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Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by condensedmilk: 11:14am On Jun 01 |
Magicalsineros: You sha just want her to leave her husband and kid and start jumping from di.ck to di.ck in search of a comfortable life. You go tire! 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Lovecode89(f): 11:22am On Jun 01 |
condensedmilk:I'm not pressurizing him. He's been comfortable |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Messina123: 11:27am On Jun 01 |
Magicalsineros: Bitter truth say you be olosho. Na you e affect not me. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Pecoleee345: 11:32am On Jun 01 |
Ouchbabe: My two babies oooo. That what I labour on. |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Pecoleee345: 11:35am On Jun 01 |
Magicalsineros: See emotional blackmail.......... Don't worry I will get them locked up or break there head.....Hope that fine by you. She is married.......are you married ![]() |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Magicalsineros(f): 11:41am On Jun 01 |
Pecoleee345:Lol. If she discovered the kind of man she's married too. She will feel sorry for herself. |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Magicalsineros(f): 11:44am On Jun 01 |
Messina123:The normal word used on women. It doesn't remove anything from us. Including your mom, sisters, girlfriend and your wife or future wife. Olosho is not a hurtful name 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Magicalsineros(f): 11:45am On Jun 01 |
Pecoleee345:See someone's husband. An enemy in disguise 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by vibratingpenis: 11:47am On Jun 01 |
Nlanalyst: I hope you still a virgin and your toto has no stretch marks from prick insertion. |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Kemadealadire(f): 11:48am On Jun 01 |
Hmmn, like he just resigned because his former workplace is too far. Was it not the same distance he was covering before he married you ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Messina123: 11:49am On Jun 01 |
Magicalsineros: Nah. My mum wouldn't be out there embarrassing her husband because of small setback if it even happened. But judging from your utterances, your mum bullied your father at home 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Pecoleee345: 12:02pm On Jun 01 |
Magicalsineros: Ehya .....if you have a man that married you, feeds you,put a roof over your head,set up a business for you,accommodate your 2 siblings for 2yrs...i guess you will feel sorry for yourself marrying him. Lol 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Pecoleee345: 12:05pm On Jun 01 |
Magicalsineros: She will gladly choose this enemy in her next life. When you get married someday you will understand till then your opinion is just comic relief. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Magicalsineros(f): 12:26pm On Jun 01 |
Pecoleee345:Lol. But i didn't tell you my marital status 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Magicalsineros(f): 12:29pm On Jun 01 |
Pecoleee345:You really deserve an applaud. But you still need to let go of some hidden pain and forgive her completely 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Magicalsineros(f): 12:30pm On Jun 01 |
Messina123:Lol |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by bmasz(m): 3:38pm On Jun 01 |
Nlanalyst: Kindly note that I do not support any able bodied man absconding from doing meaningful work to take care of his family. With that point out of the way, would you say the man is free to deprive his wife of sex if the she resigns from work after marriage. Would it be proper for the man to say, ok lady as you are no longer bringing anything to the table, no more sex for you? From my experience, that behavior of resigning from work after wedding ceremony is more common among women that it's is among men. We should try to gather more data points before encouraging people to continue with destructive behaviors. What the man did is bad. And what the wife did by denying him sex is equally bad. Two wrongs do not make a right. Fire plus fire would only yield more fire. She has to sit him down in a heart to heart conversation to find out if he was fired. A similar situation happened to someone really close to me. About ten years ago after the conclusion of their wedding ceremony, the husband was sacked because his boss felt he stole from his business to sponsor his wedding. The young man struggled for two years to get back on his feet. During that period, he was supported by his wife. Was it easy for them, hell NO. Did the wife feel like acting like the poster up there? You can bet on it! The saving grace was that she sort for advise, listened to it and supported her husband until he got back on his feet. I believe you can do the same by supporting him in any way you can. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Ouchbabe(f): 3:49pm On Jun 01 |
Pecoleee345:To err is human to forgive divine. Pls raise the love small, I'm sure she regretted her actions. She is the mother of your adorable daughters remember |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Lovecode89(f): 3:49pm On Jun 01 |
Kemadealadire:Yes is the same job and the same location. Maybe because he saw my business was bringing in money very well as at that time. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Mariangeles(f): 4:09pm On Jun 01 |
Lovecode89: Maybe he should join you in the business in the meantime then. Is that possible? You both should try and make your marriage work. These are challenging times, which shall definitely pass, but once a good thing is ruined (during challenging times), it can hardly be fixed. You both should go to God in prayers as a unit (without resentments), to strengthen you through these times. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Kemadealadire(f): 5:41pm On Jun 01 |
Lovecode89:Hmmn, don't know how to advise on this one. You should probably involve his family and anyone he respects at this point. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by illicit(m): 6:10pm On Jun 01 |
Mariangeles: I commented on your Orisirisi food post and I got banned π |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Mom007(f): 6:45pm On Jun 01 |
One word, separate. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Mariangeles(f): 7:05pm On Jun 01 |
illicit: Pele. Don't mind spambot. π Have you been unbanned on the food section now? |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Lovecode89(f): 7:30pm On Jun 01 |
Kemadealadire:I have. Each time they called to talk to him about job, he keeps telling them he submitted his CVs in some places and he's expecting their call. We both know he's not saying the truth |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Lovecode89(f): 7:32pm On Jun 01 |
Mariangeles:No. The business is down already due to excessive bills |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Lovecode89(f): 7:36pm On Jun 01 |
Mom007:I'm thinking in this direction too. Maybe when he's left alone for now,. He can start learning a fresh how to provide for himself and not put all that load on me 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Mariangeles(f): 7:38pm On Jun 01 |
Lovecode89: Oh dear! I pray you both overcome the challenges, and get back on your feet again soonest. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by illicit(m): 7:47pm On Jun 01 |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Mariangeles(f): 7:54pm On Jun 01 |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by illicit(m): 7:57pm On Jun 01 |
Mariangeles: I wonder o The ban will expire 6.57pm tomorrow 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With This Type Of Husband? by Lifemanage: 8:37pm On Jun 01 |
Magicalsineros:Women are born manipulators sha ooo 1 Like |
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