by Sunday Akanni

In previous posts, I've explained that a correct spouse is a man or woman who has the configurations to help you fulfill destiny and become all God has ordained you to be from eternity past in your marriage institution.

Now, let me tell you that the best place to come across a spouse who will be an adequate helper for your destiny is within the boundaries of God's Will for your life.

Remember, you came from inside God, and He has arranged your eternal destiny before He sent you to earth. Hence, He has already planned how your life will go, including crucial things like the type of spouse that will suit His plan for your life.

You see, when it comes to God's Will for a spouse, it is not necessarily a particular person, but a configuration or feature that can suit your destiny. Then, any member of the opposite gender around that has that configuration or feature, God connects you both.

If that person stubbornly refuses to agree to marry you (or something like death took them away), God simply looks for another person who has that configuration that suits your destiny and connects both of you for marriage.

So, if you want to meet a correct spouse who is consistent with God's Will to be your husband/wife, take note of these two things:

1. Be Where God wants you to be per time:
What church or fellowship does God want you to be at this point of life?

Which office are you supposed to be working currently, in God's Will?

Which meetings, events, platforms, associations, training centers, etc, is your spirit leading you to in this phase of life?

There are chances that you will meet the correct spouse at those places; because God's Will (your future spouse) is closer to you than you think.

2. Occupy Yourself With What He Wants You To Be Busy With

Occupy yourself with the assignments God has given you, and He will take care of the rest.

Adam was occupied with what God had given him to do in the Garden of Eden, and God decided to bring him a wife as part of His blessings.

Jesus said, "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." Matthew 6:33

When you are preoccupied with promoting God's agenda within your sphere, other things, including a correct spouse, will be added.

God is much more interested in you marrying the right person than you are about yourself. Hence, operate from a place of rest, and you won't miss the right person.

Folks, you can't eat your cake and have it. You can't decide to approach marriage your way (or, according to the woke ideologies in our generation) and not receive headaches and heartaches from the person you end up with.

If you want to enjoy the marriage institution, then you must do it God's way. Understood?

Jesus is LORD.

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Na chance. Prepare to carry a big cross when u choose to marry.

No hard & fast rules to this marriage thing.

I found mine after ferrying her across dirty flood water in Kafanchan.

All these are lies!

Jesus just gave them wine to shack for wedding! He didn't even preach!

Jesus met a Samaritan woman who married many husbands. He didn't even advice her as regards marriage choice!

The wife of Lot is better than many pastors wives!

Jesus didn't preach anything about how to get married!

Jesus didn't get married!
Jesus wasn't concerned about sex or offspring!
Same as Paul!

The few disciples that got married I wonder how they toast their wives!

Christians should just tie their organs!

Leave all the ladies for us!

There's no manual to this thing. Forget what everyone says.

Sunday akanni have you found your own spouse?

Tinubu can find better spouse for anyone

Evening newspapers.

With God all things are possible

Anywhere except shiloh

Is it not time to discuss the rate at which our ladies are abandoning their future careers/dreams for marriage which they eventually end us as a maid/slave.

If you do because you are now married and you don't want to work again, how are you different from maids/slaves that are being sent around because they couldn't make their own money?

Interesting15:
Folks, you can't eat your cake and have it. You can't decide to approach marriage your way (or, according to the woke ideologies in our generation) and not receive headaches and heartaches from the person you end up with.

If you want to enjoy the marriage institution, then you must do it God's way. Understood?

Jesus is LORD.

What if the person whom God gave you decide to break up while you both are still dating nko? Because you're not yet financially buoyant as a man?

diabeticdeals:
There's no manual to this thing. Forget what everyone says.

There are strict rules .....follow them and enjoy your marriage and refuse to follow and endure, if not scattered your marriage.

Here are few of the rules

*Marry someone that both attracted and friendly to.

*Make sure you have minimum finances to power the engine of marriage.

*Respect each other in marriage.

*Ability to reach compromise by both partners.

Oh really...

Papayaayasager:
Tinubu can find better spouse for anyone

Make Tinubu find wife for you

And if you can't satisfy her, na Tinubu go still come help you Bleep her?

Wankas

Marriage my foot

Dey play

Thank you.

This op listens to too much old tales.

Marriage is long gone. What we have now is a partnership business where both parties want to cash out.

Only few people are blessed to find the right person.

Nothing like the right place to meet anyone.
Everyone pretends until the deed is done and real character comes out.

Marriage is not compulsory.

If you want a working man, as a woman, be prepared to attend tradfairs, energy conferences, expos and all.

they're great places to meet responsible, working men..

not clubs or churches. you want to meet men in their natural habitat, their work environment



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SV3wlnG-Zl0

who you dey find, dey find something too

ur correct spouse can be some people's leftover But all in all never marry a liability.
Happy Sunday Amigos

You had better meet Jesus first.....