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Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by essentialone(m): 12:14pm On Apr 27 |
Forget Sex: What else can a guy gain by financially helping a lady who is not his wife or Girlfriend? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by immortalcrown(m): 12:16pm On Apr 27 |
He can get a genuine help from her. The help could be finding him a job, introducing him to a good girl that might become his wife, establishing a true friendship between her children and the guy's own children, giving him a financial support when she can, etcetera. 17 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by godofuck231: 12:18pm On Apr 27 |
A headache 4 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by correctyourself(m): 12:29pm On Apr 27 |
immortalcrown: You mean the guy would have to wait for the lady to progress and get these things you listed instead of moving on with his life. This kind of plan, is it going forward or backward? 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by immortalcrown(m): 12:32pm On Apr 27 |
correctyourself:Don't try to change the topic. The post simply asks for nonsexual benefits a man can get from helping a woman. The post didn't indicate that the reason behind the help is marriage or sex. The post even started with, "Forget sex." Therefore, you are deviating from the topic. essentialone: 1 Like |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by correctyourself(m): 12:33pm On Apr 27 |
immortalcrown:Ok |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by tolufase: 12:37pm On Apr 27 |
Absolutely nothing. This is because 99.9% of them are liability 14 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by Tallesty1(m): 1:02pm On Apr 27 |
If you see someone in need of help and you have the means to help them, just do it to satisfy your conscience and move on. 11 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by iLegendd(m): 1:03pm On Apr 27 |
Even with sex, you're not gaining anything. You're the one shaking your waist 80% of the time. Also, you're the one paying for treatment if she infects you. (Those medicines are X15 more expensive now). You're the one paying for abortion if she gets pregnant. If she refuses to abort, you'll be the one to go through trauma and on your knees begging her everyday to abort. You're the one losing your spirituality if you engage her. You're also the one buying baby things if she keeps the baby. You're the one that'll be called a deadbeat dad if you run from those things. When the child is grown and rich, you'll still the one he or she will care for the LEAST. Everything about the child will be my mommy this, my mother that. I love my mom, blah blah blah. There is nothing you can gain from a woman unless she's skillful at something like 1. She's a medical doctor (free medical checkup) 2. She's a lawyer (free legal writeups) 3. She's an engineer (free lots of engineering work) 4. Computer guru (free website, free app development for you, free lots of computer related stuff) 5. Phone and electronic repairer 6. Etc. Even if a woman has skills, she'll still wants to charge you money in most cases, so nothing is free for you. Women without skills have nothing to offer except to wash plate for you and cook. Even when she goes to the market to buy foodstuff from the money you gave her, she'll buy the cheaper versions so she can have some gain. A woman is ALWAYS after what she'll gain. Unfortunately, these ones can't cook either. The only time an unskilful women is offering you something is when she gives you pleasure with her mouth and you don't reciprocate. Any pleasure you reciprocate, she didn't offer anything. In summary, don't expect anything from a woman for free. Only your mom can give you free things like food, care, love, school fees, etc. The rest comes with a price tag. 46 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by Nonexisting1: 1:29pm On Apr 27 |
immortalcrown:When you're done dreaming, wake up. Which Nigerian girl introduces her friends to her benefactor again. Some of them go as far as hiding their husbands from each other now. Na jungle we dey and snatching is allowed so fear dey everywhere. So you know, any time the gender befriends a man, it's all about what they are getting from him, nothing else. A Nigerian girl will find you a job when you are not her brother or have promised her marriage? Brother, wake up. That gender are like the devil. They give and take, it's always transactional for them. Only a man will do you a favour with no strings attached. When a string is attached, it's just his dick temporarily taking over decision making power from his brain, no real harm intended. 19 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by immortalcrown(m): 1:36pm On Apr 27 |
Nonexisting1:A man got me a job just because his wife and I were serious friends before he married her. He did it because I didn't have a romantic relationship with the wife. He confirmed this because he deflowered her after their wedding. Another one invites me to his house whenever there is any ceremony in his home. He does it because his wife and I were friends before he married her and the friendship was not sexual. |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by Nonexisting1: 1:47pm On Apr 27 |
immortalcrown:The men did you the favour and not their wives. Two, they did you those favours because you decided to control your dick around their wives at a time not because their wives were strong enough to resist you or control their pussies, the men know that. As a way of appreciating you, they did you the favour and again, not because their wives asked them to. If you had fuccked their wives while you were friends, they wouldn't have done you the favours even if their wives begged them to. My guy, you benefitted from your friendship with those women because you were upright and smart enough to position yourself at the right time not because they themselves offered anything to you or had planned that you would benefit anything from it. On the other hand, you as a good friend to them would have offered so many great benefits or at least have plans to do so if in good position. Yours is a case of opportunity, not benefit. 15 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by immortalcrown(m): 1:52pm On Apr 27 |
Nonexisting1:How does this fault my main comment? |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by essentialone(m): 1:54pm On Apr 27 |
immortalcrown: They are rewarding you for being Foolish. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by immortalcrown(m): 1:57pm On Apr 27 |
essentialone:So, having a pure friendship with an opposite sex is foolishness? 1 Like |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by kay29000(m): 2:05pm On Apr 27 |
Honestly, there is really nothing...Cos once you help her financially once, she will turn you to maga, even though she isn't giving you anything in return she will expect you to keep giving her money or helping her out of difficult situations, while she has one guy gbenshing her. Unless you're the type that needs someone to talk to, there is really no gain. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by essentialone(m): 2:53pm On Apr 27 |
immortalcrown: Before nko? 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by Sonnobax15(m): 3:23pm On Apr 27 |
![]() The truth is that over 90% of help I've received so far in this my life all came from women...... 2 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by pocohantas(f): 3:24pm On Apr 27 |
You see someone in need and the first thing that comes to your mind is what you can gain from helping them. If the person had that much for you to gain, would they be in need? Please help your fellow men and stop helping women. Help the person you can gain from and let's all have some peace of mind. 7 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by DevilsEqual(m): 4:37pm On Apr 27 |
I swear, u stand to gain nothing Even your reward isn't in heaven as that one no count for help Keep helping your bros, we are all we've got 5 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by MMempire(m): 5:33pm On Apr 27 |
The true answer to this is nothing to gain. |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by okoroemeka(m): 6:03pm On Apr 27 |
essentialone:the companionship of a smart intelligent woman is most times more invigorating than sex,if she really loves you 3 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by Loverboi2cute(m): 6:46pm On Apr 27 |
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Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by Zonefree(m): 6:56pm On Apr 27 |
iLegendd: The only time an unskilful women is offering you something is when she gives you pleasure with her mouth and you don't reciprocate. Any pleasure you reciprocate, she didn't offer anything. Golden 🥇 Words on a marble. Every sensible guy should inscribe these words in their bathroom, so they can read them every morning before leaving the house. 3 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by AcadaWriter: 7:12pm On Apr 27 |
A headache |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by worldclass68(m): 7:50pm On Apr 27 |
More billings with emotional stories of family problems...them u go turn mumu beastie and her ATM. 4 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by FRANCISTOWN: 8:38pm On Apr 27 |
immortalcrown:May I never be reduced to this piece of trash in my lifetime. It's better to just die than receive any favour from women. 1 Like |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by essentialone(m): 8:43pm On Apr 27 |
FRANCISTOWN: I agree with that your last statement 1 Like |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by okoroemeka(m): 8:57pm On Apr 27 |
FRANCISTOWN:my cousin got an oil company job because he married from a connected family,he is now living large in London with his family because of his wife connections,,my brother the end justifies the means 2 Likes |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by FRANCISTOWN: 9:00pm On Apr 27 |
okoroemeka:I'm not your cousin, I don't intend to be and i will never be. I'd rather I work as a motor conductor than have a woman do shit for me. |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by Cassandraloius: 9:58pm On Apr 27 |
Girls of these generation will always think low. They can offer nothing but turn you upside down. 1 Like |
Re: Forget Sex: What Else Can A Guy Gain By Helping A Lady Not His Wife Or GF? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:38pm On Apr 27 |
essentialone: ANSWER: the exact same thing he will gain by helping a male friend. |
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