GloriousGbola:


you are supposed to set up an out reach for young women's health. sxual health, family planning, mentoring, the whole nine inches

All join.

Ibime:
Sim done favour me as my cousin was made LGA Chairman

You are doing well!

afrodoc2:


All join.

note i said the whole nine inches not the whole nine yards

seankafor:
hope he's rugged as he comes

No be small war dey up front oo

Nothing go happen for Ijaw areas cos warlords done pick side and are the ones who chose the replacement. The former guy quietly packed out. For Asari area, the former Chairman done already Japa go Canada. Na Ikwerre and upland wey fight fit hot.

izzou:
Abiola had 40 wives?

Why do i feel like this guy is lying?

Its true, I think there were 26 official wives and several concubines

izzou:
True!
I am yet to see what is beneficial in polygamy.

Most of the time, it never ends well

I will play devils advocate here and say what polygamy ensures is that women are taken care of, and children taken care of at least financially

In those days, if you are married and interested in another women, no problem simply marry am and add join your squad for house, she born for you, then take care of the kids financially provide for them

Nowadays have men stopped chopping? No. They simply continue chopping without the side effect of having to marry them, That is why you have a lot of matured women who dont have a spouse or any man to themselves but they are side chics to many men

Basically the men of those days were chopping outside, and being financially responsible for the women and the children made,

The iamoyindamola of today, will have one at home, have 7 outside chopping steadily without having to be responsible for any of them, later when he don use like 1yr for them body drops the girl and married man Blueraydick who just dropped one side chic picks her up. Playing rotation until you see women in their 50s no recognized man nor family

And once the outside get belle, the probably go abort cos its not socially acceptable to be a sidechic, Thus many women are wasting away their reproductive years when they could have been attached to a big boy and have kids for him with their full chest

Ibime:


Nothing go happen for Ijaw areas cos warlords done pick side and are the ones who chose the replacement. The former guy quietly packed out. For Asari area, the former Chairman done already Japa go Canada. Na Ikwerre and upland wey fight fit hot.

Lol, SIM don use Wike mouth knack ground

GloriousGbola:


He is not saying anything we don't know. Abiola had a lot of wives and a lot of concubines.

He has obviously missed out on the bulk of the man's fortune and has now decided that soiling his fathers legacy for clout is the only way he can get back at Kola and co

This is also the legacy of polygamy.

Try watch the interview, the guy wasn't saying those things to soil his fathers name, he was just stating the facts of things. The guy talks smart, and seems genuine enough.

BlueRayDiick:


Kola Abiola did them bad jare.

I bet u haven't read Kola's interview about his father, June 12 and Tinubu . Kola literally called out Tinubu for begging Abacha for commissioner job under Abacha's government. (Well, that is by the way).

I think Kola being the guy closest to their Father and was of age gave him an advantage which most of his siblings feel he has used to his own selfish advantage while neglecting them.

I honestly don't know if Kola is being wicked or the rest of his siblings are being entitled. But that is the legacy of polygamy as u have rightly posited

GloriousGbola:


My son turns 17 this year. The boy is a good pikin but he keeps giving me wahala. My partner called me this afternoon to complain about his son who is same age.
With three pikin and you have stress trying to raise responsible adults. Even more so with social media influence.

But one day in our WhatsApp group one guy was extolling polygamy. He actually thinks the rubbish those governors with 4 wives and 20 children is to be celebrated. I asked how do you raise 20 children? It is hard enough raising two. And the guys answer - that's the woman's job.

Their story is likely to be even worse than Abiolas

See now as yeye bellos children school fees have been truncated while he is still alive

Na the thing be that, if you really wan do parenting seriously and full-time, I don't know how you can manage multiple children not to mention families.

GloriousGbola:


My son turns 17 this year. The boy is a good pikin but he keeps giving me wahala. My partner called me this afternoon to complain about his son who is same age.
With three pikin and you have stress trying to raise responsible adults. Even more so with social media influence.

But one day in our WhatsApp group one guy was extolling polygamy. He actually thinks the rubbish those governors with 4 wives and 20 children is to be celebrated. I asked how do you raise 20 children? It is hard enough raising two. And the guys answer - that's the woman's job.

Their story is likely to be even worse than Abiolas

See now as yeye bellos children school fees have been truncated while he is still alive

Bros egbon mi, Open your compound and accept more. All these girls outside dey eye you. See financially stable man the dream of all these girls

Actually I will tell you this, On my secondary school whatsapp group, I found out that more than a quarter of the girls are not in a stable marriage, whether divorced, widowed, baby mama or never married. All these girls are over 40. The youngest of us will be like 42

One day One of the girls boldly said "if there is anyone looking for a 2nd wife, she game. She will be discreet, never bother the first wife"

At least make someone sef get her time small even if na for 1 day a week. All these ones she is taking decisions, sleeping, waking up, everything alone
They have resigned to the fact that they likely wont find a single man, either divorced with his own baggage or married man

And the fact be say its not like they are celibate, men dey chop them but because its not societally acceptable the men no dey marry them

I am sure all the married men here in Nigeria know a married friend who attends owambe with women steadily not his wife. And he is not legally married to them basically chopping their youth away.

I get some mates in Naija mostly Bankers who always have 1 or 2 regularly, One guy in particular he cannot go to bathroom without one sidechic following, any small outing handbag must follow even if na burial freedom or church revival, He even has an hotel close to his bus stop where he sometimes lodge his sidechic, So all the "I wan reach bus stop hangout with boys" na activity time

Theflint1:
Lol, SIM don use Wike mouth knack ground

In the video of the militant “ general Asabuja “ I watched , the guy say ; ‘ No be Wike carry red biro give Fubara make he Dey sign make we Dey follow am ? …. Whether he like it or not Fubara must continue to Dey use that red biro Dey sign and we go follow am ‘

Omo! Strongmen too plenty for that state abeg.

BlueRayDiick:


Kola Abiola did them bad jare.

I bet u haven't read Kola's interview about his father, June 12 and Tinubu . Kola literally called out Tinubu for begging Abacha for commissioner job under Abacha's government. (Well, that is by the way).

I think Kola being the guy closest to their Father and was of age gave him an advantage which most of his siblings feel he has used to his own selfish advantage while neglecting them.

I honestly don't know if Kola is being wicked or the rest of his siblings are being entitled. But that is the legacy of polygamy as u have rightly posited

I see Kola as an entitled spoilt kid sha. His fathers ambition is MKOs problem

All the thriving businesses handed over to him, how have they fared?

Kids wey no get 1k for account when Kola dey go London for weekend, don hol pass am, All the headstart he had over many, he blew it

raumdeuter:


Bros egbon mi, Open your compound and accept more. All these girls outside dey eye you. See financially stable man

Actually I will tell you this, On my secondary school whatsapp group, I found out that about a quarter of the girls are not in a stable marriage, whether divorced, widowed, baby mama or never married all these girls are over 40. The youngest of us will be like 42

One day One of them boldly said if there is anyone looking for a 2nd wife, she game. She will be discreet, never bother the first wife

At least make someone sef get her time small even if na for 1 day a week. All these ones she is taking decisions, sleeping, waking up, everything alone

And the fact be say its not like they are celibate, men dey chop them but because its not societally acceptable the men no dey them

I am sure all the married men here in Nigeria know a married friend who attends owambe with women steadily not his wife. And he is not legally married to them

Na so you go let your prick draw you into wahala.

I had an uncle wey dey play away match steady. Then in his late 50s one of his side chick took belle and he married her. The side chick was far more fresh than his first wife and she more or less became the official wife. He had five kids by his first wife. By the time he married no 2 the last born was in 300l or so. Work don almost finish. Na to dey enjoy life remain.

So instead of ending stress the man started a whole new round. He had two boys with new wife. His first brood were 100% public school and turned out well. But the new kids went to Atlantic hall. Wife no 2 was high maintenance and the man was pussy whipped and burning through cash he never spent with family no 1.

He was my first job post NYSC. We would have a work trip and his wife car would break down. Sharp. Sharp we would drop company car and use public transport.

Basically the man bought market. To make matter such worse he developed cancer and died of it. He was doing a lot of work for nepa and the fg is a useless customer who will owe you. (nnpc is owing us now and we cannot say when we will be paid ) They were owing him as he was dying and the man died broke. And the second wife practically abandoned him at this period. The man was begging his first wife for forgiveness as he was dying.

I know what you are saying as there are some chicks I knew in school who are unmarried to this day. In fact there was one babe I came close to dating and would almost certainly have married if I had dated her. The babe was single for years and then I heard she is now some dudes second wife.

But imho the wahala and stress of one woman is more than enough. Let my prick not have me writing checks my account cannot cash.

And growing up in an environment where your mothers are fighting for your dad's attention and his money and his prick can fk with your children's heads and your daughters sense of self worth as a woman.

raumdeuter:


I will play devils advocate here and say what polygamy ensures is that women are taken care of, and children taken care of at least financially

In those days, if you are married and interested in another women, no problem simply marry am and add join your squad for house, she born for you, then take care of the kids financially provide for them

Nowadays have men stopped chopping? No. They simply continue chopping without the side effect of having to marry them, That is why you have a lot of matured women who dont have a spouse or any man to themselves but they are side chics to many men

Basically the men of those days were chopping outside, and being financially responsible for the women and the children made,

The iamoyindamola of today, will have one at home, have 7 outside chopping steadily without having to be responsible for any of them, later when he don use like 1yr for them body drops the girl and married man Blueraydick who just dropped one side chic picks her up. Playing rotation until you see women in their 50s no recognized man nor family

And once the outside get belle, the probably go abort cos its not socially acceptable to be a sidechic, Thus many women are wasting away their reproductive years when they could have been attached to a big boy and have kids for him with their full chest

The women are getting taken care of married to the man, or as side chicks, I'd even argue that the woman benefits more financially as a side chick than as part of a polygamous entity where she'd have to share whatever the man brings her way with her kids, or even the kids getting prioritized over her. Except say na C Ronaldo type aura you get as married man, any man running game is paying those chicks (heavily I might add) for that service.

There seems to be a pattern in the way Tinubu is treated in the midst of other world leaders. Very bad optics for Nigeria in general. It's very concerning.

raumdeuter:


I see Kola as an entitled spoilt kid sha. His fathers ambition is MKOs problem

All the thriving businesses handed over to him, how have they fared?

Kids wey no get 1k for account when Kola dey go London for weekend, don hol pass am, All the headstart he had over many, he blew it

I don’t think Kola was spoilt & entitled , rather I think he’s just being selfish like most Nigerians would be in his shoes .

In his own Interviews he stated how from a very young age his father takes him to board meetings , he’s always not far from his father and was always in the room when key business decisions are being taken . The father practically carried him along in all his business dealings and he learnt the rope From a tender age.

He was damn sure of being the heir apparent and sole successor to the business empire till politics happened . He mentioned in his own interview that the father didn’t really carry him along when he was to declare for presidency but eventually he has no choice but to support his father’s ambition .

U know the military government really messed their family finances up. All that head start didn’t remain the same after the father’s imprisonment happened .

On a side note , Kola’s interview sounded as tho he believed MKO wasn’t poisoned in prison as claimed . He said his father is hypertensive and was always checking his Blood Pressure almost every time . He believe it’s majorly health complications from his long term incarceration that killed him and not necessarily poison .

Theflint1:
The women are getting taken care of married to the man, or as side chicks, I'd even argue that the woman benefits more financially as a side chick than as part of a polygamous entity where she'd have to share whatever the man brings her way with her kids, or even the kids getting prioritized over her. Except say na C Ronaldo type aura you get as married man, any man running game is paying those chicks (heavily I might add) for that service.

Side chics get benefit when they are actively being used, Your sidechic of 2014, shey you still dey call am? But if to say you don marry am in 2014, its your responsibility for life. The usefulness of a sidechic is when you are actively being nacked, once that is over nothing for you. Ned Nwoko assuming he has 7 wives, he fit never nack the 1st or 2nd wife in the last 5yrs but he steadily provides for them. Imagine say na sidechic dem be

By the time the sidechic of 2014, assuming age 30 get passed around for 20yrs she go be 50yrs who will want a sidechic of 50yrs

Does anyone here remember the Adenuga sidechic / Personal secretary, 30yrs sidechic. that was chased out of her luxury house that Adenuga bought for her, If she had married him as 2nd wife she would be secure for life.
That is the video below. In the olden days a man rich like Mike Adenuga, Davido, Wizkid will each mop up 10 women each from the society, All those IG baddies for don willingly report to these men house, but Now all those odogwus dey claim 1 wife while nacking plenty outside


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0LXR6LwafPI

Can you compare what Shade Okoya has benfited from her husband in the last 25yrs to what she for get as sidechic of max 5 to 10yrs

As it is now, even property dem go follow share

BlueRayDiick:


I don’t think Kola was spoilt & entitled , rather I think he’s just being selfish like most Nigerians would be in his shoes .

In his own Interviews he stated how from a very young age his father takes him to board meetings , he’s always not far from his father and was always in the room when key business decisions are being taken . The father practically carried him along in all his business dealings and he learnt the rope From a tender age.

He was damn sure of being the heir apparent and sole successor to the business empire till politics happened . He mentioned in his own interview that the father didn’t really carry him along when he was to declare for presidency but eventually he has no choice but to support his father’s ambition .

U know the military government really messed their family finances up. All that head start didn’t remain the same after the father’s imprisonment happened .

Mko started from poverty. If Kola was a chip off the Abiola block, he had enough from the remains of his father's fortune, his father's name and his father's connections to make it again.

Otedola was made by obj. Otedola leveraged on his father's name. (So did ffk) . He almost lost it when yardua was in office but yardua died and otedola glued himself to gej and saved his fortune.

Kola Abiola could have leveraged on his father's legacies in so many ways from 1999.

Ibime?

liveLongNprospa:
Ibime?

The loans are still in flight. Budget and budget implementation are 2 different things. He may not even get the loans

BlueRayDiick:


I don’t think Kola was spoilt & entitled , rather I think he’s just being selfish like most Nigerians would be in his shoes .

In his own Interviews he stated how from a very young age his father takes him to board meetings , he’s always not far from his father and was always in the room when key business decisions are being taken . The father practically carried him along in all his business dealings and he learnt the rope From a tender age.

He was damn sure of being the heir apparent and sole successor to the business empire till politics happened . He mentioned in his own interview that the father didn’t really carry him along when he was to declare for presidency but eventually he has no choice but to support his father’s ambition .

U know the military government really messed their family finances up. All that head start didn’t remain the same after the father’s imprisonment happened .

After the military left, many civilian govts did not only release their frozen assets they even favored them. Before dem Jim Ovia finish school Abiola already owned Habib Bank which got absorbed into PhB and now I dont know

GloriousGbola:


Mko started from poverty. If Kola was a chip off the Abiola block, he had enough from the remains of his father's fortune, his father's name and his father's connections to make it again.

Otedola was made by obj. Otedola leveraged on his father's name. (So did ffk) . He almost lost it when yardua was in office but yardua died and otedola glued himself to gej and saved his fortune.

Kola Abiola could have leveraged on his father's legacies in so many ways from 1999.

I hope u are not under the impression that Kola Abiola is broke sha ?

Kola Abiola is the chairman of Summit oil ; an indigenous company with oil exploration license .

Why do u think his younger ones are voicing out ? Na because dem know say block Dey him hand na, better bars they feel belongs to all of them .

BlueRayDiick:


I hope u are not under the impression that Kola Abiola is broke sha ?

Kola Abiola is the chairman of Summit oil ; an indigenous company with oil exploration license .

Why do u think his younger ones are voicing out ? Na because dem know say block Dey him hand na, better bars they feel belongs to all of them .

My bad. His paper is not so large that it is making noise though, not like his father's was.

raumdeuter:


After the military left, many civilian govts did not only release their frozen assets they even favored them. Before dem Jim Ovia finish school Abiola already owned Habib Bank which got absorbed into PhB and now I dont know

Well , that’s the danger of having a divided polygamous family . I’m sure if they had a united family where different child sibling with his own expertise handles an arm of the business he specializes in; maybe they won’t be where they are today .

For example I don’t recall Kola being a Banker or having experience running a bank. He shouldn’t have been anywhere a bank. The bank was swallowed by the recapitalization exercise simply because there was really no plan in place as at that time .

raumdeuter:


Side chics get benefit when they are actively being used, Your sidechic of 2014, shey you still dey call am? But if to say you don marry am in 2014, its your responsibility for life. The usefulness of a sidechic is when you are actively being nacked, once that is over nothing for you. Ned Nwoko assuming he has 7 wives, he fit never nack the 1st or 2nd wife in the last 5yrs but he steadily provides for them. Imagine say na sidechic dem be

By the time the sidechic of 2014, assuming age 30 get passed around for 20yrs she go be 50yrs who will want a sidechic of 50yrs

Does anyone here remember the Adenuga sidechic / Personal secretary, 30yrs sidechic. that was chased out of her luxury house that Adenuga bought for her, If she had married him as 2nd wife she would be secure for life.
That is the video below. In the olden days a man rich like Mike Adenuga, Davido, Wizkid will each mop up 10 women each from the society, All those IG baddies for don willingly report to these men house, but Now all those odogwus dey claim 1 wife while nacking plenty outside


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0LXR6LwafPI

Can you compare what Shade Okoya has benfited from her husband in the last 25yrs to what she for get as sidechic of max 5 to 10yrs

As it is now, even property dem go follow share

You are very intelligent sir

GloriousGbola:


My bad. His paper is not so large that it is making noise though, not like his father's was.

The guy get money . I think one of his anger is the fact that the whole June 12 saga forced him to grow up too fast for his liken. The time he’s supposed to be using to misbehave like Davido up and down; he don turn patriarch of a family .

Now people wey no Dey when he Dey sacrifice his young adult life (his siblings ) are asking him for a cut of the bread.

raumdeuter:


I will play devils advocate here and say what polygamy ensures is that women are taken care of, and children taken care of at least financially

In those days, if you are married and interested in another women, no problem simply marry am and add join your squad for house, she born for you, then take care of the kids financially provide for them

Nowadays have men stopped chopping? No. They simply continue chopping without the side effect of having to marry them, That is why you have a lot of matured women who dont have a spouse or any man to themselves but they are side chics to many men

Basically the men of those days were chopping outside, and being financially responsible for the women and the children made,

The iamoyindamola of today, will have one at home, have 7 outside chopping steadily without having to be responsible for any of them, later when he don use like 1yr for them body drops the girl and married man Blueraydick who just dropped one side chic picks her up. Playing rotation until you see women in their 50s no recognized man nor family

And once the outside get belle, the probably go abort cos its not socially acceptable to be a sidechic, Thus many women are wasting away their reproductive years when they could have been attached to a big boy and have kids for him with their full chest

Na lie
You are not in the country to know the real situation
Polygamy bring war and chaos, there is no way the man will live long even if he separate those women
Na expenses go kill am, you can't eat your cake and have it in polygamy
You will probably lose count of your children or remember their faces
If God wants to punish such people, they should have grown up girls they will nack her before they know they commit incest
I hate that shit with passion, dealing with one wife can be handful not to take of multiple women

Ibime:


The loans are still in flight. Budget and budget implementation are 2 different things. He may not even get the loans

So basically what you are saying is that he is achieving these things without those loans that had you worried?

BlueRayDiick:


The guy get money . I think one of his anger is the fact that the whole June 12 saga forced him to grow up too fast for his liken. The time he’s supposed to be using to misbehave like Davido up and down; he don turn patriarch of a family .

Now people wey no Dey when he Dey sacrifice his young adult life (his siblings ) are asking him for a cut of the bread.

if that is his grouse then he is not serious, sacrificed his young adulthood after going to best schools enjoying best travels, His wedding was a National matter back then

You realize there are some Abiola kids just mid to late 30s who barely enjoyed 1% of what Kola enjoyed. Some of those kids dey UK, US Canada dey hustle regular jobs like children of nobodies back then

On Kola alone, MKO go don spend at least 10M Pounds but he dey vex for some of his younger ones wey barely shop $5k of MKO money

iamoyindamola:

Na lie
You are not in the country to know the real situation
Polygamy bring war and chaos, there is no way the man will live long even if he separate those women
Na expenses go kill am, you can't eat your cake and have it in polygamy
You will probably lose count of your children or remember their faces
If God wants to punish such people, they should have grown up girls they will nack her before they know they commit incest
I hate that shit with passion, dealing with one wife can be handful not to take of multiple women

Who tell you say you wont live long? Maybe that is even the secret of long life, OBJ marry half of the women in Nigeria and he is 85yrs and counting, How old Okoya be?

Sodiq, stop resisting, your mate don dey get 2nd wife, O kere ninu eiye

raumdeuter:


Who tell you say you wont live long? Maybe that is even the secret of long life, OBJ marry half of the women in Nigeria and he is 85yrs and counting, How old Okoya be?

Sodiq, stop resisting, your mate don dey get 2nd wife, O kere ninu eiye

Okoya have only one house wife sane with obj that was late
Mo kere ninu aye eleyi 🤣🤣
No be me then go murder for sleep