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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by chriskosherbal(m): 4:09pm On May 09

Nigerians will always be Nigerians

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by id4sho(m): 4:09pm On May 09

2aces:
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.

They are coming for your head

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by ssogundele2003: 4:09pm On May 09

It's all about blacks. Where ever they congregate, there must be drama. Caribbeans black are next level to advance level of drama

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by AuschwitzPrefec: 4:10pm On May 09

Anytime I am abroad , I try as much to avoid Nigerians.

The reason for me leaving Nigeria in the first place is to get away as far as possible from Nigerians so why should I be in the US or UK and mingle with same people I am fleeing from when I can interact with virtually any other nationality from across the planet.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by unclejb2(m): 4:13pm On May 09

Biggie225:
If I travel abroad, I will never interact with black men again, especially Nigerians.

that's why you are going to remain here, and complaining about Fulani herdsmen massacre everyday

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by bemeruca: 4:15pm On May 09

grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

This is not true.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Airlord2030: 4:15pm On May 09

That's why it is good to stick to your tribe when abroad.

Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Mayrada: 4:17pm On May 09

Learn to mind your business

Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by cococandy(f): 4:17pm On May 09

It can depend on where you live.

I’ve never been a part of any toxic abroad community. In fact it’s been hard to even come across Nigerians in some of the places I’ve lived. At least not enough to create a big community with.

Now I’m in northern California and there are tons of Nigerians here. But get this, everyone is a professional and has a lot to lose if they were to engage in detrimental behaviors. So the community here is above board and everyone respects themselves

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by NovusHomo(m): 4:19pm On May 09

grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

You are the company you keep.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by udomonday: 4:21pm On May 09

Erimmy2:

It's everywhere sir.

Please brethren kindly assist me with any amount.
I'm seriously broke at moment. Nothing is too small.

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Opay.
I really appreciate.

a broke man gets his ass up and work.not idling away and begging.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by valentineuwakwe(m): 4:24pm On May 09

If you have been hurt by a Nigerian abroad doesn't mean the Nigerian community abroad is toxic......here in niaja we all learn to live by our neighbours and despite all the govt sufferings on the masses we are still smilling!

They say life abroad is "boring and "mind-your business ", so why wont a Nigerian be happy to see a fellow abroad? Why cant they mingle n discuss how to survive in "obodo oyibo "?

To me Nigerian community abroad is the best n full of fun.....

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by drnoel: 4:26pm On May 09

grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

Lol, if you know you know.
Only novices don't know how to use their tongues to count their teeth

Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by when2(f): 4:26pm On May 09

[quote author=grommet post=129864853]I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts
[/quote

Your problem is inferiority complex.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by when2(f): 4:28pm On May 09

2aces:
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.

Including your mum and sisters?

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Father4all: 4:28pm On May 09

Don't you know Nigerians don't like minding their business. Must you stay in their midst?

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by busomma: 4:30pm On May 09

U're in the wrong crowd. Look 4 progressive associations & join.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by omoredia: 4:30pm On May 09

You that u are complaining are you also not like that?

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by GambaOsaka: 4:30pm On May 09

This guy is funny sha.
Dem never tell you before you come ?
Say it’s all man for himself.
Nobody owes you anything
Most people mask their pains and problems with fine clothes and perfume.
Guy go fine work Abeg.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by drnoel: 4:31pm On May 09

CartelKenneth:
Useless people
Are we really sure that it’s God who created Africans?

No, scientists are trying to confirm that the location of the tower of Babel was wrong. Many learned people suspect and think it's was in Nigeria.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Santalpharay: 4:31pm On May 09

Macdeey:
Stop 🛑🛑🛑 disturbing us and................

Meanwhile ......

When I was in Togo 90 % of the girls I Nacked na my Nigerian sisters . Because Nacking Togolese girls get some spiritual wahala I swear.

Here in Ghana I still dey Nack my Nigerian girls and some few Ghanaian girls. 😁😁😁
Is your name Knackerdemos?😲

For Abidjan na 50 / 50 . But i like the Naija born Abidjan girls pass 😁😁😁

For Niger Republic Na the White Buzu girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
Burkina Faso girls dey very expensive ! Na my Naija Ashaawooo girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
For Senegal ! Just dey Nack Naija Ashaawooo too 😁😁😁😁😁😁
But in all Just dey Avoid Togolese girls , Dem get Spiritual Demons for dem Nyash 😡😡😡

Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by elasticlala: 4:31pm On May 09

grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

This is hasty generalization!
That might be your own experience. I wonder the country and Nigerian community you are referring to.

To be honest, the Nigerian community in the state where I live in the USA here is nicer than even my family members in Nigeria.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Gajagojo: 4:31pm On May 09

There are hundreds of Nigerian communities all over the world

Not one

So your premise is faulty

You have to have something in common

E.g

Not all Nigerians believe in God
Not all Nigerians believe in Marriage
Age wise you have Over 70s ,50s, 30s
Some are fraudsters, prostitutes and drug dealers

Some are doctors lawyers etc

The fact that we are Nigerians does not mean we belong in the same group or class

Just like with Nairaland

Many people meet you here and assume you are mates or in the same social class

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by yemclef(m): 4:32pm On May 09

veekid:
Envy, pride, tenbelekun, dale ru, da ona ru. Awon oloshi Omo Iran kiran

Killed..haaaa

Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by onadana: 4:34pm On May 09

2aces:
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.

An irresponsible woman is an irresponsible woman regardless of geo-location.There are still good responsible women,I know of a nurse who traveled to the UK and sent for her Electrician husband.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Macdeey: 4:36pm On May 09

Nacking is one of the ways to deal with stress and get out of loneliness !!!
Going to Bar is not my kind of thing !

Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Sweetvie: 4:37pm On May 09

SpatialKing:
Associating with Nigerian communities abroad is not a must

Exactly

Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Squirrel1(m): 4:39pm On May 09

Nwaikpe:
May Israel totally obliterate Hamas and every muslim terrorist in this world. May Christian America rise to realize that their kids in college are being brainwashed to believe the propaganda of wicked Islamist. May they understand that the muslims are not only after Israel but also after Christian America and all Christians as well.

Anyone who is against the people of Saturday, will surely come after the people of Sunday too.

Totally Obliterate Hamas in Gaza and return Gaza to a serene community like that of Christians.

In the name of Allah I pray, Amin.

NB: Never come here to tell me how Jews hate Christians. I am safer with a wicked Jew than a kind muslim.

why always the igbos though? Y'all inferiority complex is too much!

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Macdeey: 4:39pm On May 09

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by sheldonbbt: 4:39pm On May 09

I am trying to avoid Nigerians as much as I can. It is really annoying.

I housed someone for a year abroad without them contributing to rent, but it appeared as if I did them wrong by asking them for their plans to get a place.

The individual prefers speaking to mutual friends in language I don't understand. Infact 99% of his phone calls are in his local dialect which I do not understand.

I have every reason to suspect the individual was already gossiping about to people and it is quiet painful cos I don't know the lies that has been told.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Macdeey: 4:39pm On May 09

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