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This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ayjay45(m): 3:45pm On Apr 14 |
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday. I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money. I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money. And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies. I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola. Please advise me 8 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by 4KNGOATS(m): 3:59pm On Apr 14 |
Bro no b lie that's what relationship has degenerated to nowadays. The sad reality is that if you don't have cash you can't marry a girl of your choice. The useless girls of today don't have a choice,they only care about money if you like be a transgender they would marry you in as much as you have money.thats how dirty and useless today's ladies have became.they think with their pusis 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ABMC(m): 4:06pm On Apr 14 |
The first thing to realize is that money does not guarantee happiness or love. While financial stability is important, it is not the only factor that leads to a successful relationship. Here are some tips that can help boost confidence and improve the chances of finding a meaningful relationship: 1) Work on building self-esteem: This can be achieved through self-care, self-improvement, and positive self-talk. Exercise, eat healthy, practice good hygiene, develop a skill, explore a new hobby, etc. Speak kindly to yourself and focus on your strengths and accomplishments. 2) Learn to communicate effectively: It is important to express feelings and thoughts clearly and honestly. Practice active listening and be open-minded. Engage in conversations with women you admire and show interest in their lives. 3) Focus on building meaningful connections: Seek out women who share your values and interests. Build connections based on commonalities and shared experiences rather than solely on material possessions. 4) Take risks: It is okay to feel vulnerable and take risks. This can mean asking someone out, expressing feelings, or trying new things. Remember that rejection is not a reflection of your self-worth, and it can lead to new opportunities and growth. Remember that confidence is attractive, and it can take time and practice to develop it. Focus on building a positive self-image, communicating effectively, and building meaningful connections with others. 11 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by UpTown001(m): 4:15pm On Apr 14 |
ABMC: But did u read where op just said he doesn't have money? 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by chatinent: 4:40pm On Apr 14 |
You don't really need to put effort to make a relationship work at the state. The only thing you need to make work is money in your life currently. Make sure of only the most important things and love isn't one of them you need rn. Over.. 7 Likes
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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by marlow1962(m): 4:55pm On Apr 14 |
Sorry boss. But the same way you're broke and lonely, pls make sure when everything starts working right, you won't be dying for another man's daughter. Reason why I said that is, guys that are broke and lonely (no relationship) once they start making money, they start reasoning the biggest yansh to date, forgetting that if they were still broke, the biggest yansh won't even reason them 1%. that's a bitch ass boys move. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Obainoman6: 5:12pm On Apr 14 |
U need to be wiped cord at the back of your neck if all these things you said about yourself are true. You better shun woman right now, hustle, eat good food, sip some alcohol, fork olosho, let your focus and care be centred on yourself only not women. LEAVE WOMEN ALONE. 19 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Sapasenator: 5:16pm On Apr 14 |
Stay away from girls and work on yourself. That's the natural thing to do. 8 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Sonnobax15(m): 5:21pm On Apr 14 |
![]() A single man who's also struggling doesn't know how loved and blessed he's by God himself...... Enter relationship when you dey broke and you come still dey jobless join,na from that day you go know say "wahala" dey different from "WAHALA" 16 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by greenermodels: 5:22pm On Apr 14 |
In Nigeria, the quantity of money in your pocket determines the quality of girl you end up with, ignore at your own peril, it's a shame that our society have gone totally materialistic but poverty and greed are to blame. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ayjay45(m): 5:43pm On Apr 14 |
Sapasenator:I was thinking of engaging in only sexual relationships and avoiding long term relationships. Is this also a good idea? 1 Like |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ValCon888: 5:48pm On Apr 14 |
I think your priority should be how to make money. Not even for girls but for your own sake. 3 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by KingLennon(m): 5:53pm On Apr 14 |
No matter how a girl loves you and cares about you, money must still exchange hands ![]() No finance, No romance ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by SarcasticWords: 5:54pm On Apr 14 |
ayjay45: DJ cuppy was born into otedola family. Has she found love or a healthy relationship? Bill gates is a billionaire same with Jeff bezos. Why are they divorcees. 7 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Gadafii: 5:56pm On Apr 14 |
Go work on your finances first, when you are relatively comfortable not necessarily rich, you will have your confidence back I am not saying broke boys don't bag hot girls with Rizz and orientation, I am saying you are worried about the wrong issue here 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Gadafii: 6:00pm On Apr 14 |
ABMC:a broke man is firstly concerned with what to eat, all this things can only be applicable if one is relatively rich or comfortable to afford these things you listed 2 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by zicol2015: 6:34pm On Apr 14 |
No1 Question.. Do u watch porn?? 1 Like |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ayjay45(m): 6:35pm On Apr 14 |
zicol2015:no I stopped recently 2 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by G00dharddick: 6:50pm On Apr 14 |
If a guy could say he can't enter a relationship because he is broke, why then would a very broke girl feel and think she would be or enter into a relationship? The audacity of broke Nigeria girls is alarming. You'll see a broke girl broke shaming her fellow broke guy 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Rexymania(m): 7:26pm On Apr 14 |
If you think you're broke, then stop thinking of ladies |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Sapasenator: 7:29pm On Apr 14 |
zicol2015: How does that relates to anything. Billionaires with multiple girlfriends watch porns. What are you on about? 3 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by BigDawsNet: 8:22pm On Apr 14 |
ayjay45: If you don't have money don't bother to toast any ladies cus when they discover you can't provide for them... they will frustrated you... Just goan hustle and forget women dis period 5 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Itiskdg121(m): 8:31pm On Apr 14 |
Relax brother. You are a prize to be won by any woman if you can only focus fully on yourself to become great in life. If you desperately need to have a female friend then go to church, join the choir and learn an instrument. Don't run after women. Don't kill yourself to impress ANYONE. Heavens help those who help themselves. ayjay45: 4 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Nursepepeye(f): 8:32pm On Apr 14 |
ayjay45:bro forget women for now, majority of 99.999999% of them are after money, just maintain your cool, the one that like you the way you are will surface, but when she shows up, appreciate her 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Yashita: 8:34pm On Apr 14 |
ayjay45: Go for humble ladies. The ones that are really humble and natural. Also make sure you have a job or business |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by FRANCISTOWN: 8:35pm On Apr 14 |
ayjay45:Are you handsome? |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ayjay45(m): 8:41pm On Apr 14 |
FRANCISTOWN:no I'm not |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by FRANCISTOWN: 8:50pm On Apr 14 |
ayjay45:Are you tall? |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ayjay45(m): 8:51pm On Apr 14 |
FRANCISTOWN:5ft8 1 Like |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Verbtips(m): 9:01pm On Apr 14 |
ayjay45:if you no fit manipulate your territory you no go fit make am bro wake up! |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by tuzle(m): 9:07pm On Apr 14 |
Guy since the reason for ur ow self esteem is because u are broke, then why not work on ur financial side first, then u automatically kill the problem when u have money. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by AcadaWriter: 9:11pm On Apr 14 |
No1 Question..Do u watch porn?? 1 Like |
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