Lovecode89:
Three years into marriage with a son. he resigned from his job immediately after the wedding, stop making effort to get another job. No business pursuit, no skill.
Left all the bills on the struggling wife. The marriage became so dry, no romance, the wife is always sad and over burden. Yet he wants intimacy from the wife. The wife deprived him for months.

How can she handle such marriage?

thesicilian:

You'll have to manage him like that while helping him find another job or find a way to persuade him to get a skill. But whether he's doing well or not, you shouldn't deny him intimacy otherwise you're just compounding the problem.

Lovecode89:
Three years into marriage with a son. he resigned from his job immediately after the wedding, stop making effort to get another job. No business pursuit, no skill.
Left all the bills on the struggling wife. The marriage became so dry, no romance, the wife is always sad and over burden. Yet he wants intimacy from the wife. The wife deprived him for months.

How can she handle such marriage?

Lovecode89:
The wife deprived him for months.

How can she handle such marriage?

Avast:


She is already handling it, what else does she want.

Magicalsineros:
She has not.

Depriving him is the list thing she's doing now. She's depriving herself too. Love and good see.x is a wonderful experience. Everyone deserve to feel it

Lovecode89:
Three years into marriage with a son. he resigned from his job immediately after the wedding, stop making effort to get another job. No business pursuit, no skill.
Left all the bills on the struggling wife. The marriage became so dry, no romance, the wife is always sad and over burden. Yet he wants intimacy from the wife. The wife deprived him for months.

How can she handle such marriage?Its the reverse that many men go through in their whole life time. At least she has learnt that its not easy to be a man. See how she already weaponized sex? She should be talking to and inspiring the man and not behaving erratic. Do you really think any man justs want to sit down without having any money in his pocket?

Magicalsineros:
My dear, stop depriving yourself. Go and have fun. find a good man who will support you, provide for you. The responsibility of taking care of the family all by yourself is much. It will make you age fast.
Probably, a man that can feed his lazy ass as well, since he's too handsome to work and provide for his family. Cheat on him, look young and happy. Don't allow a wickeegred man put your life on hold for no reason.

Pecoleee345:


And If things turn around good tomorrow for him??

The way women paint there husband in scenarios like this you just wish you can hear the man side of the story.

condensedmilk:


There's no fun in olosho

Why get into something you will regret later in life?

Magicalsineros:
Why would a woman give her body to a man who can not shield her when responsibility set in? A man who knows how to get erection, have se.x, must be able to take care of responsibility that comes with it. A woman's body is very delicate and should be explored by only a man that value and treat her well

condensedmilk:




so if her NEXT man loses his job she should move to another man because her body is very delicate and should be explored by only a man that value and treat her well !

Lovecode89:
Three years into marriage with a son. he resigned from his job immediately after the wedding, stop making effort to get another job. No business pursuit, no skill.
Left all the bills on the struggling wife. The marriage became so dry, no romance, the wife is always sad and over burden. Yet he wants intimacy from the wife. The wife deprived him for months.

How can she handle such marriage?

condensedmilk:


what's on your mind?

advanceDNA:


He just resigned after marriage for no reason and decided not to do anything....?? Lol....this ur story seff dey one kind....

if Person no sabi wash plate, but he sabi sweep ground... But u dey vex say e no sabi wash plate, so prevent him from also sweeping..na u dey lose ooo from two sides.

My own is ..if u are lucky to catch a Dangote or otedola or Elon musk for marriage....good for you.... But if ur husband is struggling....just navigate the union to happiness as much as u can or divorce him....no frustrate ur self...no be u go be first woman bread winner


Madam..u go dey alright jarè...

Magicalsineros:
One step at a time. The way you handle today determine what you have tomorrow. How can any sane husband and father stay lazy hoping for a better tomorrow? I have seen plenty poor people, who were broke and lazy since I was a child and till today, they're still poor.
So, stop caging women with that '' better Tommorow'' nonse.nse

Ouchbabe:
That's sad, I can imagine how the woman feels.
She should have a heart to heart conversation with her husband. She needs to know why he stopped making efforts. A man who was working before and fending for the family suddenly stopped. He might be frustrated, discouraged or depressed.

Magicalsineros:
My dear, stop depriving yourself. Go and have fun. find a good man who will support you, provide for you. The responsibility of taking care of the family all by yourself is much. It will make you age fast.
Probably, a man that can feed his lazy ass as well, since he's too handsome to work and provide for his family. Cheat on him, look young and happy. Don't allow a wicked man put your life on hold for no reason.

Wawelexy:



Ol*sho don drop quote....


[b]Someone that have been providing for 3 solid [/b]years will suddenly resign cos the wife is Alakija or what? The way you people just jump into conclusion on a one sided story really amaze me.

Lovecode89:
I have. He keep telling me things will be alright and he's not working on anything. Just claiming faith. I'm too stressed because of bills. I can't even buy personal things for myself from my little money I realize from my business. All my clothes are old and worn out, but I can't think of myself. Feeding, all the bills, expenses is on me.

Wawelexy:



Ol*sho don drop quote....


Someone that have been providing for 3 solid years will suddenly resign cos the wife is Alakija or what? The way you people just jump into conclusion on a one sided story really amaze me.

Pecoleee345:


Bro I was a victim of this situation myself in 2022.....my business went bad and I was on a low.

My wife was carrying the house and that experience made me realize we men are just useless without money to be people we labor for.

Lovecode89:
I didn't say he was providing. Read it again please

Since we got married 3years ago, I have been the only one providing. I have been encouraging and supporting him to get a job, but all to no avail. He keep saying things will get better, but he's not working on anything

Nlanalyst:

Sxx is the only language poor men understand. A man turned his struggling wife to the head of the family and here is another man stating that the sexual needs of the useless figurehead should be prioritized.
What a shame on y'all.
Y'all disgust me.

Pecoleee345:


So you want to tell us.....since he resigned you are the one paying house rent and all.

He hasn't drop single kobo since then or contributed anything to the house??

There is big difference between what he providing isn't enough and he isn't providing at all....clarify

Wawelexy:



I can relate bro, the annoying part is, people tends to believe them so fast without running a background check on their claims about the broke husband.