BlueRayDick:


The bold is the summary of what happened to that bros.

I perused his account of the whole event and I didn't see anywhere he mentioned she was a bad wife or that she had inadequacies that necessitated him getting a new wife. It just appears as though baba is financially capable and he decided to get a second wife.

The wife is hurt and decides to resist the move through diabolical means and baba catches her which led to the whole fight/domestic violence and he eventually sending her packing.

I remember reading one of his old interviews where he spoke about how his wife advised him to sell his range rover to complete his house that was under construction. It is only normal for such woman who believe she's part of ur success story to resist another woman coming into the picture.

islamics:


Haba! Nobody is asking you to use the chew stick in 'John Wick' style.

BlueRayDick:


No be juju, It's just a case of a man who let himself riled up by a troll account.

He was hyping his new wife who posted some pictures and some troll account asked if that was the reason he beats his wife & sent her packing. He knew the person behind the account was his wife's relative and started spilling all the beans.

He didn't keep his emotion in check

iamoyindamola:

She was desperate

Unlimited22:



They are all over twitter.

izzou:


My first time of hearing this oh.

Dem need suspend or delete that permission

iamoyindamola:

This is what I was letting raumdeuter know during my akidu, my father in law openly told me I am free to marry another after his daughter and if look could kill the man will just go from his daughter's look
No matter how religious the woman is they don't want to share

GloriousGbola:


every religion has misogny, violence, murder and rape justified in its books

most people simply paper it over and pretend those things dont exist

but after 911, everyone became intersted in islam and what makes muslims tick

it also doesnt help that there are plenty of muslims who argue that islam is a complete way of life and all that

Are you trying to defend the "Light beating"?

izzou:
But wetin Muslim woman see, wey make am leave Alfa, go find Cele Pastor?

Omoh!!!

pocohantas:


This is where I agree with Izzòu that he is honest. He has made the case easier for both counsels . First he admitted to domestic violence, then he made us know she did nothing. That way we don't have to assume she wasn't giving him peace of mind. Baba did what he wanted to do.

That was how I knew him too o. I was shocked when I saw Jarùs on my feed. I was thinking it is another Jarùs. He was always speaking good of his wife. Her money and home management skills. E reach to go CELE o. He should sha not allow her leave. If he has to beg, he should keep begging.

Theflint1:
Exactly, the whole Jarus thing just screams someone who's not experienced enough with women, or doesn't have the personality that makes it possible to handle the fallout of such drama expertly. You carry new wife enter house reason say buying her a few gifts was enough to put things to bed

I think it wasn't fair for Jarus to proceed with the divorce based off seeing his wife do juju sha, but I can understand reacting the way Jarus did if you're the very religious type.

pocohantas:


This is where I agree with Izzòu that he is honest. He has made the case easier for both counsels . First he admitted to domestic violence, then he made us know she did nothing. That way we don't have to assume she wasn't giving him peace of mind. Baba did what he wanted to do.

That was how I knew him too o. I was shocked when I saw Jarùs on my feed. I was thinking it is another Jarùs. He was always speaking good of his wife. Her money and home management skills. E reach to go CELE o. He should sha not allow her leave. If he has to beg, he should keep begging.

pocohantas:


Naija men fit turn atheist to deeper life prayer warrior. Una dey do strong things.😂😂

I was reading the whole stuff soberly and full of pity, till i got to that part

Sulele04:

Wait his first wife is not a Muslim ba ? Cause all these stuff of visiting a Cele pastor, Tiktok Babalawo, doing fetish juju & her not wanting him to marry a new wife despite knowing that's what Muslim men do.

Isn't she a Muslim I don't get ? Religious Nigerians are just hypocrites lmaoo later them go dey attack Danny they don't even believe what they worship.

Jarus handled it poorly though, at the end of the day she can't control her emotions but going diabolical is crazy the marriage is already dead how can he sleep on the same bed with her again.

Beating her also is pathetic, cause at the end of the day he caused it I am very sure if he had told her before marriage of his intentions all these would have been avoided.

It is a shame though but the marriage is def lights out.

pocohantas:


I have seen the first wife. He was quite open with his life way back on NL. With all due respect, she wasn't "HOT". She looked like the average devout muslimah. Maybe the second is the HOT one.

dominique:



And that is the main reason why I don't fault him on the divorce decision. What if babalawo had given the wife charms that would have killed him or rendered him physically or mentally incapacitated? The things with going into fetish stuffs is that once you get sucked in, you go in deeper and not even your kids will be safe at some point. Very valid grounds for divorce IMO. They both goofed but the wife goofed up more.

Na Cele Pastor, ma.

No be Babalawo.

A man of God

TrebleChamp:
Same look my wife gave the Imam that handled our nikkai 😁, the man sef was telling her straight face that i will many more wives...

iamoyindamola:

And he sounded like it was a compulsory life and death mission in Islam
When he said he wants to exercise is islamic right by taking a second wife

BlueRayDick:


The woman didn't see it coming . She must have been stunned initially when he mentioned marrying second wife; probably he doesn't even womanize.

From shock it turned to desperation and that was obviously what led her into going diabolical.

The marriage is as good as over.

izzou:


Na Cele Pastor, ma.

No be Babalawo.

A man of God

liveLongNprospa:


Jarus dey womanize ooo.

I have a friend baba was chasing last year or so😂😂

izzou:


Are you trying to defend the "Light beating"?

izzou:
But if the light beating is not intended to harm or hurt, what is the purpose, then?

cc: islamics

BlueRayDick:


Alright bro.

One question please: What is the motive of using a chewing stick to "beat" a woman? What purpose is that "beating" supposed to serve? I mean if the husband is allowed to "beat" his wives "lightly", it is to what end? Is it supposed to make the women change or what?

BlueRayDick:


Let me just say the truth.

if the wife is my sister, I will explore every legal angle to make sure she get a cut of the wealth he has built within the past 14 years they were together. It is obvious the marriage has broken down and fences can't be mended anymore

iamoyindamola:
🤣🤣🤣
Brother we need to exercise our islamic right asap
These women are too relaxed

liveLongNprospa:


Jarus dey womanize ooo.

I have a friend baba was chasing last year or so😂😂

iamoyindamola:

And he sounded like it was a compulsory life and death mission in Islam
When he said he wants to exercise is islamic right by taking a second wife

GloriousGbola:


oh well . . the new wife does not look that hot to me
infact if anything she looks like an open eye chick

i am not really surprised at Jarus wife reaction. most educated women who grow up in polygamous settings actively seek out men who they believe will not be the same.

a woman who witnessed her mother being relegated to the background will not want the same fate for herself.

pocohantas:


This is where I agree with Izzòu that he is honest. He has made the case easier for both counsels . First he admitted to domestic violence, then he made us know she did nothing. That way we don't have to assume she wasn't giving him peace of mind. Baba did what he wanted to do.

That was how I knew him too o. I was shocked when I saw Jarùs on my feed. I was thinking it is another Jarùs. He was always speaking good of his wife. Her money and home management skills. E reach to go CELE o. He should sha not allow her leave. If he has to beg, he should keep begging.

GloriousGbola:


you dont have game bros

so you better have 2 suvs, 5m iphone 22, range rover and dubai gold on hand

dominique:


J during his Facebook days was always gushing about now wife, her sound words advice which helped him make his best financial decisions, her impeccable homemaking and entrepreneurship skills etc. They were always posting lovely family photos. It's so sad that things could spiral down to this level. Polygamy brings about nothing but the worst in people and it tears families apart.

BlueRayDick:


The marriage is as good as over.

iamoyindamola:

Where is raumdeuter when we need his advice