Odewaleadesoye:


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This is a wrong school of thought. What about the women that their husbands provides everything for them and they still cheat with the guy that has nothing?

Kaka was financially unstable ba?
Will smith too abi?
Nonsense and ingredients
Well na who dey put hoolooshow for house call am wife i blame
Smh🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

Emma09:
Very true. How as a man u can't provide for ur family and not expect ur wife to cheat on u? Almost very impossible. Make God no make me fail in my responsibility as a man o IJN. Amen!

As much as you want to drive home the point "Men must Provide and take charge, don't justify cheating

There are Men that provide 100% and there wife still cheat with driver or EX, not guarantees anything however both genders should just live up to there responsibility

I think it's only reasonable if this advice is coming from an experienced married woman.

Beauty4brain:
How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.

Bill Gates is divorced , Dr Dre is divorced , Basketmouth is separated, let me guess they were below their wives and didn't cater for the family right ?

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

Ok what about those women their husbands provide everything for and still go cheat on them

What of the ones you give all your life savings to and still cheat on you?

Beauty4brain:
How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.

Plz no matter wot d circumstance be for u a4 a married wowan, instead of misbehaving in ur marrage, plz divorce! Its more honorable.

Beauty4brain:
How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.

U now see why u shouldn't expect men to be faithful to you. U made good points

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

Hope you know rich men' wives cheat in marriage too.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Ok what about those women their husbands provide everything for and still go cheat on them

Always make sure your woman is sexually attracted to you as well. Provision and sexual attraction should come hand in hand.

Bubu4Sea:
This useless woman again

😂 🤣

Go and Marry first

Fiscus105:



Hope you know rich men' wives cheat in marriage too.

Lack of sex makes them cheat, balance everything up with good sex. Provision and sexual attraction/satisfaction should come hand in hand

Emma09:
Very true. How as a man u can't provide for ur family and not expect ur wife to cheat on u? Almost very impossible. Make God no make me fail in my responsibility as a man o IJN. Amen!

you already failed!

EreluRoz:
Always make sure your woman is sexually attracted to you as well. Provision and sexual attraction should come hand in hand.

You are right. But that doesn’t mean the woman can’t still cheat on the husband if she catches feelings for some other guy. I have seen this play out on several occasions

someone who failed in her marriage is giving advice.

pls, loud it comrade!!! Anyone who cheats already has cheating in her gene. She is justifying cheating women and some morons are liking her post. continue

Mordecai:


So why did Asamoah Gyan's wife cheat to the extent of having three kids for another man?

Odewaleadesoye:


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So you mean all women carrying responsibilities of taking care of the home cheat on their hubby? That means they are prostitutes because you claim they do it because of need. My dear you are wrong.

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

Why u be like this?

No be woman be folorunso alakija. Shey that kind woman need to cheat to provide for immediate family.

If u pillar na penis you go eventually fall.

I appreciate all those hard working ladies out. Make una let them spoil una. No do pass urself..

MyVILLAGEpeople:


You are right. But that doesn’t mean the woman can’t still cheat on the husband if she catches feelings for some other guy. I have seen this play out on several occasions

Let me tell you a little secret, if your woman finds you sexually attractive and satisfied, other men will irritate the hell out of her. The thought of ever cheating won't even cross her mind

While in the UK, Nigerian women claim they cheat because their husbands are too busy hustling.

Person wey want dance to devil tone go dance even if radio no dey

Bliztzer:


Why u be like this?

No be woman be folorunso alakija. Shey that kind woman need to cheat to provide for immediate family.

If u pillar na penis you go eventually fall.

I appreciate all those hard working ladies out. Make una let them spoil una. No do pass urself..

Folorunsho Alakija eventually sent her husband packing. You kom even give me point sef.

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

I disagree, a woman that would cheat would definitely cheat. Some that cheat have everything and comfortable yet still cheat.

Tell me, what's the thing that triggers cheating in a woman just because she's catering for her family, just because she probably has more blessings than her husband?

Bubu4Sea:
This useless woman again

No please don't call her useless, that's unfair. Their r better words to use like "senseless or foolish. Ok.

She made a bit of sense here.......... Majority of men that give married women money, would expect to insert their one, in her zero.......... 😜😁

EreluRoz:
Let me tell you a little secret, if your woman finds you sexually attractive and satisfied, other men will irritate the hell out of her. The thought of ever cheating won't even cross her mind

Not all women belong to this category. Some cheating is just ingrained in them.

Greenfusion:

I disagree, a woman that would cheat would definitely cheat. Some that cheat have everything and comfortable yet still cheat.

Tell me, what's the thing that triggers cheating in a woman just because she's catering for her family, just because she probably has more blessings than her husband?

In cases like this, the woman is not enjoying sex with her man and unfortunately men hates women that are open to them sexually, so some women who are not disciplined would rather secretly seek fun outside than appearing as a LovePeddler before her husband.

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

Shebi you dey Nigeria dey talk like this. When you Wana settle down go for a woman who is not industrious, devoid of prospects as na only you wey be man suppose dey handle the billing. Shebi na Nigeria you dey, body go tell you.
Even God created a woman to be a man's help mate. Any woman that cheats because she has to provide for her family na closet slut.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Not all women belong to this category. Some cheating is just ingrained in them.

Marry who matches your sexual energy, bring out that freaky side of your woman and enjoy your sexual life. No woman cheats on a man who satisfy her cravings. Take this to the banks.

I muted for seconds in response to the minister for women. Haven't you seen a woman her man provides everything including her own pad, fuelling her car and never ask her how she spent her salaries. When it comes to banging the man proves himself a man but still cheat on the man. Same thing applies to man. Cheating is 23/24 for both gender.

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

If you decide not to waste my resources to educate you then I will accept your assertion. You can't waste money to be used in training boys and giving boys seed funds to fund their start up and then turn around to become useless to the society.

In synopsis, you can't approbate and reprobate at the same time.