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Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by pocohantas(f): 8:44pm On Apr 09 |
safarifarms: You are crying more than the bereaved. No be by force to like you and NL resident demons. I no like una and I no fit ever like una. So if you like, cry from today till 2040, e no go change. Choose your reasonable women. Goodluck to these women o. We are here observing them. ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Advancedman(m): 9:31pm On Apr 09 |
DonDraper: The most important is for the Man to know his place same for the woman. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by maureensylvia(f): 9:37pm On Apr 09 |
Oshokhai69: Marriage is a journey, and it has its ups and downs. But overall, I'm happy with my marriage and the life we've built together. It’s not always easy but it’s definitely worth it🥰 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Verbtips(m): 9:58pm On Apr 09 |
Balablue64:post goodlady love to see |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by oweniwe(m): 10:19pm On Apr 09 |
DonDraper: I totally disagree with this point. Woman should learn to submit to their men, if she cannot submit to her man, let her go back to the street where different men will be passing her around. Times have changed. We are no longer in the days of Nebuchadnezzar. Most guys these days just want to go out to hustle, come back home and sleep. Any woman that is not satisfied with a simple man today, eventually Na Street go dey pass her around 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by PureFace1(m): 10:59pm On Apr 09 |
Elzazzi: You think marriage or relationship is not more expensive ? if you calculate the bills you will pay in relationship and marriage you will realize that it's not worth it for what you will get. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Fortune13(m): 11:03pm On Apr 09 |
Savedday2: My brother, Your personal experience(s) in marriage cannot be an evidence that marriage is evil. It's quite unfortunate that you view marriage with such lens. One thing I'm sure of is that every marriage go through a season of tests. How you handle the tests have serious influence on the lifespan of the marriage. Many are not prepared for the season of tests in marriage. |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by jiz: 11:47pm On Apr 09 |
All your 10 points are good but none will help without THE G FACTOR OF GOD |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by UjuJoan2: 1:37am On Apr 10 |
DonDraper: I agree with No. 9. A woman can never respect or love a man she has to provide for. She might for a short period of time, but if it becomes the norm you have lost her. Most women don't mind having gender roles, what annoys us is when we have to provide financially and still have to play the role of a home maker all the time. Marriage, like life, has to be balanced! 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by UjuJoan2: 1:44am On Apr 10 |
franchasofficia: This is the way Nigerian men think. They think they were born to flirt and sleep with anything available. But the truth is that, most women think that way too. But we live in a society where a promiscuous woman is seen as a wh0re and the same kind of man is seen as a virile man. So women restrain because they know the society is less forgiving of their indiscretions. Have you met a girl / woman who has absolutely nothing to lose? Then you'll know men are women are equally sexually promiscuous. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Oshokhai69: 5:57am On Apr 10 |
PureFace1: What do you mean by ‘it doesn’t really worth it’? Is this what they thought you in your school? |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by obotematics: 6:00am On Apr 10 |
Congratulations My 15 years lesson, never trust a woman. Don't let your in-laws in! They are haters Never trust a woman Dazzol 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Oshokhai69: 6:00am On Apr 10 |
oweniwe: You marry a woman that is doing well in her career making same as if not more than you and contributing a significant portion of the finances to run the home and you expect her to submit to you? Because you are who? God? |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Oshokhai69: 6:05am On Apr 10 |
franchasofficia: What evidence do you have that Prince Philip was cheating on Queen Elizabeth? 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Oshokhai69: 6:15am On Apr 10 |
tollyboy5: Come, which school you go wey dem no teach you say has and have/ refuse and refused no be the same things? |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Elzazzi: 6:35am On Apr 10 |
PureFace1: You still have a point too |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Raalsalghul: 7:04am On Apr 10 |
Evolutionism: Or princess charming ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Raalsalghul: 7:09am On Apr 10 |
Evolutionism: Biology, emotions, social conformity are the driving forces behind marriage. If you examine it from a rational perspective and apply some logical thinking, it makes little sense to get married especially as a man. 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Evolutionism: 7:15am On Apr 10 |
Raalsalghul: Thank you my brother Raal🙏 |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by femi4: 7:20am On Apr 10 |
Mindlog:If you are intelligent, you can see that the first scripture and the one you put here shows that you can give both honour and respect or honour and love to ANYONE So rest this case forever |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Evolutionism: 7:23am On Apr 10 |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by femi4: 7:25am On Apr 10 |
Evolutionism:The economy n culture put pressure on the man. Marriage outside Nigeria put less pressure on man 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by franchasofficia: 7:25am On Apr 10 |
Oshokhai69:I am trying to find a direct source with names. But you can also read from this https://time.com/5221353/prince-philip-queen-elizabeth-marriage/ |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Evolutionism: 7:32am On Apr 10 |
femi4: Absolutely True.. |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Evolutionism: 7:45am On Apr 10 |
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Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by oweniwe(m): 8:11am On Apr 10 |
Oshokhai69: If she is as rich as Alakija and she cannot submit to her husband even if he is jobless, Let her go back to the streets and look for Nebuchadnezzar to marry her. Simple. |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by Oshokhai69: 8:22am On Apr 10 |
oweniwe: How old are you please? 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by oweniwe(m): 8:53am On Apr 10 |
Oshokhai69: Age has nothing to do with it. If a wife feels she is too big to submit to her husband because she is earning more money or because he cannot provide, then let her go and look for a man earning more than her. Simple. Man's life is full of so many things to sort. Woman should not come and add to his problems. If a woman feels she is too big to submit, leave her alone go find another woman who is willing to be submissive,. Simple 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by africaBlogworld: 9:19am On Apr 10 |
Learn to apologize. ![]() |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by gaite: 10:12am On Apr 10 |
tollyboy5: A wife’s role is to support and not to provide. The moment my feeding no longer becomes my husband’s problem, he ceases to be my husband. A man who is fking me must take care of me. He’s not entitled to free sex just because he paid bride price. He can as well collect it back and get the eff out of my life. The way I regarded sex before marriage is the same way I regard sex in marriage. Sex is sacred to me. You can’t be fking me kpa kpa kpa every night in the name of husband and expect not to care for me. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by ogbenimax007: 10:44am On Apr 10 |
maureensylvia:Gof bless you n your home 1 Like |
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