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It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 5:16pm On Apr 11 |
This is my personal opinion, as a man, all you need to do is create the right moments and allow your spouse to initiate intimacy. If your spouse is sapiosexual for example, try to be knowledgeable in the fields that triggers her or try to be knowledgeable about things that she might not be paying attention to. Furthermore, improve your appearance, carve your hair line, trim your beards, clean your nails, polish your teeth, always smell heavenly and most importantly try to have an A/C in your bedroom (this one works like magic) your bedroom should not exceed 12 degrees at night, always have a warm bath at night, keep the mouth fresh and wear good deodorant before going to bed. Trust me your wife will always initiate romance cos the environment is graceful. Your spouse initiating intimacy makes it more fun, if you know you know...so guys instead of focusing on your spouse, focus on yourself and your spouse will focus on you. 8 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by advanceDNA: 5:21pm On Apr 11 |
U go wait tire.....some women will die first than initiate sex.... So she won't be able to tell u "is it food" "I'm tired" "I gave u sex" Las ..las....Na paternity fraud go end all this ur ritual..... 18 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 5:23pm On Apr 11 |
advanceDNA:you go like Vawulence , but trust me it works! 😉 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by advanceDNA: 5:26pm On Apr 11 |
SSpeter: I ddnt say it will not work....but na too much wahala just to smash Besides...What is life without a vawulence..... Too much peace is not good 5 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 5:26pm On Apr 11 |
advanceDNA:Create the right moments for a lady and all those responses will be thrown in the bin. Women loves and enjoy intimacy just as much as guys unless the woman just dey manage you 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 5:28pm On Apr 11 |
advanceDNA:Na your spouse we dey talk about here, moreover, they are good practices for your personal hygiene as well. Your spouse sef go know say you hot took na 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by toujurs: 5:30pm On Apr 11 |
You are a smart man, and knowledge won't depart from you. I don't understand, how a lady tell you a grown up mumu, that she loves you. Only when you buy her gifts, or give her money. And she allows to have sex, which you initiate all the time. So where is the love. Most modern day men are just daft. To see what's happening. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Gbadugbakun(m): 5:33pm On Apr 11 |
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Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by advanceDNA: 5:34pm On Apr 11 |
SSpeter: Who said u shouldn't look fine and clean.. .a man should look fine naturally.....not only becos of fvck..... Look hot all u want....the worst some women will give u na green light....ask married men here naaa....wife wey Dem dey smash for many years still dey form saint..... 5 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 5:34pm On Apr 11 |
toujurs:💯. Guys are always chasing the wrong thing, take good care of yourself and get a career or learn a good skill and women will come around, focus on yourself and create good moments they will focus on you. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 5:37pm On Apr 11 |
advanceDNA:I am married, and no I don't fall for green lights anymore ( greenlights were for the early days) . Create good moments and your spouse will serve you romance like a king. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by advanceDNA: 5:47pm On Apr 11 |
SSpeter: Lol......u are playing hard to get for ur wife inside house...lol... u don't get it...... I ddnt say a man shouldn't do all u suggested... I'm just telling u that just because ur wife initiate sex doesn't mean every woman does or will....some women dont initiate sex.. .. Just as u think it's not romantic for a man to do so...some woman also think what is obtainable and romantic is for a man to do so..... Also..There are women who weaponizes sex.. There are women who always wants to have leverage when it comes to sex.... If u marry retired oloshó ..u will know what I'm talking about 4 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 5:52pm On Apr 11 |
advanceDNA:I understand your point, remember you are not playing hard to get you are only reprioritizing your priorities and it becomes a way of life. You shouldn't initiate intimacy come on, create the right moment for it. Let us not delve into a dysfunctional home cos it will be too complex and we will end up discussing futility 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by advanceDNA: 6:02pm On Apr 11 |
SSpeter: There is nothing wrong in a man initiating sex. Why will u even say this......?? Both man and wife should do it ..that's team work.....both parties will feel desired, loved and wanted..... When u as a man always want ur woman to express need for something u both desire....check well..looks like u have worship complex ...u might be just a a sexual narcissist ..... 4 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 6:48pm On Apr 11 |
advanceDNA:Vawulence!!! |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Fahvvy: 7:26pm On Apr 11 |
You fit do all this one finish make another man wey no do anything dey nack your woman steady 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by toujurs: 9:27pm On Apr 11 |
SSpeter:That's the problem, and this cowardice is among igbo men. They would look so unkempt so they can, provide for their babe who could leave them. So much myopic men. With inferiority complex. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Nonexisting1: 9:30pm On Apr 11 |
The efforts you put in coming up with this nonsense post could've better used in moulding few blocks in my site. Every time, chochocho about sex. Mtchew. Ndi ara
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Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 10:30pm On Apr 11 |
Nonexisting1:vawulence |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by kalufelix(m): 12:35am On Apr 12 |
The content doesn't really suit the heading..women should be serving the meat to their husband like food or ensure to seriously provocate the D in subtle ways...but then sex has become a nuclear weapon and that means she would be disarmed.. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Karlifate: 7:45am On Apr 12 |
SSpeter: Exactly! 💯 |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Esthered: 8:46am On Apr 12 |
As a nursing mum and mum to another toddler working 9 to 5, he knows that if he follows your ideology, our .....will suffer as I rarely initiate it. Child bearing and nurturing affects our libido sometimes. Even if I do, it'll never match his demand. Married men should do what works for them. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 9:48am On Apr 12 |
Esthered:I have kids too, my spouse was in banking hence, hers was 5am-10pm including traffic. During postpartum period, hormones can disrupt the flow, however, as a man you have to make yourself desirable...and it works a few friends that I shared this with experienced an uptick in initiation from their spouses almost immediately |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Esthered: 10:13am On Apr 12 |
SSpeter:Alright. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by KingLennon(m): 10:53am On Apr 12 |
Fahvvy:Wisdom will not kill you in this life ....Fear women |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 12:27pm On Apr 12 |
Fahvvy:Vawulence , well the aim is to make yourself desirable and create moments that will make your spouse always want to be around you. Cheating is another topic entirely |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Eunoiaa(f): 12:35pm On Apr 12 |
Lol... if you people's "rules" and setting up situations to initiate sex isn't constricting to you, good luck. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 2:13pm On Apr 12 |
Eunoiaa:women have been using the seduction techniques for aeons. Guys should also know that they are desirable too. They should also take time to make themselves the priority |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Evolutionism: 2:26pm On Apr 12 |
SSpeter: May God continue to bless my Ex Estoreel wherever she is now. I have never begged for Sex all my life and will never. Just enough teasing and being romantic then i'm good to go. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 2:35pm On Apr 12 |
Evolutionism:💯...all you need to do is create the environment for intimacy and allow her Excellency proceed 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Evolutionism: 2:42pm On Apr 12 |
SSpeter: Infact my immediate cute petite babe Estoreel really performed wonders with me. Apart from the first time i teased and was very romantic with her. Afterall she was the one always taking the lead. I dey do shakara sef sometimes, The shakara dey always sweet me As a man, Just be cute, Have a good body and be very hygienic. Most of them would be so eager to eat you raw, believe me. 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 2:44pm On Apr 12 |
Evolutionism:Oga this is for married people ... |
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