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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:14pm On May 09 |
NovusHomo: Naa bro. I don’t keep this company. Infact, I get people try to derade me for kind of staying away. It is what brought me wondering why they are like that. |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:17pm On May 09 |
valentineuwakwe: Bro Legit yes should be how to survive in the town. I recommend 100 percent. But you know what I have found. Person wey you dey reason together go enter your marriage wan nack your babe. Drama drama drama . I think people don’t usually know when to separate the negative drama from the positive uplifting bits |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:21pm On May 09 |
sheldonbbt: What I have realized in this abroad is that no matter how much you help anyone even if you did it out of a communuaal embrace. Some people just don’t like when you help them. The problem is that you don’t know if you are helping a friend or competitor anytime you do so 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:23pm On May 09 |
elasticlala:Ofcourse it cannot be everywhere. I can’t disclose my location but i ve also noticed it in adjacent locations |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:25pm On May 09 |
busomma:What I am trying to do. Although last one i got close to wanted to nack my babe. Legit between us, there was no such conversation. I found out in secret |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:27pm On May 09 |
Tflex01: The whole thing confuse me my brother. Before I came here, I’ve had friends from mixed ethnicities. Coming here made it seem like there are “issues” with different ethnicities |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:34pm On May 09 |
faceland: Dude, just what I was thinking. I think the issue happens when you are a novice and you don’t know much so you are quite open in your first days. Unfortunately for you, you don’t know that you are open to a snake. Heck even toxic people are in well dressed attires 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:37pm On May 09 |
I was talking with a friend and not long in I got to know about girls I have never met and the guys sleeping with them. Same guys are getting married and this friend too wants to sleep with the girl and they work together. Mehn. I thought that was too much personal info to know. I never got that level of depth to people’s lives when I was in Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by emmaodet: 9:50pm On May 09 |
ycat: I don't know where we get the culture of sleeping with other people's wives from and it is very rampant among the Nigerian society. It is a very very bad way of life 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by emmaodet: 9:53pm On May 09 |
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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by ycat: 10:22pm On May 09 |
Sometimes too there may not be anything between two people but because they are close, people think there was something between them. There was a guy some of my family members will swear that I had a romantic relationship with but it didn’t happen. The guy was the best looking guy around and was rich, we hung out many times, he took me to his friends, his house and spent money on me but he never hit on me. I was dying to give him some and lock him down but he never asked me and I never saw him with another girl, so I was confused till I left Nigeria. emmaodet: |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by emmaodet: 10:28pm On May 09 |
ycat: But you would have if he had taken the steps according to you which boils down to creating distance in the first place to avoid rumours and stories that tell 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by beryledibor: 10:33pm On May 09 |
Ouchbabe: Generally all of Una are toxic. But human nature in some people are nice. That's 2% but the rest 98% are toxic. |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by NovusHomo(m): 10:36pm On May 09 |
grommet: Okay, they are the company they keep. Stay away from them. |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by ycat: 10:56pm On May 09 |
Who wouldn’t? He was breathtaking! At least 6.2 feet dark skin and got money too. The problem now is anytime we catch up on good old days, I have a hard time convincing anybody that we never shared a bed. I think he was searching for a wife then but very disciplined. Within a year I left I heard he got married. emmaodet: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Macdeey: 11:45pm On May 09 |
Badmashiii:They are know for Disappearing with your kids if you have children with them ! For reasons best known to them ! So if you are dating them dey like getting pregnant for you especially if you are a Nigerian because they are very comfortable with Nigerians. But you will just wakeup one day and find out she ran away with the kid or kids ! Kotokolis hmmmmm ! Just ask the Hausa man in Togo and he will tell you One million reason why you shouldn't waste your time dating a kotokolis girl . NOTE. If a kotokoli girl introduced a guy to you as her brother! Forget about it ! The guy na her side Nacks boy ! She can even allow him to be frequenting your hause or even sleep over some times |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by eluquenson(m): 11:54pm On May 09 |
It’s not about Nigeria community in diaspora, the way of life of Nigerians abroad is a replica of how they live in Nigeria, their lifestyle back home. Why it’s noticeable in abroad is because we cluster around each other and not much, but in Nigeria a lot of shit happens and we aren’t privy to know. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Macdeey: 12:06am On May 10 |
[quote author=Real2088 post=129871762][/quote] Bros !! If you travel any where on at ! Make sure you update your Nacking skills on the locals 😁😁😁 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Badadvisor: 12:07am On May 10 |
ycat:How old was he before you left? |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by viodemus: 12:15am On May 10 |
Nwaikpe: Impressive. You are guided. |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Badmashiii: 12:24am On May 10 |
Macdeey: Thanks for the heads up bros. I don hear say dem dey use one strong kayan mata wey if you sleep with them you go become mumu for them. |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Sultty(m): 12:24am On May 10 |
Nwaikpe:u fuckn narcisist. U better check in on an asylum before u start biting people on the road. Werey ikeji aja. I'm not muslim but christian by practice and although Christians suffer a lot from muslims does not make me lose my humanity. If all palestinians die because of majority muslims, what will be the gain besides there's beauty in diversity of all kinds. That's how god designs things |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:22am On May 10 |
quite sensible. emkz: |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:25am On May 10 |
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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:28am On May 10 |
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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:29am On May 10 |
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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:31am On May 10 |
I helped other Nigerians famiarize, I think somebody has to show that kindness, I hope you show such to others. Tflex01: |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:35am On May 10 |
It fine, just be careful with other nationalities too. 007Marvel: |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:36am On May 10 |
Exactly Goodman247: |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:38am On May 10 |
That makes it easy to spot and avoid them. They will have high BP sooner. icedbreez: |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SeriouslySense(m): 1:41am On May 10 |
They like burials than resurrection I did not regret avoiding Nigerians once i realized i can have good friends from other countries. madjune: |
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by madjune(m): 1:43am On May 10 |
SeriouslySense: My brother, na valid observation I make o. Lol. |
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