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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 10:39am On May 28
Fattprince23:


This doesn't apply to girlfriend only. I'm thinking of starting a diary here and my female supervisor story will be there somewhere. You just described her. And I see her as toxic and a narcist. So sometimes I just don't reply when she's manufacturing making mountain out of molehills. This even drive her crazy and she want me gone ASAP.
That's how to deal with women like that. Ignore them. It drives them Mad.

Most women do what Karlifate said. Some more than others. And some men fall for that bullshiit but not me. I just ignore them and after she has come back from her mountain of emotional madness, I will now start my own. But if you dare engage them in arguing or trying to prove you are not whatever she is accusing you of, you will be drained...such women are emotional/energy vampires.

Just say K or ignore and move on.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fattprince23: 2:35pm On May 28
I have this new girl where I work, she's been around for 3 weeks now. Though I was attracted to her strictly sexually but I removed my mind as you don't shit where you eat but as time goes on I noticed her flirting though subtly at first because one day she wanted to ask me for something but she called my attention by caressing my shoulder. I was shocked since we weren't talking then just greetings. But since I am respond to her well I noticed she always want to talk to me or play at any given opportunity because we are always busy. So I'm thinking of inviting her now since I would stop work soon(due to the following reasons, the remuneration is not worth it, our supervisor is toxic and narcissistic and I'm might just be called to serve fatherland at anytime) because she offered by herself to cook and bring food for me to work yesterday but she didn't, so I am thinking of using the opportunity to ask her to still bring the food to my house since I will stop work on Friday. I don't know much about her but I'm thinking of asking her some question after our first round if she agrees to bring the food home.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 4:20pm On May 28
Chai

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Philosopher1979: 4:34pm On May 28
JESHAL007:
Chai

Only date, toast in fact befriend girls that appreciate you.
Look even your female friends that you don't s3x should at least appreciate you as a person and value your company.
Only try to seduce a lady that is at least friendly with you. Don't spend on someone who doesn't care about you. She us somewhat right. It's like the guy has been rejected and needs her validation. It's like low self esteem.
Women are human beings like you and me stop pedastlizing them.
Embrace the love of your family members, your friends and ladies that appreciate your company and type of person. Such a lady will even be the one to ask you for srx cause she likess you.
If you call a lady for a month and she does not reply delete her number.
You are a unique creation of the universe and a gift to your generation. You have unique talents that will help the world. Appreciate yourself first.
Develop your talents and personality and self confidence then girls that appreciate you will come your way.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by EreluRoz: 7:37am On May 29
I have not forgotten about this thread ooo so don't think you all will have peace anytime soon. Anytime I want to drop the story behind that Abakaliki boy Martinez monkhood and bitter life I always get occupied but I'll try to drop everything soon so that young ones will learn
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:35am On May 29
This one is so hung on Martinez39s.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by EreluRoz: 9:53am On May 29
luminouz:
This one is so hung on Martinez39s.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are next, I'm treating everything file by file
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 10:57am On May 29
IAmHim1:
Enjoy yourselves wink

How can one grate the kola into powder? Isn't it going to be moist?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Robnectar(m): 2:28pm On May 29
EreluRoz:
I have not forgotten about this thread ooo so don't think you all will have peace anytime soon. Anytime I want to drop the story behind that Abakaliki boy Martinez monkhood and bitter life I always get occupied but I'll try to drop everything soon so that young ones will learn

As u no want forget dis thread,, don't forget to take ur meds too grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Perfectskills01(m): 4:40pm On May 29
Fattprince23:
I have this new girl where I work, she's been around for 3 weeks now. Though I was attracted to her strictly sexually but I removed my mind as you don't shit where you eat but as time goes on I noticed her flirting though subtly at first because one day she wanted to ask me for something but she called my attention by caressing my shoulder. I was shocked since we weren't talking then just greetings. But since I am respond to her well I noticed she always want to talk to me or play at any given opportunity because we are always busy. So I'm thinking of inviting her now since I would stop work soon(due to the following reasons, the remuneration is not worth it, our supervisor is toxic and narcissistic and I'm might just be called to serve fatherland at anytime) because she offered by herself to cook and bring food for me to work yesterday but she didn't, so I am thinking of using the opportunity to ask her to still bring the food to my house since I will stop work on Friday. I don't know much about her but I'm thinking of asking her some question after our first round if she agrees to bring the food home.


That girl is lonely at work , she needs someone to talk to , you are the nearest target to keep her company.
Don't mistake her kind gesture for love or likeness. She needs a man's validation.

Now, all you think is sex with her . Your next line of action is to invite her , right? . The problem you have here is not because you want to have sex with her but because of your ignorance concerning an attention seeking LovePeddler who is desperate for validation.

There are ways to deal with such situation, it largely depends on you . What do I mean.... Depending on the way(game) you understand and used to . The way I would handle it might be different from yours , however we will get same result. Let me explain my own ( game) .

For me, a girl can't get my attention and validation for free depending on my current mood and the kind of girl , though. I will be straightforward with her . Tell her directly that I like her , we should be together in a secret place where no one will see us . She will understand what I mean . She either comply , for that is the only condition for my attention and validation. or declines and I won't give her my attention. For women , attention is gold , I hardly give it for free, if you know what I am talking about. I am a busy guy , I don't give women the slightest chance for mind game . She either comply or decline. I am ok with either results.

For you, you may not follow my way( game ) , and you will still get laid or not .

Other things you need to know... That girl likes you in some ways. Else she wouldn't be romantic towards you and bring food for you. You may not be too direct in order not to scare her away as a desperate or clingy guy . She needs to be comfortable with you before you go for the real deal . Perhaps, you will make some attempts before she will succumb. This is not the way(game) of alpha .

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmHim1: 5:17pm On May 29
Hmmm.
You just might regret if you don't tread carefully


Life is a game as they say
But the cards you're dealt with is what you play

Your female supervisor, regardless of her gender IS STILL YOUR BOSS and there is nothing you can do about it unless you resign and look for a male boss

You described her toxic and narcissistic...it's cool that you were observant..

Now guess what? You now know exactly how to play her.

Feed into her ego...don't do it in her face consciously or she'll know she's about to be played or you're lobbying her...subtly hint with expression and your body language. Female can read body language better than men because where logic ends, emotions begin and feelings is displayed with actions NOT WORDS



Smile...not like a comic character o...just nice and smooth...disarm her while conversing with her...I'm sure you are seem like someone who can keep a secret...hint that to her. She is like a child...thats why they call girls 'BABY girl' and not 'Adult grandma'


The opposite of freedom is not being caged. no
The opposite of freedom is shame.
I've written about this in a post of mine
https://www.nairaland.com/7960832/pairing-weakness-strenght-safe-place


Most of the communication that happens between humans is 40% words and 60% body language.

I can say I'm happy to see you when you come visit me but you'll know that's a big lie when you see me frowning and grumbling after inviting you inside my house. Hope you get the scenario. My body language spoke that I wasn't happy to see you

Don't lose your job because of pride. It's stoop to CONQUER not stoop to survive

If the pay is less than what you and YOUR COMPANY KNOWS YOU ARE WORTH, then you leave the job. That's a valid reason. Not because of a 'female' supervisor

So if you had a job in Chevron or shell where you're earning hard core dollars steadily but your 'female' supervisor is toxic, surely you won't be thinking of leaving such job

Everyone cannot like you. Even the son of God was murdered then they covered it up and said he came from heaven to die for our sins.

Look at you...You're just an ordinary human.

This applies to Not just this job but any other business opportunity that has a woman as the head. Learn to see through them. Trust me, it's all a charade. A game. That's why you're a Player. You play and you play to win.

Players win, losers complain. If losers were winning, they wouldn't complain



Fattprince23:


This doesn't apply to girlfriend only. I'm thinking of starting a diary here and my female supervisor story will be there somewhere. You just described her. And I see her as toxic and a narcist. So sometimes I just don't reply when she's manufacturing making mountain out of molehills. This even drive her crazy and she want me gone ASAP.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by EreluRoz: 8:04pm On May 29
Redpillers we will enter same trouser this weekend. Everywhere will be red, let no mod ban me because I'll be stepping on a lot of toes.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:37pm On May 29
Fattprince23:
I have this new girl where I work, she's been around for 3 weeks now. Though I was attracted to her strictly sexually but I removed my mind as you don't shit where you eat but as time goes on I noticed her flirting though subtly at first because one day she wanted to ask me for something but she called my attention by caressing my shoulder. I was shocked since we weren't talking then just greetings. But since I am respond to her well I noticed she always want to talk to me or play at any given opportunity because we are always busy. So I'm thinking of inviting her now since I would stop work soon(due to the following reasons, the remuneration is not worth it, our supervisor is toxic and narcissistic and I'm might just be called to serve fatherland at anytime) because she offered by herself to cook and bring food for me to work yesterday but she didn't, so I am thinking of using the opportunity to ask her to still bring the food to my house since I will stop work on Friday. I don't know much about her but I'm thinking of asking her some question after our first round if she agrees to bring the food home.


@Bolded. After your first round?😯🙂. You are dreaming🙂. Girl wey never sure say she go give you sex, you don dey dream of first round. Dey play.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:51pm On May 30
TO BE A MAN IS NOT EASY:

1. We need to pay electricity bill
2. Buy bread when coming
3. Buy eggs when you are coming
4. Gas is finished.
5. Kerosine finished.
6a. Generator is not starting up.
6b. Buy fuel for generator when you are coming.
7. The car can't start, it has a flat tyre.
8. School fees is needed.
9. DStv/GOtv need to be paid.
10. Auctioneers are demanding for loan repayment.
11. Private tuitor wants her monthly pay.
12. It's happy hour, we need biscuits.
13. Water bill is due.
14. We need to pay rent.
15. Our parents need pocket money.
16. The baby has fever.
17a. I need airtime
17b. I need internet fata
18. Let's do dinner tonight.
19. Fridge, pressing iron, fan etc not working
20. We want to go to amusement park this holiday.
21. In the bedroom they shouldn't disappoint o, you better do it "HARDER"

Result:
Doctor says I have High BP.
How man no go get High BP.

Reason why men die earlier.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 4:31pm On May 30
JESHAL007:
TO BE A MAN IS NOT EASY:

1. We need to pay electricity bill
2. Buy bread when coming
3. Buy eggs when you are coming
4. Gas is finished.
5. Kerosine finished.
6a. Generator is not starting up.
6b. Buy fuel for generator when you are coming.
7. The car can't start, it has a flat tyre.
8. School fees is needed.
9. DStv/GOtv need to be paid.
10. Auctioneers are demanding for loan repayment.
11. Private tuitor wants her monthly pay.
12. It's happy hour, we need biscuits.
13. Water bill is due.
14. We need to pay rent.
15. Our parents need pocket money.
16. The baby has fever.
17a. I need airtime
17b. I need internet fata
18. Let's do dinner tonight.
19. Fridge, pressing iron, fan etc not working
20. We want to go to amusement park this holiday.
21. In the bedroom they shouldn't disappoint o, you better do it "HARDER"

Result:
Doctor says I have High BP.
How man no go get High BP.

Reason why men die earlier.
Man die early simply because man choose to die early.

It's all a matter of choice.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by USAfall2024: 5:25pm On May 30
Smartb0y:

Man die early simply because man choose to die early.

It's all a matter of choice.

I saw what you did there🫵🏽. It’s Simp-ly a matter of choice💯

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 8:09pm On May 30
JESHAL007:
TO BE A MAN IS NOT EASY:

1. We need to pay electricity bill
2. Buy bread when coming
3. Buy eggs when you are coming
4. Gas is finished.
5. Kerosine finished.
6a. Generator is not starting up.
6b. Buy fuel for generator when you are coming.
7. The car can't start, it has a flat tyre.
8. School fees is needed.
9. DStv/GOtv need to be paid.
10. Auctioneers are demanding for loan repayment.
11. Private tuitor wants her monthly pay.
12. It's happy hour, we need biscuits.
13. Water bill is due.
14. We need to pay rent.
15. Our parents need pocket money.
16. The baby has fever.
17a. I need airtime
17b. I need internet fata
18. Let's do dinner tonight.
19. Fridge, pressing iron, fan etc not working
20. We want to go to amusement park this holiday.
21. In the bedroom they shouldn't disappoint o, you better do it "HARDER"

Result:
Doctor says I have High BP.
How man no go get High BP.

Reason why men die earlier.
Exactly why you need to put yourself FIRST!!!

Society doesn't give a fuq about you. As a man, you are expendable.

To all the Kings, as you chase your goals, treat yourselves well and try to enjoy life because You are all you got mudafucker!!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karleb(m): 9:33pm On May 30
JESHAL007:
TO BE A MAN IS NOT EASY:

1. We need to pay electricity bill
2. Buy bread when coming
3. Buy eggs when you are coming
4. Gas is finished.
5. Kerosine finished.
6a. Generator is not starting up.
6b. Buy fuel for generator when you are coming.
7. The car can't start, it has a flat tyre.
8. School fees is needed.
9. DStv/GOtv need to be paid.
10. Auctioneers are demanding for loan repayment.
11. Private tuitor wants her monthly pay.
12. It's happy hour, we need biscuits.
13. Water bill is due.
14. We need to pay rent.
15. Our parents need pocket money.
16. The baby has fever.
17a. I need airtime
17b. I need internet fata
18. Let's do dinner tonight.
19. Fridge, pressing iron, fan etc not working
20. We want to go to amusement park this holiday.
21. In the bedroom they shouldn't disappoint o, you better do it "HARDER"

Result:
Doctor says I have High BP.
How man no go get High BP.

Reason why men die earlier.

Una go complain complain but immediately you guys see a woman, the need to be a slave kicks in.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 10:00am On May 31
If you like, go and wife a h£o. Your future will tell.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 5:58am On Jun 01
Skepticus:


36 year old dude married my youngest sister who was 21, some years back in her 3rd year in a State University. The dude, who was financially well-off was willing to spend his life just to wife her (and he did). I struggled to understand his obsession with my younger sister at the time, till he told me (some days before the wedding ceremony) that she met her a virgin - a rare treasure among Nigerian ladies. His parents (my in laws) are always in contact with (and serving) my parents. It's crazy. Meanwhile, my other sister who rode the carousel didn't settle for the "best" of man in marriage. She didn't tell me directly but you could tell from close observation of her family life that she is just "managing" the loser who saved her.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:02am On Jun 01
Skepticus:


Wahala for men who dey carry love, dating and marriage for head.

Once, your woman has been sexually imprinted by another man over you, it's just a matter of time before he seeks this man (or men).

Women fûck men they are sexually attracted to and marry who can provide. Men would often marry women they are sexually attracted to. Most times, the women don't feel same about them - recipe for later problems in marriages.

One of the reasons I advice men to deal strictly with women they sexually imprint or women who find them sexually-attractive over those who see them as just "providers" (image of the typical middle class/wealthy family man).

Though, it's not entirely fool proof. A hoe will still cheat but it reduces the chances of headaches for the man and paternal fraud.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:04am On Jun 01
Skepticus:


You don't understand the "effect" of the "drug" that "attention" means to ladies. Even, aging don't affect it that much (some grandmas still use make up/filters to appear younger).

"Attention" has the same "currency value" as money to women but the truth is that, this "currency value" means that you'll be "relegated" to the "friendzone" level like the tons of other beta simps/orbiters around her. The "simp/orbiters" who would get a "taste" of her would have to have "simping value" as "wealthy providers" on the short term (packaged prostitution disguised as dating,) or in the long term (as marriage or cohabitation). The dudes getting her coochie for free or "close" to free is probably not in the list of those giving her these compliments. They may even, be tired of her already wishing that some simp take her away quick.

Knowing what your "value" is to every woman in your life who has no blood relationship to you is very important.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:05am On Jun 01
Skepticus:


The quote is the foundation on what a healthy traditionally-conservative relationship/marriage is built on.

A man should be firm in leadership when it comes to relationship with his complementary but submissive partner. When the man fails in this, by not providing adequate leadership in the relationship, letting his woman get away with bad behaviours, or letting her indulge in pleasures and freedom over responsibility in the name of being "woke" or "liberal", he sets himself up for disrespect and even, marital failure.

A woman who can't be submissive to the sensible leadership that a man brings, radiating masculine vibes (lacks feminity) or being exposed to post-modernist liberal and feministic ideas (which is "knowing far too much " ) is "chaotic" and most likely, be a disaster in permanent relationship with a man who seeks a complementary, submissive partner.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:07am On Jun 01
Martinez39s:
I have read skepticus's analyses so far up till this point. All I can is that when people refuse to learn or listen, just let them do what they please; if they learn the hard way, let them bear the burn and don't stress yourself comforting them. All we will give them is a sarcastic "sorry." That's my principle.

Some red-pill men think they are so special that they can find "quality women" (translation: a woman who is a nawalt as long as they play the alpha and hold frame). They think they are invincible or different or that what happened to others won't happen to them. I have seen one on this thread that believes no woman will cheat on redpiller; who knows how many more delusions are out there among our redpillers? Or how many believe these delusions? Some married men in gynocentric societies who have read the Rational Male wrongly think that they can put themselves in a marriage situation, where the wife has all the power, and still command her submission and flex their authority just because they are maintaining frame. grin Though we call women "fish brain", but they are not that stupid when they are manipulating and working in their best interest. Who are you that female nature should make an exception of you? There are territories and situations that even core redpillers avoid because they know female nature won't spare them.

Those that will learn will learn. I am sure that during Casillas's career, a lot of people would have pointed to his marriage and the kissing scene on TV as signs and evidence of good relationship with a good woman. They didn't know that things change with time and intentions usually reveal themselves with time. "Be a HVM and everything will workout with women" they say.... that's why £16,000-per-week Lovren's wife was cheating on him with a £200-per-month forestry worker. undecided

Those that will learn will learn; those that stubborn, filled with hubris, and delusional are playing with fire. Except they become victims of blissful ignorance till death, they are in for a big shock and regret. Notice that Casillas's wife was intentional in her ways and started divorce proceedings after Casillas passed his earning peaks so that she could cash out; the fact that a woman is stroking your ego by giving the illusion that are you in control and you are an alpha doesn't mean she is not planning the divorce and doing her calculations.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:08am On Jun 01
Skepticus:


In the past, arranged marriages worked because women who were picked for marriages were often raised right, in closed conservative societies where their hypergamy was controlled with dire consequences, if she fell out of line. In the few cases, where it turned out bad was when the lady given out, was badly raised or super entitled ladies in marriages done solely for political and business connections.

To be clear, engaging with women in permanent living arrangement would involve some level of "simping" as you'll be expected to provide as a man to get sex, companionship and your bloodline passed on. Realistically, you can't always hold frame 100% of the time but at least, be smart enough to recover when you seem to be losing it.

Regarding arranged marriages, I can't say same for today, where modern women have been exposed to too much feminist ideas that promote freedoms over responsibilities. In my own opinion, I feel it work in some ways and some men are lucky especially when those who "vetted" her for you, did right This "vetting" can be very hard though. Today, a woman's past is hard to figure out and her potential as a good complementary partner for the future is equally hard. For a man, it's like buying goods in the dark. You don't know what you'll get - a risk. I've seen a good number (arranged marriages) turn out really bad with super damaged/unmarriageable women.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:15am On Jun 01
Skepticus:


You know what to do. We don suppose pass dis level.

I would never advise you to buy her a phone even if you can afford to buy a million IPhone12s. All these stories of "I-bought-her-a-phone never ends well for the men who do it, from stories I read online and those I know personally. She uses you to "upgrade" to meet men with more SMV than you do, or richer SIMPs. When you challenge her for doing it, you'll get shamed for being "insecure" and she uses the opportunity to get out of your life (and safely, with your investments in her). The only set of female folks you should buy a phone for includes your mum, sisters, female relatives and your wife or a woman who has proven herself to be worthy of your commitment in Marriage. You must also be sure it is needed and necessary. She must be highly deserving of it and not manipulating/threatening you into getting it.

Telling you that you don't love her if you don't buy a phone is manipulative and pricking at your manly ego. A reason we tell guys that women (generally) don't love. They are only attracted to the value of material things and attention you give them. Dare her to do her worst. The worst she can do is to walk away from you to another mugu who may be more than happy to do the job. Na only pusssy u lose and pusssy dey everywhere.

Lastly, avoid investing in trashy girls that are in survival mode (broke girls always needing money for something every time. It could range from sanitary pads, cheap snacks to phones, clothes, house rent etc). The more you spend, the more you begin to invest emotionally and when the lady swings from your branch to the branch of another guy whom she considers better than you like the typical street hustler, you get into bitter resentment of women - one that I have seen with a lot of Nigerian guys. In bitter resentment, you are still emotional and despite being out of your life, she still has power over your mind because of your emotional state.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:43am On Jun 01

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 12:44pm On Jun 01
"No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover is a self-help book that addresses the "Nice Guy Syndrome," where men often prioritize others' needs over their own, leading to dissatisfaction and unfulfilled lives.

Here are eight insightful lessons from the book:

1. Recognize and Address Nice Guy Syndrome: The first step is to understand and acknowledge the existence of Nice Guy Syndrome. Nice Guys often suppress their own needs and desires in an attempt to gain approval and avoid conflict. Recognizing this pattern is crucial for change.

2. Embrace Your True Self: Glover emphasizes the importance of authenticity. Nice Guys often hide their true selves to be what they think others want them to be. Learning to express your true feelings, needs, and desires is essential for building genuine relationships.

3. Set Boundaries: Nice Guys struggle with setting boundaries because they fear rejection or disapproval. However, setting healthy boundaries is crucial for self-respect and mutual respect in relationships. It involves saying "no" when necessary and not overcommitting to others at the expense of your own well-being.

4. Take Responsibility for Your Needs: Instead of expecting others to meet your needs, take responsibility for fulfilling them yourself. This involves understanding what you want, expressing it clearly, and taking proactive steps to achieve it.

5. Learn to Accept Rejection: Fear of rejection often drives Nice Guy behaviors. Learning to accept and handle rejection is vital. It’s a normal part of life and personal growth, and it doesn't define your worth.

6. Develop Healthy Masculinity: Glover encourages men to embrace a healthy form of masculinity, which includes being assertive, confident, and responsible. It’s about balancing strength with vulnerability and being true to oneself.

7. Improve Communication Skills: Effective communication is crucial for healthy relationships. This includes being honest, direct, and assertive in expressing your needs and feelings. Learning to listen and understand others' perspectives is equally important.

8. Build Support Systems: Nice Guys often isolate themselves emotionally. Building a network of supportive friends, mentors, or a therapist can provide the encouragement and guidance needed to overcome Nice Guy tendencies and foster personal growth.

These lessons aim to help individuals break free from the limiting behaviors of Nice Guy Syndrome and lead more fulfilling, authentic lives.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 5:13pm On Jun 01
olamoses75:
If you like, go and wife a h£o. Your future will tell.
But it wasn't traumatizing for the mom to cheat and lie and then refuse to BOLDLY TELL HER KIDS SHE DID?

the way women dey rationalize issues dey sweet me die🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 5:20pm On Jun 01
IAmHim1:
Enjoy yourselves wink



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Cc: PinkNature

I notice you're quite positively inquisitive and I really really love that

Think about it. The method given in the twitter post can be engineered

People convert kola nut to powder form to enable transportation over far distance so it won't get spoilt...same way powdered milk like peak and dano was engineered from liquid cow's milk--- cows milk have the tendency to spoil too if transportated over large distance without proper storage


Since we don't plan to transport the kolanut over a large distance, we can simply chop and blend into a fine paste and mix the other ingredients

When diluted with coconut water, you might notice the kolanut paste settling at the bottom of the airtight container you may choose to use over the period of 12 hours

It's perfectly fine. As long as the ingredients stated in the post have been blended well and mixed with coconut water, just shake thoroughly and drink when 12 hours elapse

Hope you found this helpful




Yes I did. Thank you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 5:21pm On Jun 01
luminouz:

But it wasn't traumatizing for the mom to cheat and lie and then refuse to BOLDLY TELL HER KIDS SHE DID?

the way women dey rationalize issues dey sweet me die🤣🤣🤣🤣

Did you read what you just posted?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 5:22pm On Jun 01
PinkNature:


Did you read what you just posted?
I did....or do you need me to waya you 6500 as food money before you understand it very well?

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