Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

Bro no b lie that's what relationship has degenerated to nowadays. The sad reality is that if you don't have cash you can't marry a girl of your choice. The useless girls of today don't have a choice,they only care about money if you like be a transgender they would marry you in as much as you have money.thats how dirty and useless today's ladies have became.they think with their pusis

The first thing to realize is that money does not guarantee happiness or love. While financial stability is important, it is not the only factor that leads to a successful relationship.

Here are some tips that can help boost confidence and improve the chances of finding a meaningful relationship:

1) Work on building self-esteem: This can be achieved through self-care, self-improvement, and positive self-talk. Exercise, eat healthy, practice good hygiene, develop a skill, explore a new hobby, etc. Speak kindly to yourself and focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

2) Learn to communicate effectively: It is important to express feelings and thoughts clearly and honestly. Practice active listening and be open-minded. Engage in conversations with women you admire and show interest in their lives.

3) Focus on building meaningful connections: Seek out women who share your values and interests. Build connections based on commonalities and shared experiences rather than solely on material possessions.

4) Take risks: It is okay to feel vulnerable and take risks. This can mean asking someone out, expressing feelings, or trying new things. Remember that rejection is not a reflection of your self-worth, and it can lead to new opportunities and growth.

Remember that confidence is attractive, and it can take time and practice to develop it. Focus on building a positive self-image, communicating effectively, and building meaningful connections with others.

ABMC:
The first thing to realize is that money does not guarantee happiness or love. While financial stability is important, it is not the only factor that leads to a successful relationship.

Here are some tips that can help boost confidence and improve the chances of finding a meaningful relationship:

1) Work on building self-esteem: This can be achieved through self-care, self-improvement, and positive self-talk. Exercise, eat healthy, practice good hygiene, develop a skill, explore a new hobby, etc. Speak kindly to yourself and focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

2) Learn to communicate effectively: It is important to express feelings and thoughts clearly and honestly. Practice active listening and be open-minded. Engage in conversations with women you admire and show interest in their lives.

3) Focus on building meaningful connections: Seek out women who share your values and interests. Build connections based on commonalities and shared experiences rather than solely on material possessions.

4) Take risks: It is okay to feel vulnerable and take risks. This can mean asking someone out, expressing feelings, or trying new things. Remember that rejection is not a reflection of your self-worth, and it can lead to new opportunities and growth.

Remember that confidence is attractive, and it can take time and practice to develop it. Focus on building a positive self-image, communicating effectively, and building meaningful connections with others.

But did u read where op just said he doesn't have money?

You don't really need to put effort to make a relationship work at the state. The only thing you need to make work is money in your life currently.

Make sure of only the most important things and love isn't one of them you need rn.


Over..

Sorry boss.
But the same way you're broke and lonely, pls make sure when everything starts working right, you won't be dying for another man's daughter.
Reason why I said that is, guys that are broke and lonely (no relationship) once they start making money, they start reasoning the biggest yansh to date, forgetting that if they were still broke, the biggest yansh won't even reason them 1%. that's a bitch ass boys move.

U need to be wiped cord at the back of your neck if all these things you said about yourself are true.
You better shun woman right now, hustle, eat good food, sip some alcohol, fork olosho, let your focus and care be centred on yourself only not women. LEAVE WOMEN ALONE.

Stay away from girls and work on yourself. That's the natural thing to do.

A single man who's also struggling doesn't know how loved and blessed he's by God himself......

Enter relationship when you dey broke and you come still dey jobless join,na from that day you go know say "wahala" dey different from "WAHALA"

In Nigeria, the quantity of money in your pocket determines the quality of girl you end up with, ignore at your own peril, it's a shame that our society have gone totally materialistic but poverty and greed are to blame.

Sapasenator:
Stay away from girls and work on yourself. That's the natural thing to do.

I was thinking of engaging in only sexual relationships and avoiding long term relationships. Is this also a good idea?

I think your priority should be how to make money. Not even for girls but for your own sake.

No matter how a girl loves you and cares about you, money must still exchange hands









No finance, No romance

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

DJ cuppy was born into otedola family.
Has she found love or a healthy relationship?

Bill gates is a billionaire same with Jeff bezos. Why are they divorcees.

Go work on your finances first, when you are relatively comfortable not necessarily rich, you will have your confidence back

I am not saying broke boys don't bag hot girls with Rizz and orientation, I am saying you are worried about the wrong issue here

ABMC:
The first thing to realize is that money does not guarantee happiness or love. While financial stability is important, it is not the only factor that leads to a successful relationship.

Here are some tips that can help boost confidence and improve the chances of finding a meaningful relationship:

1) Work on building self-esteem: This can be achieved through self-care, self-improvement, and positive self-talk. Exercise, eat healthy, practice good hygiene, develop a skill, explore a new hobby, etc. Speak kindly to yourself and focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

2) Learn to communicate effectively: It is important to express feelings and thoughts clearly and honestly. Practice active listening and be open-minded. Engage in conversations with women you admire and show interest in their lives.

3) Focus on building meaningful connections: Seek out women who share your values and interests. Build connections based on commonalities and shared experiences rather than solely on material possessions.

4) Take risks: It is okay to feel vulnerable and take risks. This can mean asking someone out, expressing feelings, or trying new things. Remember that rejection is not a reflection of your self-worth, and it can lead to new opportunities and growth.

Remember that confidence is attractive, and it can take time and practice to develop it. Focus on building a positive self-image, communicating effectively, and building meaningful connections with others.

a broke man is firstly concerned with what to eat, all this things can only be applicable if one is relatively rich or comfortable to afford these things you listed

No1 Question..

Do u watch porn??

zicol2015:
No1 Question..

Do u watch porn??

no I stopped recently

If a guy could say he can't enter a relationship because he is broke, why then would a very broke girl feel and think she would be or enter into a relationship?

The audacity of broke Nigeria girls is alarming. You'll see a broke girl broke shaming her fellow broke guy

If you think you're broke, then stop thinking of ladies

zicol2015:
No1 Question..

Do u watch porn??

How does that relates to anything. Billionaires with multiple girlfriends watch porns. What are you on about?

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

If you don't have money don't bother to toast any ladies cus when they discover you can't provide for them... they will frustrated you...

Just goan hustle and forget women dis period

Relax brother.
You are a prize to be won by any woman if you can only focus fully on yourself to become great in life.

If you desperately need to have a female friend then go to church, join the choir and learn an instrument.

Don't run after women.
Don't kill yourself to impress ANYONE.

Heavens help those who help themselves.

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

bro forget women for now, majority of 99.999999% of them are after money, just maintain your cool, the one that like you the way you are will surface, but when she shows up, appreciate her

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

Go for humble ladies. The ones that are really humble and natural. Also make sure you have a job or business

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

Are you handsome?

FRANCISTOWN:

Are you handsome?

no I'm not

ayjay45:
no I'm not

Are you tall?

FRANCISTOWN:

Are you tall?

5ft8

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

if you no fit manipulate your territory you no go fit make am bro
wake up!

Guy since the reason for ur ow self esteem is because u are broke, then why not work on ur financial side first, then u automatically kill the problem when u have money.

No1 Question..Do u watch porn??