 7:13am On Apr 05
You don't know that you are no longer on the food chain,

Go down to your village and look for a widower instead of having dreams that doesn't align

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Sapasenator: 7:15am On Apr 05
Emmanuel30a2:
You are suffering from stroke and you probably have amnesia, that you can't take to asia... Even anastasia in asia and malaysia are having amnesia... I don't know what to do with your amnesia... I am not prince or queen of persia... You can take your amnesia to asia or malaysia... By the way, you may wants to give me some of money as gift... Give me a monetary gift...

O boy. Take am easy ok. In time everything go dey alright.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 7:22am On Apr 05
Booksy:
Go ahead babe and do what is right for you but know that I admire you too and I am here for you too....

Thanks dear 😊

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Booksy(m): 7:24am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


Thanks dear 😊

Wlc

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 7:42am On Apr 05
illicit:


Okay now

Don't mess this up

Mess up kwa.. it's not a do or die affair. I've grown past the stage where I'll be pretending or faking perfection to appear what I'm not inorder to qualify or make it work. I'm gonna be freestyling things let them naturally fall in place. What will be will be. No offense if it doesn't.. cheesy
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Acidosis(m): 7:59am On Apr 05
If he has a full beard, then you're likely going to 'toast' a man in his twenties. I've seen too many 25-28-year-olds who look like they're in their 40s, especially those young guys with full beards.

If I were you, I would consider an unmarried man in his 40s who is fond of teaching teenagers about the dangers of premarital sex as a red flag! But hey, everyone must not think like Acidosis.

Go ahead and do what you've got to do! Something must kill a (wo)man.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by illicit(m): 8:10am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


Mess up kwa.. it's not a do or die affair. I've grown past the stage where I'll be pretending or faking perfection to appear what I'm not inorder to qualify or make it work. I'm gonna be freestyling things let them naturally fall in place. What will be will be. No offense if it doesn't.. cheesy

I mean when the guy reciprocates your attention

Maybe even asks for a date or dates

Then along the line you found out he is not celibate or not even half of what he preaches....


No man is perfect...


Take it

You usually leave it....

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 8:41am On Apr 05
illicit:


I mean when the guy reciprocates your attention

Maybe even asks for a date or dates

Then along the line you found out he is not celibate or not even half of what he preaches....

.
No man is perfect...


Take it

You usually leave it....

Why should I settle for a single guy who is not celibate? I'm not that desperate biko. If I discover he doesn't live by what he preaches I'm cutting out. After all that was what got me attracted to him in the first place.

Wo let's see how the experiment goes. grin
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by eepeepook: 8:47am On Apr 05
This old confused aunt. Here we go again.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Hathor5(f): 8:50am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

I like that you look for certain values in a man. It seems that you like decent guys.

Go for it!

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 9:08am On Apr 05
Hathor5:


I like that you look for certain values in a man. It seems that you like decent guys.

Go for it!

Yes dear. I like them decent for my peace of mind.

Thanks.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Bruno3000(m): 9:36am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.
Please do not distract that young man. Leave him alone. What makes you think he does not have a committed fiancee/girlfriend somewhere?

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Matheusmartin: 10:35am On Apr 05
CanineOfJackal:
You don't know that you are no longer on the food chain,

Go down to your village and look for a widower instead of having dreams that doesn't align

Op offend u before

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Sirqt5(m): 10:36am On Apr 05
See 45yo newspaper lusting after a young man wey no want am . Na to sleep wit u n dump u like the other men wey don do same . A fool at 45 is a fool forever @Granny Merychen, Callidora, Charis123, CharisElois, Jewessgratitud3 n ya other monikers

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Goodnewsforlife: 10:39am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.
if only u know a thousand ladies are asking him that same question almost everytime so u will just b added to d list

Y don’t u get a partner offline?

It’s not that hard now

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Dyfynezz12(m): 10:42am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:



grin grin.. I'm motivated by this. I've already started liking his videos and no I'm not going to be too pushy trust now. And Ill never dm him cos I don't want see finish.


Thank you dear. If it's God's will, well... If not, hmmm.. life goes on. Just that to see that kind man hard.
Since u like this man nd u are attracted to him,we will be here on nairaland when u will post your pre-wedding pic with this man.

Goodluck.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 10:45am On Apr 05
Sirqt5:
See 45yo newspaper lusting after a young man wey no want am . Na to sleep wit u n dump u like the other men wey don do same . A fool at 45 is a fool forever @Granny Merychen, Callidora, Charis123, CharisElois, Jewessgratitud3 n ya other monikers

You think you can shame me? Haha I laugh. If I was bothered about your shaming then I wouldn't have posted this here because I knew you and your bitter crew would see but I posted it anyways grin. Cry some more. Until I see you shedding blood I'll never stop posting. So be my guest and cry very well.

The joke is on you. Keep hovering over my post thinking I give a damn about your sorry self. Hahahaha cheesy cheesy grin

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 10:46am On Apr 05
Dyfynezz12:

Since u like this man nd u are attracted to him,we will be here on nairaland when u will post your pre-wedding pic with this man.

Goodluck.

If it's God's will cos man proposes God disposes
Thank you.

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 10:51am On Apr 05
Goodnewsforlife:
if only u know a thousand ladies are asking him that same question almost everytime so u will just b added to d list

Y don’t u get a partner offline?

It’s not that hard now

Of course I know there'll be several other ladies trying to gain his attention but Make me too try my luck now. At least there's no harm in trying. cheesy

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by illicit(m): 10:54am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


Why should I settle for a single guy who is not celibate? I'm not that desperate biko. If I discover he doesn't live by what he preaches I'm cutting out. After all that was what got me attracted to him in the first place.

Wo let's see how the experiment goes. grin

The truth is you will hardly meet an adult who is celibate

The man of ur fantasy

So don't be disappointed cos he is not what he preaches

That's his hustle

We all compromise

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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Dyfynezz12(m): 10:56am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


If it's God's will cos man proposes God disposes
Thank you.
Uwc,
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Sirqt5(m): 10:59am On Apr 05
Jewessgratitud3:


You think you can shame me? Haha I laugh. If I was bothered about your shaming then I wouldn't have posted this here because I knew you and your bitter crew would see but I posted it anyways grin. Cry some more. Until I see you shedding blood I'll never stop posting. So be my guest and cry very well.

The joke is on you. Keep hovering over my post thinking I give a damn about your sorry self. Hahahaha cheesy cheesy grin

oldie , better calm down n go find a 60 year old widow in ur village lookin for wife . na gud advice i dey give u . dis man don see ur photos for facebook him no want u , u not his spec grandma , he don get gf or fiancee . na ur type dey chase married men about for fb . leave d young man alone ugly oldie

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