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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by monerozi5590: 7:20pm On Apr 19 |
Karlifate: Nice post. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fearjah: 10:41pm On Apr 19 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by wahaladondey: 7:35am On Apr 20 |
Hey men, I need y’all input. I’ve been talking with this girl for a while and she likes me (very obviously), now the problem is I’m a very socially restrained kind of guy so I consciously avoid the sex topic, I want to ask her out but I want to Bleep her first or at least get sexual with her. How do I go about infusing sexuality in our normal daily conversations? Pukkalolo Rizzputin Caveadullam Ubunja Karlifate And every other senior men on this thread, good morning. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 11:58am On Apr 20 |
wahaladondey: It took me a while, but I got to understand that If sex is what's on your mind, then you've already lost the game before it begins. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 12:03pm On Apr 20 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by wahaladondey: 3:41pm On Apr 20 |
PinkNature: I get you point but if you got mine you’ll realize that this is more than sex, this is about allowing myself learn to be more expressive about my sexual nature. Due to my conditioning, I’ve grown to repress things of a sexual nature kind of like putting it all into my shadow, I want to be able to own my sexuality as a man without getting ashamed for myself. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Perfectskills01(m): 4:17pm On Apr 20 |
Pukkalolo: Since you decided not to show how not to be pussy focused rather , you are referring me to your book . That is, I need to buy your book to find out . That's fine. But is it all your books that teach how " not to be pussy focused " . You need to be specific on the particular book . 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by GreatAchiever1: 4:35pm On Apr 20 |
wahaladondey: Since when does being expressive about your sexual nature by having sex with ladies make you a man? it only leads to profligacy and degenerate life. You should be more worried about not having manly virtues. No one said you should repress your sexual nature but to be honest, having careless sex or even dirty talks inorder to project sex so as to bed her doesn't speak good of you and such could be a turn off to some girls. If you think the girl likes you, just do the needful and ask her out, take the lead during the whole process of the date including the conversations, get to know her and what her ideologies are - is she someone you can have a future with or someone that is just not worth your time, does she have the same ideals and beliefs as you or she someone that just wants to leech on you. With time, depends if she is someone you want to spend your future with, you can then bring up sex related topics and discussions. Everything has its own time. So the idea of being expressive about your sexual nature is false, you're a man and not a dog on heat that goes about having casual sex everywhere. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Perfectskills01(m): 5:13pm On Apr 20 |
GreatAchiever1: When does not expressive of your sexual nature also make you a man 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by wahaladondey: 5:31pm On Apr 20 |
GreatAchiever1: Once again, another person who misunderstands. Thanks for your input tho. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wotowotoman: 5:58pm On Apr 20 |
Perfectskills01: That guy is not better than the guys he is advising here. You guys probably get more pussy than he does. He’s just copying and pasting stuff from PUA blogs to sell to you guys so that he can feed his hungry family. Never take serious any man that tells you to buy his book to get advice that you can get free from the internet… 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wotowotoman: 6:03pm On Apr 20 |
PinkNature: Guy, you can’t cheat nature and genetics. You will be completely bald in a year or two. The sooner you accept it the better for you. I’m sure your dad and uncles are bald. Did they die because of the baldness? 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 6:56pm On Apr 20 |
Healthy women want a man who can lead. Damaged women want a man they can control. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 9:00pm On Apr 20 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 9:00pm On Apr 20 |
Trustworthy Friends are rare. 👌 Women are common. Never prioritize a woman, over a Trustworthy Friend. A Trustworthy Friend will be there to help you, should you become powerless. If you become powerless, women will leave you to die in your misery. 💯 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:01am On Apr 21 |
PinkNature:Dog will bite you and your mumu hair this week!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tunde835(m): 8:43am On Apr 21 |
Karlifate:I'm sure there are dudes that messaged her that she ignored. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:14pm On Apr 22 |
Tunde835:There's always a dude. The circle of life. Life's not balanced. That's why what's common has little or no value. Always strive to be the uncommon man wherever you find yourself. Because trust me,simps are in excess proportion in the world today. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 1:19am On Apr 23 |
CaveAdullam: Nice piece Cave. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:26pm On Apr 23 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:30pm On Apr 23 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:31pm On Apr 23 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:31pm On Apr 23 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by qbqetell: 7:53pm On Apr 23 |
Don't Masturbate: A Dogma from People You Least Want to Emulate The saying, "Don't Masturbate", is a saying you must have heard by now. On this thread, there are countless instances. On YouTube, there are countless instances. Your pastor and imams must have also promised all masturbators hell. I could go on, but you get the gist. Like many of you, I stayed away from this act for almost as long as I have been alive. I didn't want that disdainful look if I was ever known to be a masturbator, I stayed away from it. Many of us can't understand why it is wrong, but we all just stay away from it, to avoid disdain from society. If you ask the people who espouse the idea, "Why is masturbation wrong?", you'd get one of the following answers: 1: God Frows At It Holier-than-thous can't wait to espouse how their religion is against masturbation, yet they are never able to provide a reference in any of their Holy books. Your pastor would say masturbators are going to hell, but if you ask for a reference in the bible, he would ask what authority you have to question him. In fact, you may become a scapegoat and an outcast in your church. 2: It Would Destroy You This is another bullshit. You will see why I said this. Religion and Masturbation I have researched both Christianity and Islam countlessly, but have never found any valid argument against Masturbation. Just in case, I was the one missing the depth of available research materials, I decided to use one of these AI assistants. Question Is the Quran against Masturbation? Answer The Quran does not explicitly mention masturbation. However, Islamic scholars and interpreters have debated and discussed the topic, and some have derived guidance from related verses and hadiths (sayings and actions of the Prophet Muhammad). Some scholars consider masturbation to be makruh (disapproved or reprehensible) but not haram (forbidden). Others view it as a minor sin or a sign of weakness. The Quran does encourage Muslims to maintain chastity and modesty (e.g., Surah Al-Isra' 17:32, Surah Al-Ahzab 33:35) and to seek marriage as a means of fulfilling sexual desires (e.g., Surah An-Nisa' 4:3). However, it is crucial to note that Islam prioritizes compassion, mercy, and self-awareness, and individuals are encouraged to seek guidance from qualified scholars or counselors if they struggle with sexual desires or behaviors. Remember that Islamic interpretations can vary, and it's essential to approach these topics with sensitivity and respect for diverse perspectives. Question Is the Bible against Masturbation? Answer The Bible does not explicitly mention masturbation. However, some interpretations of certain passages have led to various perspectives on the topic. Here are a few examples: 1. Genesis 38:9-10: The story of Onan, who "spilled his seed on the ground" to avoid fathering a child, has sometimes been linked to masturbation. However, this interpretation is debated among scholars. 2. Matthew 5:27-28: Jesus teaches about lust and adultery in one's heart, which some have extended to include masturbation. However, this connection is not universally accepted. 3. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20: The apostle Paul writes about fleeing sexual immorality and honoring God with one's body. Some have applied this to masturbation, while others see it as addressing sexual relationships and exploitation. It's essential to note that the Bible's focus is on promoting healthy relationships, self-control, and respect for one's body as a temple of the Holy Spirit. Different Christian traditions and interpretations may have varying views on masturbation, and individuals often hold personal beliefs based on their understanding of scripture and spiritual guidance. Just like our AI assistant has provided, the Holy books never directly or in a logically implied manner admonish against masturbation. Islam talks about just chastity and modesty. But when asked about masturbation, because the Quran didn't say anything about it, clerics would rather consider masturbation a bad act, based on their limited personal understanding. To an extent, I don't blame some, but the ones arrogant about the claim are the biggest problems. Islam also asks, "... seek marriage as a means of fulfilling sexual desires ....". When someone says "Do X", it doesn't mean Y is forbidden. The Bible referenced "Onan, who spilled his seed on the ground ...". This is nowhere close to a clear-cut admonition against masturbation. In addition, the bible preaches against "lust and adultery". Anyone who tries to pass off masturbation as lust or adultery has likely never read the meaning of lust and adultery. Futhermore, the Bible also made reference to, "... apostle Paul writes about fleeing sexual immorality and honoring God with one's body.". Masturbation isn't sexual intercourse, and any attempt to classify it under sexual immorality is just outrightly dumb. Dangers of Not Masturbation in this Modern World Yeah, you read that title right. You see, we live in a modern world, or maybe I should say, a world very distant from the past. In past times, women dressed modestly. Muslim and Christian women were well-known for their modest dressings. Even the ones who were not so religious dressed impressively modestly. In present times, the average woman at best, puts on tempting, semi-revealing, and tight-fitting dresses. We now see 10% of their bosom. We now see the delicate curves of their body. We now see how soft their boobs are. When they run, we now see how their soft and succulent boobs dance. We now see their elegantly shaped bums. We now see the perfect sizes of their cup breasts. We now see their pant lines. We now see the delicate skin of their neck. All that, just for the average woman. It gets worse for the other 30 - 40%. We get to see their entire breasts, through a joke called (see-through) net. If you go to the beach, you see full bum bums. In fact, you now see a woman's completely stark underbody at places like the beach. The only thing you probably haven't started seeing publicly are the entrances of their vaginas. Every other thing is readily available everywhere you go? Is this a good or bad thing? I don't know, and that is not what this article is about. My point is, we now live in a vastly different world. We now live in a world, where the sexual desire of the average man is stimulated to its peak, continuously for almost through out the day. Even if you decide not to go outside, your TVs are now heavily sexualized. The internet is now heavily sexualized. Even our churches have become hotspots for satisfying our eyes with women dressed sexually temptingly. The mosques are not an exception. There isn't just anywhere to run to. Whether you like it or not, you will be sexually stimulated. Sexual tension (Boner/Konji) or whatever you want to call it, would be forced down your throat. Unless for guys having regular sex, the average man on the road is a Hot he-goat, maybe just a quiet one. You don't believe me? Make a girl approach a random guy on the road, tell him, if he slaps anyone on the road, she would allow him Bleep her. Wait and see how many slaps would go around, and eventually how many guys would line up for Bleep. If sexual tension was a mild feeling that can be easily subdued, this whole situation wouldn't have been a problem. If anything, sexual impulse is an extremely powerful force. That thing called konji has made countless men do things, even they could not believe. Ask men around the world, if they wouldn't be ashamed and sincere, 98% would narrate at least one experience of how konji made them do things they wish they never did. Konji is real. It is real and very crazy. It is real as God (for those who believe in God). In fact, certain scholars go as far as saying sexual tension is what drives the world economy: every man just wants to Bleep - not entirely true, but significantly true. This thing is so powerful, the moment surplus starts to build up in a man, you have to get it out of your system as soon as you can. You try to control it, but like fire in a bedroom, you are in control until something crazy happens. I could share my personal experience. I was a man trying to be a decent human being. There was a point in my life when I wasn't having sex. The women I was around then expected a man to bow to them to get the coochie. My ego wouldn't let me. I also didn't want to masturbate, I didn't want to be sneered for being a masturbator. I stepped out every day, to carry out my daily activities, but I found I was always already sexually stimulated by the time I got back home. The powerful force kept building up inside of me and there was no way to dissipate it. Heat a wood enough, and it would burn. Heat a metal enough, and it will melt. Heat Diamond enough, and it will melt. Heat steel enough, and it would melt. And that is exactly what happened to me. I soon found myself in a spiral of events that almost led to a point of no return. I had grace and extreme luck, for my life would have been in a mess right now. It was at this point I decide things had to change and I couldn't keep going like this. My story isn't unique. There is a sea of men who have gone through or going through similar experiences, with consequences of varying degrees. I'm not justifying any of these acts, but we have all heard of stories of grandpas abusing 5-year-old babies, stories of guys raping girls, stories of brothers sleeping with sisters, stories of fathers sleeping with daughters, stories of teachers sleeping with students, stories of guys whose careers were ruined because konji got the better of them. It always doesn't manifest in just the form above. Sometimes, it manifests in the form of beaten-down husbands and boyfriends. The wife/girlfriend finds how helpless her man can be when he needs sex, then she weaponizes it. She gives him sex when he does something good and withholds the sex when she disapproves of something, like a dog trainer training a dog. The man, fearing the consequences or not even having an option, surrenders and becomes a docile sheep that does whatever madam says and wants. This is why you sometimes see strong men become caricatures of themselves when they get into relationships. Konji is real. It sometimes manifests in the form of anger. Look at men (and women) who are always angry for no reason, you would often find they have never had sex or haven't had sex in a very long time. These are the kind who go ahead to shoot schools down, stalk and murder women, and troll on social media. People would try to make you seem weak for being unable to control konji. They would try to make you seem less. These guys are hypocrites who are getting sex often and can not relate. Also, some chronically masturbate, and shame other men who do. And truly, some don't get sex often and also don't masturbate, but look at their lives, they are often the people you least want to be like. Will Smith is an example. The boy once made a video of how terrible masturbation is, but Will Smith should be the last person trying to be an example for other men. Closing Konji is real. It is a crazy force. Before it ruins you, get hold of it. You don't want to lack it, but even more importantly, you don't want too much in your system for a prolonged period. Konji is an essential ingredient in a passionate man's system. It is what makes men work hard and grind the hell out of work. In other words, it is needed, but when you are done using it for what you need it for, you want to expel it from your system as soon as possible. The frequency and time of expulsion would depend on you. Personally, when I wake up, I go to work, and grind the hell out. But as soon as I am back, I expel that shit out of my system, unless mama is coming over for the night. When I sleep at night, my body secretes fresh one, and the cycle repeats. The first step to becoming a man with great mental clarity is being able to manage your konji levels. You don't want to have an excess or stale semen in your system for a prolonged period. If you have a girl or woman to help relieve you of this energy, great. But when a female isn't around, be proud to help yourself. So brother, head over to that store, find the most refined cream you can lay your hands on, and konj/stroke konji out of your system. Be proud. Don't let any mother fucker shame you for choosing to have mental clarity. If you can't afford a cream, a bar soap works too. Soaked detergent or even bare-hand also work, although not recommended. This is my BUT, a big B BUT actually. Never use masturbation for pleasure. There is a difference between using it to maintain your energy level and just using it whenever you feel like. Like all addictions, masturbation addiction is also bad. When masturbation becomes a tool of pleasure (instead of being a tool to keep your mental clarity), you soon start doing it too often, and that is where the problem begins. Just like too much water can kill you, too much masturbation is also detrimental. Usually, once a day, is enough. At times, you need it twice. Experiment to find out what frequency and time work best for you. In closing, Masturbation is an absolutely essential tool in the kit of every man looking to attain mental clarity and logical maturity. Even for men with relationships, it shatters whatever pussy power a woman thinks she holds over you. When she knows, your hand could do the job if she refuses, she would have less incentive to misbehave and think she holds any special power over you. Once again, Masturbation is an absolutely essential tool in the kit of every modern man. Your true moral, masculinity, career, or even life may never survive without it. Be proud to be a masturbator. I am proud to be a masturbator. Can someone share us a GIF of that Ronaldo masturbation goal celebration? The man has been trying to pass you guys a message. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KingEarnest(m): 8:11pm On Apr 23 |
qbqetell:Bullshit!!! Read this: https://www.nairaland.com/7995872/how-tricked-myself-never-masturbate https://www.nairaland.com/7977487/see-reason-why-cant-stop 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Wotowotoman: 8:16pm On Apr 23 |
That jobless dunce above wey dey write essay about soapy, you must be very foolish if you think say any sane person get time to read that mega epistle wey you write there. Yamayama fall on your bald head there ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by qbqetell: 8:56pm On Apr 23 |
KingEarnest: These references say nothing tangible about what I posted. What I see in the above articles is a guy sharing his Journey on how he quit masturbation. I don't see how that counters my argument? Was your post just a knee-jerk reaction from your brainwashing, or do you really have something to say? The guy masturbated for pleasure, which I spoke against. Did you not read that? Maybe it's a good thing to quit, for someone in his position, but how good has the quality of his decisions been as regards women. Some of you are always eager to condemn masturbation, but hardly with logical reasons. The same people who condemn masturbation are the same ones who SIMP for every woman they interact with. Will Smith was also a strong advocate against masturbation, yet look at him. You guys are the ones your wives beat down like dogs, but think you are qualified to voice opinions. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KingEarnest(m): 9:59pm On Apr 23 |
qbqetell:Masturbation is for losers. Why advocating for masturbation on a redpill thread? Why not self-control? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by qbqetell: 10:54pm On Apr 23 |
KingEarnest: Because that's the key to unlocking consistent mental clarity, unless you have an endless supply of healthy women, which 90% of men do not have. It is incredibly hard to stay true to RedPill teachings consistently if you're always Hot. You may try. You may build systems to discourage yourself, but eventually you'd do it again. And even if you don't, you would find yourself simping sooner or later. Just like other topics society frowns upon, this is another Redpill, actually a critical one required to reach the peak of Redpill spirituality. You can't claim to be redpilled, and say you only want to take the most comfortable of the pills. Condemning masturbation is denying sexual tension. But no matter how much you deny it, nature would always prevail. You are better off finding a way to work with nature, than trying to fight it. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by qbqetell: 11:02pm On Apr 23 |
You don't have to agree with me. You don't even have to do it. But unless, you've attained that level, where you can access girls so easily and get the job done conveniently, as often as you like, you would soon find Konji pushing you to do things that betray who you are. Then you would at least have an idea of what you need to change, because you stumbled upon this post. This is essence of that article. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by YourGFsnatcher: 11:16pm On Apr 23 |
Karlifate:I'm back. I miss this section... thought have found love... turn out they all the same. I miss this section like mad. Thank God I wasn't born a simp. ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KingEarnest(m): 7:39am On Apr 24 |
qbqetell:Masturbation is never the solution. So you masturbate when hot; when the urge comes again (it always does), you still masturbate? Lol! You are not still different from simps that are still slaves to sex. Read this on the side effects of masturbation: https://www.nairaland.com/6545375/been-masturbating-since-19-now https://www.nairaland.com/4115226/learn-me-masturbation-ruins-life Masturbation is a temporary solution to a long-term problem. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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