Now, I don't make choices for anyone and if they made the choices themselves, then I'm okay with that.

But that still doesn't change the fact that when I look at the lives of most girls, I feel let down.

Sometimes, you expect a heavy Climax, a reaching for something and getting it. But after seeing how most girls later end up, honestly, it's disappointing.

There was this girl I know very much in fellowship. Probably the holiest of them all.

You probably won't be able to toast this girl and she'll give in to you.

Talk more of getting her into your bed.

Of course, it's the usual, I'm saving myself for my husband stuffs.

Now that I see her wedding pictures and the husband, first thing I thought about was, "was this all she has being yangering about for?"

I've see girls so pretty who you probably will never be able to bed because they keep saying that you are not at their level getting married to people who are not even half your measures.

Marriage humbles a lot of women.

Regardless of how pretty, when it comes to settling down, most women have very little options.

So, little that they'll marry anything.

I've seen it too many times to even bother any girl doing yanga.

Women are constantly overrated. You are not worth as much as a man who would sleep with you is worth. You are worth as much as the man who would marry you is worth.

You should be very ashamed of yourself to refer to a human being (man specifically) as "anything". Secondly, don't judge a book by its cover, they could make a good couple and end up having what they don't have right now in excess. I've seen really broke couples living happily and rich couples living unhappy (in pretence).

It's not a matter of "what" she married but "who" she married. In the terms of "what" no situation is permanent. Most of those ladies married love and peace, while the majority marry money, however peer pressure (manopause, aging, family, friends, etc.) could force a woman into marriage that she didn't plan to enter but that's not always the case though as many people now get married with their eyes open. Timaya's early girlfriend left him because he was broke, but today he's rich. Assuming you saw him then, you would have spit on a girl that would marry him, but today he's a dream for many women.

So, don't judge a book by its cover.

I wait for Jennyclay and Ereluroz for comments

Remman:
You should be very ashamed of yourself to refer to a human being (man specifically) as "anything". Secondly, don't judge a book by its cover, they could make a good couple and end up having what they don't have right now in excess. I've seen really broke couples living happily and rich couples living unhappy (in pretence).

It's not a matter of "what" she married but "who" she married. In the terms of "what" no situation is permanent. Most of those ladies married love and peace, while the majority marry money, however peer pressure (manopause, aging, family, friends, etc.) could force a woman into marriage that she didn't plan to enter but that's not always the case though as many people now get married with their eyes open. Timaya's early girlfriend left him because he was broke, but today he's rich. Assuming you saw him then, you would have spit on a girl that would marry him, but today he's a dream for many women.

So, don't judge a book by its cover.

lolz.

I'm not judging a book by the cover.

All I'm saying is, as a single guy who has seen a lot of rejection, it's funny the "classy" ones settle for those who probably aren't what they probably imagined themselves settling down with.

I've seen girls who will slap a guy for not measuring to her standards settling down with guys way below the guy.

It's just funny. Honestly. Especially when they cross that 27-28 years.

Proudman1:
lolz.

I'm not judging a book by the cover.

All I'm saying is, as a single guy who has seen a lot of rejection, it's funny the "classy" ones settle for those who probably aren't what they probably imagined themselves settling down with.

I've seen girls who will slap a guy for not measuring to her standards settling down with guys way below the guy.

It's just funny. Honestly. Especially when they cross that 27-28 years.

Well, you may be right but you don't know what feelings can do to a woman. If a woman loves you, even if you're a palm wine tapper, they'll settle with you. On the other hand, most ladies used to belittle guys whom they don't like just to keep them away and not really because they're looking for the angel. Like Dr. Canie would say, "The right choice awaits to be made at the right time."

Remman:
Secondly, don't judge a book by its cover, they could make a good couple and end up having what they don't have right now in excess. I've seen really broke couples living happily and rich couples living unhappy (in pretence).

Then your eyes have seen evil niyen.
Guys please don't mind him o. Broke people can never be truly happy. I remember when I was broke. I was always angry for no reason. If person greet me I fit stone am.

Proudman1:
Now, I don't make choices for anyone and if they made the choices themselves, then I'm okay with that.

But that still doesn't change the fact that when I look at the lives of most girls, I feel let down.

Sometimes, you expect a heavy Climax, a reaching for something and getting it. But after seeing how most girls later end up, honestly, it's disappointing.

There was this girl I know very much in fellowship. Probably the holiest of them all.

You probably won't be able to toast this girl and she'll give in to you.

Talk more of getting her into your bed.

Of course, it's the usual, I'm saving myself for my husband stuffs.

Now that I see her wedding pictures and the husband, first thing I thought about was, "was this all she has being yangering about for?"

I've see girls so pretty who you probably will never be able to bed because they keep saying that you are not at their level getting married to people who are not even half your measures.

Marriage humbles a lot of women.

Regardless of how pretty, when it comes to settling down, most women have very little options.

So, little that they'll marry anything.

I've seen it too many times to even bother any girl doing yanga.

leave women alone,don't use your masculine perspective to judge them they are not the same with men

FRANCISTOWN:

Then your eyes have seen evil niyen.
Guys please don't mind him o. Broke people can never be truly happy. I remember when I was broke. I was always angry for no reason. If person greet me I fit stone am.

Being broke is really frustrating but trust me we have more happy couples/family in broke homes compared to the rich homes.

FRANCISTOWN:

Then your eyes have seen evil niyen.
Guys please don't mind him o. Broke people can never be truly happy. I remember when I was broke. I was always angry for no reason. If person greet me I fit stone am.

Right, with your Naija broke mentality (with a rich quick syndrome) you should be unhappy. I've travelled to a native village (name witheld for privacy reasons) in Malawi on a research where couples live in one room mud-house, they travel to several miles away to get stream water. The men hunt bush meats but most times are at home doing nothing especially during winter. You've not experienced real broke, man. The women do lots of tasks including farming. In the end we gave them dollar gifts, plastic containers for storing of liquid, cartons of bathing soaps (they stinck awfully), food stucks, etc. but despite these conditions, the couples are happy and faithful to each other.

You're right, one smally for rejected me but now she's a baby mama,

the fact that you can look at someone's wedding pictures and automatically evaluate the character of that man, is AMAZING!
i guess these women dont value what "you" value in a man, and thus why, just because these women are supposedly holy doesnt mean shiit to them but to find a GOOD MAN (aka their idea of a good man, not yours)!

BT just because someone rejects you, doesnt mean that she cant fukc up in the future.... you are simply NOT her type of fukc ups!

You seem bitter. He probably had something that you didn't despite your "good looks"

When u talk like this, you overrate humans(male/female)....mere mortals

Since I got to understand how attraction works and how almost impossible it is to self-influence other people's attraction to you, I stopped worrying about all these


So if I get rejected by the other gender, it has nothing to do with their being classier, and they'd still not be attracted to me if I became a Gov

Proudman1:
lolz.

I'm not judging a book by the cover.

All I'm saying is, as a single guy who has seen a lot of rejection, it's funny the "classy" ones settle for those who probably aren't what they probably imagined themselves settling down with.

I've seen girls who will slap a guy for not measuring to her standards settling down with guys way below the guy.

It's just funny. Honestly. Especially when they cross that 27-28 years.

Proudman, you are not ashamed of your life, recycling in one point, but killing urself about beautiful lady moving forward in phase of her life.

....... because you are a Messiah, that's why every girl you ask out must date you .


SOUNDING GRAGRA,.....LADY THAT REJECTED HIM, SEEING HER MARRYING GUY NOT UP TO HIS STANDARD,.....YOUR LIFE BETTER, YET, YOU ARE STILL WANDERING IN THE WILDERNESS OF SINGLENESS.


I will advise you to stop leaving in dream and wake up to reality.

Fiscus105:



Proudman, you are not ashamed of your life, recycling in one point, but killing urself about beautiful lady moving forward in phase of her life.

....... because you are a Messiah, that's why every girl you ask out must date you .


SOUNDING GRAGRA,.....LADY THAT DOESN'T DATE HIM, SEEING HER MARRYING GUY NOT UP HIM,.....YOUR LIFE BETTER, YOU ARE STILL WANDERING IN THE WILDERNESS OF SINGLENESS.


I will advise you to stop leaving in dream and wake up to reality.

whatever you say

1Sharon:
You seem bitter. He probably had something that you didn't despite your "good looks"

ion care

Women love bad guys. So, be bad to them!

Baronthecelebri:
You're right, one smally for rejected me but now she's a baby mama,

Auxtan:

Being broke is really frustrating but trust me we have more happy couples/family in broke homes compared to the rich homes.

Who told u so,in this current regime there are no broke happy couple,None except they re pretendining to be happy or not really broke

DevilsEqual:
When u talk like this, you overrate humans(male/female)....mere mortals

Since I got to understand how attraction works and how almost impossible it is to self-influence other people's attraction to you, I stopped worrying about all these


So if I get rejected by the other gender, it has nothing to do with their being classier, and they'd still not be attracted to me if I became a Gov

You're right that it isn't in any way right to force someone into accepting you. But I am confused about the chemistry of sudden dislike of another partner while in a relationship that has lasted for many years. This is mainly why we have exes that are like sworn enemies today. Why?

Choice of a life partner is not determined by social or educational status to many.
I will personally choose an 8/10 lady with low education and low economic status over a 5/10 educated lady with better economic status.
Marriage is primarily evolutionarily driven.
Social factor is secondary.
Mate with the best available traits ...nature made the rule.

imagrg:

Women love bad guys. So, be bad to them!

my own is to make money and have 2 baby mamas

Proudman1:
ion care

Yet you opened a topic 🤪

1Sharon:


Yet you opened a topic 🤪

i open topics on anything I want to talk about

Sensible people know marriage is not just by looks or money. You may have good looks or money but have a terrible attitude.

Never judge people when you see their partners. Marriage involves so many factors. If your women are going for 'lesser men', then that should be a pointer that something may be wrong with you.

The OP simply insinuated the age-old phenomena called "Settling"

When the desirable is not available,the available becomes desirable.

Proudman1:
i open topics on anything I want to talk about

Ogbeni, You be SIMP ...

You don Open Two Threads On Women ...

Na you women Fetching Water didn't gree Greet, Na Still Same You Dey Disappointed in Women Beautiful Women ..

Nairaland Robots.... Bunch of Lazy Ass. holes 😴 ... Retardeenden!

Proudman1:
Now, I don't make choices for anyone and if they made the choices themselves, then I'm okay with that.

But that still doesn't change the fact that when I look at the lives of most girls, I feel let down.

Sometimes, you expect a heavy Climax, a reaching for something and getting it. But after seeing how most girls later end up, honestly, it's disappointing.

There was this girl I know very much in fellowship. Probably the holiest of them all.

You probably won't be able to toast this girl and she'll give in to you.

Talk more of getting her into your bed.

Of course, it's the usual, I'm saving myself for my husband stuffs.

Now that I see her wedding pictures and the husband, first thing I thought about was, "was this all she has being yangering about for?"

I've see girls so pretty who you probably will never be able to bed because they keep saying that you are not at their level getting married to people who are not even half your measures.

Marriage humbles a lot of women.

Regardless of how pretty, when it comes to settling down, most women have very little options.

So, little that they'll marry anything.

I've seen it too many times to even bother any girl doing yanga.

Go get a life
Broke Simp