Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 12:43pm On Apr 05 |
adeiza4u:
Firstly, pray about it and let God work it out on your behalf since you are a child of God.
Secondly, take it gradual. Look for ways to support his contents and all. Let him notice you and what you stand for and your beliefs, through your engagement of his contents. Thirdly, think about innovative ways to better his contents and goals. Make the suggestions to him. If God is in support, he'll get to know something unique about you and gets closer. Please, relax and take it gradual. God bless you for wanting something good! God bless you. So on point! Exactly what I need. To think ive also been going through this line of thoughts. Thanks darling. Na prayers o. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by bitbillionaire: 12:44pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3:
I introduced myself as a single bornagain sister. LoL. My dear 'born-again' sister, if you are truly born again as you claim I expect you to have the Holy Spirit in you. Why don't you consult the Holy Spirit about this matter? Or are you referring to a different kind of born-again here? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by CharlotteFlair: 12:44pm On Apr 05 |
Jetland:
I've a few things to say if only you'll accept it.
1. 80% of men won't respect you if you obviously shoot your shot first as a lady. It's only mature men with high level of understandings will appreciate your courage for taking the shot.
2. If you must shoot your shot, let it be indirect. Like your body language kind of stuff instead of making it too obvious. 3. That she teaches about purity doesn't mean he's born again. You just have to be careful. Not withstanding though, you can still fire your shot and observe him as the relationship progresses to see if he's practicing what he's teaching.
4. There is no harm in trying and damn the consequences. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) But on a serious note, I've been looking for a lady who will first shoot her shot at me for years now, but I'm yet to find one ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Oga, when I was in uni and brimming with youthful exuberance, that's how I shot my shot at one dark, handsome delta boy with pearly white teeth . Omor, the guy wan turn me to ATM machine oo. He comes to visit me with at least 2 of his friends each time because they know I cook correct native food. He shared apartment with two other guys so I don't pass nights in his place. He comes over. But 6am, he's ready to go. Comes by 10pm and leaves by 6am! There was no room for me to act in girly ways you know, like to form or do small shakara. It was me playing the man role. ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) I didn't need anyone to tell me he doesn't love me and I freed him. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jewessgratitud3: 12:45pm On Apr 05 |
bitbillionaire:
LoL. My dear 'born-again' sister, if you are truly born again as you claim I expect you to have the Holy Spirit in you. Why don't you consult the Holy Spirit about this matter? Or are you referring to a different kind of born-again here? The voice of the people is what again? Answer that. Thank you. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Jeezuzpick(m): 12:49pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3: I need very mature advice here.
I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.
There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.
I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.
I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.
I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.
Please sincere advice. Are you looking for a husband or a victim? You don see mumu wey you wan use catch cruise, abi? What's all this crap about "spec" gaaaan? Did you submit specifications for God to manufacture for you? If you want a Christian gentleman, it's not by observing them online, though, assuming you're not just looking for a crutch who will be your shock-absorber. You go to the God who makes men and who made you, and let Him choose for you. Then accept His choice even if he's not "your spec". If you're a Christian, you'll know what "THY WILL BE DONE'' means. If your motives are not pure, please leave the poor boy alone, don't give him PTSD. I'm speaking as a mature Christian man, married for over 15 years, so you know I'm dead serious. As in, I'm not joking at aaaaallll! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:49pm On Apr 05 |
Imagine if say na man created this thread...
Dem for don open toto water tap on top him head and start calling him a coward/weakling... |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by AMI3(m): 12:52pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3: I need very mature advice here.
I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.
There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.
I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.
I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.
I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.
Please sincere advice. I understand u perfectly well. Take my little advice . Well don't be too carried away because what he says on the camera. There are people that I can not loose guard on. People that preaches gospels or morals on stage or camera. I will not advice my enemy to marry somebody because the person is active church goer, or preaches in the church daily, sweet the church premises everyday.or dress so righteously Becareful of sure people. SOME may have some other motive behind their actions. Please don't be carried away by what he has been saying. First of all engage him in a conversation not in connection to relationship but in relation to morals. Do not show any atom of having feeling fo him because human been can pretend. How many pastors have cut in the act red handed? Yet if the want to preach they have sugar coated tongue. Don't allow your impulse to make u lost your sense of judgement. I met several people that a very nice in spoken words But what the do behind the scene can make u be afraid of human being. If you can be his friend then stand afar and watch him Get to him first before u jump into ship. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by flexyrule(m): 12:55pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3:
I feel I do. Please you people should let me express myself any way I want. Stop trying to shut me up.
Public opinion on matters like this sometimes go a long way before I make a fool of myself.
Please allow me My friend shut up! The moment you brought your pants to the public for advice, you gave the public the right to critisize it's color and smell. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Carnivorouslamb: 12:56pm On Apr 05 |
EreluRoz: That's enough greenlight already but you may go further. Funny enough most guys don't quickly grab a greenlight.
If you are not very smart as a guy you'll not understand some kind of greenlight. My own greenlight is very funny, you'll never have a clue except you are way too smart. Really!!! Do you know how many green lights gets shone on this nigga by females ![](/faces/huh.png) It would take a very special woman for him to be with.. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by 99thEnemy(m): 12:56pm On Apr 05 |
AMI3:
I understand u perfectly well.
Take my little advice .
Well don't be too carried away because what he says on the camera.
There are people that I can not loose guard on. People that preaches gospels or morals on stage or camera.
I will not advice my enemy to marry somebody because the person is active church goer, or preaches in the church daily, sweet the church premises everyday.or dress so righteously
Becareful of sure people.
SOME may have some other motive behind their actions.
Please don't be carried away by what he has been saying.
First of all engage him in a conversation not in connection to relationship but in relation to morals.
Do not show any atom of having feeling fo him because human been can pretend.
How many pastors have cut in the act red handed? Yet if the want to preach they have sugar coated tongue.
Don't allow your impulse to make u lost your sense of judgement.
I met several people that a very nice in spoken words But what the do behind the scene can make u be afraid of human being.
If you can be his friend then stand afar and watch him
Get to him first before u jump into ship.
her kpekus might be endangered ? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by ozoono(m): 12:57pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3: I need very mature advice here.
I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.
There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.
I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.
I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.
I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.
Please sincere advice. Sis jenny c. Abeg no go meet am. Abeg nor put dat inocent guy for big trouble. I guess u said men are scum why now |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Easyincome24: 12:59pm On Apr 05 |
Now you know his good sides, from the looks on Facebook. Try to meet him in person or know where he will be having the next talks.
Make another visit after that to know his other sides. We get attracted to people at their best but genuine love will be able to stick even when you know his bad or weak sides.
If you still feel attracted to him after the two sides of the coins are tossed, then open up on your perception but still allow him to propose.
He may already be eyeing someone else who he is dyeing hard for too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 12:59pm On Apr 05 |
Are you a virgin? As in, true virgin front and back?
If you are, simply slide into his dm, appreciate his contents from the depth of your heart and tell him you would like to be his friend.
If he is open to friendship, once in a while, pick something from one of his posts and ask him questions.
Once or twice, then leave him alone.
He's not yet your husband nor your boyfriend. Both of you are not dating, or in any serious relationship. He has met women and will still meet more. By the way, there are women who are closer to him than you currently are.
Because if you carry his matter for head like Gala, na straight blocking as I dey see am so.
I consider you an unserious person by approaching him in the first place without your real picture on your profile. He may end up building a Madonna image in his head when you're 5/10.
If you shock him beyond what he can manage, na blocking straight.
If he accepts you and you reach out twice, leave him alone.
There would be other women throwing themselves at him. Don't join them.
If he doesn't reach out after you no longer initiate conversation, leave him alone and respond to other brothers in your dm, so we don't have an extra Jennyclay or siofra on this forum.
If you're not a virgin, die those feelings. Infact, consider my advice as ranting and misyarnings.
Udo. 3 Likes
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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by 99thEnemy(m): 1:01pm On Apr 05 |
DIVINEEVIDENCE: Are you a virgin? As in, true virgin front and back?
If you are, simply slide into his dm, appreciate his contents from the depth of your heart and tell him you would like to be his friend.
If he is open to friendship, once in a while, pick something from one of his posts and ask him questions.
Once or twice, then leave him alone.
He's not yet your husband nor your boyfriend. Both of you are not dating, or in any serious relationship. He has met women and will still meet more. By the way, there are women who are closer to him than you currently are.
Because if you carry his matter for head like Gala, na straight blocking as I dey see am so.
I consider you an unserious person by approaching him in the first place without your real picture on your profile. He may end up building a Madonna image in his head when you're 5/10.
If you shock him beyond what he can manage, na blocking straight.
If he accepts you and you reach out twice, leave him alone.
There would be other women throwing themselves at him. Don't join them.
If he doesn't reach out after that, leave him alone and respond to other brothers in your dm, so we don't have an extra Jennyclay or siofra on this forum.
If you're not a virgin, die those feelings. Infact, consider my advice as ranting and misyarnings.
Udo. You need to understand that the OP is desperate ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Michaelangelo77: 1:03pm On Apr 05 |
Since you are too picky, you feel this man wouldn't be picky too? My dear you filled with fantasies, it will make you have the wrong judgement and rather finally fall into a wrong relationship.. just stop that attitude of yours and let the right person find you 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 1:05pm On Apr 05 |
99thEnemy:
You need to understand that the OP is desperate ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) It's evident. She's already married the unfortunate guy in her head. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by luminouz(m): 1:07pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3: I need very mature advice here.
I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.
There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.
I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.
I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.
I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.
Please sincere advice. Bla bla blaaaaaaaa You only wanted his ass because he has money |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by ozoono(m): 1:10pm On Apr 05 |
Emmanuel30a2: Are you a psycho...? You don't even knows analogy, let alone dermatology... Wait are u a drug adict? U on colorado, i mean colos when typing that long epistle, very confusing. Like wetin cincern analogy and dermatology to this pls i want to no? Pls mention 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by nigmarelli(m): 1:10pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3: I need very mature advice here.
I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.
There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.
I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.
I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.
I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.
Please sincere advice. Greetings Ma. Hope you are doing great. Well there's no rule book anywhere in the world that states sacrosanct that for a relationship between a man and woman to occur it must be the man or males that initiates it first na here you ladies have it backwards. Also as long you are born again yourself genuinely as well and sincere in your heart should you try this(i can't emphasise this point enough for you to understand). The worst that will happen is he might say no. Iin life it's either yes or no. Being rejected doesn't which comes with no doesn't mean a damn thing in life regardless of how other people might see it. Goodluck. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Cocolatti(m): 1:11pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3: I need very mature advice here.
I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.
There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.
I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.
I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.
I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.
Please sincere advice. Shoot your Shot. But be careful. You only know him on Facebook. Most people aren't what they seem on social media. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Banbanna(m): 1:12pm On Apr 05 |
Thanks for the question. I was scrolling to see if anyone would cast her mind back to this subject and you did just that. I was thinking, no be trouble she wan put this her potential prince charming so, given her wish to undergo hysterectomy? Because it's more than likely that she and him wouldn't be on the same page as per this matter.jmoore: Have you removed the womb?
What's the point shooting your shot if he wants kids? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by GodHimself(m): 1:13pm On Apr 05 |
female chatgroup content 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by pipnator00(m): 1:14pm On Apr 05 |
What did the bible say again about women on the last days, say there will be 7 women to one man abi..? However I will say, go for it. Everyone claims to have high value but you only know you true value when you have tested it in the market. So good luck! Jewessgratitud3: I need very mature advice here.
I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.
There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.
I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.
I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.
I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.
Please sincere advice. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by DeepSight(m): 1:14pm On Apr 05 |
kpakpakpa:
I don't like to argue online madam, some pastors who preach on the pulpit almost everyday are fake.
I'm not against you trying, just be careful cos like i said not all that glitters is gold
Just be careful biko What is "kpakpakpa" Can we have the etymology please. |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by DeGods007(m): 1:19pm On Apr 05 |
Lolz I dey pity your toto 😁😁
Alagi ife aga ala gi eeh....you go get sense by force
Don't just be unfortunate madam....look for a widower and get married to. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Banbanna(m): 1:20pm On Apr 05 |
Shuo! Omo, you be some kind rapper or poet, turning every reply into rhymes 🤔 Emmanuel30a2: You are suffering from stroke and you probably have amnesia, that you can't take to asia... Even anastasia in asia and malaysia are having amnesia... I don't know what to do with your amnesia... I am not prince or queen of persia... You can take your amnesia to asia or malaysia... By the way, you may wants to give me some of money as gift... Give me a monetary gift... 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by DeepSight(m): 1:22pm On Apr 05 |
Jewessgratitud3:
Why should I settle for a single guy who is not celibate? Mark my words, one, two or all three of the below will happen. 1. You will eat these words 2. You will wait a looooooooong time in the singles market 3. You will be deceived by one who forms holy. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by sync(f): 1:26pm On Apr 05 |
Everyone is beautiful from afar until they come close. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by 99thEnemy(m): 1:26pm On Apr 05 |
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Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Omoawoke: 1:29pm On Apr 05 |
fyzaila:
Not necessarily green light, but it will catch your attention abit. Like who is this liking all my post? 🤔 You girls ain’t know nothing yet ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) If a guy doesn’t like you, he doesn’t like you. If you like, go and like all my photos on instagrams, truly it will catch my attention but not necessarily my interest. I’ve had girls start very dramatic conversations with me on instagram, liked my photos, etc I’d just respond to be nice and move on. And if the girls persists, she may just end up on the bed and nothing more ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) you think say na only you want that fine correct guy, many girls are doing extra to catch him. Some will even tell him to his face they love him. Some will tell a mutual friend to help tell him 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Sabadon(m): 1:30pm On Apr 05 |
immortalcrown: You don't need public opinions on this because the public does not know how you intend to approach him and how he will respond.
Take the risk wisely. It may favour you. It may not favour you. But as long as you do it wisely, you will not regret it. You will regret it if you do it foolishly.
There is no particular step to be termed wise here. His attitude towards you determines what will be wise for you to do. I love your wisdom keep it up sir 1 Like |
Re: Should I Shoot My Shot At Him? by Error401: 1:33pm On Apr 05 |
It's fine as long as you wont loose it, take it very slow and steady. We are humans and ego gets the better part of us sometimes. Avoid being taken for granted. Jewessgratitud3:
Ok. Thanks.
I'm not carried away yet so I can still manage and control my emotions for now. So no worries, I won't lose it. Trust me. 1 Like 1 Share |