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Re: . by condensedmilk: 11:14am On Jun 01
Magicalsineros:
So that the poor woman will do what? What kind of mindset do many of you have?

You sha just want her to leave her husband and kid and start jumping from di.ck to di.ck in search of a comfortable life.

You go tire!

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Re: . by Lovecode89(f): 11:22am On Jun 01
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Re: . by Messina123: 11:27am On Jun 01
Magicalsineros:
Bitter truth. Many of you don't want to hear.
That was how one jobless man left his pregnant wife in an operation room. All because he couldn't afford the bills leaving the woman there to source herself out. Thank God for the medical team that came to her rescue. So many women have lost their life all because they keep giving their body to men who can not save them in critical condition. Shame

Bitter truth say you be olosho. Na you e affect not me.

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Re: . by Pecoleee345: 11:32am On Jun 01
Ouchbabe:

20% love for your wife, that's way too small naa. Who come get the remaining 80%

My two babies oooo.

That what I labour on.
Re: . by Pecoleee345: 11:35am On Jun 01
Magicalsineros:
You're excited when faceless people even call her name. God.
I feel sorry for the kind of man she got married to.

See emotional blackmail..........

Don't worry I will get them locked up or break there head.....Hope that fine by you.

She is married.......are you married
Re: . by Magicalsineros(f): 11:41am On Jun 01
Pecoleee345:


See emotional blackmail..........

Don't worry I will get them locked up or break there head.....Hope that fine by you.

She is married.......are you married???
Lol. If she discovered the kind of man she's married too. She will feel sorry for herself.
Re: . by Magicalsineros(f): 11:44am On Jun 01
Messina123:


Bitter truth say you be olosho. Na you e affect not me.
The normal word used on women. It doesn't remove anything from us.
Including your mom, sisters, girlfriend and your wife or future wife. Olosho is not a hurtful name

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Re: . by Magicalsineros(f): 11:45am On Jun 01
Pecoleee345:


My two babies oooo.

That what I labour on.
See someone's husband. An enemy in disguise

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Re: . by vibratingpenis: 11:47am On Jun 01
Nlanalyst:

Sxx is the only language poor men understand. A man turned his struggling wife to the head of the family and here is another man stating that the sexual needs of the useless figurehead should be prioritized.
What a shame on y'all.
Y'all disgust me.

I hope you still a virgin and your toto has no stretch marks from prick insertion.
Re: . by Kemadealadire(f): 11:48am On Jun 01
Hmmn, like he just resigned because his former workplace is too far. Was it not the same distance he was covering before he married you

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Re: . by Messina123: 11:49am On Jun 01
Magicalsineros:
The normal word used on women. It doesn't remove anything from us.
Including your mom, sisters, girlfriend and your wife or future wife. Olosho is not a hurtful name

Nah. My mum wouldn't be out there embarrassing her husband because of small setback if it even happened. But judging from your utterances, your mum bullied your father at home

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Re: . by Pecoleee345: 12:02pm On Jun 01
Magicalsineros:
Lol. If she discovered the kind of man she's married too. She will feel sorry for herself.

Ehya .....if you have a man that married you, feeds you,put a roof over your head,set up a business for you,accommodate your 2 siblings for 2yrs...i guess you will feel sorry for yourself marrying him.

Lol

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Re: . by Pecoleee345: 12:05pm On Jun 01
Magicalsineros:
See someone's husband. An enemy in disguise

She will gladly choose this enemy in her next life.

When you get married someday you will understand till then your opinion is just comic relief.

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Re: . by Magicalsineros(f): 12:26pm On Jun 01
Pecoleee345:


She will gladly choose this enemy in her next life.

When you get married someday you will understand till then your opinion is just comic relief.
Lol. But i didn't tell you my marital status

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Re: . by Magicalsineros(f): 12:29pm On Jun 01
Pecoleee345:


Ehya .....if you have a man that married you, feeds you,put a roof over your head,set up a business for you,accommodate your 2 siblings for 2yrs...i guess you will feel sorry for yourself marrying him.

Lol
You really deserve an applaud. But you still need to let go of some hidden pain and forgive her completely

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Re: . by Magicalsineros(f): 12:30pm On Jun 01
Messina123:


Nah. My mum wouldn't be out there embarrassing her husband because of small setback if it even happened. But judging from your utterances, your mum bullied your father at home
Lol
Re: . by bmasz(m): 3:38pm On Jun 01
Nlanalyst:

Sxx is the only language poor men understand. A man turned his struggling wife to the head of the family and here is another man stating that the sexual needs of the useless figurehead should be prioritized.
What a shame on y'all.
Y'all disgust me.

Kindly note that I do not support any able bodied man absconding from doing meaningful work to take care of his family.

With that point out of the way, would you say the man is free to deprive his wife of sex if the she resigns from work after marriage.

Would it be proper for the man to say, ok lady as you are no longer bringing anything to the table, no more sex for you?

From my experience, that behavior of resigning from work after wedding ceremony is more common among women that it's is among men.

We should try to gather more data points before encouraging people to continue with destructive behaviors.

What the man did is bad. And what the wife did by denying him sex is equally bad.

Two wrongs do not make a right. Fire plus fire would only yield more fire.

She has to sit him down in a heart to heart conversation to find out if he was fired.

A similar situation happened to someone really close to me. About ten years ago after the conclusion of their wedding ceremony, the husband was sacked because his boss felt he stole from his business to sponsor his wedding.

The young man struggled for two years to get back on his feet. During that period, he was supported by his wife.

Was it easy for them, hell NO. Did the wife feel like acting like the poster up there? You can bet on it!

The saving grace was that she sort for advise, listened to it and supported her husband until he got back on his feet.

I believe you can do the same by supporting him in any way you can.

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Re: . by Ouchbabe(f): 3:49pm On Jun 01
Pecoleee345:


My two babies oooo.

That what I labour on.
To err is human to forgive divine.
Pls raise the love small, I'm sure she regretted her actions. She is the mother of your adorable daughters remember
Re: . by Lovecode89(f): 3:49pm On Jun 01
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Re: . by Mariangeles(f): 4:09pm On Jun 01
Lovecode89:
Yes is the same job and the same location. Maybe because he saw my business was bringing in money very well as at that time.

Maybe he should join you in the business in the meantime then.
Is that possible?

You both should try and make your marriage work.

These are challenging times, which shall definitely pass, but once a good thing is ruined (during challenging times), it can hardly be fixed.

You both should go to God in prayers as a unit (without resentments), to strengthen you through these times.

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Re: . by Kemadealadire(f): 5:41pm On Jun 01
Lovecode89:
Yes is the same job and the same location. Maybe because he saw my business was bringing in money very well as at that time.
Hmmn, don't know how to advise on this one. You should probably involve his family and anyone he respects at this point.

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Re: . by illicit(m): 6:10pm On Jun 01
Mariangeles:


Maybe he should join you in the business in the meantime then.
Is that possible?

You both should try and make your marriage work.

These are challenging times, which shall definitely pass, but once a good thing is ruined (during challenging times), it can hardly be fixed.

You both should go to God in prayers as a unit (without resentments), to strengthen you through these times.

I commented on your Orisirisi food post and I got banned

😞
Re: . by Mom007(f): 6:45pm On Jun 01
One word, separate.

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Re: . by Mariangeles(f): 7:05pm On Jun 01
illicit:


I commented on your Orisirisi food post and I got banned

😞

Pele.
Don't mind spambot. πŸ˜„

Have you been unbanned on the food section now?
Re: . by Lovecode89(f): 7:30pm On Jun 01
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Re: . by Mariangeles(f): 7:38pm On Jun 01
Lovecode89:
No. The business is down already due to excessive bills

Oh dear!
I pray you both overcome the challenges, and get back on your feet again soonest.

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Re: . by illicit(m): 7:47pm On Jun 01
Mariangeles:


Pele.
Don't mind spambot. πŸ˜„

Have you been unbanned on the food section now?

No o
πŸ₯΅
Re: . by Mariangeles(f): 7:54pm On Jun 01
illicit:


No o
πŸ₯΅

Even me gan. undecided

I just hope it doesn't continue that way.
Re: . by illicit(m): 7:57pm On Jun 01
Mariangeles:


Even me gan. undecided

I just hope it doesn't continue that way.

I wonder o

The ban will expire 6.57pm tomorrow

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Re: . by Lifemanage: 8:37pm On Jun 01
Magicalsineros:
Why would a woman give her body to a man who can not shield her when responsibility set in? A man who knows how to get erection, have se.x, must be able to take care of responsibility that comes with it. A woman's body is very delicate and should be explored by only a man that value and treat her well
Women are born manipulators sha ooo

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