The world today is full of stress, violence, unfaithfulness & mistrust. We are yet to locate the root of our problems as nation or as families in a nation.

The Yorubas has a proverbial saying when they notice the bending load that a lame man carries on his head and they question the lame why the load he carried bends. The Lame man reveled as he responds wondering why the person look only at the head that carried the load and not at his legs that carried everything. This connotes that many of the issues we are having in the world today have its roots in faulty family relationship and in faulty marriages to be specific.

As a Lawyer haven handled several divorce and separation cases I have come to realize that 95% of marital dissolution cases that happened, when you check the couple’s background you will notice that either of the couple’s parents had divorced too. Thus, those who came from a broken home will one day end up with a broken home by terminating their marital vows abruptly too. Where it didn’t happen either of the couple may die or ended up with ill health while enduring a toxic relationship.

Looking at facts and forensic evidence obtained during dissolution of marriages in court, I have observed that women who came from broken homes were largely the cause of their broken marriages in this modern times. I know of several cases where girls from broken homes with very bad temperament have harmed themselves, hurt their husbands and wounded the hearts of their children and at the end their homes were not only broken but severely damaged. Some of them dont even know what a good marriage is like, and they do not know how to achieve one.

I have observed overtime that ladies from broken homes are less disciplined compared to those from regular homes. They are sexually loose, they see relationships in different ways, its either they are too harsh to their man or they are just simply too vulnerable. I have a friend whose wife's parents are divorced. The wife comes from a family of six children and she is the third. The first two that got married (both girls) got divorced in less than 3 years. I always pray for that friend because I know what he is already going through. His wife just doesn't know how to enjoy her marriage. Little issues escalate into war big time, little argument will cause their house to be engulfed in flames, she told me one day that she had vowed not to take any slight rubbish from any man long before she married, my mouth opened so wide that I could not close for several minutes. She has a career like her mother and believes if her mother could take care of 6 children alone, she definitely can take care of two alone. Her mother told her many horrible stuffs about men and blames her father for anything bad that happens. We learnt from close relatives that her mother was so terrible that even if she was driving and a drunkard hit her car, the mother will say it is her father’s fault.

I am not saying girls from broken home cannot have good marriages, no, not at all, the idea is that, you should be extremely careful when it is time to choose your wife. The truth is that Ladies from broken homes could be extremely bitter about men and about the institution of marriage too! They may decide to take out all their frustrations and longtime abuse on you!

Girls from broken homes are quick to get angry, atimes they put up confrontational and defensive attitudes at work, in church, and even in their marital homes. They can become paranoid because they had suffered some psychological damages which makes them to withdraw at the snap of a finger. It is not their fault it is what they had grew up with that had conditioned them to live thereafter. Hence young men who have reached a marriageable age I want to advise you to look out for these significant signs before you decide on which girl to marry.
I will start with the 8 reasons why a young man should never marry a woman from a broken home:

1. A woman from a broken home may not have had the privileges of fathers and mothers love and care during her childhood. Many of them may have ended up in the custody of their fathers even when their fathers do not have the time and materials needed to take care of them. As such the children ended up with grandfathers, grandmothers, uncle, aunty and/or niece who will not give them adequate care needed to expose the children to the atmosphere and concept of love.

Thus, some of these girls grew up under intense and painful moments where they experienced all forms of abuse and psychological torture. I heard the sad story of a young girl who was burnt with hot iron rod severally and her buttock defaced in the process of casting out the evil spirit of ogbanje (water spirit) from her life. The truth is that some of the girls that had lived with their divorced mothers, you cannot underestimate the kind of filth the mother would have told their daughters about men in general.

2. Ladies from broken homes do have emotional issues and attachment problems. Children exposed to high levels of conflict or inconsistency might develop difficulties in regulating their emotions, leading to constant mood swings, sudden outbursts, or difficulties in coping with stress. When such become your wife you may not understand the reason behind her unexpected mood swings. Imagine it if you can, a woman you are laughing with just now and within seconds she is frowning and wearing a rebellious look. A moment she was a good wife you were proud of and another seconds she become hateful, despiteful and distanced herself from you. As the husband you will say ‘Darling any issue?’, hope you are okay and shockingly she replied I am fine just leave me alone, I want to be by myself for some time. You will be wondering what you have done wrong to her.

3. Ladies from broken families do face academic and business challenges. The truth is that emotional distress can translate to a lack of focus in school, which can result in lower academic achievements and reduced future opportunities. They are not averse to risk taking, they abhor anything that will swing them off their feet. They will never long for anything that will challenge them (because of fear of failure and because people may blame them for failing) hence they neither become successful in business nor in leading people in corporate environment.

4. Ladies from broken homes find it difficult to express love, to understand love and to feel loved. This is because they have trust issues because of long-time abuse. The truth is in the fact that people they have trusted in the past have abused them. Though their abusers have long gone away from them or do not have the capacity or where wither to abuse them again, but they will take the moment (unfortunately of their marriage to you) as an opportunity to take revenge for the years of their abuse indirectly on you. You will be wondering why your wife takes joy in doing what she is doing to you despite all that you are doing for her. The truth is that she is not the problem but the years she had been abused physically & psychologically had taken a great toll on the good side of your wife and now she has developed a thick skin always ready to fight back at a very wrong moment and with a very wrong person. If you are married to such a woman, you will constantly endure your marriage, but you will never enjoy it.

5. Ladies from broken homes do struggle with feelings of worthlessness or blame themselves for their personal and/or family’s woes. The years of abuse and the imposing status of their former abusers had impacted negatively on their psyche and can lead to low self-esteem and self-worth, affecting their relationships and professional life in adulthood. When such woman becomes your wife communicating with her or with you will be extremely difficult. It is either you are not listening to her enough or that you do not give heeds to her words/advise because she is worthless or nothing to you. In some cases when you address a word of caution to her she will certainly mis-interpret as an insult. This can be worse if it happened when closer or distance relatives are there. Some married women had thought of committing suicide because of such incidence.

6. Ladies from broken homes focuses on defending all of their actions and at protecting what they think they can loose. Imagine when your wife woke up in the morning instead of doing something useful but direct all of her strength and energy at mundane and unprofitable issues just to proof to you her self worth. Ladies from a broken homes can nag from morning and throughout the day just to proof a point, just to proof that you don’t love them, just to proof that they are right and just to proof that they are making sense. Instead of understanding the psychology of their behaviours they believed that everything about them is worthless and people around them have formed their opinion about them already. They are rigid about their opinion and insistence even though it can cost them their lives.

7. Women from broken homes are full of fears, they are full of envy and are completely jealous. Infact one area that scared me most is the area of fear and jealousy. They can be jealous of their father if he is too close to their husband. They can be jealous of their mothers, sisters or aunt if any of them are somehow close to their spouse. They can be jealous of their children and even their husband in certain aspect of life achievements this is the most dangerous aspect of their life.

8. Ladies from broken homes do not believe in any man pledges of love towards them no matter the extent the husband goes in showing them love. The experience that led to their parent separations and their leanings towards their mummies have poisoned their hearts towards not believing in man’s pledge of love towards them. Till the man died he has a secret wife and secret children outside their marriage.

INCASE YOU MARRY A LADY FROM A BROKEN HOMES

It has been established that the surest way to ill health and sudden death is by living under the same roof with a jealous, envious and nagging woman. Where these three aforementioned traits are the hallmarks of your wife’s personal qualities then the husband of such a wife must be living in hell while living on earth.
Proverbs 27:15-16 New Living Translation (NLT): A quarrelsome wife is as annoying as constant dripping on a rainy day. Stopping her complaints is like trying to stop the wind or trying to hold something with greased hands.

Proverbs 21:9 “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a nagging wife”. This bible verse clearly states that it is better to live on the rooftop of a house than to live in the same house with a nagging and/or quarrelsome wife.

If you have married a woman from a broken home you must get knowledge first. God says in the bible that my people perished because of lack of knowledge. There are signs you will see to know this woman problem is not ordinary it is as a result of her upbringing and the evil she has experienced during her childhood so she needed help and probably God Almighty has brought her to you to help her out of these problems by bringing her to you as your wife. You that will solve the problem for her must know about the problem first. This is why I advise you get knowledge first.

I was surprised by the post of Toke Makinwa on social media recently where she expressed her regret about the mistake of not managing her first marriage well and it crashed. From the content of her recent post one can infer that the beautiful lady will surely do things differently if she ever had opportunity to be reconciled with her ex-husband. As at the time the heat was on she believed then that all her actions before the marriage crashed were in order. I have seen Ladies regretting the moments when they maltreated their husbands, if you are an erratic wife engaging in idiotic and hurting behaviors that are detrimental to having a good marital home take time to read this piece, change and begin to do things differently before it is too late.

The truth is that these categories of wives also needed the support of their husband because they don’t know what they are doing now which they will surely regret later. For husband to be able to help such women they must acquire knowledge of whom their wives are and the environment where they came from then the husband will be able to help their wives in such moments.

You must have knowledge of the problems. When you see your wife exhibiting some or any of these personality traits:

Communication & Trust Issues: Individuals from broken families may have trust issues and difficulties with communicating acceptably well with their spouses. They might struggle to open up about their feelings or trust others easily. Be patient and understanding and allow them to open up at their own pace.
Emotional Display: Growing up in a broken family can leave emotional scars. Be aware that your wife may have unresolved emotional issues or trauma related to her family background. Encourage open and honest communication about her feelings and experience.
Boundaries and Independence: People from broken families may have had to navigate complex family dynamics and boundaries at a very young age. Respect their need for space and independence and be supportive of their boundaries. Where it is necessary separate from them for sometimes until they are able to see the negative impacts of their behaviours on their marriage.
Insecurities and Self-Esteem: Individuals from broken families may struggle with insecurities and low self-esteem due to their family experiences. They have the tendency to blame everyone for their failures and misfortunes (even their children for the reasons they do not succeed in life because they gave all their times and meagre resources towards their children educational pursuits and future growth whereas the mental torture and abuse they were exposed to during the time of conflicts in their parent homes have damaged their academic/business viabilities and doggedness required in making academic and/or business success in life. If you notice this traits in your wife kindly offer her reassurance, support, and validation to help her build her self-confidence.
Conflict Resolution Skills: Growing up in a broken family environment can impact one's conflict resolution skills. When ladies from broken homes had issues with anyone, they create more problems in their attempt to resolve such conflicts. This is because they do not have conflict management skills thus instead of settling a matter, they further fuel the conflict. As husband to such a woman you must be patient and understanding in the time of conflicts, and work together with her to find healthy ways to resolve disagreements when they occured. However, if you find out that your wife is not the understanding type (one that do not know that her emotional problems were as a result of her background) and her tantrums constantly make you sick please walk away, separate from her for sometimes or rather give her a very long space.
Attachment Style: The attachment style in relationships of Ladies from broken homes are influenced by their family background. Such women may have avoidant or anxious attachment styles that can affect how they approach relationships. Understanding their attachment style can help you navigate your relationship more effectively with them. In some cases husband that married an emotionally damaged woman from a broken homes have successfully managed the situations by finding work for such woman. If you are well placed, find her a good job in a company owned by family or friends where you have influence that can prevent severe action being taken against her when she unknowingly manifested the broken home traits at work. However, before she start to work in that familiar place please use your influence to let the CEO know who your wife is and why you want that job for her and why she must be protected at all cost so that whatever she do in the company will be tolerated and will not be used to humiliate her making her to be more virulent at home. Such engagement opportunities will enhance her management skill and improve on her attachment style.
Support System: Ladies from broken homes needed more encouragement and support from families and friends, or a therapist a times. Having a strong support system can help them navigate the challenges that come with their family background.
Completely estranged from their family: Ladies from broken homes have issues with almost everyone in their immediate or extended families. This is so common among 85% of married men or women who came from a dysfunctional family. The first step as husband if you notice this traits in your wife is to talk her into forgiving everyone who had hurts her in the past no matter whom they are. Relationship expert have come to the reality of the fact that as long as woman do not forgive members of her immediately families she will never forgive you because your are somehow part of her family by extension and she love them more you and you are second to them no matter what. Relationship experts have also realized that when you get a woman reconciled with her families it will be a gateway to peace in your marital homes. If you are married to a lady from a broken home constantly keep in touch with her brothers, her aunties, her uncle and her distant cousins whom she had frosty relationship with and attempted to reconcile them there will be peace in your home.

Remember that everyone is unique, and our experiences and responses to our family background varies. It's essential to approach the relationship with empathy, respect, and open communication to build a healthy and supportive connection.


Barister M. E Kehinde

Second one should be men from broken home

For real
This issue goes on both side
It's isn't just a case of ladies
The men can be worse of since they serve as the foundation of a new home
A man from a broken home will surfer a lady ,but it's not often seen ..as there is a cover of deception since he is a man

You can easily detect a lady from a broken home
It's hard to tell of a man from broken homes
The huge divorce rate in the southwest should serve as a statistic for this
And before
Anyone speaks
I am a man
And also from the southwest , it's something I have been checking for years

The problem of a society starts from it's precepts
The carriers and maintener of this precepts are the, men
Where the men goes ,so the family ,the community, and the nation at large goes

barKehinde:
The world today is full of stress, violence, unfaithfulness & mistrust. We are yet to locate the root of our problems as nation or as families in a nation.

The Yorubas has a proverbial saying when they notice the bending load that a lame man carries on his head and they question the lame why the load he carried bends. The Lame man reveled as he responds wondering why the person look only at the head that carried the load and not at his legs that carried everything. This connotes that many of the issues we are having in the world today have its roots in faulty family relationship and in faulty marriages to be specific.

As a Lawyer haven handled several divorce and separation cases I have come to realize that 95% of marital dissolution cases that happened, when you check the couple’s background you will notice that either of the couple’s parents had divorced too. Thus, those who came from a broken home will one day end up with a broken home by terminating their marital vows abruptly too. Where it didn’t happen either of the couple may die or ended up with ill health while enduring a toxic relationship.

Looking at facts and forensic evidence obtained during dissolution of marriages in court, I have observed that women who came from broken homes were largely the cause of their broken marriages in this modern times. I know of several cases where girls from broken homes with very bad temperament have harmed themselves, hurt their husbands and wounded the hearts of their children and at the end their homes were not only broken but severely damaged. Some of them dont even know what a good marriage is like, and they do not know how to achieve one.

I have observed overtime that ladies from broken homes are less disciplined compared to those from regular homes. They are sexually loose, they see relationships in different ways, its either they are too harsh to their man or they are just simply too vulnerable. I have a friend whose wife's parents are divorced. The wife comes from a family of six children and she is the third. The first two that got married (both girls) got divorced in less than 3 years. I always pray for that friend because I know what he is already going through. His wife just doesn't know how to enjoy her marriage. Little issues escalate into war big time, little argument will cause their house to be engulfed in flames, she told me one day that she had vowed not to take any slight rubbish from any man long before she married, my mouth opened so wide that I could not close for several minutes. She has a career like her mother and believes if her mother could take care of 6 children alone, she definitely can take care of two alone. Her mother told her many horrible stuffs about men and blames her father for anything bad that happens. We learnt from close relatives that her mother was so terrible that even if she was driving and a drunkard hit her car, the mother will say it is her father’s fault.

I am not saying girls from broken home cannot have good marriages, no, not at all, the idea is that, you should be extremely careful when it is time to choose your wife. The truth is that Ladies from broken homes could be extremely bitter about men and about the institution of marriage too! They may decide to take out all their frustrations and longtime abuse on you!

Girls from broken homes are quick to get angry, atimes they put up confrontational and defensive attitudes at work, in church, and even in their marital homes. They can become paranoid because they had suffered some psychological damages which makes them to withdraw at the snap of a finger. It is not their fault it is what they had grew up with that had conditioned them to live thereafter. Hence young men who have reached a marriageable age I want to advise you to look out for these significant signs before you decide on which girl to marry.
I will start with the 8 reasons why a young man should never marry a woman from a broken home:

1. A woman from a broken home may not have had the privileges of fathers and mothers love and care during her childhood. Many of them may have ended up in the custody of their fathers even when their fathers do not have the time and materials needed to take care of them. As such the children ended up with grandfathers, grandmothers, uncle, aunty and/or niece who will not give them adequate care needed to expose the children to the atmosphere and concept of love.

Thus, some of these girls grew up under intense and painful moments where they experienced all forms of abuse and psychological torture. I heard the sad story of a young girl who was burnt with hot iron rod severally and her buttock defaced in the process of casting out the evil spirit of ogbanje (water spirit) from her life. The truth is that some of the girls that had lived with their divorced mothers, you cannot underestimate the kind of filth the mother would have told their daughters about men in general.

2. Ladies from broken homes do have emotional issues and attachment problems. Children exposed to high levels of conflict or inconsistency might develop difficulties in regulating their emotions, leading to constant mood swings, sudden outbursts, or difficulties in coping with stress. When such become your wife you may not understand the reason behind her unexpected mood swings. Imagine it if you can, a woman you are laughing with just now and within seconds she is frowning and wearing a rebellious look. A moment she was a good wife you were proud of and another seconds she become hateful, despiteful and distanced herself from you. As the husband you will say ‘Darling any issue?’, hope you are okay and shockingly she replied I am fine just leave me alone, I want to be by myself for some time. You will be wondering what you have done wrong to her.

3. Ladies from broken families do face academic and business challenges. The truth is that emotional distress can translate to a lack of focus in school, which can result in lower academic achievements and reduced future opportunities. They are not averse to risk taking, they abhor anything that will swing them off their feet. They will never long for anything that will challenge them (because of fear of failure and because people may blame them for failing) hence they neither become successful in business nor in leading people in corporate environment.

4. Ladies from broken homes find it difficult to express love, to understand love and to feel loved. This is because they have trust issues because of long-time abuse. The truth is in the fact that people they have trusted in the past have abused them. Though their abusers have long gone away from them or do not have the capacity or where wither to abuse them again, but they will take the moment (unfortunately of their marriage to you) as an opportunity to take revenge for the years of their abuse indirectly on you. You will be wondering why your wife takes joy in doing what she is doing to you despite all that you are doing for her. The truth is that she is not the problem but the years she had been abused physically & psychologically had taken a great toll on the good side of your wife and now she has developed a thick skin always ready to fight back at a very wrong moment and with a very wrong person. If you are married to such a woman, you will constantly endure your marriage, but you will never enjoy it.

5. Ladies from broken homes do struggle with feelings of worthlessness or blame themselves for their personal and/or family’s woes. The years of abuse and the imposing status of their former abusers had impacted negatively on their psyche and can lead to low self-esteem and self-worth, affecting their relationships and professional life in adulthood. When such woman becomes your wife communicating with her or with you will be extremely difficult. It is either you are not listening to her enough or that you do not give heeds to her words/advise because she is worthless or nothing to you. In some cases when you address a word of caution to her she will certainly mis-interpret as an insult. This can be worse if it happened when closer or distance relatives are there. Some married women had thought of committing suicide because of such incidence.

6. Ladies from broken homes focuses on defending all of their actions and at protecting what they think they can loose. Imagine when your wife woke up in the morning instead of doing something useful but direct all of her strength and energy at mundane and unprofitable issues just to proof to you her self worth. Ladies from a broken homes can nag from morning and throughout the day just to proof a point, just to proof that you don’t love them, just to proof that they are right and just to proof that they are making sense. Instead of understanding the psychology of their behaviours they believed that everything about them is worthless and people around them have formed their opinion about them already. They are rigid about their opinion and insistence even though it can cost them their lives.

7. Women from broken homes are full of fears, they are full of envy and are completely jealous. Infact one area that scared me most is the area of fear and jealousy. They can be jealous of their father if he is too close to their husband. They can be jealous of their mothers, sisters or aunt if any of them are somehow close to their spouse. They can be jealous of their children and even their husband in certain aspect of life achievements this is the most dangerous aspect of their life.

8. Ladies from broken homes do not believe in any man pledges of love towards them no matter the extent the husband goes in showing them love. The experience that led to their parent separations and their leanings towards their mummies have poisoned their hearts towards not believing in man’s pledge of love towards them. Till the man died he has a secret wife and secret children outside their marriage.

INCASE YOU MARRY A LADY FROM A BROKEN HOMES

It has been established that the surest way to ill health and sudden death is by living under the same roof with a jealous, envious and nagging woman. Where these three aforementioned traits are the hallmarks of your wife’s personal qualities then the husband of such a wife must be living in hell while living on earth.
Proverbs 27:15-16 New Living Translation (NLT): A quarrelsome wife is as annoying as constant dripping on a rainy day. Stopping her complaints is like trying to stop the wind or trying to hold something with greased hands.

Proverbs 21:9 “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a nagging wife”. This bible verse clearly states that it is better to live on the rooftop of a house than to live in the same house with a nagging and/or quarrelsome wife.

If you have married a woman from a broken home you must get knowledge first. God says in the bible that my people perished because of lack of knowledge. There are signs you will see to know this woman problem is not ordinary it is as a result of her upbringing and the evil she has experienced during her childhood so she needed help and probably God Almighty has brought her to you to help her out of these problems by bringing her to you as your wife. You that will solve the problem for her must know about the problem first. This is why I advise you get knowledge first.

I was surprised by the post of Toke Makinwa on social media recently where she expressed her regret about the mistake of not managing her first marriage well and it crashed. From the content of her recent post one can infer that the beautiful lady will surely do things differently if she ever had opportunity to be reconciled with her ex-husband. As at the time the heat was on she believed then that all her actions before the marriage crashed were in order. I have seen Ladies regretting the moments when they maltreated their husbands, if you are an erratic wife engaging in idiotic and hurting behaviors that are detrimental to having a good marital home take time to read this piece, change and begin to do things differently before it is too late.

The truth is that these categories of wives also needed the support of their husband because they don’t know what they are doing now which they will surely regret later. For husband to be able to help such women they must acquire knowledge of whom their wives are and the environment where they came from then the husband will be able to help their wives in such moments.

You must have knowledge of the problems. When you see your wife exhibiting some or any of these personality traits:

Communication & Trust Issues: Individuals from broken families may have trust issues and difficulties with communicating acceptably well with their spouses. They might struggle to open up about their feelings or trust others easily. Be patient and understanding and allow them to open up at their own pace.
Emotional Display: Growing up in a broken family can leave emotional scars. Be aware that your wife may have unresolved emotional issues or trauma related to her family background. Encourage open and honest communication about her feelings and experience.
Boundaries and Independence: People from broken families may have had to navigate complex family dynamics and boundaries at a very young age. Respect their need for space and independence and be supportive of their boundaries. Where it is necessary separate from them for sometimes until they are able to see the negative impacts of their behaviours on their marriage.
Insecurities and Self-Esteem: Individuals from broken families may struggle with insecurities and low self-esteem due to their family experiences. They have the tendency to blame everyone for their failures and misfortunes (even their children for the reasons they do not succeed in life because they gave all their times and meagre resources towards their children educational pursuits and future growth whereas the mental torture and abuse they were exposed to during the time of conflicts in their parent homes have damaged their academic/business viabilities and doggedness required in making academic and/or business success in life. If you notice this traits in your wife kindly offer her reassurance, support, and validation to help her build her self-confidence.
Conflict Resolution Skills: Growing up in a broken family environment can impact one's conflict resolution skills. When ladies from broken homes had issues with anyone, they create more problems in their attempt to resolve such conflicts. This is because they do not have conflict management skills thus instead of settling a matter, they further fuel the conflict. As husband to such a woman you must be patient and understanding in the time of conflicts, and work together with her to find healthy ways to resolve disagreements when they occured. However, if you find out that your wife is not the understanding type (one that do not know that her emotional problems were as a result of her background) and her tantrums constantly make you sick please walk away, separate from her for sometimes or rather give her a very long space.
Attachment Style: The attachment style in relationships of Ladies from broken homes are influenced by their family background. Such women may have avoidant or anxious attachment styles that can affect how they approach relationships. Understanding their attachment style can help you navigate your relationship more effectively with them. In some cases husband that married an emotionally damaged woman from a broken homes have successfully managed the situations by finding work for such woman. If you are well placed, find her a good job in a company owned by family or friends where you have influence that can prevent severe action being taken against her when she unknowingly manifested the broken home traits at work. However, before she start to work in that familiar place please use your influence to let the CEO know who your wife is and why you want that job for her and why she must be protected at all cost so that whatever she do in the company will be tolerated and will not be used to humiliate her making her to be more virulent at home. Such engagement opportunities will enhance her management skill and improve on her attachment style.
Support System: Ladies from broken homes needed more encouragement and support from families and friends, or a therapist a times. Having a strong support system can help them navigate the challenges that come with their family background.
Completely estranged from their family: Ladies from broken homes have issues with almost everyone in their immediate or extended families. This is so common among 85% of married men or women who came from a dysfunctional family. The first step as husband if you notice this traits in your wife is to talk her into forgiving everyone who had hurts her in the past no matter whom they are. Relationship expert have come to the reality of the fact that as long as woman do not forgive members of her immediately families she will never forgive you because your are somehow part of her family by extension and she love them more you and you are second to them no matter what. Relationship experts have also realized that when you get a woman reconciled with her families it will be a gateway to peace in your marital homes. If you are married to a lady from a broken home constantly keep in touch with her brothers, her aunties, her uncle and her distant cousins whom she had frosty relationship with and attempted to reconcile them there will be peace in your home.

Remember that everyone is unique, and our experiences and responses to our family background varies. It's essential to approach the relationship with empathy, respect, and open communication to build a healthy and supportive connection.


Barister M. E Kehinde

How do you define a broken home as it applies to this write up?

pneumaticos:
Second one should be men from broken home

For real
This issue goes on both side
It's isn't just a case of ladies
The men can be worse of since they serve as the foundation of a new home
A man from a broken home will surfer a lady ,but it's not often seen ..as there is a cover of deception since he is a man

You can easily detect a lady from a broken home
It's hard to tell of a man from broken homes
The huge divorce rate in the southwest should serve as a statistic for this
And before
Anyone speaks
I am a man
And also from the southwest , it's something I have been checking for years

The problem of a society starts from it's precepts
The carriers and maintener of this precepts are the, men
Where the men goes ,so the family ,the community, and the nation at large goes

The write up looks more like the mothers, wives and the ladies are the cause of broken homes and hence marrying any lady from broken home is a disaster waiting to happen.


We like chasing shadows while abandoning realities. I see it as a means to advance the stigmatisation of those(especially ladies looking forward to getting married) and grow up in a broken homes due to circumstances beyond their control.

achorladey:



How do you define a broken home as it applies to this write up?

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