YOUNG MEN LET ME BE HONEST WITH YOU TODAY.

You see that girl you are dating now,
she has a higher chance of making it in life faster than you.

This is why you shouldn't spend all your youthfulness building relationship with a woman.

The truth is she can easily walk out of that relationship and go ahead and marry an already made man, a man who has figured his life out, who has money and enough resources and on the strength of her marriage with the already made man she has made it in life.

Whereas, you as a man is on your own, nobody is coming to save you, nobody cares about you, people don't even love you until you have value.

You see why investing all your youthfulness with a woman can be very dangerous and unhealthy for your future.

Women have more leverage early in life than men, like this like this from birth she's already winning you, the world is more fair to her than you and this is why you need to focus more on your purpose than you are focusing on her.

If you fail to make it in life, you will suffer in her hand, she will finally dump you for another man who didn't fail to make it.

Forget all those romantic bullishit she use to assure you " that she will be with you forever" its a lie, when jungle mature she will disappear.

The truth is most women are just managing your brokeness because they don't have a better option yet the moment a better option present itself she will abandon you and forget all your sacrifices and all her words, women know nothing like loyalty.

This is why as a young man, you don't have to spend all your time focusing and chasing women up and down, women are big distraction to a man who is purpose driven.

They will drain you and leave you.

Hustle for yourself, take your life more serious, read books, learn skills, develop and harness your masculine power, be more focus on becoming a better man, invest in your mind at the end, this the only thing that will never leave you through thick and thin.

Be wise.

Well said, but same advice applies for girls too - don't waste your time with some guy till he makes it, because moment he makes it you'll no longer be enough, if at all you'll still be in the picture

. BITTER TRUTH

DaddyCoool:
Well said, but same advice apply for girls too - don't waste your time with some guy till he makes it, because moment he makes it you'll no longer be enough, if at all you'll still be in the picture

If you do a reverse psychology you will know must victims of this are male...

Younger men must ignore peer pressure and build a future before building a relationship pyramid that is of no financial benefit to their present or future financial status.

MaziObinnaokija:
. BITTER TRUTH

Hoping they listen 👂

they won't. They'll mourn,cry and open useless thread when those daughters of Eve do them strong thing.

Nahunger:


Hoping they listen 👂

MaziObinnaokija:
they won't. They'll mourn,cry and open useless thread when those daughters of Eve do them strong thing.

And the circle continues,
A man without value is a puppet in the hands of any woman.

Will the youths read this? Yes

Will they take the advice? No

Will they learn? Yes

They will finally learn the hard way

Nahunger:


If you do a reverse psychology you will know must victims of this are male...

Younger men must ignore peer pressure and build a future before building a relationship pyramid that is of no financial benefit to their present or future financial status.

Well, younger women must also ignore sweet romantic love and go for an already established person

Some will go borrow money just to satisfy a girl .They'll take them to Tasty 🐔, chicken Republic, craving for more and some eatery etc and empty their Savings/borrowed money on them and later go home to soak garri while the girl cook noodles..Those boys that can't afford to buy panadol/wrapper for their parents.

Nahunger:


And the circle continues,
A man without value is a puppet in the hands of any woman.

Cypress042:
Will the youths read this? Yes

Will they take the advice? No

Will they learn? Yes

They will finally learn the hard way

Both boys and girls. Stories abound of girls whose long-term boyfriends left and married someone they just met!

MaziObinnaokija:
Some will go borrow money just to satisfy a girl .They'll take them to Tasty 🐔, chicken Republic, craving for more and some eatery etc and empty their Savings/borrowed money on them and later go home to soak garri_the girl cook noodles..Those boys that can't afford to buy panadol/wrapper for their parents.

Meanwhile they'll rarely do this for girl that actually loves them. It’s always for a girl they're trying to "chase" whose eyes are elsewhere!

MaziObinnaokija:
Some will go borrow money just to satisfy a girl .They'll take them to Tasty 🐔, chicken Republic, craving for more and some eatery etc and empty their Savings/borrowed money on them and later go home to soak garri_the girl cook noodles..Those boys that can't afford to buy panadol/wrapper for their parents.

Borrow to satisfy women, that's the highest hight of foolishness if you ask me.

Just like the one who bought iPhone 15 for girl only for her to reject his marriage proposal 😂😂😂😂

DaddyCoool:


Well, younger women must also ignore sweet romantic love and go for an already established person

You are right.
Irrespective, a young man has lesser value compared to a girl of his age and if he uses that youthful period to chase after other women then he will end up in the regrets..

So this thread is about what growing up teenage young men must do, stay away from the hunt of so called "True Love" at the detriment of their future.

You can open a new thread to advocate for young girls or otherwise.

Cypress042:
Will the youths read this? Yes

Will they take the advice? No

Will they learn? Yes

They will finally learn the hard way

Sad but true, they won't read cause it doesn't sounds like shalli puppi neither does it oozes Amapiano vibes.

Nahunger:


You are right.
Irrespective, a young man has lesser value compared to a girl of his age and if he uses that youthful period to chase after other women then he will end up in the regrets..

So this thread is about what growing up teenage young men must do, stay away from the hunt of so called "True Love" at the detriment of their future.

You can open a new thread to advocate for young girls or otherwise.

I beg to defer. I don't think there is any need opening a new thread. We can simultaneously advice young ladies to stay away from the hunt for so called "True Love" at the detriment of their future. We ought remind them that romantic love is fleeting and never lasts and they should instead use their short desirable period of youth to have their eyes on something more lasting - an established someone that will comfortably take care of them and their offsprings

DaddyCoool:


I beg to defer. I don't think there is any need opening a new thread. We can simultaneously advice young ladies to stay away from the hunt for so called "True Love" at the detriment of their future. We ought remind them that romantic love is fleeting and never lasts and they should instead use their short desirable period of youth to have their eyes on something more lasting - an established someone that will comfortably take care of them and their offsprings

Gender based advocator you win
😂😂😂😂😂😂

Good morning by the way 😂😂

Nahunger:


Gender based advocator you win
😂😂😂😂😂😂

Good morning by the way 😂😂

😅 U r obviously the one gender based and gender biased. I'm only adocating fairness and equity.
We ought remind BOTH males and females to be mindful of the clock and take full advantage of their most advantageous years

DaddyCoool:


😅 U r obviously the one gender based and gender biased. I'm only adocating fairness and equity.
We ought remind BOTH males and females to be mindful of the clock and take full advantage of their most advantageous years

It's easier to convince a man logically, except the males badly raised from poor parenting, but you see the female gender they are moved by words, emotions and desires so I see advising them as a lucrative waste of precious time.

As a young man in your 20s women should be the last thing on your mind.
Don't chase women , let them chase you instead.

ALL THIS YOU MENTION NOW NA FOR GUYS WAY NO GET PLAN

wizrose:
ALL THIS YOU MENTION NOW NA FOR GUYS WAY NO GET PLAN

That is why we dey mention am, so the ones with sense go begin plan.

MikeofKd:
As a young man in your 20s women should be the last thing on your mind.
Don't chase women , let them chase you instead.

A mistake I made in my early 20s thank God I saw the light in my 20s

Nahunger:

That is why we dey mention am, so the ones with sense go begin plan.

#FACT

MikeofKd:
As a young man in your 20s women should be the last thing on your mind.
Don't chase women , let them chase you instead.

So what are they to do with those raging hormones??

Nahunger:




A mistake I made in my early 20s thank God I saw the light in my 20s

And you're now a millionaire?

DaddyCoool:


So what are they to do with those raging hormones??

You should have female friends for that.

MikeofKd:


You should have female friends for that.

Female friends?? They need something to fúck!