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Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by adolphus08(m): 2:47pm On May 08 |
djon78:I am sure it's a woman who wrote the original piece. The writing is very defensive and goes against established facts about single mother raised children. They spend time scandalizing their ex husbands to the children creating hatred and resentment. All the bad boys who nearly led me and other young boys astray in our youths where all products of single mothers. They generally lacked discipline and flouted every rule in the book. We used to admire their freedom and bravado. Many of them ended up going into fraud and scam, becoming cultists and generally going against any form of responsible authority after school. They got arrested from time to time and till date their lives are very mediocre and lackluster. We where lucky for the discipline and structure imposed by our dads whenever we attempted to stray with them. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by GindoX(m): 2:54pm On May 08 |
That's ya business, sought it out. That no concern me.. This is my concern now. Power supply in Sagamu, Ikenne, Ogun State and other environs has turn to toy,... Off and On every 30mins. As I type this , they just turn it OFF. 1 day ON, 3 solid days OFF. The one day one na toy. Off and on... Naija which way? |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by habakukjss3: 2:55pm On May 08 |
PrayWills: I totally condemn her action, she was wrong. That's a clear sign of unfaithfulness in marriage. You made claims that she has two kids for you already. My questions are; 1. Have you paid her bride price? If yes, when? 2. Have you completed her traditional marriage rites? If you have not done the above, you are as guilty as her and deserve it. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by nedekid: 3:05pm On May 08 |
Wawelexy:Why do you think she will come back begging? You told someone to put wedding in hold, she said rather, the wedding should be canceled. Does that look like someone that will come back to beg? 3 Likes
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Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by annford: 3:09pm On May 08 |
PrayWills: That could be the reason. |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by G0odharddick: 3:18pm On May 08 |
PrayWills: I can bet my balls that those 2 kids ain't yoirs. They belong to the married man. |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by adolphus08(m): 3:28pm On May 08 |
habakukjss3:Please ignore this one. Her brain is leaking. Don't look for any sense in her statement. It's a waste of time you won't see it. Don't even argue with her. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by sunsweet33: 3:42pm On May 08 |
Hmm. Well, hopefully the kids won’t be yours so you can just forget about her. |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by Gentlechika(m): 3:44pm On May 08 |
VTJN:how you ignored where op mentioned she's a cheat without remorse is baffling. |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by sexy74(m): 3:45pm On May 08 |
PrayWills:First of all are the two kids yours, if yes let her go with the kids but be monitoring them. A Lise woman is a lawyer a lose woman. She was not properly brought up she must have grown up seeing and hearing all sorts of lies about independence from her mum and she feels she can be independent by being unfaithful. My brother thank God for revealing and helping you out in time. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by PrayWills: 3:57pm On May 08 |
Wawelexy: She’s back begging already 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by djon78(m): 4:02pm On May 08 |
adolphus08: Exactly It's a well known fact I have also personal experience on this fact I came from a well raised family, my Dad raised up all his children very well And it tells on our own marriages But a sibling of mine Married a girl from a dysfunctional home Today there marriage can't be compared to our other siblings that married from homes well raised But the one having problem is because from later discovery that his wife was raised from a dysfunctional home That's why I said a leopard cannot change its spot It's not rocket science And advice I will give to the single and unmarried: Anybody you are talking marriage with Scrutinize very well If from a dysfunctional home or single mother better know what you are getting yourself into Because the rapid rate of problem marriages abounding everywhere now is rooted in dysfunctional home or single motherhood So better get sense as a single person Don't ever allow Love deceive you Cause when the wahala starts Sorry will be your name |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by tivity101: 4:03pm On May 08 |
I hope you are the Father to the two kids? |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by MrDIY: 4:14pm On May 08 |
Ah! I trust team Agbafians, there are somethings that doesn’t necessarily need an outside to tell you what to do next. |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by MamaletASO: 4:18pm On May 08 |
Somebody's daughter without wedding... Planning wedding after 2-kids..you must be a thief.. infact you a thief. Nonsense..which nonsense wedding are u talking about... You are all an adulterer |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by oyekan1997(m): 4:44pm On May 08 |
Wawelexy: You be Weyrey boss 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by joseph1832(m): 4:51pm On May 08 |
PrayWills:Leave her be. Whatever you do, don't go back and beg her or even communicate with her. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by IamHonourable1: 4:55pm On May 08 |
PrayWills: You shot yourself on the leg because you obviously know that women raised by single mothers don't turn out well and that's why you mentioned that she was raised by a single mother and you still shook head. |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by NOwazobia: 5:04pm On May 08 |
advanceDNA:Low self esteem has been a menace to many men in relationships 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by Ekaka14: 5:05pm On May 08 |
PrayWills:"With the two kids" whose 2 kids...where in the story did you mention them before? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by Ibile77(m): 5:12pm On May 08 |
immortalcrown:Good question 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by victorazy(m): 5:15pm On May 08 |
PrayWills: Rejoice bro! She has foundational issue. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by shoboy9: 5:44pm On May 08 |
First confirm the DNA of the children. If they are yours, is she faithful? If you are sure or think she isn't faithful, do you want to stay for the sake of your children? Marriage will involve a lot of work any which way. Defining your goals and objectives would help your decision making a great deal. For instance, do you want to please people or God? Displeasing your family in the matter will have consequences. Displeasing God will also bring eternal consequences. Take stock of your life and take charge of it. You will need God's help and mercy. But how you live and what you live for will impact how God responds to you as well. All the best. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by BluntCrazeMan: 5:54pm On May 08 |
PrayWills:I don't know why you started your story from the middle. Now, what about the TWO KIDS.? They are your kids? How long have you guys and the kids living together? |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by Mydazz(m): 5:56pm On May 08 |
A lot has been going on before then, maybe on her side, your side or even both sides. You just didn't notice or deliberately ignored the happenings,...... no sane person holds off a wedding because of one call. |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by BluntCrazeMan: 5:59pm On May 08 |
pointblank247:And she needed to space for her to give herself fully for the man who is nacking her |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by YourGFsnatcher: 6:02pm On May 08 |
PrayWills:Stop stalking me Yes you stalking all of my comment... shey you've decided to do what you did? Allow me to be happy, I kept my end of the bargain, this on you not me ... |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by smallsmall: 6:04pm On May 08 |
PrayWills: I am also happy for you, that you finally Woke Up! What some men take Years, Sorrow, Tears and Blood ...and some even end-up in Prison for, is what you achieved (or Divinity achieved for you!), without breaking a sweat! I guess your Mother is/was a good Woman and God had seen that her Son does not deserve to be enslaved by a Dellilah. I want you to keep imagining, how horrible life would have been for you, if you married that Slot, had four Children with her, relocate her to UK, America or any of the Western Countries with all your Life Savings .... and then you make this discovery? This is what a lot of Husbands are going through, right now. This Court Wedding of a thing, is a "Sword of Damocles" hanging on every Man that goes through it. Even the Oyinbos that brought it to us, have mostly stopped doing Court/Registry Legal Weddings, they mostly just start living together and have children, because they know it is just a burden on the Husbands but they make it look important and even mandate it on us (travel purposes!) at times. Anyway. l digress. Now that you have been "saved", do not go back into allowing any Woman take you for granted. Shine your Eyes, Majority of Women of today (and maybe Men too), will Cheat on their Spouses in Marriage, to different degrees so, prepare your Mind, so that you dont get the shock of your Life. If Nigeria was welcoming for its younger generations, l would have advised that No Young Husband/Father should ever contemplate moving the Family (Wife &Children) abroad because 95% of the time, the Wives use it to enslave their Husband (Foreign Laws that intentionally makes the Husband "submit by force" to his Wife and if not, use the Police to ruin his Life, That is the summary) but Nigerian Husbands/Fathers especially, want the best for their Children ... and Wife so, moving them Abroad has become a sort of "Walking into Danger, with Eyes wide Open". It will only get worse. I thank God on your behalf and wish you well, as you search for a replacement. Dont be in a rush, you can have Kids without getting Married, if your age is putting you under pressure but EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD is better, than having a cheating Wife, who will become a Quarrelsome Wife. Right now, I am celebrating with a Glass of Hennessy, on your behalf. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by osazsky(m): 6:56pm On May 08 |
globatop:u nor go last 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by skywalker240(m): 7:12pm On May 08 |
Wawelexy:Upkeep? If only DNA test were affordable 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding With Four Days To Go by PrayWills: 7:17pm On May 08 |
YourGFsnatcher: What are you saying? 1 Like |
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