To be nice is very good, is good to be nice to your woman. Is good.

When they say, Don't be a nice guys. They don't mean don't be nice to your woman.

A nice guy is a guy that can't set boundaries. Even if he sets boundaries and his girl crosses the boundary, he can't walk-away. He doesn't have the " walkaway ability '

For guys that have self-respect and high self esteem, to walkaway is very easy and boy oh boy! Is a good thing to have.

monerozi5590:
To be nice is very good, is good to be nice to your woman. Is good.

When they say, Don't be a nice guys. They don't mean don't be nice to your woman.

A nice guy is a guy that can't set boundaries. Even if he sets boundaries and his girl crosses the boundary, he can't walk-away. He doesn't have the " walkaway ability '

For guys that have self-respect and high self esteem, to walkaway is very easy and boy oh boy! Is a good thing to have.

What exactly is this one trying to say

monerozi5590:
To be nice is very good, is good to be nice to your woman. Is good.

When they say, Don't be a nice guys. They don't mean don't be nice to your woman.

A nice guy is a guy that can't set boundaries. Even if he sets boundaries and his girl crosses the boundary, he can't walk-away. He doesn't have the " walkaway ability '

For guys that have self-respect and high self esteem, to walkaway is very easy and boy oh boy! Is a good thing to have.

This is bs!! You sound incoherent, like one on drugs.

Delete immediately, please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

monerozi5590:
To be nice is very good, is good to be nice to your woman. Is good.

When they say, Don't be a nice guys. They don't mean don't be nice to your woman.

A nice guy is a guy that can't set boundaries. Even if he sets boundaries and his girl crosses the boundary, he can't walk-away. He doesn't have the " walkaway ability '

For guys that have self-respect and high self esteem, to walkaway is very easy and boy oh boy! Is a good thing to have.

no be by force to drop nugget eje ,most times just dey observe, observation no be crime .

Ballzproblemm:
no be by force to drop nugget eje ,most times just dey observe, observation no be crime .

Ok, I know you so I will indulge you. What's in the write up that you don't understand so I will break it down for you!

...or perhaps lemme even ask you this question. Who is a nice guy?

Una no good🙂🙂🙂🙂. Let everybody drop their nuggets🙂. Take whatever you like. Waka jeje inside life🙂.

Two 30+ women on Lege live begging to be matchmake for a serious relationship/husband after wasting their prime years on the streets. Lege gave them a befitting response in the video anyway....the wall remains undefeated #trp

DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


#what is your take on this

I no pity for the mumu man

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/6/killer-of-gokada-ceo-murdered-him-over-fear-girlfriend-would-leave-him-if-she-found-out-hed-been-stealing-to-fund-his-lifestyle.html

Truly truly nothing is more dangerous than a simp ,killed boss because he stealing from him to fund his babe lifestyle because he was afraid she would leave him.

Now he's about to bag 19yrs 🤡 let me see if the so called gold digger never born for another man , meanwhile he wasted his life.

monerozi5590:
To be nice is very good, is good to be nice to your woman. Is good.

When they say, Don't be a nice guys. They don't mean don't be nice to your woman.

A nice guy is a guy that can't set boundaries. Even if he sets boundaries and his girl crosses the boundary, he can't walk-away. He doesn't have the " walkaway ability '

For guys that have self-respect and high self esteem, to walkaway is very easy and boy oh boy! Is a good thing to have.

When you think you know too much without any life experience to back it up, this is the type of things you drop

JESHAL007:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


#what is your take on this

Hope say you go borrow me money when I come ask for school fees becos I want to marry young too. One thing you should know is that the woman you marry at 23, 24 will not be the same woman at 30, 35 and above. Women change as they grow. Marriage is one thing. Maintenance is another thing. Me cannot marry a lady that will leave me for another man in the long run. I want a ride or die wife. For better for worse. Children will come and leave you but your wife will stick with you forever

JESHAL007:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


#what is your take on this

Personally I don't have any problem with someone who wants to marry early. Infact if a guy happens to find a good girl and has something going on in his life and a good plan ahead, I may even advice him to marry early. But in this present economy, omo I no know wetin I go even talk when many guys in their 30's sef still dey struggle.

It's a good thing to marry early still if you have the necessary means.

Katcall:
When you think you know too much without any life experience to back it up, this is the type of things you drop

You that have so many life experiences, can you please define a nice guy. I want to learn from your experiences . Bunch of clowns

Ballzproblemm:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/6/killer-of-gokada-ceo-murdered-him-over-fear-girlfriend-would-leave-him-if-she-found-out-hed-been-stealing-to-fund-his-lifestyle.html

Truly truly nothing is more dangerous than a simp ,killed boss because he stealing from him to fund his babe lifestyle because he was afraid she would leave him.

Now he's about to bag 19yrs 🤡 let me see if the so called gold digger never born for another man , meanwhile he wasted his life.

Jesus!!!!

I read the story and I was so flabbergasted at what a man would do to get some recognition from another human being like him but with a vagina.

If only he knew of the redpill. He would have consistently upgraded himself and loved himself instead of wanting others to love him. He lacked self love and killed a man who employed him and many others to 'buy' a woman's attention. The amazing thing is the dude is not ugly so I'm sure he stands a good chance of nailing girls, with a little change of mindset from 'love me, you biitches' to 'i love myself biitches, now you gotta work to be in my circle'


I can't wrap my head around this.

KennethIbe59:
I no pity for the mum man

He learnt his lesson and has backed out.

When we say it, they term us evil. Now he has seen how embarrassing it is not to have a say over a boy who lives under your roof, eats your food and you pay his bills and his mom, blatantly told you the boy was right.

Who but the mother would make the boy bold enough to say such?

monerozi5590:



Ok, I know you so I will indulge you. What's in the write up that you don't understand so I will break it down for you!

...or perhaps lemme even ask you this question. Who is a nice guy?

I don't think they mean it in a bad way...just teasing you. I understood what you wrote

luminouz:


Jesus!!!!

I read the story and I was so flabbergasted at what a man would do to get some recognition from another human being like him but with a vagina.

If only he knew of the redpill. He would have consistently upgraded himself and loved himself instead of wanting others to love him. He lacked self love and killed a man who employed him and many others to 'buy' a woman's attention. The amazing thing is the dude is not ugly so I'm sure he stands a good chance of nailing girls, with a little change of mindset from 'love me, you biitches' to 'i love myself biitches, now you gotta work to be in my circle'


I can't wrap my head around this.

"make money first women will come"

JESHAL007:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


#what is your take on this

This is not the 1900's .Most just make comparison that don't qualify.

Imagine being a guy just trying to survive in this Nigerian economy with inflation at the rate of x4 and decide you want to go and carry extra extra responsibility when you're barely surviving yourself.

Only death awaits that Nigga .

Overthinking go kill am.

There's nothing greater for a man than his mission.

Your mission is not marriage o,be warned.
Marriage is simply as a result of you achieving your goals in life or the very least a good number of them.

Even men that are working class earning reasonably are feeling the burden in this harsh economy.

When you marry without achieving your mission, marriage automatically becomes your mission.

And my friends, that's the definition of a finished man.

That's where his story will likely end.

All in all,have sense.

Life no be do or die.

JESHAL007:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


#what is your take on this

Boss,this is a new era and that idea of rush an marry becuase of age gap doesn't connect with this era.. Alot of things have change and so do lifestyle and thought process.. If one has the means and GOOD cashflow,then why not..but not while you are struggling to even provide for yourself,then you bring children into this world and then you can't take care of them.. Go to orphanage home and see children when full ground when "parents" all in the name of make I rush born troway..

JESHAL007:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


#what is your take on this

Guy this your yarnings no follow oooo

If u transitioned from the guy making ends to meet to owning a decent apartment, having something going in for yourself, nice physiques and a ride you will be blown away with both experiences with these lads.

While you are grinding don't just exempt yourself totally with mingling with them folks cause when you've secured the bag, you'd see the glaring hypocrisy. The metamorphosis in both phases. And see them for what they truly are.

When you have the bag, you don't really need to throw em to make an impression except you chose to, the bag speaks for itself.

Apt 💯

heartofcity12:
Apt 💯

WTF is this crap

INTELLIGENCE AS PART OF SEXUAAL ATTRACTION

thing with you is that you underrate intelligence. Without I telligrnce the human race will die out and wontbeven survive. Intelligence results in superior technology a tribe can use to conquer other tribes. And so it's possible nature makes women attracted to ugly but intelligent men as intelligence is needed to event hunt properly and even invent agriculture for food. Its the intelligence he has that the white man is even using to dominate the world as of today.
We are called man the wise homo sapien for a reason.
For example, the person who discovered vaccination saved the lives of billions of babies. As a result. 7 billion people are still alive. I believed mother nature also has a bias for making intelligence people survive. So I think intelligence could be an attractive thing as it is linked to strength and survival

Period

heartofcity12:
Period

Period faya your head there.

A man is supposed to be a provider.

Dig 👍

End Frustration with Women By Using the 2 Strike Rule

by Amlothi

In my relatively short time here I've noticed one thing that comes up time and time again on this board - the concept of how many chances you should give a girl before you use her phone number as kindling for your fireplace.

So here you go - Amlothi's Investment Strategy for Women - free of charge to all of you on this awesome site.

We all know that women don't like to say no. This is why we can often get lots of phone numbers face to face, but later on you can't get to that first date plateau. I'm not going to go into the reasons why this happens, suffice to say that it is a rare occasion when you will hear a straightforward "No". My favorite excuse was...

"I'm probably going to be out getting my passport because I'm leaving the country next week. And I have to pack..."

But on to the strategy!

The 2 Strike Rule

I use what I call the 2 Strike Rule. This rule requires that:

The first time you call to ask her on a date she gives you a reasonable excuse. (strike one)

The second time you call (at least a week later) she gives another excuse, and in neither instance does she suggest an alternative time and/or place. (strike 2)

If 1 = true and 2 = true than 3 = NEXT!

There are a couple points I would like to stress on these rules.

If her first excuse was UNreasonable (see my example above) then you NEXT her immediately - she doesn't get a second call.

If on the second call she is very apologetic and cannot suggest a specific time and place because she is really busy but gives a very strong indication that she wants to go out - AND both her excuses are rock solid... wait a week and then repeat step 2. However, a maximum of 3 strikes is allowed.

If you reach the 3 strike mark, no matter what the situation, that slip of paper with her number on it gets turned to ash.

Now, some of you might think that these rules are a bit harsh (maybe some of you will think they are a bit lax?) but here is my justification for these rules, and a basis for everything that follows the first successful date...

Now, some of you might think that these rules are a bit harsh (maybe some of you will think they are a bit lax?) but here is my justification for these rules, and a basis for everything that follows the first successful date...

An Investment Strategy

In this analogy, I have equated girls with investment funds/stocks/whatever you want to call it. Your time is money. You've heard that phrase before right?

You have all this money that you would like to invest so that you can reap the profits (i.e., whatever you want from girls, be it sex, LTR, whatever). However, if you throw your money away you'll have nothing left to invest with and get no profits.

You have a limited supply of time (money) and it is up to you to choose where to invest it - every investment is a risk. So, if you are a smart investor you don't put everything in one fund!!!! This is key, do not spend all your time and effort going after a single girl. This is infatuation, and if the market crashes, you lose big time.

Each fund individually has a 100-fold higher probability of taking your money than giving you a profit.

How do you counter this seemingly insurmountable probability?

By investing small amounts in a large number of funds! The profitability of each fund individually may be poor, but the chances of scooping a profit on at least one of your funds is much higher!

But you want to come out on top overall right? You can't afford to get a profit from one account and lose all your cash on the other 50, as you still end up in the hole. Never fear... this is why we have the 2 strike rule!

The 2 strike rule is my method for determining when each market is about to fall out from under you before you have invested too much. If you hit 2 strikes, SELL! Toss the number, recover what is left in the fund, save yourself from investing more time and effort into a losing proposition! You have several other accounts that have better odds of reaping a profit, and new ones come along every day!

You must believe that you are valuable, that your time is a commodity. Don't give it away. This goes for any interaction you have after the first date also. (Heck, I use it as a judgment scale with my guy friends too!) If you put your time and effort into helping another person, and the next time you need a favor they shaft you, NEXT them like you would a chick! You are too valuable to let other people leech off you.

If you are in a relationship where she wants to call all the shots, doesn't want to do the things you want to do, and is not giving you your due rewards for your efforts... NEXT.

To all the new DJs, if you've read the bible you should know that you have to be a man and not let other people step on you or give you s**t. Yet, coming from the world of AFCism, we are all tempted to give people another chance, to assume that they mean well, that maybe just maybe she will say yes on the 5th time you call her because she seems so nice to you whenever you talk to her.

Once you give someone one more chance, it's a slippery slope and what's the harm in giving them another? And pretty soon you are finding yourself chasing this girl that never wanted you in the first place but just couldn't say no.

It's handy to have set of concrete rules to follow. 2 strikes, that's it guys. Don't give them any more than that. Remember, if she has a high interest level she will make it easy for you!!!!

https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/253.htm

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Tranquility2345:
What exactly is this one trying to say

He actually made sense.
It just wasn't articulated too well.

heartofcity12:
Period

Now that's what I call FATALITY!!!

Make I see who go make me pay bride price on a woman I no meet as virgin.