IAmHim1:
You say "here on nairaland"?

So there are other channels you post your miseducations?

ubunja:
exactly,, the more emotional women are (and it doesn't matter what Emotions they're feeling), the more their guard is down. Hence the toughest woman to deal with will always be that woman who feels totally no emotion for you- that woman who just doesn't care who neither hates you nor likes you. That's a tough one. At least she must hate you. Cause If she hates you, it's just as good as she likes you cause what we need is for her to FEEL something. Once she's feeling then you can manipulate that feeling to the one that favors you. That's why they say "There's a thin line between love and hate".

JayOnly:

makes me remember this quote by wayne
“Hate is only a form love that hasn’t found a
way to express itself logically.” – Lil Wayne

ubunja:
Lil Wayne's background is poetry, he will ways have a way of putting truths in the most beautiful ways. And he's right.

ubunja:
Lil Wayne's background is poetry, he will ways have a way of putting truths in the most beautiful ways. And he's right.

Martinez39s:
How far, boss? It's been a while. Seems a lot of redpillers have taken some time off; this was inevitable. Hope you are good.

ubunja:
I am good man. How are things on your side? Been following the Red Pill threads non stop, just not actively participating. How is the current year treating you?

ubunja:
not necessarily so. I just wanted to make it clear. There's no other place I have posted my work. Western American platforms are always banning and closing down channels and accounts I wouldn't trust them with my articles. I think NL is secure enough in that regard. I don't know.

Philosopher1979:


Red pill ideology is impossible to fight against. It is like trying to stop the sun from shining. In the wake of paternity fraud most men will be forced into red pill.
It's obvious with paternity fraud that there is an underground adultery movement in society. Alpha bleeps beta pays. The lady goes back to the alpha male she knew from prehistory that is loaded on her genes.
Women themselves are red pilled by nature.
With dna Women are getting exposed for who they are.

ubunja:
that's definitely true. The red pill can't be stopped at this point. Doesn't mean these social media platforms won't try though. They're always on women's side, just like businesses and politicians.

kokakola:

Hello Ubunja, www.miseducations.com isn't loading.
Please, I need a goto for your miseducations.

Thank you.

ubunja:
unfortunately that website died a long time ago. Sorry for the inconvenience. But everything that was there is here.

kokakola:

Yes. I got most of them. But there are some that has more weight that has been removed. Please is there any hope of getting the once that we're removed?

ubunja:

"Game of Emotions" will forever be my favourite article here on Nairaland.
https://www.nairaland.com/4937921/ubunjas-miseducation-game-emotions-2019

Also, I write my articles from scratch.

ubunja:
not necessarily so. I just wanted to make it clear. There's no other place I have posted my work. Western American platforms are always banning and closing down channels and accounts I wouldn't trust them with my articles. I think NL is secure enough in that regard. I don't know.

Konquest:

I would advice YOU to have digital backups of nearly all your important posts and threads. Back in the early 2010s, this forum called NL lost some uploaded data. Some of our posts got missing forever. Though there's been an upgrade to a better server to prevent cyber attacks, any snafu can still occur online.

ubunja:
its not for you. It's for men who want to have sex with you.

ubunja:
A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick (And A Nice Guy Is Nothing But A Man With A Pussy)

THE ONLY MAN PUSSY HAS NO POWER OVER.
Men want to fvck women more than women want to fvck men. It has always been. It will always be. This mismatch of values gives women an upper hand. Fortunately there is a mindset that a man can develop that will re-align his values with those of women to help him regain some measure of an upper hand.

Sex begins in the mind. The brain is the biggest sex organ. So power over pussy begins with a mental reset. this epistle will seek to press that reset button and recreate in you the mindset of the only man pussy has no power over: The Player.

Women control sex because men let sex control them. It is a survival strategy of the powerless woman to control the powerful man by becoming a Master of what a man is a Slave to.

RE-ALIGNING VALUES.
Consider the table of values below. It may not apply to every woman, but for the majority of them it's accurate.

As a man whatever you have on High that women have on Low is what you love more than women love and women
will use that to control you. and what women have on High that you have on Low is what women love more than you love and you can use that to control them. what you have on matching values with women cant be used by women against you and chances are you can get it free:

ACT . ---- WOMEN --------- MEN . ----------- PLAYERS

KISSES --- high--------------------high -------------------high
CUDDLES --- high --------------------low---------------------low
SEX --- low---------------------------- high---------------------low
BJs ---- low-----------------------------low----------------------high
LOVE ----- high----------------------------low--------------------high
PUSSY LICK ------high-------------------------high-------------------low
NUDITY -----low----------------------------high--------------------low
phone intimacy ----high-----------------low----------------------low

The first step to freedom is to move from a place where pussy means Everything to a place where it means Nothing. Because unless that value is correct all other values won't be and you'll forever be a slave to anyone with a pussy. Remember the only value pussy has is the value that you give it.

In the Table above, a Player is basically a woman. He matches a woman's values to perfection. to a woman he is a mirror. She's dealing with another woman and sex-wise she has zero leverage. Sex means to a Player exactly what it means to her: NOTHING. ZERO. NADA. ZILCH. NAUGHT. While Sex means so much to the 80% of the male population that they sing about it, pedestalize it, worship it and are willing to buy it, marry for it, fight for it and die for it. Things a woman or a Player will never do.

PUSSY IS PUSSY.
women love money. It doesn't matter whether you make that money cleaning toilets or robbing people or investing on the stock exchange. To them All money is good money. And all money is the same. Likewise to a Player all pussy is good pussy and all pussy is the same. Doesn't matter the woman's looks. Pussy is pussy.

The Player has fvcked so many pussies that they are now the same to him, no matter how beautiful a woman is. Why should hers be special when even the ugliest woman has one? What does her pussy have that 3 billion others don't have? Two clitorises? Or maybe it can talk? pussy is pussy. To the Player that thing it's just a hole between a woman's legs.

But not to the average guy!!!. The average guy "fvcks faces". He only wants Nicki Minaj. He's only interested in those women whose beauty takes his breath away. He is choosy.

Now here is the thing about human sexuality: We all begin as virgins intending to marry the first person we have sex with. Our First Time must be our First Love. That is because we have an internal instinct that Sex=Love. Essentially we attach to the person who takes our virginity. It is only when we keep fvcking more and more people that this instinct switches off and Love is mentally divorced from Sex allowing us to love without sex and have sex without being in love.

Back to the Average Guy...
The average guy only wants beautiful women. But as much as he only has an eye for beautiful women he is also afraid of approaching these beautiful women. beautiful women are hard to get and even harder to fvck, so the average guy goes through life having sex maybe once in a blue moon. At the end he gets to 30 without any real skill in talking to women or fvcking them. Where regular sex with the easy Plain Janes and Ugly Ducklings would have forced his mind to separate Love from Sex he remains uncured of the above instinct. He goes through life emotional with sex. Where he is given sex there he will fall in love.

Men are visual and select for beauty in women, but thats no reason to ignore ugly women. A Player understands this. He ignores faces. And because he ignores faces he also fvcks ugly girls, if only to keep his Dick Game eversharp.
Again because he ignores faces a Player can treat beautiful girls like trash, shocking the princesses accustomed to a never-ending chorus of male compliments and succeeding in presenting himself as High Value with the sex skills to prove it.

DICK IS LIKE MONEY.
To women Dick is like money.100cents make $1 the same way two 50¢ coins make $1. its the total that counts. Not the parts. if her BF is under-performing in the bedroom it makes sense to a woman to ask his best friend "to help the failing BF out" by fvcking her. its not cheating, its
her saving the relationship. hence the popular belief "Women Cheat To Save Relationships"

If a woman values your love enough, but your dick ain't enough she'll cheat rather than lose you. She would be
insane to walk away from an amazing love such as yours just because you are not fvcking her proper. True Love is harder to find than Good Dick. So she'll find Dick elsewhere, but in someone bonded to you so the
sex will have meaning. That someone will be your best friend or your brother. the bond you share with these two men makes it the closest she'll Bleep you without fucking you. they are the closest to you. It makes emotional sense. To seduce these men, your GF will present your sex problems to them in such a way it becomes a temptation .

Always remember:
Women cheat because they care (by choice), While men cheat with no feelings (by chance). That is, a woman cheats because something is missing in the relationship (So she PRE-PLANS and because of this its hard for her to get caught), While a man cheats simply because an opportunity presented itself.

99 PROBLEMS BUT A DICK AIN'T 1.
For a woman Dick is easy, it is Love that is hard. Her life is 99% dick but 1% Love. because of this, you can't really get a girl by promising her sex (she can get it all by herself thank you. Besides, what can you do to her that she hasn't experienced 10X before?) But you get her by promising her Love. Just as she gets you by promising you Sex. Because love is as difficult to get for a woman as sex is difficult for a man to get.

women have 99 problems but a dick ain't 1. while a Virgin has 99 problems and they're all about dick. To many men a virgin has nothing to offer because she is not sexually active. This forces the Virgin to find love among Players And Bad Boys; the men who sleep eat and live pussy, because these men are the only men who can love even
though sex is not promised. while the average man's motto is "If you love me have sex with me".

Men use love to get sex ("If you love me prove it" ) , while women use sex to get love ("if you like it put a ring on it" ) . Men hope love will lead to Sex while women hope Sex will lead to Love. To men sex is the Final Destination, to women sex is the Start of the Journey. A man manipulates until he gets sex (as women always lament "He left me after we had sex!" ), and a woman starts manipulating after giving sex (as men always lament "After sex she has started making demands" )

to the average man love is not love until he's given sex. To a woman sex is not sex until she's in love. Even if she has sex, "it doesn't count". If a woman tells you she has slept with 5 guys in her life she means SHE HAS BEEN IN LOVE with 5 guys in her life. Not that her body count is 5. It can be as high as 50.

HOW A PLAYER PLAYS A VIRGIN.
Players know 1 thing other men don't: A virgin is the only GF you can cheat on with her approval. A Player need only sit his virgin down, hold her hands, look deep into
her eyes and solemnly say "I wanna do everything right by you, that's why I'm saving everything for marriage because you're the only girl i care about and i respect you too much to do to you the things i do to those other girls" ; and the Virgin's eyes fill with wonder and awe. to her this man is a Marvellous Wonder. she's amazed at how easily he can fvck 10 women and not feel anything inside! because to herself Love And Sex are the same thing she's 100% sure she'll marry the first guy who'll fvck her and never cheat on him.....and that is exactly what the Player is counting on, for when the time comes, he will not forsake all others for her, but will bring in a new manipulation and continue his womanizing ways while knowing 99.9% his Woman is his and his alone; while men
fight each other to wife up his hoes..

HOW A PLAYER PLAYS A NON-VIRGIN.
The very excuses men use to avoid fucking virgins ("virgins are too clingy" / "Virgins get too attached" ), the Player uses to Bleep non-virgins. like this: he tells a girl in a belittling tone that sex with him will make her fall in love. Easy. that he's tired of girls becoming clingy and possessive because of sex and that himself he's no longer looking for love because love doesn't love him. love is pain. now, these are words a girl last heard when she was a virgin, and they're an insult to her matured ability to separate Love And Sex. She feels challenged to prove she's now a big girl who can handle Sex Without Emotion.

When the Player tells a girl he no longer believes in love it is a trap he has set for her and she becomes trapped in it the moment she sets out to prove to him that love still exists.
It's a trap because, one: It puts the burden of romance on the Girl since she's the one with a point to prove and, two: It gives a Player a ready excuse for when he'll disappoint her ("but I told you I don't believe in love" ).

A Player presents himself as an innocent love-seeker cruelly wounded in his search for love by saying stuff like "i will never marry for love", coming across as someone who's drowning his sorrows in pussy and fvcking the pain away. This gives a woman hope that a Player can be tamed if he can be proven wrong. And so a woman sets out to prove him wrong and show him that romance is not dead - using the only super power a woman has: Pussy Power.

The woman hopes against hope that out of the dozens of pussies the Player is fvcking her own will be the sweetest most amazing pussy that will reset the Player's heart and make him a romantic.

You have heard many a woman falling into this trap boastfully declare; "He has never been with a woman like me..."

In this regard, Players don't really break hearts. Women break their own hearts. They get their hopes up too high that a Player will change if overdosed with pussy. Which never happens. A Player is nothing but a woman with a Dick. You don't get him by offering sex. what can you do for him that he hasn't experienced 10X before??

You are just being played.

HOW A PLAYER PLAYS A WOMAN BASED ON HER LOOKS AND AGE.
After a lifetime of lying to herself through fakeup (AKA makeup), fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake butts, fake thighs, fake hair, fake skin complexion, fake orgasms. etc, a woman's mind has developed a weakness for lies. An addiction. If women love money, then the one thing they hate with an equal opposite passion is Truth. Truth hurts. Their feelings. If you love truth women don't love you. And if you don't have money then better be a damn good liar.

Tell a beautiful girl she's ugly enough times and she'll believe it. And vice versa. A woman's susceptibility to lies goes back thousands of years, right back to the Garden of Eden and to Eve, the First Woman who believed a lie. This weakness for falsehoods coupled with her incurable insecurity about her looks and age exposes a woman to manipulation.

Like this: A Player knows that you fvck an Ugly Girl by making her feel Beautiful (flattery) but you fvck a Beautiful Girl by making her feel Ugly (negging). A Player knows teenage girls envy grown women for their freedom while grown women envy teenage girls for their fresh bodies. Which tells him that you fvck a Teenager by making her feel Grown Up but you fvck an Older Woman by making her feel Young Again. A Player knows complimenting a woman's Intelligence over her Beauty will unlock her legs. and so on and so forth.

A Player knows.

THE POLARITY RULE.
Everything about men and women concerning love and sex happens on polarities. On opposites. The sexes contradict each other. In their desires, methods and goals.

See the contradiction here: Sex means nothing to a woman yet a man's sexual experience means everything to her (he must blow her mind). Sex means everything to a man yet a woman's sexual experience means nothing to
him (she must be chaste). hence "I'm fucking for experience" coming from a woman is as hilarious as "im saving myself for marriage" coming from a man. There are no such things.

Another contradiction: The weakness of men is the pleasures of the flesh and the weakness of women is the
pleasures of the cash. and so a woman plays hard to get by spending men's money but refusing to Bleep; and a man plays hard to get by fucking many women but refusing to
love. a man fucking a busload of women without falling in love is an insult to the power of pussy the same way a woman spending millions from men without fucking
is an insult to the power of money. a man whom no amount of pussy can buy his love is as priceless as a woman whom no amount of money can buy her pussy. that man is the Player and that woman is the Virgin. both the Player's heart and the Virgin's pussy cant be bought. hence when the Player falls in love it is always with a Virgin and when the Virgin loses her virginity it is to a Player. It is the Virgin who eventually tames the Player in
the same way its the Player that eventually unleashes the Virgin. Because technically the Player and the Virgin are the same thing: they are both virgins. While the female virgin has known love but not sex, the male Virgin (the Player) has known sex but not love.

THE GOOD MAN IS THE VILLAIN OF THE STORY.
The cheap man is not that man who fvcks every pussy that comes his way. No. He's just fulfilling his evolutionary imperative of sowing his seed everywhere like a good farmer. The cheap man is that one who falls in love everytime he has sex. His heart is as cheap as his dick. Not only will he break women's hearts by getting them invested emotionally only to abandon them when the next pussy comes along, but he will turn the said women into cold conniving wh0res.

And that man is the Good Man.

Good Men break hearts. Or more correctly: Good Men create sluts . By being easy. When a woman deals with a good man she lets her guard down and doesn't expect to be stabbed in the back and left for dead - that's more a Player's thing right? Wrong! To a good man Love and Sex are the same thing. From that flawed perspective all manner of šhít will flow. He is a wrecking ball. Every woman he fvcks he falls in love with. Even a pr0stitute will be told "i love you". While this cheap loser walks around feeling morally superior to the Player he's leaving behind a trial of broken hearts that will, in time, heal and from then on consider the Player a Safer Option. After all, with a Player what's on the label is what's on the inside. You know what you are getting. No surprises.

# TheRedPill
# MGTOW

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NB: From now on I'm not going to kill myself trying to shorten my posts. No more cutting off paragraphs. Apologies if you hate long posts.

ubunja:
not necessarily so. I just wanted to make it clear. There's no other place I have posted my work. Western American platforms are always banning and closing down channels and accounts I wouldn't trust them with my articles. I think NL is secure enough in that regard. I don't know.

Countersam:


Do you have a Facebook page?

ubunja:
none. I'm not active anywhere.

Countersam:


Do you have a Facebook page?