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Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 6:53pm On Jun 18 |
My mum ,with an nce has been teaching 4 more than 15 to 20years. But for d past maybe 8 yrs, itz been jus above 20k In april dis year,she got fed up and left a certain private sch,where she had been since 2019 due 2 too much stress and a terrible salary. The sch she joined said theyre gona pay 30k But at the end of may, they did some deduction in order 2 sell certain tinz at a price higher than d markt price 2 my mum. They said it was a must 4 her 2 buy from them. As 4 my dad, hez more elderly as an experienced security guard. But hiz salary is just abt 25k. Sadly, I cant go 4ther. Am not posting dis cuz i expect anybody 2 assist them with a beta job or financially on dis violent 4rum Am posting it out of sadness Again i cant go 4ther Dis is not a reason 4 anybody 2 make it seem like am trying 2 destroy their chance of getting whatever theyre expecting anywhere as a salary at whatever possible time |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by nanauju(f): 6:59pm On Jun 18 |
So how is the family sustained on this combined income of less than 60k? Do they have business/side hustle to augment? Or are the kids grown and out of the house and supporting? 1 Like |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by dawnomike(m): 7:10pm On Jun 18 |
HellVictorinho6:What about you... What do you do? If your parents live in Ibadan, I can help with a better paying job. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 7:40pm On Jun 18 |
nanauju: Very sad story with my six siblings Weve been living in different places since i was born,changing residence multiple times ,my mum is much used 2 carrying loads on her head and thaz mostly due 2 accomodation issues ,am used 2 using anything such as polybags/cartons 2 carry or store whatever i gat, usually a few items. At the moment, my mums using a rented room in an uncompleted building ,2 of my siblings elsewhere, 3 somewhere else,my dad elsewhere with my older brother and am anywhere , anyhow, Am often restless, av changed residence more than any of them I presently sleep in an open church that has no windows/doors meaning anyone can enter at anytime but av got no alternative The feeding is often or mostly just as complicated,so twisted and extensively terrible when you consider certain tinz which i cant put in words. However, 3 of my siblings were sent out of the country 2 carry out church activities in african countries nearby for some time by a certain church in the neighbourhood earlier this year. I wonder what they will meet when they come back. The rest is more useless memories. |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 7:42pm On Jun 18 |
dawnomike: Am into teaching 2 We at lagos |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 7:50pm On Jun 18 |
nanauju: My older brother aint got no job. My older sister , just surviving ,am not sure of what else 2 say there. Am into part time teaching or working with more than one school but av been very unstable 4 very unstable reasons my younger ones ,3 are presently outside nigeria 4 church activities/preaching and other similar stuff. anoda may join soon tho she learning a trade now. |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 8:12pm On Jun 18 |
nanauju: my mum sacrificed a lot 2 also ensure 3 of the younger ones leave dis country 2 go and preach 4 some time. she has been sacrificing so much since damn itz so terrible and unfortunate and it seems it must be in vain cuz the country is getting harder 4 people struggling 2 get mini wage or whatever that means my dad has had 2 spend a lot especially on my older brother whos had certain unexpected and unprecedented mis4tunes the whole tinz sickening as 4 side business none cuz my mums farm which can be anywhere, is jus anoda baseless struggle, no security , no customer 2 buy whatz left. she brings unripe pawpaw 2 eat sumtimes grinding unripe corn itz all nonsense damn what sort of thing am i even witnessing? what a life! damit! |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by Sapasenator: 8:20pm On Jun 18 |
How old are you Victor and what is the level of your education? Do you have any marketable skills or are you able to learn? Do you know beyond a certain age, you become your own background and your parents cease to be your background? Your parent is paid less than 30k because that is what they deserve based on the level of their skills. It is the way things work in the real world, my friend. The way to solve your problems is not to pray or complain about them all the time, you will have to change your mindset and learn a tangible skill. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by adeememman(m): 8:35pm On Jun 18 |
If you want the bitter truth and desire to breakthrough from that path. Sit down and think about a craft you love, that you know you will do well in, I mean real handwork, mechanic, pop, bricklaying, carpentry/furniture, cement work, barbing, upholstery, tailoring..... The list is endless. Make a resolution that you want to invest all your strength into whatever you decide to learn even if hunger wan blindfold you. Within five years your story will change if you don't deviate from your plan. All these 20k jobs are slavery. I'd rather work as a labourer thrice a week then use the remaining days of the week to pursue my dream than dedicate all my time to slavery. I'm talking from personal experience. The earlier you take that bold step the better cos your kids won't listen to excuse. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by We4all: 9:04pm On Jun 18 |
As an NCE holder, why didn't your mom join the state government as a teacher or civil servant? As for your siblings that are currently abroad, they should think outside the box and device a means to earn a sustainable income that will break the cycle of poverty. At this point, you don't need handouts. You need to learn a skill and be self sufficient. I know carpenters, mechanics and shoe makers that are doing well for themselves. Your father wasted his life as a security guard. Do not tow his path. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by Kingrshd3: 9:26pm On Jun 18 |
HellVictorinho6: Where in Lagos are you . Which local government and what's your qualification? |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:44pm On Jun 18 |
We4all: She didnt av the chance 2 join. There was no state govt vacancy she cud find afta whatever made her meet my dad tru her parents 2wards dis it was really hard 4 her 2 even get the nce so so hard she fainted severally Shez bin tru damn damn damn Her story is unspeakable ,shez seen the unthinkable , itz so bad we stopped her from telling us/the children her story Dont remind pls As 4 learning skills, it must not stop me from the work am doing cuz i dont really depend on handouts. At the same time, it has 2 be free except u dont want 2 be sincere as in how can someone struggling 2 survive dis way sponsor it? and it must be within where i work/reside as in, nobody gifts me any reason 2 stop the work am doing and am not saying anybody must. Do you really think i sound like i depend on my parents 4 anything or do u think anything av gotten on on NL cud last 4 a week considering the inflation? my siblings abroad cant spend more time thinking of anything but the church activity that they were sent 2 do. as in , itz only if they MEET SOMEONE/PEOPLE that they can work with that we can speak of anything else and stuff like that cant be planned by them. however, i believe they will be able 2 take note of certain tinz overthere. as 4 my dad, nothing makes him 2 deserve such nonsense as a salary since hez doing his job and nothing else right there. his inability 2 av made it doesnt mean his work as a security guard at that age should be belittled. yeah, the age comes with experience and that should count 4 something. damn!!! |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:00pm On Jun 18 |
Sapasenator: b4 i answer ur questions less than 30k is what they were asked 2 be struggling with not what they agreed 2 be deserving jeez their skills are more valuable than ...,goodness,gracious, jus 4get. av heard you they deserve nothing in fact jus let them get marks on their heads as slaves instead am a 97 tho sec sch/ s.s.c.e as 4 skills well, learning requires some stability. |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by Sapasenator: 10:06pm On Jun 18 |
HellVictorinho6: They have the option or choice to reject the 30k if they have a skill that will fetch a higher pay. In the long run, most people will get exactly what they deserve. That is life. Also, why SSCE if you are 97? You should look for other jobs like okada or keke Napep and save enough money to learn a skill like tailoring, Electrician, or plumbing. You need a skill otherwise you are in big trouble. The problems you refuse to solve today become a monster in five years. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:09pm On Jun 18 |
Kingrshd3: GBERIGBE ,IKORODU. SSCE |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:16pm On Jun 18 |
Sapasenator: I WAS BORN IN 1997 DO U GET IT NOW? I dont av energy 2 debate how life is I neither av driving skills nor license nor a vehicle 2 practise with or drive and i dont av time/energy 4 everything Itz not everything one wud master in life The issue of deserving depends on ur definition of justice/fairness |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by Sapasenator: 10:20pm On Jun 18 |
HellVictorinho6: ok, you are right. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:02am On Jun 19 |
VICTOR WAN SHOOT ADULT CONTENT. BEGGER BOY!!! 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:07am On Jun 19 |
HellVictorinho6: Where you dey live vor LAGOs. I wan sen some BOYZ TO BEAT SENSE INTO YA BEGI-BEGI HEAD 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:11am On Jun 19 |
nanauju: Can u be of any help |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by BronzeTiger: 11:59am On Jun 19 |
Sapasenator:Don't mind the beggar. All he will continue doing is making excuses for why he should keep on begging for handouts instead of finding ways on how to make money and better his life even if it's from starting from the scratch. A 27 year old ssce holder still feeling entitled in this country of today. Let him continue looking for peanuts as the years go by I just hope for his sake it won't be too late then. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 4:43pm On Jun 19 |
BronzeTiger: itz 2 late already U define starting from scratch 2 suit yourself Whenever i die Whatever you say Itz 2 late 2 change what u think of me Itz 2 late man Avoid me with my problems |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:57pm On Jun 19 |
Kingrshd3: If i lose my mum dis way, Then any way has 2 be a way. Sapasenator MrCork ayjay45 and whoever else out there am getting more reasons 2 neva pity others we re expected 2 work 4 a month or more without feeding in order 2 save yet they say we lazy we shall see where dis rubbish is taking nigeria to. |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by MrCork: 11:21pm On Jun 19 |
HellVictorinho6: Now you using yor mother to scam for moiney..you are a disgrase to man. You not even fit to be a man..you gadfdem.loooser beggar.. you die you die..no one givs a dam ......GO N FIND A JOB...YOU LAZZZZY PATHETICK SCUM!!!!((no oofencse))) NOBODY MUST GIV U MOINEY ON NAIRALAND...YOU THEIF!!!!! (((no oofencse)) 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by Sapasenator: 11:30pm On Jun 19 |
MrCork: Haha Londoner, why you hate home base so much like that. 1 Like |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:31pm On Jun 19 |
MrCork: U must neva try 2 stop me from organized crime since u think u are wiser than Sapasenator and co. Am jus waiting 4 a chance 2 belong |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:35pm On Jun 19 |
Sapasenator: 4get that b@stard I need 2 do some dirty politics or any other dark shit 2 stop dis nonsense from that b@stard |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by MrCork: 1:00am On Jun 20 |
HellVictorinho6: gooood news for u is u will never make it in life....AMEN ...TANK ME LATER!!!!(((no oofencse))) 1 Like |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 6:18am On Jun 20 |
MrCork: Y not rap it |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by budaatum: 1:29pm On Jun 20 |
MrCork: You are fighting and not loving, though the op deserves all he gets. 1 Like
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Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by MrCork: 1:37pm On Jun 20 |
budaatum: You right sir I apologice!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should My Parents Be Paid Less Than 30k Each? by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:25pm On Jun 20 |
budaatum: U guys deserve wat u get from me 2 |
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