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Single Lady At 30 by AgbaJohnDoe: 7:57pm On May 29
If you're a single lady that is inching close to 30, make marriage your priority from now

It doesn't matter if you end up not getting married in 2024, but at least you're on the path.

Your online feminists and misandrists are getting married secretly because they know they can't do without men.

Those who are still unmarried are miserable and will gladly pull you along.

Misery loves company.

As you keep pushing and building your various careers & goals, don't forget to find a man to build along with.

If you have a man already, make sure you don't lose him.

Don't let anyone discourage you that marriage is not an achievement.

Marriage well done is an achievement for both the man and the woman.

If you start a fresh relationship this new month of the year, and you stay deliberately committed to it, by the end of this year, you would've seen how far you have come.

Make it a prayer point & show that man that you're willing to be a good wife.

Let old things of last year, last month or even last week pass away.

You're not the worst sinner on earth. I spent quality time with my family and I took time to date my wife again & took time to appreciate her for being a good wife & mother to our lovely children.

We reflected on how we met & how we made sure things worked for both of us.

We started from a step. So you too can do it.

If you're above 25 and have no boyfriend, please be deliberate about the man you'll date this year.

As you shape your thoughts and mind, the universe will bring forth the type of man you need.

Avoid fraudulent men this year.

Avoid men who believe in 50:50 this year.

Avoid men who still want to party & hang out with friends all the time.

Avoid men who can't make a full statement without mentioning their mother in it.

Look out for men that are earning legitimate & sustainable income.

He doesn't have to own a car but he should at least be living in his own rented apartment.

Learn how to cook and clean.

Learn how to respect men & learn never to show a man you have your own money.

Avoid begging men for money this year & let the man see something different in you that he rarely sees in most women he has been with.

Stop shaking bumbum online and keep your social media records as clean as possible.

Go closer to your fathers and tell him to teach you how to respect men and how to be a submissive wife.

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Re: Single Lady At 30 by AgbaJohnDoe: 7:58pm On May 29
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Delete all the useless men's numbers you have on your phones & block them. Focus on your goals & move closer to God.

Prepare for the worst but hope for the best in any man you meet or you're currently dating.

Avoid female friends that have too many male friends.

Unfollow any social media page that all they want to do is make you hate Men & make you feel like marriage is not something you should look forward to.

Purge your mindset from the mentality of "what works for A will not work for B".

Relationships have formular and its principles.

Encourage your men to be better & let them know that you're their no 1 supporter & prayer Pal.

All these things I've told you are what will get men committed to you.

It's not rocket science.

It's doable and you'll be glad you chose the path of femininity.

May your prayers be answered but you have to put in the work.

I wish you well.

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Re: Single Lady At 30 by Writervick(m): 8:07pm On May 29
Husband needed lol
Re: Single Lady At 30 by Nlanalyst: 8:13pm On May 29
Nice write up bro.

You nailed it.
Re: Single Lady At 30 by StillDtruth: 10:46am On May 30
AgbaJohnDoe:



Another stupid and ignorant post. Its obvious that you are not well.

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Re: Single Lady At 30 by AgbaJohnDoe: 2:36pm On May 30
StillDtruth:


Another stupid and ignorant post. Its obvious that you are not well.
it’s obvious your complete lineage are daf/t
Re: Single Lady At 30 by StillDtruth: 9:16am On May 31
AgbaJohnDoe:
it’s obvious your complete lineage are daf/t

See, Proof that you are a mad person and a very stupid devil who should be burnt. Its obvious you are confesssing that your lineage is cursed with madness.
Re: Single Lady At 30 by austine4real(m): 9:31am On May 31
See alaye

Marriage is not an achievement to some people o


Person wey no get money no dey marry
Re: Single Lady At 30 by Adexvivacity(m): 9:41am On May 31
Avoid men who can't make a full statement without mentioning their mother in it.

Your children will never for once mention you as well....These are the people that will want to go and die in their sons or daughter house after marriage but always dont want to hear about their mother inlaw. I hate to hear this trash.
Re: Single Lady At 30 by AgbaJohnDoe: 9:46am On May 31
Adexvivacity:


Your children will never for once mention you as well....These are the people that will want to go and die in their sons or daughter house after marriage but always dont want to hear about their mother inlaw. I hate to hear this trash.
You lack comprehension, do I need to explain to you what I mean by that statement?
For that reason you’re a big fo.ol, your types are the ones who will want to have control over their son’s life including personal decision making.
Mama mummy’s boy

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