liveLongNprospa:


So basically what you are saying is that he is achieving these things without those loans that had you worried?

raumdeuter:


Side chics get benefit when they are actively being used, Your sidechic of 2014, shey you still dey call am? But if to say you don marry am in 2014, its your responsibility for life. The usefulness of a sidechic is when you are actively being nacked, once that is over nothing for you. Ned Nwoko assuming he has 7 wives, he fit never nack the 1st or 2nd wife in the last 5yrs but he steadily provides for them. Imagine say na sidechic dem be

By the time the sidechic of 2014, assuming age 30 get passed around for 20yrs she go be 50yrs who will want a sidechic of 50yrs

Does anyone here remember the Adenuga sidechic / Personal secretary, 30yrs sidechic. that was chased out of her luxury house that Adenuga bought for her, If she had married him as 2nd wife she would be secure for life.
That is the video below. In the olden days a man rich like Mike Adenuga, Davido, Wizkid will each mop up 10 women each from the society, All those IG baddies for don willingly report to these men house, but Now all those odogwus dey claim 1 wife while nacking plenty outside


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0LXR6LwafPI

Can you compare what Shade Okoya has benfited from her husband in the last 25yrs to what she for get as sidechic of max 5 to 10yrs

As it is now, even property dem go follow share

iamoyindamola:

Na lie
You are not in the country to know the real situation
Polygamy bring war and chaos, there is no way the man will live long even if he separate those women
Na expenses go kill am, you can't eat your cake and have it in polygamy
You will probably lose count of your children or remember their faces
If God wants to punish such people, they should have grown up girls they will nack her before they know they commit incest
I hate that shit with passion, dealing with one wife can be handful not to take of multiple women

raumdeuter:


if that is his grouse then he is not serious, sacrificed his young adulthood after going to best schools enjoying best travels, His wedding was a National matter back then

You realize there are some Abiola kids just mid to late 30s who barely enjoyed 1% of what Kola enjoyed. Some of those kids dey UK, US Canada dey hustle regular jobs like children of nobodies back then

On Kola alone, MKO go don spend at least 10M Pounds but he dey vex for some of his younger ones wey barely shop $5k of MKO money

Theflint1:
Raumdeuter dey use outliers with billions to burn and to keep everybody in line take conclude...your average fairly okay dude wey enter this side chick matter like Dem Otedola is setting himself up for a life of pain

BlueRayDiick:


His father did not born and train him so that he can train his younger ones na . The father did not raise him so he can raise his siblings on his father’s behalf .

The man sef just Dey do knackademus up and down the whole world only to leave responsibility for his son.

Kola may have his failings as a son , but the knackademus papa himself cannot be exonerated from the mess his family became after him.

GloriousGbola:


The knacking that mko did literally lived on after him.

Theflint1:
Raumdeuter dey use outliers with billions to burn and to keep everybody in line take conclude...your average fairly okay dude wey enter this side chick matter like Dem Otedola is setting himself up for a life of pain

GloriousGbola:


I like trolling my daughter. One day we were at a supermarket and there was a guy with two chicks. He was holding hands with both of them. My daughter was like eeew. I then told her ehen what's the big deal - as a Muslim I can marry 4 wives.

Normally she has a sarcastic response to my trolling - but this time she paused looked at me and said dad if you ever marry another wife I will never forgive you.

I remeber a story of some dude whose dad married a second wife or replacement wife who used to beat the new wife up.

You cannot predict the reactions and fallout - especially if you are the 'alpha male' who will insist on keeping the whole family in one compound. One happy family will turn to Game of thrones

My uncles first family would definitely have been pissed at the money he was blowing on the second family.
His first house was in a very very cheap part of ilorin. His second family lived in vgc. He sha ensured all his first kids did masters abroad except the last one .

Now his first son, like Kola has inherited his dad's business and the children of the second wife are dependent on him for school fees and upkeep, as madam was basically a trophy wife.

Theflint1:
These billionaires na deep pockets, outliers in the general population.

The people I get for mind na your regular business man or company exec wey dey take like 1m home each month. That kin person with Side chick go dey shell minimum 150k each month for the duration of the relationship...say the man get an as side chick no stop the girl from getting two more like that, plus serious boyfriend wey she fit marry at the end of her game period. I don't even think girl doing side chick paroles stops her from marrying if she plays her game well no use am as identity.

Theflint1:
Like you said, the fallout from it can be practically anything. Is it the mistrust among your kids, the needless competition, the resentment from your wife and kids, the fact that you're for everybody and for nobody...it can be crazy really.

Theflint1:
Ramdeuter dey use outliers with billions to burn and to keep everybody in line take conclude...your average fairly okay dude wey enter this side chick matter like Dem Otedola is setting himself up for a life of pain

raumdeuter:


Bros egbon mi, Open your compound and accept more. All these girls outside dey eye you. See financially stable man the dream of all these girls

Actually I will tell you this, On my secondary school whatsapp group, I found out that more than a quarter of the girls are not in a stable marriage, whether divorced, widowed, baby mama or never married. All these girls are over 40. The youngest of us will be like 42

One day One of the girls boldly said "if there is anyone looking for a 2nd wife, she game. She will be discreet, never bother the first wife"

At least make someone sef get her time small even if na for 1 day a week. All these ones she is taking decisions, sleeping, waking up, everything alone
They have resigned to the fact that they likely wont find a single man, either divorced with his own baggage or married man

And the fact be say its not like they are celibate, men dey chop them but because its not societally acceptable the men no dey marry them

I am sure all the married men here in Nigeria know a married friend who attends owambe with women steadily not his wife. And he is not legally married to them basically chopping their youth away.

I get some mates in Naija mostly Bankers who always have 1 or 2 regularly, One guy in particular he cannot go to bathroom without one sidechic following, any small outing handbag must follow even if na burial freedom or church revival, He even has an hotel close to his bus stop where he sometimes lodge his sidechic, So all the "I wan reach bus stop hangout with boys" na activity time

BlueRayDiick:


His father did not born and train him so that he can train his younger ones na . The father did not raise him so he can raise his siblings on his father’s behalf .

The man sef just Dey do knackademus up and down the whole world only to leave responsibility for his son.

Kola may have his failings as a son , but the knackademus papa himself cannot be exonerated from the mess his family became after him.

Theflint1:
Like you said, the fallout from it can be practically anything. Is it the mistrust among your kids, the needless competition, the resentment from your wife and kids, the fact that you're for everybody and for nobody...it can be crazy really.

iamoyindamola:

You they mind raudeuter
Alakoba🤣🤣🤣

BlueRayDiick:
izzou and other heritage bank “ victims “, I bring u good news . All hope is not lost .

Please share ur testimony when alert reach ur side

raumdeuter:



It would be easy if you men of nowadays no dey chop outside but you dey chop outside pass

Some bankers for Naija don nack more women pass MKO while claiming only 1 wife for house

But you are literally getting the benefit of polygamy without the lifetime responsibility
Actually them short change women with the stop of polygamy, sodiq and flint just dey chop them dey go without a lifetime of responsibility
Una 2 be yahoo boys

See Davido 2baba etc dem dey chop per day but no dey carry resposibility

TrebleChamp:
E get this Access Bank big chic dey don dey worry me since 2018, she is ready to be wife no 2 with no wahala but iro lo ba de. She is doing very well financially, but her type will just end up making the man forget his first family. She chatted me this morning that she is still waiting for me to come see her folks, me wey just dey follow afrodoc2 professional mentoring tactic. Polygamy is really not a bad thing, but Jealousy and human nature is the reason why most polygamous home end up in a terrible state....

TrebleChamp:
E get this Access Bank big chic dey don dey worry me since 2018, she is ready to be wife no 2 with no wahala but iro lo ba de. She is doing very well financially, but her type will just end up making the man forget his first family. She chatted me this morning that she is still waiting for me to come see her folks, me wey just dey follow afrodoc2 professional mentoring tactic. Polygamy is really not a bad thing, but Jealousy and human nature is the reason why most polygamous home end up in a terrible state....

GloriousGbola:


na so. that chick i was talking about is now a gtb big gal. most of these chicks will be 101% career chicks. they have not born pikin so they are still in 101% shape. they no get pikin so they have your time 101%, not like madam who is juggling you and pikin and you dont know the last time you guys had fun together. no stretch marks, no 15 years plus of marriage with all its baggage. you wont stand a chance - you wont even know when you are quiet abandoning your family

raumdeuter:


Every girl at age 20 dreams of having children in a monogamous setting. Experience has shown that a large percentage might not get that. So what happens to them?

They should remain barren or they don't deserve happiness because their fore mothers offended God?

Egbon gbola abeg do the needful reply to her WhatsApp messages

iamoyindamola:

How many of them have you helped
I hope you have 5 wives

BlueRayDiick:
I’ve been seeing this man’s pictures everywhere since yesterday . But one thing I don’t understand is why will someone survive cancer and still be smoking Cuban cigar ?

You see, I suspect that it's the other way around. When you survive bone cancer and have a second chance at life, you just might decide to let go and actually enjoy life. It happens.

GloriousGbola:


this is what naptu2 said

GloriousGbola:


this is what naptu2 said

BlueRayDiick:


Do u remember Steve Kadiri? It is this kind of “letting go lifestyle “ that led to his eventual death .

Man had kidney failure due to his smoking and drinking habits; he was one of the lucky few whom the public raised funds for their surgery and survived .

The man lived for an extra 5 years but he didn’t give up on his smoking & drinking habits till he later died of same kidney failure .


If person get second chance at life, he supposed Dey guide am jealously ni o. Maybe I love my life more than how others do theirs sha

Ibime:


It takes 20 years of constant smoking to be even susceptible to lung cancer from smoking. Most Cuban cigar smokers are casual smokers and thus far from being contenders for lung cancer

GloriousGbola:


well this seems to be the opposite - this man is a very wealthy and successful man who led a disciplined lifestyle

quite possibly he just figured this is how i would have died and someone else would have started blowing through the money i accumulated
the real worry is that this may be a late stage midlife crisis

that is the vibe i get from the tats
before the guy follow dayo advice and assemble a stable of side chicks

BlueRayDiick:


Senior men like this don’t need to cast their net before fishing ; the fishes of the ocean sef Dey find this kind fishermen .

He’s a dream man of those IG baddies and baba get the money to lavish on them . Na people wey young men wan Dey compete with be this ? 😩

GloriousGbola:


this is what naptu2 said