BlueRayDick:


Nibo latun jasi bayi ?

pocohantas:


Nothing honest about beating yout wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also Nlno woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men.

islamics:
Just to comment on the beating part that people are asking if Islam allowed.

The 'beating' allowed is a very light beating that should not harm her in any way using stuff light siwak (chew stick) and it must not be in the face. Just a simple hitting. The beating is not beating in the real sense of it cos it has it own definition in Islam. You can't use koboko and term it beating , that one na you dey at fault.

pocohantas:


Nothing honest about beating your wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also no woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men. It is foolhardy to assume one's husband cannot stray because she built with him.

izzou:


My first time of hearing this oh.

Dem need suspend or delete that permission

izzou:


Lightly?

Like....Stretch out your hands and let me flog you?

Theflint1:
Exactly, the whole Jarus thing just screams someone who's not experienced enough with women, or doesn't have the personality that makes it possible to handle the fallout of such drama expertly. You carry new wife enter house reason say buying her a few gifts was enough to put things to bed

I think it wasn't fair for Jarus to proceed with the divorce based off seeing his wife do juju sha, but I can understand reacting the way Jarus did if you're the very religious type.

GloriousGbola:


na - i have not seen his wife pic , but from is days on this platform and from others accounts the woman is HOT. Jarus has always said he would likely take another wife.

as an ilorin guy, it is actually more the norm.

nihilistjnr:
So none of you fückers grabbed the screenshot?

Standards have fallen in this place I swear. Sports board used to be thd home of top notch vawulence. Now we can barely get a morsel of diluted vawulence to take hold body.

Mehn fück all yall.




Especially that sod09 iamoyindamola mofo, and Leyqute.

larride:


Jarus has been very vocal against Muslim going to see alfas that see vision and all.

Imagine now finding out that your own sef dey do ham.

pocohantas:


Nothing honest about beating your wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also no woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men. It is foolhardy to assume one's husband cannot stray because she built with him.

GloriousGbola:


na - i have not seen his wife pic , but from is days on this platform and from others accounts the woman is HOT. Jarus has always said he would likely take another wife.

as an ilorin guy, it is actually more the norm.

nihilistjnr:


Well. I haven't seen any of those screenshot bleed over to LinkedIn which is where I think the real damage could be done.

From a PR perspective, I'd be advising him to keep it that way and just go dark on twitter for a while till this blows over.

Jarus does not need twitter in my opinion.. he only has about 60k followers there, most of whom are unlikely to have the means to be his potential customers.

It's not like Jarus is primarikly Twitter Commentator on twiiterNG. He's a corporate brand who just happens to tweet. There'd a difference.

Personally, I think if he keeps his dead down for a little bit. He'll be fine. Gen Z pockets are not as deep as their memories are long.

liveLongNprospa:


I Don tire.

How you go dey live this kind life nor come get control of your emotions?
How you take handle drama of 2 wives normally

Theflint1:
Islam needs to be reformed to fit with the demands of modern society, all those talk of perfect religion na rubbish...if you have this many gray areas in a religion and scholars of that religion arguing for an against things that would seem obviously wrong, that religion is overdue reformation.

Christianity from the 18th/19th century is very different from the Christianity of today and that's why we're not having as many issues solely based off the religion.

larride:


No be juju be wetin happen today so?

izzou:
Islam allows men to beat their wives?

Is this true?

BlueRayDick:


What is "light beating" ?

Any form of beating involves pain no matter how little it is . In fact, the dictionary meaning of beating is "a punishment or assault in which the victim is hit repeatedly"

Beating is simply assault no matter how "light" it is

Realtord43:
So Chewstick cant hurt a woman?

And can a angry man beat a woman lightly?

islamics:


It is why I say the word 'beating' has it's own definition in Islam not the literal definition we are all familiar with, just as you cited. In some textual translation, they use the word 'hit', hit her lightly. The 'beating/hitting' in this case is just symbolic not with the intent of harm or hurt which is also why lighter stuff like chew stick are used as example. If we are being frank, we can't consider hitting one with chew stick as beating. The hitting could even be in form of a play not as if you will say, come and kneel down let me beat you. Nope.
But if we focus on the literal definition of beating only, then there is nothing in the Quran that suggests that a husband is allowed to beat his wife irrespective of the situation. She is to be honoured and treated kindly, even when there is lost of love between them.


As for Brother Jarus, I pray Allah ease his affairs - Ameen

larride:


Jarus has been very vocal against Muslim going to see alfas that see vision and all.

Imagine now finding out that your own sef dey do ham.

islamics:


Haba! Nobody is asking you to use the chew stick in 'John Wick' style.

izzou:
But wetin Muslim woman see, wey make am leave Alfa, go find Cele Pastor?

Omoh!!!

islamics:


Haba! Nobody is asking you to use the chew stick in 'John Wick' style.

islamics:


It is why I say the word 'beating' has it's own definition in Islam not the literal definition we are all familiar with, just as you cited. In some textual translation, they use the word 'hit', hit her lightly. The 'beating/hitting' in this case is just symbolic not with the intent of harm or hurt which is also why lighter stuff like chew stick are used as example. If we are being frank, we can't consider hitting one with chew stick as beating. The hitting could even be in form of a play not as if you will say, come and kneel down let me beat you. Nope.
But if we focus on the literal definition of beating only, then there is nothing in the Quran that suggests that a husband is allowed to beat his wife irrespective of the situation. She is to be honoured and treated kindly, even when there is lost of love between them.


As for Brother Jarus, I pray Allah ease his affairs - Ameen