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Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by ogele: 2:36pm On Apr 28 |
The height of infidelity among married women is so high these days. The way some married women walk into hotels with their cheating partners when their dear husband is at work or at their business premises trying to make ends meet to ensure his family are OK is alarming. Majority especially those ones their husband are overseas Their usuall time they engage in such calous attitudes is during the working hours of the week. Conduct a DNA Test for your kids is very necessary dont over look it. The Brotherhood should consider running a DNA Test on their kids, the worst thing that can happened to any man is raising another man's child that was indirectly force on your via infidelity. If you adopted a child that is not yours that is a different situation. Adoption is supported by Law. Any woman that cheat to the extent of getting pregnant for the cheating partner and hooked it up on her husband can kill. 4 Likes
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Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:56pm On Apr 28 |
ogele: IMHO... A) i believe an equal part of the blame is on these men knowingly marrying these oloshoes (trying to turn hoes into housewives) B) as much as raising a bastard child is bad, i can easily find much worst things than that (for married men). remember; some married men get poisoned by their wives, some married men get infected with deadly diseases by their wives; some married men lose their entire fortune to their wives; some married men commit suicide because of their wife etc. C) to reduce the possibility of having a bastard child and/or a cheating wife and/or a very stressful life.... DONT TRY TO WIFE A HOE! 3 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by Namaster: 3:10pm On Apr 28 |
Infidelity is the new normal. It's just a matter of time of time before she cheats. So your advice is topnotch. The worst part is that Social Media is evolving in a way that encourages infidelity. The disappearing messages and pictures on WhatsApp and Telegram is a prime example. Even before DNA tests, men should have measures in place to set a DEFINITE boundary with their wives. For instance, running out of the room to pick a call or rejecting a call when you are around is a HUGE red flag. Also you must have UNRESTRICTED access to all her phones, laptops and gadgets. She gets angry or defensive, she gets out. Other things to note: A wife with a male "bestie" is a hoe. A wife who's a friend with a hoe is a hoe. A wife who's friends with her ex is a hoe. A wife who has an inside joke with another man is a hoe. Also, NEVER tolerate any form of disrespect from your wife. Tolerate the simplest disrespect from a woman and you've given her the license to bring you a bastard. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 3:13pm On Apr 28 |
@ogele @MrBrownJay1 It seems you guys have issues with women, why don't you just become gay and date your fellow men and save yourself all these super story? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:34pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: 1 Like
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Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:52pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: What is wrong if a person opts to do paternity test? Does it mean the person hates a woman? Why do you think this way,? 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:01pm On Apr 28 |
ExudeLoveToAll: its obvious the person behind that profile is a woman (who probably looks down on men who do DNA testing on their kids) . BTW what do you expect from such women...? they expect all men to look at these low life wh0ring criminals (called wife), and cheer them up, instead of calling them for what they truly are. |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by ogele: 4:29pm On Apr 28 |
ExudeLoveToAll:Good question |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 4:30pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:Lol If i am a woman disguising as a man then God should make my life miserable BUT if I'm truly a man, may God ulmighty grant me all my heart desires this year. As for you, there are tons of guys that are into gay already in Nigeria. I will advise you to join them and save yourself all these story of DNA. You're telling men in a poor country to do DNA test on their 3,4,5,6 children? Lol The earlier you know that your post on nairaland or any other social media platforms doesn't stop Nigerian men living in Nigeria and in diaspora from running after Nigerian women and getting married to them every Saturday the better. The world doesn't revolve around you 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 4:36pm On Apr 28 |
ExudeLoveToAll:Lol Those who can afford paternity test in Nigeria don't need your unsolicited sermon before doing it. At least we all know Nigeria is a poor country and more than 80% of Nigerian Men cannot afford paternity test. When the need arises, the few ones that can afford it will do the needful. Stop decieving yourself telling Nigerian men that struggle to feed their children, pay house rent and school fees to carry out paternity test on their 3,4,5,6 children. Channell your energy in something productive. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:53pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: OLODO!!!! even if DNA test is 1m Naira, if a man has doubts over the paternity of his children, then he should pay up, rather than raising a bastard child. as for you calling me gay because i call a married cheating wh0re A MARRIED CHEATING LovePeddler, yes o i am gay, me and your father have been lovers for decades, thats how we made you na! |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 4:57pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:screenshot your account balance let me see if you can afford DNA test. You're just running your mouth like tap telling Nigerian men that struggle to fend for their family to do DNA test on their multiple children Those that can afford DNA test doesn't need your sermon before doing it. I just want you to know that majority cannot afford DNA test so channel your energy in something productive 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:17pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: superintendents: again, it doesnt matter if a man can afford a DNA test or not... if there is a paternity doubt then thats what anyone should do (BY FIRE OR BY FORCE)... because even if a DNA test is 1m Nairas in Nigeria, it will always be cheaper than raising and taking care of a bastard child for 18yrs, duh! the fact that you expect us to not say the obvious, just because you seem to be pained about the issue, is your own personal issues to deal with (and irrelevant to the issue at hand), and certainly wont change how we view this issue. |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by LadyRosa2(f): 5:29pm On Apr 28 |
. This DNA issue sef. Always setting some men at edge. Any small thing, go and run a DNA yen yen yen! If you ask them who them resemble for their family,the bit"ch as*sss niggars go say, " Na my grandfather I resemble ". Them forget say pikin sef can run DNA Na other people wives be OLOESHO. But their mama wey born them no be Akwuna. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 5:32pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:even if an average Nigerian man doubt the parternity of his children he doesn't have a choice than to accept his fate or send them packing without confirmation results Or you go give am money to do the test on his children? Just like a man that doesn't have a car, he trek and uses public transportation. So the man should go and rob because he knows the value of having a car? Or will you buy him a car if he meet you? Even if DNA test na 50k per child, if you no get am you no get am be that. Like i said earlier, those that can afford DNA test doesn't need your unsolicited sermon. They know what to do when the need arise. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by 1Sharon(f): 5:38pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: Lol that's the reality. They are entitled to do DNA. But 80% simply can't afford it, half of that 80% don't even know what DNA testing is 🥴 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:48pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: its called SAVING MONEY until you have enough to pay for the DNA test (which is much easier to do than raising a bastard child for 18yrs)... i suggest you educate yourself on the subject. what you wrote is as stupid as saying that a man should let his children die of hunger because he is jobless and has no money to feed. ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! just like anything else in this world, YOU FIND A WAY! - if you are jobless and broke with no food to eat... YOU FIND A WAY! - if you are h0rny and konji don scatter your brain... YOU FIND A WAY! - if you are in Lagos island with no money, but need to get home to Ikeja... YOU FIND A WAY! - when you want japa to London but have no visa, no money for plane ticket sef... YOU FIND A WAY! why the exact same thing is suddenly so difficult to do (in your mind) with DNA testing?! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 6:05pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:sadly it's easier for average Nigerian men to raise bastards than coughing out millions for DNA test for their multiple children Kiss the truth bro 4 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by VTJN(m): 6:09pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:relax guy Stop being emotional. Na this same Naija all of us dey. Most men truly can't afford DNA for their children. No thanks to bad economy but na the reality be that. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by VTJN(m): 6:11pm On Apr 28 |
1Sharon:you're perfectly right. You said it all... 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:15pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: save money and then do test (80K to 100k) for one child then save again then test the 2nd child etc! saying that this is not doable is as silly as saying that a man saving for opening a business and/or saving for a car/gadget is impossible. come on! even if that person saves 1kobo a day for DNA testing, then so be it. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by Onyedikachi231: 6:19pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: Why are you pained this much over somebody's post, why is it hurting you like this? That you were born a bastard is not the end of life, and it doesn't mean other men shouldn't take steps to avoid you repeating in their families. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:21pm On Apr 28 |
VTJN: what reality are you talking about? are Nigerians not opening businesses any longer? are Nigerians not buying used cars any longer? are Nigerians not traveling out (japa) any longer? as i said earlier, if you got a woman pregnant and you are unsure if the child is yours or not then you MUST find a way to do dna test rather than possibly raising a bastard child for 18yrs. all these yeye lifestyles that you guys are trying to feed us should NEVER EVER happen... aka yeye men happily raising bastard children (calling us "gay" because we suggest to do DNA test if unsure of a child's paternity)! this is not an attack on (Nigerian) women or marrying (Nigerian) women, its a direct attack on low life deceitful wh0res out there trying to have innocent men unknowingly raising their bastard children. 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 7:14pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:Lol You won't get DNA test done at that ridiculous amount. Stop decieving yourself. Besides, that 80k will feed millions of family men for a month or beyond. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 7:16pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:The MUST to have for an average Nigerian men is how to aheir family and have a roof over their head. Stop shying away from the reality and stop decieving yourself 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 7:22pm On Apr 28 |
Onyedikachi231:how many men in your lineage get 500k for account? Screenshot your account balance as evidence to convince us that you can afford DNA test. I'm waiting 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:46pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: you are absolutely right, family is a must for any Nigerian man... but to claim that whether its this man's biological child (OR a bastard child) doesnt really matter, is absurd. THERE IS NO VALUE/PRIDE/RESPECT IN THE FAMILY OF A MAN RAISING BASTARD CHILDREN THAT AINT HIS (whether Nigerian or Jamaican). you are solely focussing on the money issue, claiming that because dna testing is expensive, Nigerian men should accept to raise these bastard children, lol. as i said again, whether broke or rich, any man who is doubting paternity should fight tooth and nails to get to the bottom of the truth (through dna testing), and get a confirmation of who that child father is (even if you have to save for the next 10yrs). |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:52pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: max 150k (and certainly not 1m Nairas) for paternity test... contact SmartDna in Lagos 0802 984 0246 or 0912 981 3912... thank me later: |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 8:06pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:any man who's doubting the paternity of his children but same man struggle to feed his family. Where do you expect such a man to get the money from? He should go and rob or meet you to give him the money? Are you blind to the latest statistics released by CBN and minister of finance that less than 5% of Nigerians have 500k in their bank account. Nigeria is a poor country with 30k minimum wage. Paternity test is the least of all problem of an average Nigerian man out there. It is also the least problem of government. Like i told you earlier, screenshot your account balance as evidence that you can afford paternity test for your children or future children. You're a typical example of how an average Nigerian men cannot afford paternity test. Also, more than 60% of those that cannot afford it don't even know what paternity test is Nigeria is a developing nation so what do you expect? Stop being emotional and kiss the truth. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by UnfairLife7(m): 8:08pm On Apr 28 |
MrBrownJay1:an average Nigerian man give birth to at least 3 kids. How many of them can cough out 500k for paternity test? You're asking for paternity test in a poor country with 30k minimum wage Stop chasing clout 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:30pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: you are the one chasing yeye clout... 1st it was too expensive, now its something else... again, whether Minimum salary is 30k or even 5k. NO MAN ON EARTH SHOULD RAISE BASTARD CHILDREN THAT AINT HIS, and therefore any poor man who impregnated a woman (that he is unsure of the paternity) better go do whatever he can to get dna test rather than raising bastard children. common Nigerian family men are coughing much more than 500k for various things/gadget/businesses/cars etc out there...paternity test is no different. look around you: better phones in people's hands (how much is Iphone/Samsung sef?); fuel super high yet people are still driving cars that are worth much more than dna test; people opening new businesses; women buying yeye fake hair and all the beauty products out there that they use... if some women can go sell their nyansh to buy Iphone and wigs, then men can definitely hustle to pay for dna test TO KEEP THEIR DIGNITY 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Consider DNA TEST For Their Kids Very Necessary by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:33pm On Apr 28 |
UnfairLife7: Nigerians are some of the most resourceful people on earth, and when it matters, they easily can come out on top. |
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