Karlifate:
The life of a man is hard, the life of a broke man is harder. 👌

To all the brothers struggling, I hope you find the courage to crack a profitable venture that will take care of your financial troubles for the rest of your life.

I'm rooting for you. 💯

All the best. 🔥

Karlifate:
The life of a man is hard, the life of a broke man is harder. 👌

To all the brothers struggling, I hope you find the courage to crack a profitable venture that will take care of your financial troubles for the rest of your life.

I'm rooting for you. 💯

All the best. 🔥

wahaladondey:
Hey men, I need y’all input. I’ve been talking with this girl for a while and she likes me (very obviously), now the problem is I’m a very socially restrained kind of guy so I consciously avoid the sex topic, I want to ask her out but I want to Bleep her first or at least get sexual with her. How do I go about infusing sexuality in our normal daily conversations?

Pukkalolo
Rizzputin
Caveadullam
Ubunja
Karlifate

And every other senior men on this thread, good morning.

PinkNature:


It took me a while, but I got to understand that If sex is what's on your mind, then you've already lost the game before it begins.

Pukkalolo:



First off, my concept of Not being pussy focused has nothing to do with direct/indirect game crap. It's more of mindset.

Perfectskills01, Let me ask you:

Have you ever encounter this with a girl:

You're alone with her for the first time and you are trying to get sexual with her, but she's resisting your touch and pushing you away....

Many guys have write me about experiencing that with women...

But let me brutally honest with you: I hardly experience this(since I got experience with women). When I'm alone with a girl for the first time, the physical escalation often go smoothly towards sex. Infact sometimes I'm the one telling the females, "take it slow baby girl, why are you so in a rush to get this dick."

This is because the girls feel very comfortable about the idea of going sexual with me.

What's my secret?

This relate to the Idea of not being pussy focused...


Okay, let's begin proper.

Let's meet John...

John ask a girl to be his girlfriend, but after he ask her out, she started giving him attitude and misbehaving...

So John comes to the redpill/pua guys. They tell John that the mistake he made was that he asked her out. They tell him, "never ask a girl out; never try to go into relationship first... Instead first Bleep her...once you Bleep her, you'll hold the power, then she will now be the person chasing you."

So John start going about trying to Bleep first, in order to hold the power.

But unfortunately what John didn't realize is that by trying to Bleep her first, he's also giving her the power, regardless.

This is the reason why the typical young girl feels so saucy and entitled nowadays...

Why?

Because every guy she meet seem to be so concern about get her pussy, as if there's some gold or treasure in there....

Now, John initially failed with women because he's putting relationship first before sex... So John decided to put sex first before relationship, but despite that John is still failing with women.

That's because putting the pussy first is not really also the solution...

So what's the solution?

Good question!


The typical woman have different mental barriers that prevents her from going sexual with you. Those mental barriers in her head are what makes her feel cheap/guilty/ashamed/unexcited about going sexual with you.

If a girl isn't allowing you go sexual with her, then it's because you have not break down those mental barriers in her head.

Have you heard of the idiom: "putting the Cart before the horse." This means putting the wrong thing first.

The horse is what move the cart, so If you want the cart to move, then put the horse first (forward).

With women, the cart is getting the pussy, while the horse is breaking down her mental barriers.


When you're focused on the pussy you are putting the cart before the horse. This Is why guys always end up somehow losing the girl they have a chance with.

But your game with women will change when you put less important on getting the pussy, because you understand that once you break down those mental barrier in her head, the pussy naturally take care of itself.

When you break down those mental barrier, she'll feels excited/comfortable about getting sexual with you.

I hope you get the idea...

If you want learn more on this idea, feel free to check out my stuff...

wahaladondey:


I get you point but if you got mine you’ll realize that this is more than sex, this is about allowing myself learn to be more expressive about my sexual nature. Due to my conditioning, I’ve grown to repress things of a sexual nature kind of like putting it all into my shadow, I want to be able to own my sexuality as a man without getting ashamed for myself.

GreatAchiever1:


Since when does being expressive about your sexual nature by having sex with ladies make you a man? it only leads to profligacy and degenerate life.
You should be more worried about not having manly virtues. No one said you should repress your sexual nature but to be honest, having careless sex or even dirty talks inorder to project sex so as to bed her doesn't speak good of you and such could be a turn off to some girls.
If you think the girl likes you, just do the needful and ask her out, take the lead during the whole process of the date including the conversations, get to know her and what her ideologies are - is she someone you can have a future with or someone that is just not worth your time, does she have the same ideals and beliefs as you or she someone that just wants to leech on you.
With time, depends if she is someone you want to spend your future with, you can then bring up sex related topics and discussions. Everything has its own time.
So the idea of being expressive about your sexual nature is false, you're a man and not a dog on heat that goes about having casual sex everywhere.

GreatAchiever1:


Since when does being expressive about your sexual nature by having sex with ladies make you a man? it only leads to profligacy and degenerate life.
You should be more worried about not having manly virtues. No one said you should repress your sexual nature but to be honest, having careless sex or even dirty talks inorder to project sex so as to bed her doesn't speak good of you and such could be a turn off to some girls.
If you think the girl likes you, just do the needful and ask her out, take the lead during the whole process of the date including the conversations, get to know her and what her ideologies are - is she someone you can have a future with or someone that is just not worth your time, does she have the same ideals and beliefs as you or she someone that just wants to leech on you.
With time, depends if she is someone you want to spend your future with, you can then bring up sex related topics and discussions. Everything has its own time.
So the idea of being expressive about your sexual nature is false, you're a man and not a dog on heat that goes about having casual sex everywhere.

Perfectskills01:


Since you decided not to show how not to be pussy focused rather , you are referring me to your book . That is, I need to buy your book to find out . That's fine.

But is it all your books that teach how " not to be pussy focused " . You need to be specific on the particular book .

PinkNature:
Hello kings.

Please I need recommendation for my hair. I want to grow out my hair.

I need a hair cream or a hair routine that will boost hair growth, darken my hair and also make my hair fuller and thicker.

PS. I don't have top notch hair genetics, beards genetics and I've also observed some receding in my hairline and I'll also want to retain my hairline and also grow a beard.

Thanks, I await your responses.

Wotowotoman:


Guy, you can’t cheat nature and genetics. You will be completely bald in a year or two. The sooner you accept it the better for you. I’m sure your dad and uncles are bald. Did they die because of the baldness?

PinkNature:
Hello kings.

Please I need recommendation for my hair. I want to grow out my hair.

I need a hair cream or a hair routine that will boost hair growth, darken my hair and also make my hair fuller and thicker.

PS. I don't have top notch hair genetics, beards genetics and I've also observed some receding in my hairline and I'll also want to retain my hairline and also grow a beard.

Thanks, I await your responses.

Karlifate:
Amber Rose DMed Eminem, but dude ignored like she never existed.

She thought dude is a rich SIMPu rapper like Drake, Kanye West etc...

She was pained to the extent of making series of posts about the 'incident'

Tunde835:
I'm sure there are dudes that messaged her that she ignored.

CaveAdullam:
The conversation I had with a Nairalander a few minutes ago.

PS: There are a couple of nuances I didn't dwell on (got tired of typing). Any addition or rebuttal will be welcomed.

Thanks.

qbqetell:
Don't Masturbate: A Dogma from People You Least Want to Emulate

The saying, "Don't Masturbate", is a saying you must have heard by now. On this thread, there are countless instances. On YouTube, there are countless instances. Your pastor and imams must have also promised all masturbators hell. I could go on, but you get the gist.

Like many of you, I stayed away from this act for almost as long as I have been alive. I didn't want that disdainful look if I was ever known to be a masturbator, I stayed away from it. Many of us can't understand why it is wrong, but we all just stay away from it, to avoid disdain from society.

If you ask the people who espouse the idea, "Why is masturbation wrong?", you'd get one of the following answers:

1: God Frows At It
Holier-than-thous can't wait to espouse how their religion is against masturbation, yet they are never able to provide a reference in any of their Holy books.

Your pastor would say masturbators are going to hell, but if you ask for a reference in the bible, he would ask what authority you have to question him. In fact, you may become a scapegoat and an outcast in your church.

2: It Would Destroy You
This is another bullshit. You will see why I said this...

KingEarnest:

Bullshit!!!

Read this:
https://www.nairaland.com/7995872/how-tricked-myself-never-masturbate
https://www.nairaland.com/7977487/see-reason-why-cant-stop

qbqetell:


These references say nothing tangible about what I posted.

What I see in the above articles is a guy sharing his Journey on how he quit masturbation. I don't see how that counters my argument? Was your post just a knee-jerk reaction from your brainwashing, or do you really have something to say?

The guy masturbated for pleasure, which I spoke against. Did you not read that?

Maybe it's a good thing to quit, for someone in his position, but how good has the quality of his decisions been as regards women.

Some of you are always eager to condemn masturbation, but hardly with logical reasons. The same people who condemn masturbation are the same ones who SIMP for every woman they interact with. Will Smith was also a strong advocate against masturbation, yet look at him. You guys are the ones your wives beat down like dogs, but think you are qualified to voice opinions.

KingEarnest:
Masturbation is for losers.

Why advocating for masturbation on a redpill thread? Why not self-control?

Karlifate:
Trustworthy Friends are rare. 👌

Women are common.

Never prioritize a woman, over a Trustworthy Friend.

A Trustworthy Friend will be there to help you, should you become powerless.


If you become powerless, women will leave you to die in your misery. 💯

qbqetell:


Because that's the key to unlocking consistent mental clarity, unless you have an endless supply of healthy women, which 90% of men do not have.

It is incredibly hard to stay true to RedPill teachings consistently if you're always Hot.
You may try. You may build systems to discourage yourself, but eventually you'd do it again. And even if you don't, you would find yourself simping sooner or later.

Just like other topics society frowns upon, this is another Redpill, actually a critical one required to reach the peak of Redpill spirituality. You can't claim to be redpilled, and say you only want to take the most comfortable of the pills.

Condemning masturbation is denying sexual tension.
But no matter how much you deny it, nature would always prevail.
You are better off finding a way to work with nature, than trying to fight it.