Before you get married as a man:

1) be prepared to provide for your wife and children as much as you're able & as long as you're healthy & your kids are still dependent.

2) know that your wife must not love you and she doesn't have to love you.

3) know that what your wife owes you are:

A) respect
B) submission
C) honor

4) Learn that for your wife to do point 3, you must earn it.

5) Make sure you have a, sustainable and legitimate income.

6) Ensure that you have dated your wife sincerely for a period not less than 6 months.

7) Ensure that it was never a long distance relationship.

Ensure that during your dating period, you cohabited at intervals.

9) Ensure that if your wife-to-be is not a virgin, that both of you are sure of your sexual compatibility. Except you wish not to indulge.

10) Know who her mother is. Ifshe's a single mother or divorcee or the one calling the shots in their home, ensure you're fully convinced that she's different.

11) Make sure that you want to marry her because you're personally convinced that she's good for you and not because others said she is good.

12) Study the relationship between her and her father. The way she talks about him & where she places him and why?

13) Know who her friends are.

14) check to see if she has elder sisters that are of marriageable ages but no men in sight and why?

15) if she's a single mother, she should not be your 5th option if you’re a single man with no kids.

16) Study her online presence, what she posts and how she interacts.

17) If she's too close to, or fond of a pastor, be careful because she will aways put her pastor first before you.

18) Ensure she's not the overtly religious type.

19) Make sure she can cook, clean and takes pride in it.

20) Study how she treats people around her, especially children.

21) If she's a business lady, study how she manages her business and if she's very diligent and accountable to it.

22) If she's a career lady, study if she values her career more than being a wife or mother.

23) Make sure your genotypes are a match.

24) Be prepared to be kind, selfless and deliberately committed to her.

25) Work on your anger issues, women can frustrate you and they will.

26) Love God, even if you're a sinner.

27) Be willing to lead her and never depend on her money.

28) Be prepared to protect her from your family and protect your family from her.

29) Ensure you have not won her heart with money.

30) Know that once you choose a wife, you have chosen your destiny.

End.

29.... ensure u have not won her heart with money....??

Her heart ...?? I thought u said in number 2 the man doesn't need her heart/love ..?? Just respect, loyalty and submission....

Baba...if woman doesn't truly love you......u will have to buy respect, loyalty & submission from a woman....

Hmmmmm....So after all these, shey the marriage will last for ever?

Men pick number 2 advise at your own risk.a woman who loves you will try to satisfy you and have your back even when you still annoy and hurt her but a woman who doesn't love you is like living and grooming a snake.the fact that the snake is acting all cute and harmless doesn't mean it cannot kill you,it's only a matter of time.

If you know how sleath and dangerous women are, you won't take number 2 advise.

When the going gets tough or things are not as rosy as it seems you think she won't jump at the next available highest bidder.if there's anything a man must understand,they must realise that A WOMAN THAT DOESN'T LOVE YOU CAN NEVER BE LOYAL TO YOU.if she's loyal, submissive or respectful to you,she's only pretending because the going is still good and you're still a useful supply to her.thr moment you stop giving her the things you used to give her that's when you will know she was never loyal,she was just pretending.a woman who loves you will be considerate of your feelings,show you empathy and sympathy but the ones who don't love you will go and fvck another man and push it on you while you're just her ordinary ATM .dey play

advanceDNA:

29.... ensure u have not won her heart with money....??

Her heart ...?? I thought u said in number 2 the man doesn't need her heart/love ..?? Just respect, loyalty and submission....

Baba...if woman doesn't truly love you......u will have to buy respect, loyalty & submission from a woman....

Would you buy a heart with money and be convinced you’re loved truly?
Comprehension isn’t that difficult

SAMBARRY:
Men pick number 2 advise at your own risk.a woman who loves you will try to satisfy you and have your back even when you still annoy and hurt her but a woman who doesn't love you is like living and grooming a snake.the fact that the snake is acting all cute and harmless doesn't mean it cannot kill you,it's only a matter of time.

If you know how sleath and dangerous women are, you won't take number 2 advise.

When the going gets tough or things are not as rosy as it seems you think she won't jump at the next available highest bidder.if there's anything a man must understand,they must realise that A WOMAN THAT DOESN'T LOVE YOU CAN NEVER BE LOYAL TO YOU.if she's loyal, submissive or respectful to you,she's only pretending because the going is still good and you're still a useful supply to her.thr moment you stop giving her the things you used to give her that's when you will know she was never loyal,she was just pretending.a woman who loves you will be considerate of your feelings,show you empathy and sympathy but the ones who don't love you will go and fvck another man and push it on you while you're just her ordinary ATM .dey play

WOMEN DON’T LOVE MEN.

AgbaJohnDoe:
Would you buy a heart with money and be convinced you’re loved truly?
Comprehension isn’t that difficult

WOMEN DON’T LOVE MEN.

side chicks don't love men.identify the difference

AgbaJohnDoe:
Would you buy a heart with money and be convinced you’re loved truly?
Comprehension isn’t that difficult

WOMEN DON’T LOVE MEN.

Why do u need her heart/ love since u already said a woman can't love u........u are the one with comprehension issues and contradicting urself.....

Once there is no love, why else do u think she will submit, respect and be loyal ...u better ask Regina Daniels why she loyal to her ancestor husband and always singling his praise

31. Be prepared to protect yourself from her family or ensure she is able to protect you from her family.

SAMBARRY:
Men pick number 2 advise at your own risk.a woman who loves you will try to satisfy you and have your back even when you still annoy and hurt her but a woman who doesn't love you is like living and grooming a snake.the fact that the snake is acting all cute and harmless doesn't mean it cannot kill you,it's only a matter of time.

If you know how sleath and dangerous women are, you won't take number 2 advise.

When the going gets tough or things are not as rosy as it seems you think she won't jump at the next available highest bidder.if there's anything a man must understand,they must realise that A WOMAN THAT DOESN'T LOVE YOU CAN NEVER BE LOYAL TO YOU.if she's loyal, submissive or respectful to you,she's only pretending because the going is still good and you're still a useful supply to her.thr moment you stop giving her the things you used to give her that's when you will know she was never loyal,she was just pretending.a woman who loves you will be considerate of your feelings,show you empathy and sympathy but the ones who don't love you will go and fvck another man and push it on you while you're just her ordinary ATM .dey play

"Kayode Olanrewaju" treatment

Marriage ain't by Manual ...

Just be a "Man" & Be Readied to Conquered all Challenges That Would Break Your Home Apart!

You would need higher level of Maturities-Management-Administration Skills to Manage
Successfully, a Fellow Human Being Thats is Powered By "Hormones & Emotions"

If not,

The Marriage already failed before it begins !

If you are a Redpiller, you marriage has already failed because you will find yourself competing with the Feminism aspect of your wife instead of managing her entire Womanhood!

now do a post on 'before you get married as a woman'

AgbaJohnDoe:
Before you get married as a man:

1) be prepared to provide for your wife and children as much as you're able & as long as you're healthy & your kids are still dependent.

2) know that your wife must not love you and she doesn't have to love you.

3) know that what your wife owes you are:

A) respect
B) submission
C) honor

4) Learn that for your wife to do point 3, you must earn it.

5) Make sure you have a, sustainable and legitimate income.

6) Ensure that you have dated your wife sincerely for a period not less than 6 months.

7) Ensure that it was never a long distance relationship.

Ensure that during your dating period, you cohabited at intervals.

9) Ensure that if your wife-to-be is not a virgin, that both of you are sure of your sexual compatibility. Except you wish not to indulge.

10) Know who her mother is. Ifshe's a single mother or divorcee or the one calling the shots in their home, ensure you're fully convinced that she's different.

11) Make sure that you want to marry her because you're personally convinced that she's good for you and not because others said she is good.

12) Study the relationship between her and her father. The way she talks about him & where she places him and why?

13) Know who her friends are.

14) check to see if she has elder sisters that are of marriageable ages but no men in sight and why?

15) if she's a single mother, she should not be your 5th option if you’re a single man with no kids.

16) Study her online presence, what she posts and how she interacts.

17) If she's too close to, or fond of a pastor, be careful because she will aways put her pastor first before you.

18) Ensure she's not the overtly religious type.

19) Make sure she can cook, clean and takes pride in it.

20) Study how she treats people around her, especially children.

21) If she's a business lady, study how she manages her business and if she's very diligent and accountable to it.

22) If she's a career lady, study if she values her career more than being a wife or mother.

23) Make sure your genotypes are a match.

24) Be prepared to be kind, selfless and deliberately committed to her.

25) Work on your anger issues, women can frustrate you and they will.

26) Love God, even if you're a sinner.

27) Be willing to lead her and never depend on her money.

28) Be prepared to protect her from your family and protect your family from her.

29) Ensure you have not won her heart with money.

30) Know that once you choose a wife, you have chosen your destiny.

End.

You can do that yourself if you’re smart

alphaNomega:
now do a post on 'before you get married as a woman'

Hands down, dumbest thread I have ever seen in 10 years. Even more dumber than Ilamina's and Mercysharelove's threads.

What the FVUCKING FVUCK!

Not all are realistic oo

AgbaJohnDoe:
You can do that yourself if you’re smart

it's a waste of my time

alphaNomega:
it's a waste of my time

So, I should waste my time, while you use yours preciously?

AgbaJohnDoe:
So, I should waste my time, while you use yours previously?

oh, I thought you have a lot of time to waste by posting this list in the first place.

alphaNomega:
oh, I thought you have a lot of time to waste by posting this list in the first place.

I wasted my time making a very beautiful thread for the benefits of men and even women, you on the other hand felt you’ve wasted your time reading the full thread, instead of walking out of the thread, you chose to quote me, that’s a sign of a Jobless being

AgbaJohnDoe:
I wasted my time making a very beautiful thread for the benefits of men and even women, you on the other hand felt you’ve wasted your time reading the full thread, instead of walking out of the thread, you chose to quote me, that’s a sign of a Jobless being

okay oh, busy poster. when you are less busy, write what I asked of you.

alphaNomega:
okay oh, busy poster. when you are less busy, write what I asked of you.

I understand the thread hits you like a stray bullet, but you shouldn’t find offense in it, read with open mind and level up.

No I disagree with number2 . All that talk that all a man needs from a woman is respect is bla bla. Marry a woman who LOVES you!

AgbaJohnDoe:
So, I should waste my time, while you use yours preciously?

I think he is saying its a waste of time because dating is supposed to have covered these things and anyone who does not know what marriage entails before even dating is a plane and passengers looking to crash.

AgbaJohnDoe:
I understand the thread hits you like a stray bullet, but you shouldn’t find offense in it, read with open mind and level up.

I didn't even read anything you wrote, waiting for you to put the list I asked then I can read both, till then. *crickets

Wealthyonos:
Hmmmmm....So after all these, shey the marriage will last for ever?

I tire OOO 😂

So only in 1 woman you are looking for all this 😲

My brother you won't marry or let me say u can't see a wife

Excellent advise.