Married Life is the best thing any that can happen to any man

ChybuzzDD:


Just few months back and you're already shouting?

Let's see how it goes in the next 3 to 5yrs

I knew someone would come up with this famous line.

The fact that it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for someone else, I dated several girls before I decided to settle down with my wife.

I will NEVER envy a bachelor, life is in stages...... Nothing like it's too early bla bla bla. Na me know who I marry.

If you have decided not to get married because of negative thinking that's your business.

Single men think they are balling until they discover that the girls they were balling with were community sluts. Nothing compares like sex with your partner, plus those beautiful bundles of joy that are your kids. Watching them grow and been responsible for shaping their lives makes you feel a complete alpha male.

N.B., Am not referring to these gen Z girls that don't believe in the sanctity of marriage

No!!!!

ProtonX:
Short answer is NO. I never have. I have been married for almost a decade and a half and what we have achieved in life as a family is what I never would have dreamed of as a bachelor. I married a woman who looks out for me the way I look out for her. We've built a solid fortress spiritually, physically, financially, etc. I won't have had it this good alone. My life was scattered especially because I was forced to be independent at a young age and I left home at around 17. Sometimes I imagine if I didn't wife her when I did, another man would have cupped this gift that God willingly gave me. TWO GOOD HEADS ARE BETTER THAN ONE. We're not without disagreements sometimes but we've so far maintained a peaceful home. Yes, life gets chaotic but knowing you have a genuine person, no chaos is big enough. Learning and unlearning is constant in our marriage and knowing what God requires of us per time. We have been intentional about our relationship especially when our kids came in the picture. From just date nights enjoying some of our favorite TV shows indoors to trips where we focus on each other and plan the next month, next quarter, etc. We keep a united front before our relatives including our parents, friends, our children, etc. I sometimes re-read my kids' school composition about us as their parents, and I genuinely ball my eyes. God gave me the best gift and I almost lost her wasting time that year. But to God be the glory. No regrets.

Likewise I! How can I ever envy single guy when I know that my CREATOR Himself is the one that gave me my wife. Truth is most men that regret marriage fornicated into married Life. Pure-minded Souls that wait on our CREATOR for choice of marriage rarely regret. While growing up, I vowed that I must marry American White lady and I later got one to fall head over heels in Love with me. Just 2 weeks before her booked flight to fly to Nigeria for our Marriage, I accidently discovered that she was possessed when the Demon spoke with husky male voice and twisted scary face as I accidently talked about JESUS even though I was not BornAgain yet then. Long story short, I dumped her and hatched another Plan to marry daughter of Politician or a superwealthy Man. I got one from a Private University but she demanded that I covert to Islam before her father could agree to our marriage. Soon got another extremely beautiful one from wealthy family only to later discover that she a Principality in Marine-Witchcraft Kingdom. It finally dawned on me that I will die early if I had married any of them and that choosing a Wife with physical eyes or human wisdom is tantamount to Eternal foolishness. Then I Fasted and Prayed that CREATOR of Humanity that knows what non can see inside every females should choose HIS Own daughter for me, I promised HIM that I will marry her immediately even if she's Cripple. HE answered by giving me the best young woman on Earth as my Wife. Everyone that sees my Son always ask how come he's so handsome (not just physically, everyone that sees my Son are just helplessly captivated), I've seen parents that stared so much till they say they wish their Children is as handsome as mine. Such Destiny Children are only released to Earth through a Marriage that CREATOR of Humanity HIMSELFT Orchestrated:
HalleluAHAYAH ASHAR AHAYAH!!!!!!!

DoWhatThouWilt:

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

That's not envy, they're putting you in your place where you belong.
Enjoy your bachelorhood while it lasts, most men get tired of it in the long run. Yours can't be an exception unless you are using your bachelorhood to cover something up or running away from responsibilities that come with marriage

fykes:
Are you effing kidding boy? You got no clue... I thought I was balling until I married and had my son.

Known no better life than watching that tiny bundle of joy...no better love than watching your wife give birth...

Dude if you marry your wife/ best friend, you are truly blessed...I can't speak on marrying wrongly cos I didn't.

But please 🙏 trust God for a woman who is a wife indeed...aint nothing any single human man or woman got on you.

Don't mind him. When he's finally get married which he will, he will come back to tell us what he has been missing all these years

mablie:


@Emboldened

Spoken like a typical married man

Una wayo too much

I no want

Bachelorhood till i'm six feet in the ground

He spoke like someone who married the wrong person. Are you of the same opinion about father's marriage to your mother? I'm just trying to understand you, may be I can get a hint.

No real regrets as we Both are bound to TIME...
If a married man becomes single again, at least he's got the experience....a single guy is a newbie becoming married - a very tall order

Sonnobax15:

Omoh,I go like to marry but the kind cinema wey I dey watch for married people lives these days,I dey scare

Troubled marriages (minority) make it to the news, peaceful and thriving marriages (majority) stay quiet and out of the news. Look at the right corner

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless at this hilarious topic
Some married men envy the bachelors as a result of regret
While some married men don't, they face their challenges secretly

May be they enjoy their marriages secretly

babat001:
Dem no envy bachelor nah hin dem dey drag our gf with us.. spending their lives savings 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Say again.....?!
Bachelors... learning how it ticks when it comes to the Ring trick

Odidigboigbo:
70% of married men wish they didn't marry at the time they married

Yeah 70% of married men who didn't get to enjoy their bachelorhood. Some married too early, some married late but still didn't flex when they were bachelors. Not married men who flex and later get bored of bachelorhood

Nothing special in fccking different girls abeg, e go still taya you. I just want to get married to my girl and settle down.

peteromenihu:
Yes we do. That journey was the worst mistake of my life.

No, we don't. Sorry that you married the wrong person. Next time, do your homework throughly

Mosdiii:
Marriage isn't for me. I have two daughters already.

Sorry, I don't understand. Is it because you only have daughters?

abobote:
Yes, I should have left everything on baby mama.

My next door neighbour is a bachelor, the way the guy enjoys different girls, sometimes 3 in a day, is enough to get you jealous.
I feel I didn't enjoy my bachelorship enough

Now I know why men die before their wives

And you think that guy is happy?

TheGift:
I enjoyed my singlehood until I was ready for marriage. Now I am enjoying my marriage, cos my Wife is truly my partner and friend.

I do not envy my single or married friends who do not have someone they can share thier lives with in an intimate and meaningful way- beyond sex.


God has blessed me with his goodness and a peaceful/ fruitful home.

Thank you. They don't know beautiful packages that come with marriage and marrying the right partner. Even the sex aspect, it is steady and not that you would be struggling each time you need sex

For what na?

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

A lot of Nigerian men (in diaspora especially) do, however for those with children, they would rather go through what they are going through than lose the joys of fatherhood.

Which brings me to a salient point you haven't mentioned, in the forthcoming years, I am thinking around next 10 years, a lot of children would leave home, this would mean mother and father alone at home.

I am not sure if that will translate to eventual divorce numbers but there would be a lot of loveless marriages and unhappy women whose husbands no longer have to tolerate things because of their children. Again this is true for those in diaspora.

Single men enjoy now then they play catch-up for the rest of their life. Because if don't have your children now, you use white gray hair to carry drive your baby go take immunization.

Na grandfather age you go they pay nursery school fees.

Yes we are polygamous....don't do court wedding. It's a trap the white people set for us to favour women. Our fathers had many wives.

If you want to enjoy as a married man and still enjoy like a bachelor, don't do that court shiiite.

But it's good for a man to get married on time. Remember women have no name, it's your name and legacy that must live on.

In animal kingdom, it is the male that lives legacy....it is male that ensure a race or tribe perish. Your father's name is in your hands. Do you want it to end with you?

Or don't you want to start your own dynasty?

Look for a female out their pour that spem inside her now.

Marriage is achievement and I wll nvr in my life time envy my lower position to my promoted position.
Nawaooo...most of u shoutin babes...shey If i wan nack 10 girls every week its difficult ni?
I remeber wen dey trnsfered my wife to anthr state b4 we worked her back..I had to push the 3kids wt her
Omoh he come be lik say life no exist again...First week i was feelin mysef but Bachelor life is as borin as FFFFF

jumper524:
it has ots ups and down but in general it makes you a man.
even you if you get pikin for future, you go see your self like how graduates dey see non graduates for street.

80% of Graduates envies undergraduates, cuz then you enjoy free money, free female friends flocking around, cruise and the vibe. All you just need do is read and pass

But ask graduates now how it feels like

Sonnobax15:
I swear down bro........ Sometimes when I think of this marriage of a thing,I go just dey ask myself say so one day one day I go still enter am? . I wish I can just escape it

There's nothing in it for men. perhaps, except if you're the type that isn't used to loneliness. Then most men enter it and find out they're even more lonely in the Marriage

Bahamas95:
Honestly this is a very foolish question...... Before I got married I always admired married couples.

I got married few months back and it's one of the best decisions I have made in my life, family and friends now respect me more than before. Heads turn whenever I step out with my stunning Edo beauty.


No gain jumping from one woman to another, I have been there before.......Since I got married I have peace of mind, no more unnecessary expenses.

Time wey u go learn still dey come. E never reach ur turn yet.

cococandy:


The men wouldn’t even let us converse in peace. You’ll see them taking over the conversation to tell us how we should feel, think and respond

Maybe men take over those threads cos females see everything as doing men a favor ... make dem dey beg una to comment or what

however weytin dey pepper una be say the party just goes on with or without the celebrants

Honestey:
As things stand yes o. In fact I'm envying my bachelor days now. No any wahala , if they have removed subsidy before I married I fit remain single till further notice but I don hook

Subsidy removal hooked your throat too?
I was just looking at some masses who were shouting subsidy cabal at the time, now they know better.

Mariangeles:
EreluRoz gbara oso bia oooOO!

See what I got you.

😂😂😂 I need five packs

babat001:
Dem no envy bachelor nah hin dem dey drag our gf with us.. spending their lives savings 🤣🤣🤣🤣

We're not spending our life savings on side chicks, just little percentage of our income. And that doesn't mean marriage no sweet us but just to keep tasting varieties. All these add flavour to your marriage

greypencils:
What is there to envy in bachelorhood? Married men are leaving legacies, children that would bear their name and preserve their bloodline. They have a woman who bears their name and carries their name wherever she goes. As a single man, you have girlfriends and none is loyal to you. As a married man, you have someone who has got your back, someone who has sworn her life and tied it to yours, someone who has left her family and sees you as the number one person in her world. I am proudly married and loving it. What is there to miss in single hood? Multiple pussies? The money I would spend on pussies is what I am saving in a trust for my children. So tell me, Who is envying who?

Your "wife" doesnt have your back. As soon as conditions no longer favor her she will leave