One of our sisters in love with a struggling man writes into a radio program asking if she should continue dating her mid 30s boyfriend who earns 40K teaching at a private school.

Listen to how the host gives her brutal advice.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdsvM5nRRKo

chai! my future husband must never be poor o!

what do you think?

if she indeed loved him then you would support him, but as you are a liability (with nothing to bring to the table) your only focus is marriage.... this woman is as useless as this dude.

marriage is a UNION, he brings his and you bring yours, and you guys manage together. if you bring nothing then YOU are the problem.

MrBrownJay1:
if she indeed loved him then you would support him, but as you are a liability (with nothing to bring to the table) your only focus is marriage.... this woman is as useless as this dude.

marriage is a UNION, he brings his and you bring yours, and you guys manage together. if you bring nothing then YOU are the problem.

uncle, did they tell you that I am the lady in the program? Or do I look like the girl dating the useless 40K earning man?

And you that is crying more than the bereaved, how much are these useless Nigerian men like you earning that you're all complaining. Is it more than the paltry 62K that your NLC is fighting for?

abegi

How much is her salary, useless girl. Me i can't date a broke girl who is always depending on me

Asavivian:


uncle, did they tell you that I am the lady in the program? Or do I look like the girl dating the useless 40K earning man?

And you that is crying more than the bereaved, how much are these useless Nigerian men like you earning that you're all complaining. Is it more than the paltry 62K that your NLC is fighting for?

abegi

Please, how is the guy earning 40k useless please. Did he see a better paying job and refused to go for it?

Asavivian:


uncle, did they tell you that I am the lady in the program? Or do I look like the girl dating the useless 40K earning man?

And you that is crying more than the bereaved, how much are these useless Nigerian men like you earning that you're all complaining. Is it more than the paltry 62K that your NLC is fighting for?

abegi

See painment...

Poor girl dey find sponsor.

Oleeeeeeeee

luminouz:


See painment...

Poor girl dey find sponsor.

Oleeeeeeeee

now i realise you are daft. following me from thread to thread. why don't you continue to complain about how girls want to spend your 2K

idioot

Asavivian:


now i realise you are daft. following me from thread to thread. why don't you continue to complain about how girls want to spend your 2K

idioot

E pain ammmmmm ooooooo


Poor geh wey dey look for ATM. Go work...e no dey kill person. Clitocurrency dey expire...

Fishlips

luminouz:


E pain ammmmmm ooooooo


Poor geh wey dey look for ATM. Go work...e no dey kill person. Clitocurrency dey expire...

Fishlips

unemployed mofo

WhiteNRed:


Please, how is the guy earning 40k useless please. Did he see a better paying job and refused to go for it?

is the guy useful? can any guy earning 40K be useful to his wife today? Abswer now.

Forget about the girl, You that is earning 40K per month, are you useful to yourself?

mtchw!

Asavivian:



unemployed mofo

Thief ..ole..barawo .onyioshi

luminouz:


E pain ammmmmm ooooooo


Poor geh wey dey look for ATM. Go work...e no dey kill person. Clitocurrency dey expire...

Fishlips

Alaye lower the vawulence na!
Anyway I learnt something new - pouting pose = Fishlips?!

WhiteNRed:


Please, how is the guy earning 40k useless please. Did he see a better paying job and refused to go for it?

please help me ask her o

SporaD8:

Alaye lower the vawulence na!
Anyway I learnt something new - pouting pose = Fishlips?!

please just ignore the idiot. he thinks he will be heard because of his vulgar words. in real life, i wouldn't even allow him to brush my shoes

Asavivian:
uncle, did they tell you that I am the lady in the program? Or do I look like the girl dating the useless 40K earning man?
And you that is crying more than the bereaved, how much are these useless Nigerian men like you earning that you're all complaining. Is it more than the paltry 62K that your NLC is fighting for?
abegi

take am easy sista... my post was meant towards the lady who wrote to the radio station, not you (thus why i didnt quote your post).

BTW this issue is about people dating while not having much, which you have to admit, if the guy brings his own 40k and the babe brings her own, they can easily manage together.

Asavivian:


uncle, did they tell you that I am the lady in the program? Or do I look like the girl dating the useless 40K earning man?

And you that is crying more than the bereaved, how much are these useless Nigerian men like you earning that you're all complaining. Is it more than the paltry 62K that your NLC is fighting for?

abegi

another jobless broke ashawo slowpoke spotted.
What do you have to bring to the table asides from your wide over used pussy.
See your ugly face like tadpole.
Wh0re

Asavivian:


is the guy useful? can any guy earning 40K be useful to his wife today? Abswer now.

Forget about the girl, You that is earning 40K per month, are you useful to yourself?

mtchw!

40k today fit be 400k tomorrow. All it takes os continuous hardwork and dedication while hoping for the best.

This is why husband and wife need to pull resources together for a better family. Everyone should assist each other

That being said you are a big clown

WhiteNRed:


Please, how is the guy earning 40k useless please. Did he see a better paying job and refused to go for it?

No. But he also lives in his family house and he also feels financially responsible for his siblings. No woman wants to feel like a 3rd party in her marraige.

Na you go run


U dey gbas gbos with nairaland men

Threedoorsdown:


40k today fit be 400k tomorrow. All it takes os continuous hardwork and dedication while hoping for the best.

This is why husband and wife need to pull resources together for a better family. Everyone should assist each other

That being said you are a big clown

Assisting each other also involves assisting with childcare and domestic chores. If you believe these things are just womens job. Women are entitled to believe assisting you financially is a man's job.

Women don't want broke men because they stress women out. They want women to play dual roles as a submissive provider and be masculine and feminine simultaneously.

1Sharon:


Assisting each other also involves assisting with childcare and domestic chores. If you believe these things are just womens job. Women are entitled to believe assisting you financially is a man's job.

Women don't want broke men because they stress women out. They want women to play dual roles as a submissive provider and be masculine and feminine simultaneously.

I don't know what submission has to to with what i said cos assistance in marriage is not one sided and i neva said it needs to be only in the financial aspect. Since you chose to derail, let me help you

Now in reality this is how things are ( 90% of the time)

-Broke woman marries rich man
-Broke woman marries broke man
-rich woman marries rich man

Now the below rarely occurs

- rich woman marries broke man....

So please stop complaining and talking about broke man cos most times when you complain it just means you are as broke as the man. Rather than complain about the man being broke why not do something to get yourself out of being broke too

Now take this ur feminist crap elsewhere

Asavivian:


is the guy useful? can any guy earning 40K be useful to his wife today? Abswer now.

Forget about the girl, You that is earning 40K per month, are you useful to yourself?

mtchw!

As uncomfortable as this might sound. It is the truth. And the truth is not a respecter of comfort.

A man who earns #40k a month is useless to himself let's not lie, because how do you cope? How many times does he eat per day?

Does he not take any transport mean to work?

He has his own siblings and parents too.

What if he fell sick? He'd still need to buy drugs and get himself treated.
He'll pay accomodation and light bills.

Mind you. He is in his 30s.

Any man who is broke should not even consider being in a relationship. He should channel all his energy into figuring his shit out.

Relationship is an energy draining and a mind boggling endeavour. A broke man in a relationship is a misplaced priority. To me, it's like a poor man roaming around a garage where cars are sold.

Let's say you have a girlfriend and she mistakenly gets pregnant. You can't even afford abortion. Then you start giving her cheap pills. And then complications arise.
You will be sent to jail.

I'm not saying a broke man should not have sex. Sex is now very cheap. But there is no reason for a poor man to be in a relationship. It is energy draining.

A poor man has no business with family meeting.

This thing go reach front page

ICTspecialist:
another jobless broke ashawo slowpoke spotted.
What do you have to bring to the table asides from your wide over used pussy.
See your ugly face like tadpole.
Wh0re

I don't understand why you would direct your insults at me. I'm not the cause of your poverty and lack of achievement in life. If a girl rejected your advances because you're unemployed or earning 40K per month, don't despair. It is not the end of the world. Just leave the dating pool for a while and focus on yourself. Unemployed and broke men shouldn't bother dating, otherwise this is what ends up happening- their girlfriends start seeking relationship advice from random strangers on low-rate radio programs

I pray God helps you come out of poverty, and get ahead in life.

1Sharon:


No. But he also lives in his family house and he also feels financially responsible for his siblings. No woman wants to feel like a 3rd party in her marraige.

and what do you have to offer guy ugly fowl.
Can't you help

ICTspecialist:
and what do you have to offer guy ugly fowl.
Can't you help

apart from the money you bring to the table, what do you bring to the table?

Asavivian:


I don't understand why you would direct your insults at me. I'm not the cause of your poverty and lack of achievement in life. If a girl rejected your advances because you're unemployed or earning 40K per month, don't despair. It is not the end of the world. Just leave the dating pool for a while and focus on yourself. Unemployed and broke men shouldn't bother dating, otherwise this is what ends up happening- their girlfriends start seeking relationship advice from random strangers on low-rate radio programs

I pray God helps you come out of poverty, and get ahead in life.

see this jobless and poverty stricken evening newspaper vlogger.
As far as I'm alive you will never marry, you will never see a good man and you will die lonely and PovertyStricken till the rest of your miserable life on earth.
To make it worse you're frustrated in your 40's and the thought of hitting menopause without someone by your side gets you suicidal.
Las las na one agbero tout or a mad man go impregnate you.
Come marry Chevron and Oil worker guys earning fat salary make I see na.
There are way better and classy girls and that's what they want and not a stretch marked career failure old hag like you.
So when ladies raise hands dey look for better husband you sef go follow want rich husband too?
Dey play

bohlaji1a:


apart from the money you bring to the table, what do you bring to the table?

stop quoting me with your alternate moniker.
Your a scammer

ICTspecialist:
see this jobless and poverty stricken evening newspaper vlogger.
As far as I'm alive you will never marry, you will never see a good man and you will die lonely and PovertyStricken till the rest of your miserable life on earth.
To make it worse you're frustrated in your 40's and the thought of hitting menopause without someone by your side gets you suicidal.
Las las na one agbero tout or a mad man go impregnate you.
Come marry Chevron and Oil worker guys earning fat salary make I see na.
There are way better and classy girls and that's what they want and not a stretch marked career failure old hag like you.
So when ladies raise hands dey look for better husband you sef go follow want rich husband too?
Dey play

why are you pained

jude1a:



why are you pained

you're a scammer with many Numerous monikers