My wife found out about my affairs and has withdrawn from me since then.
No lovemaking or interactions whatsoever even though I have apologised profusely.

MinahTee:

My wife found out about my affairs and has withdrawn from me since then.
No lovemaking or interactions whatsoever even though I have apologised profusely.

Yours is better chief. My own wife has been a different person totally since I lost my job. I get sex once in a while. Maybe once in 4 months. I feel we're no longer married

arfe:

Yours is better chief. My own wife has been a different person totally since I lost my job. I get sex once in a while. Maybe once in 4 months. I feel we're no longer married

Face your hustle.. find a sweet younger girl .. hope you've got no kids yet..

Look for another badass side chick better than her!

Women get pained when you date someone below their level!

Date someone far above her level in everything! If you financially buoyant, marry a second wife!

Women love competition by will never accept!

AllenSpencer:
Look for another badass side chick better than her!

Women get pained when you date someone below their level!

Date someone far above her level in everything! If you financially buoyant, marry a second wife!

Women love competition by will never accept!

This advice is not for married people bro

arfe:

Yours is better chief. My own wife has been a different person totally since I lost my job. I get sex once in a while. Maybe once in 4 months. I feel we're no longer married

Women sha, they always find something to bring out their evil side

Is better you get a side chick

arfe:

Yours is better chief. My own wife has been a different person totally since I lost my job. I get sex once in a while. Maybe once in 4 months. I feel we're no longer married

Na their way.,.....

Once a man's status change,especially when they are doing more with their money at home.... U automatically become little in their eyes...make God nor let person marry "money for hand back for ground" woman....

Focus on getting back on ur feet....ignore am sexually.


Btw....Nor lose guard oooo....na so paternity fraud dey happen because she fit dey carry am go outside...

advanceDNA:


Na their way.,.....

Once a man's status change,especially when they are doing more with their money at home.... U automatically become little in their eyes...make God nor let person marry "money for hand back for ground" woman....

Focus on getting back on ur feet....ignore am sexually.


Btw....Nor lose guard oooo....na so paternity fraud dey happen because she fit dey carry am go outside...

What would you expect?
Women are wired to be cared for and in turn they support you. It is also in their nature to compare themselves to everyone that is above their predicament (as it is to them).

Men need to study the fillial orientation of women they date... what are her core values?
Is it 'scratch the surface' spiritual or she's just magnetic to every street knowledge. Have you had time with her mum, friends or even her siblings. The problem is we may completely ignore the red flags.
I love women regardless of how much is left in my bank account. I must also add that it's easy for me to get all the support I need home and away
Go back and do your homework properly or someone just may have been doing a better job.
Don't be a nagging prick. Keep your cards to yourself and stay fly (don't lose your romantic value).
And whatever you are, get acquainted with everything detestable about simps...yuk!

Pastoshizzy:
What would you expect?
Women are wired to be cared for and in turn they support you. It is also in their nature to compare themselves to everyone that is above their predicament (as it is to them).

Nobody is wired to be anything..... we just create excuses for these people....

To me .. its wrong to enter into marriage with the " i must be provided" for mentality ....

If u are lucky ur man is rich ....all good ...u will get the baby girl life.....but if not,which is a likelihood in a country like nigeria....u re-strategize and forge ahead together as a team.....

And if want to leave ..leave naaaa....not that u will remain in marriage and be frustrating another person's son because he can't give u the baby girl life u want.....

E easy u nor make money buy ur self....abi the two hands wey God give women, na plate e say make them dey use am wash...

Are you sorry about your infidelity or you're sorry you got caught?
Imagine a return match from her? How would you feel?
Water will find it's level eventually if you're lovable and forgivable, if you're not then you have a serious relationship issue that won't just go away until you have a total mindset overhaul on commitments.
On the other hand what have you sown? If you're reaping something else maybe you need to change to livestock farming before it's too late coz it could be something you need in a woman so badly that she ain't got.

advanceDNA:

we just create excuses for these people....

I see

Pastoshizzy:
I see

If u like ......nor see

advanceDNA:


If u like ......nor see

It's 4am. I won't wake up to start trading insults. Okay.

Some things can be very obvious.

Pastoshizzy:
It's 4am. I won't wake up to start trading insults. Okay.

Some things can be very obvious.

Insults??

Where is the insult??

Na wah oooo

Alot of women does dat! My own if she demand sumtinz frm me, i didnt give her! She stop giving me sex and foods! Until i do wot she demand frm me!! I wil soon give 1 small babe belle here! Watch out!!!!

Men are polygamous in nature

If she no gree give u kpekus fyn olosho dey take hold bodi.

arfe:

Yours is better chief. My own wife has been a different person totally since I lost my job. I get sex once in a while. Maybe once in 4 months. I feel we're no longer married

Start seeing another woman more prettier and has a good career than your wife

Watch and see how she'll beg you on her knees to fork her

vastolord4:


Quit and face your hustle.. when you make it, find a sweet younger girl and make sure you rub your success allover your ex wives face.. hope you've got no kids yet

We have 2

arfe:

We have 2

Good, if she has forgiven you and not forgotten it's redeemable but not to forgive and not forget yet still live together! That's you digging your grave. No scorned woman is at peace with their aggressor.