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Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by CorperKola: 10:51am On May 12 |
Kobojunkie:Are u saying the levites were not allowed to own property |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by DebateNigeria: 10:54am On May 12 |
InvertedHammer: This here nailed it. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by PHIPEX(m): 10:54am On May 12 |
optm:God also instituted Saturday worship, why are you deviating since you want to obey old testaments laws? Did you see anywhere Jesus condemned Sabath day worship, infact Jesus Himself worshipped on Saturday? Why are you no longer slaughtering animals for worship, did you see anywhere Jesus condemned it? Of what use is the "NEW TESTAMENT " if we are still hooked 100% to the old testament? Which of the Disciples of Jesus collected tithe, mention just 1, were they all ignorant of tithe? When it favours you you remember grace, when you want money you remember the Law, aren't you confused? "My people perish for lack of knowledge " 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by hammed71(m): 10:57am On May 12 |
Una still dey give daddy g.o tithe Lol, I know a pastor in mushin that use his church tithe and offering to send his two children to study in UK. When Una go wise, I left church 2011, tithe oh, offering oh, I no give shishi.Continue u hear? 3 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by ednut1(m): 11:01am On May 12 |
Na mumu dey pay tithe 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by kennie2015(m): 11:05am On May 12 |
paxonel:You are the Mumu here, castigating and insulting someone that seek an advise, it depict how shallow minded you are, in the midst of multitude there are good and bad counsel. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Porksupplyib: 11:09am On May 12 |
optm: Jesus needed not to rebuke the paying of tithes by the isrealites in those days. It wasn't neccesary. He hadn't paid the price yet. But after his death and the birth of Christianity, all our debt were paid. We ceased to be under those laws. Pick out a point in the new testament, in the early church where tithe paying was mentioned and I will absolutely agree with u that tithe has a place in Christianity. But if you can't pick out any, then just know you are simply a confused Christian. Confused in the sense that you don't know who you are. You are like a delivered slave you still chose to be a slave. Why not kuku complete all the laws in Leviticus ? Slaughter sheep's and oxen and make burnt offerings . U should try them all. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Yelight(m): 11:09am On May 12 |
rexbuton: What importance do you place on your tithe and giving? It's advisable to sit him or her down to know this is your stand and you won't change it for anything or anybody. In relationship there are areas we compromise one for another for the success of the relationship but there are also areas that you must stand your ground and if the person can't cope, let him or her leave but don't make him or her your enemy. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by chidan1214: 11:11am On May 12 |
Armed robber talking Righteousness2: 3 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by pfadom: 11:13am On May 12 |
That's your problem! He has never complained of inadequacies, and has never given out of frustration. So why do you take pills over someone else's matter that is no problem to him. paxonel: |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by GboyegaD(m): 11:14am On May 12 |
rexbuton: I would say take a back step and first go settle it with your partner. It is easier when you both agree and work based on your agreement. That way, the blessings are not inhibited due to disagreement. rexbuton: Does she tells you how she doesn't her remaining 70%? If she doesn't, you don't owe her an explanation. I believe in 100% transparency and will do that if only she's willing to do the same. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by 99thEnemy(m): 11:15am On May 12 |
rexbuton:You don’t have sense. PERIOD. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Image123(m): 11:15am On May 12 |
rexbuton: i don't understand. You've been giving 10% of your money and you are progressing and earning better than 90% of Nigerians. You were blessed with a windfall and you want to give 10% and still have 90% of the windfall. What's the problem here exactly, it's hard to see. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by BeigJawnson(m): 11:18am On May 12 |
Idaytesj29: Exactly... You have just nailed it on ... 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Image123(m): 11:18am On May 12 |
i read so many people here saying that the OP doesn't have sense. Yet, we can verifiably tell that with all their senses, the OP is doing better than them financially. Is it not better to not have sense and be financially stronger and stable than have sense and be wallowing in poverty and complaining? 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by FxMasterz: 11:24am On May 12 |
rexbuton: Teach her about Tithing. You know what she does not know. Get relevant tapes on tithing. Let her listen to them. Be the pastor is your own home. Pastor your wife and children. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by profmallor: 11:27am On May 12 |
No I m raising the fact that he is joined together with someone that does cherish his values, changes the rules according to what suites are her family and this would be story for his married years. He needs to do something about it cause that problem won't go away. thatigboman: 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by advanceDNA: 11:37am On May 12 |
Idaytesj29: Baba......na so most of them be.....Best thing na to start with being firm about how u wanna spend money, when dealing with them.... .once u give woman too much "allow".. she must turn am to allowance.... Imagine woman dey vex for me untop my own money after i care for you l, care for your family...no be witchcraft be that? |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Originalsly: 11:39am On May 12 |
Is your wife a Christian? ... seems like you enter the marriage unequally yoked ... so this sort of problem in the marriage should've been expected. From your writings she seems to be all about the money and is calling the shots. If she contributes 30% of her income ... what does she do with the rest?... do you have a say in how it should be spent? Are you an orphan? ... if not.... doesn't your family members also request financial assistance like hers? If yes .... and that's the reason for the 30K secret 30K in contributions .... then why keep it a secret instead of letting her know and asking her to contribute 50%? ... shouldn't what applies to you apply to her as well? I'm getting the vibe that you're afraid of your wife.... as a Christian shouldn't you be the head of the family? Being the head is more important than paying tithes. My advice to you is to .focus on being the head of the family.... for five years you elieve you've done well in the sight of God because you faithfully paid your tithes .... but not realizing that your wife has taken over control .... she's making the rules. It is in the DNA of women to follow the guidance of a man .... but should the man fail to be a man ... a leader ... and give her that authority .... it is in her DNA to become dominant ... like a dictator. Allow this to continue by not confronting her.... pretty soon she will treat you like a kid. Can't blame her .... it is the nature of the beast. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by sunsweet33: 11:40am On May 12 |
I stopped tithing a few years ago..maybe I ought to start it again..hmm.. @topic, your wife only contributes 30% to household outgoings plus you support her on giving to her family. This is a very cosy arrangement for her so I feel it is quite uncharitable for her to complain about measly 10% of your own earnings when she keeps most of her money to herself. If I were her I would keep shut but hey, human beings must always find something to complain about. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by advanceDNA: 11:41am On May 12 |
Image123: The problem is that he married an insensitive and unfair woman who doesn't see he's doing enough making her see the 10% he gives as tithe as something that should technically come to her...... 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by bablon20(m): 11:45am On May 12 |
There's this popular belief that the best way to hide something from a blackman is to write it in a book. We Africans hardly read and that's why we will forever be subjected to holy servitude. It's clearly stated in Deuteronomy 14: 22-26 that we and our family are to eat our tithes by ourselves and God also instructed us on how to eat it. I find it so difficult to believe that even great men of God that I look up to as model don't even know this truth exist in d bible. Many know, but for d fact that malachi 3:9-11 and Gen. 14:18-20 (Abraham & Melchizedek the priest) are money-making quotes for them they find it difficult to expose their congregations to d truth and 99% of the congregations are not ready to study their Bible. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by Hezzyluv: 11:47am On May 12 |
Righteousness2: If u drop the massage like this, he might not bother to come back and open the thread i.e, might not get this great advice from you. You should have quote him so he could see your mention. And I know he would open to see it. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by tremor86: 11:47am On May 12 |
advanceDNA: Your sister is selfish ..that's how she will get married and leave you to her husbands house ....talk more of God she is depriving you of been obedient to. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by bigtt76(f): 11:52am On May 12 |
Nice ....erm what do you mean by I won a large sum of money from my savings, tens of thousands of dollars...na dat wan interest me pass rexbuton: 1 Like |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by sunsweet33: 11:54am On May 12 |
profmallor: Yeah. Keeping almost all her money to herself yet still chook eye for 10% tithe…this guy must be a very nice man cos most would just tell her to shut up |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by soccerlite: 11:55am On May 12 |
Lolzzzzz 🤣 You are doing something for God and it's giving you headache Cos of another person O ga o |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by gohf: 11:57am On May 12 |
rexbuton:God blessed you so that you can PAY him back or so that you can be a blessing. You're carrying a burden Jesus did not give you, the question is where do you think you are aheading with that load. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by bigtt76(f): 12:00pm On May 12 |
She's right though ...if anything happens to you without her knowing about the oversea contribution, its all lost. Share info dear rexbuton: |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by zed7: 12:03pm On May 12 |
rexbuton:She's wise. If you don't tell her and you die, the money is lost forever. Oga, if you believe in tithing, do it and stop worrying about what others think. |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by BePrepared: 12:03pm On May 12 |
paxonel: Calling someone stupid on top of his own money Did he collect ya money to pay d tithe Some of you here deserve oraimo cord |
Re: Family Tithing In The Diaspora by bigtt76(f): 12:03pm On May 12 |
Yes it is ...salary sacrifice or charity donations are exempted from your taxable amount rexbuton: 1 Like |
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